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Wakatumbit:
I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account).
She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.

She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.

I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.

Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.

In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.

Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.

I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.

She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.


This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life

prinsam30:
Nothing we no go see and hear for this world ooo, my own pichure again

GOFRONT:
This dog sha.........see skin, you no chop, see laps, you no bite...........You are just there to rip her off her clothings...........I hope this dog has no other motive sha!!

I dont use to trust a lady and a dog esp a pet hairy white dog...........Anytime I see them both jogging strolling together, there is this evil thought that usually run through my innocent mind.

YourGFsnatcher:
omoooo when i bought my first car......hmmmmmm I hear am no be small...everyday is "another one"

okerekingsley90:
az I see this comment eh my neigbour tire don burst since for like 2 months now motor don park

RaySimran:
See This Bankers Funny Advice

AllBlack:
She should try HARDER

A lot will go through her 😂😁

lovebird65:
Going ahead marrying her even after seeing and her telling me how lazy she is and suggesting a Maid, now I can't pay the maid again and she's gone Now I've turned to the Maid in the house 😢😢

davidtuzy:
All U need is a Trusted and Responsible Driver ✅

Make Sure it has GPS Tracker and Comprehensive Insurance ✅

Funkybabee:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, I hope you all are doing good? Who can share their experience regarding Motorcycle and tricycle given to people to deliver.

I spoke with my mum and she said I shouldn't dare because Nigerians are wi¢ked in that kind of business while speaking to someone today, that one emphasize a lots on it, which is why I decided to come here to hear people experience about it

Can you share your experience when given out a bicycle or even car to deliver money daily but turned sour?

miketayo:
What should they have done differently?

ScamHunter:
Wealth doesn't matter if your heavenly account is empty. The only currency recognized by heaven is Jesus. Any other thing is a waste of time and eternal everlasting regret

DeltaBachelor:
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DeltaBachelor:
I have someone that broke his too some years ago and it didn’t heal fully. You can still see the damage when he takes off his shirt. What can he do now ? Can it be broken and rearranged ?

Warmaterial:
Wetin black man dey do for gaza? (The picture above)

Sellfish:
If the woman is to submit vagina regardless of whether she is tired or not so that the man won't cheat, then it should also follow that a man must provide all she asks, reasonable or not, or she is justified to go outside and seek from another man what her husband cannot give her..

What is good for Greece must also be good for Uganda


I wonder what kind of family or marriage Veekee is coming from for her to have this kind of slave mentality about marriage.. A man who insists on copulating with his wife regardless of her desire to do so, must also be ready to provide whatever she asks regardless of whether he has the resources to do so or not...

southsouthking:
Importation is not the best option but price control, Nigeria farmers are suffering while the importer enjoy. Bua with his money should rather involve in mechanised farming here in Nigeria. Farmers here face high cost of inputs, land hiring as well as herders encroachment

Sharpsharp00123:
so u make 500k daily?

Sharpsharp00123:
Being broke I never understood the power of being broke till I experience it live n direct. U will just b stranded n even to see common 3k to give your wife to arrange food go hard.

Thank God things have changed, my advice for people out there is that don't run faster than your Shadow, it's good to upgrade but don't rush to it.

I had a thriving business giving me at least 10k per day but I see many of my friends doing big things n traveling abroad, na so I sell everything try travel ooo, I enter 419 mouth live n direct.....ehn no b small matter my people

Osiris12:
sa won’t fall

Na Nigeria go dey fall

BenedictAbajue:
Thanks for not putting that Read more link