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BenedictAbajue:
Thanks for not putting that Read more link

PROPEACE:
I Left Nigeria in my mid 20s, completed my MSc with a fully funded scholarship in UK, the son of poor naija civil servants o! Used my two legs to come back to Nigeria. My European girlfriend discouraged me from returning, she told me we should get married, I said no, I struggled for over a decade believing hardwork and merit in Nigeria will get me there. I was interviewed many times by several government agencies in Nigeria but never got the job, today I sit in my 40s licking my wounds. My naija friends that were friendly while I was there have vanished. Some have humiliated me before leaving when it seemed to them the tunnel I am in has no end to it. My biggest undoing in life is I believed too much in this country. Today, my peers that stayed back in UK are doing very well as citizens. I am trying very hard not to give up. Still strategizing. It's hard but deep down in me, I know I have learnt so much. Too much to not make it in the end. I pray for God to grant me long life.

uchkochi:
7 Wrong Places Young Men Look For a Wife

Let’s stop sugarcoating the search.

Most men aren’t failing at marriage because they’re weak—they’re failing because they’re fishing in poisoned waters.

Here are 7 places you think you’ll find a wife—but you’ll most likely find regret:

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1. Church — Where Reformed Baddies Go to Rebrand

She’s 29. Tatted. Choir leader. Fasting on Fridays.

You think you’ve found Ruth.

But her “testimony” includes 3 abortions, 1 sugar daddy, and a 6-month detox from a married man named David.

She’s not looking for God—she’s looking for reputation rehab.

And the church gave her a microphone.

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2. The Club — Where Men Pipe and Swipe

She’s twerking on Saturday. Posting scriptures on Sunday.

And you think buying her a drink will make her “see the light.”

Brother, she’s not here for clarity—she’s here for chaos.

The club is not a dating pool. It’s a demolition zone.

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3. Social Media — Filtered Faces, Inflated Egos

You liked her photo. She liked your story.

Now you think it’s destiny?

Her whole life is curated for clicks.

That scripture in her bio? Copy-pasted from her friend’s page.

Social media shows you angles—not answers.

You’re falling for pixels, not people.

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4. Dating Apps — The Rejection Olympics for Men

Swipe. Match. Ghost. Repeat.

Dating apps are hookup factories wearing tuxedos.

She’s not there to build.

She’s there to validate.

And while you’re crafting heartfelt intros, she’s screenshotting your message for her group chat.

Men don’t win on dating apps.

The app does.

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5. Matchmaking Shows — The Marketplace of Desperation

If she had high-value suitors in real life, she wouldn’t be on Season 4 of “Date or Die.”

She’s not looking for love.

She’s running brand ads.

And when the camera cuts? So does her interest.

No man builds legacy through televised thirst traps.

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6. Schools & Professional Events — Wolves in Honor Student Clothing

Yes, there are women of purpose here.

But don’t be fooled—ambition doesn’t mean alignment.

Some are chasing careers. Some are chasing clout. Some are just undercover club girls in pencil skirts.

Vet deeply.

Purpose isn’t loud—it’s revealed.

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7. Your “Friend’s” Suggestion — The Set-Up You’ll Regret

“She’s really nice.” “She just wants a God-fearing man.” “I think you two would click.”

Translation: “She’s a ticking time bomb and we need someone to absorb the blast.”

If she’s really a gem, why hasn’t your friend picked her?

Exactly.

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Final Word:

You’re not crazy for wanting a wife.

You’re just searching in amusement parks, hoping to find a queen.

Marriage is not about vibes. It’s about verification.

She’s not what she posts. She’s what she protects, pursues, and preserves.

Stop getting scammed by packaging.

Date with eyes open.

Marry with blueprint.

Or cry with court papers.

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helinues:
Good

Slow and steady

FeliciaOja:
After a stressful day. Orgasm release chemicals into the body that heal cells and re align your body.

I usually advice doing it before going to bed. To enhance its healing properties.
Moderation = doung it couple nights before sleep.
Addiction= every 12 minutes or everytime you watch porn. BAD

borednhorny:
Can it be considered as a weight loss technique

illicit:
I owe you 5 marks...

Sirchiboy:
Private teacher.
Salary 14k.
8 years ago.
Now jobless

Seun:
What features do your office mates want to see more than anything else? If it is the UI, what are your colleagues looking for exactly? Thanks.

Yorubastardz:
Seun has invented the best feature Nairaland has seen in 30 years.

BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK

Salewa97:
I like that Ribadu said this. It shows they are aware of the issues and they are working on it.

Tinubu government will get there. Just give them time.

TemplarLandry:
Now he's officially a scapegoat. 😊

4tomandchi:
I respect this man for one thing he knows the value of self respect. How many people will resign from such a position because of personal principles...

Not the likes of bootlickers like Reno and Bwala who talk from both sides of their mouth.

God Rescue Nigeria Movement
GRNM

Princedapace:
Alright, no wahala. Let Ukrain collect the 30 percent lands taken from them plus Crimea. No need for long talks.

And Russia is fighting coaltion of Top Countries. It is not just Ukrain. Plus Russia was sactioned to be weakened economically but didnt fall. They are doing well economically. They are top and I respect them for that. Not many countries can withstand what Russia withsood for this period. Not many countries cna do it.