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DoubleEngine007:
So how are you being reasonable here now bro? I thought they said marriage is for better for worst? This is why the two of them should make it work,rather than breaking their home.. Did they not date before the marriage Oga,? Tell me,because it seems you're a member of their family..

Lets not go back and forth, recall I said what I deduced in my first post. And I'm not privy to there saga. But I still retain my position, even if your(mine) wife is a moneybag, dont jst relax, try double your hustle even it entails using her money to hustle.
#Do Something.
Enjoy your day bro.

DoubleEngine007:
I thought marriage made them one? Why can't the woman make it work,since the man can't.. She wants the divorce,because maybe another preek is already standing by... Na who no sabi women go dey defend them,but since you na woman too,i don't want to argue who wrong and who no wrong with you.Like you said before madam,na them sabi ..

Hey bro, I'm no woman but pls think logical and reasonable. A man shud and must double his hustle even if his wife is a moneybag.

DoubleEngine007:
Madam its obvious,but like you said,na them sabi...

Bros, how obvious was this one? Well, the only thing I can deduce here is that the guy no wan double him hustle.
#Shikina

30 for the first,
152 for the second

anonymous1759:
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You can't eat your cake and have it. That's the Summary of the entire write up. On the other hand never let anyone use you as a plan B. If you don't accept me for who I'm today, don't expect me to accept you when I become the man of your dreams tomorrow it's that simple.

If there's one thing I cherish from a lady is loyalty any foreigner who treats Me like a brother or boyfriend is my bae, any Nigerian girl that treats me like a stranger she's automatically a stranger if you don't show me love done expect me to reciprocate it.

Religion, ethnicity, race, nationality etc.. Are all tools to divide us, what really matters is the individual's soul, so don't over look someone that gave you all the love when you're in need and give a modafuckers a second chance because you share the ethnicity or Nationality.

Thanks bro, this is the summary of life for me.

safarigirl:
Funny how most of the points here, are also reflected in the Nigerian society in Nigeria

I can't wait to go abroad and be avoided by all the Nigerians. I think I've had enough of them, even from here

You always sound intriguing.

cupidFlint:
is somebody from Austria not an Australian

Austrian, not Australian.
The context under discussion is USA, not America in terms of Continent.

I like this epistle.

Abagworo:
Ellen Johnson Sirleaf is one of the greatest women in modern African history and the only female President ever to emerge out of Africa.

Who is Joyce Banda?

In as much as I respect peoples choices, I wont ever compromise my faith just to appease ideologies inspired by demons. The devil has a short time left, so he is vicious in propagating unnatural phenomenas.
Well, I 'm not ignorant of his schemes and if you still dont believe LGBT are satanic vices, then you need an honest, holistic self scrutiny.

Without family we have nothing, without family we are nothing.

In all, I was touched by dat young black girl's concise message "LIVID".

Everything looking gloomy,this country may not exceed 2020 from all these ensuing events.

ogbiwa:
Honestly this saddened my heart greatly. Can you imagine, ONE block of flat got burnt and within hours ordinary individuals had donated items to the extent they were being turned back due to insufficient capacity to take more donations. Yet over here in Africa we have thousands of people left bereaved, homeless, impoverished more on a daily basis due to terror attacks, accidents and various other disaster yet these same people die in IDP camps and in hospitals as there are lack of sufficient relief items to sustain them.
Yet we are quick to criticize them and their western culture as corrupt while we hide and play holy people etc. Really smh. Can't we see its obvious? THESE are the people who understand the true meaning of humanity. The black man is only interested in how to kill, maim and swindle his neighbor or for misfortune to befall the next man so that he can benefit from it and add to the one he has. So so painful being a black man and living here sometimes

That got me in tears. Humanity and Self Sacrifice in action, not jst mere hypocritical words of commiseration. Sometimes, you hate being black or even an African.

Daboomb:
Hehehehe! Two of you abi!
Just know that l am "WATCHING" from one corner like that.....

@Toks: I have taken time to read each of your responses and l can say that they really made sense.
Marriage is the most complicated of human relationships because both are strangers from Adam but when married, they have so much expectations (even ones that were not there during courtship!) of each other so much so that if care is not taken, it may cause pressure.

A Spouse (husband or wife) is expected to stand-by-you, when you are facing challenges, just like you both enjoyed the proceeds of hard-work, when times were good.
What we have now are "fair-weather" spouse! Money-go, Spouse-go ...or start making trouble!
And like l said before, this happens when your spouse has not seen the worst of you.
If say, your wife was with you when you had money/job and she still remains steadfast with you lost your job (all during courtship), it wont be new to her, if the same thing repeats itself during marriage.
She will know it is just a phase and you will get out of it. That is a FRIEND, who becomes a WIFE.

Most spouses are not the "friend" of their spouse (partner).
Most wives will start nagging you, insulting and dis-respecting you, once your income dips or you lose your job and cant provide enough money to meet their expectations. That is when she would start issuing orders to you, shedding responsibilities to you in an autocratic manner and reminding you that she needs more "freedom"! That is a recipe for marital breakup.

Most husbands also would not stick around, if the wife faces challenges common with women: Child bearing!
Especially if the man has 'no-fault' (as in he is fertile and ready!).
That is when he would start singing 'polygamy' in your ears, reminding you that his friends son is entering secondary school next year.

But what a man should be doing to his wife at that point, is helping her to overcome the trauma she is going through (l dont want to discuss if the effect of such difficulties has to do with a previous "wayward way of life" during spinsterhood... reason why all these so-called "slay ladies" need to think twice and not waste their "Years of Youth".
The husband should be sticking to his wife, encouraging her, giving her confidence, re-assuring her of his love (she is doubting herself already!) and reminding her that he would do any and everything to ensure her dreams are met, including private and personal prayers with her.

So, its is a human thing, though very bad, for a spouse not to persevere and remain steadfast with their husband/wife, in challenging times.

"FRIENDS are KNOWN in PROSPERITY...but they are PROVEN in ADVERSITY".
Are you your spouse's FRIEND...?

Bro I admire ur analytical prowess.Your cognitive ability is topnotch.Thumbs up mahn.

pamijlove:
Certificate is just a paper, go and learn a handwork for your owm good...
Nobody want to learn handwork , it's just to sit one place and be cracking brain....at d end they will pay u any amount....they want.
Just a question if evreybody becomes an engineer to draw plan, who are going to do the hand work i.e both the plumbery work, electrician and other building work which is d main work in d building, na to just dey one place without stress dey collect money with ac na im evreybody want.

Dis can only come from March 19 lecture.

NinjaX:
The prophecies are vaguely expressed. If he wants us to take him seriously, he should mention the exact time, date, place these events would happen. Joker.

On point bro. Thats how specific biblical prophets were, they gave more than convincing evidence b4 it came to pass, not all these trial and error method.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]What if I told you right now, that christmas is a scam?! A big fucking scam.

A scam that is being kept on to drive sales of everything up, and for huge profits.

That's right. . . I don't know what the fuck_ exactly people all around the world celebrated on the 25th of december, but it definitely wasn't the birth of Jesus. . .

Let me let you in, on this scam.

If you are born on the 1st of February 1984, you'll be 33 years old, on the first of 1st of February 2017, and 33 and half years old (33 1/2) or, 33 years 6 months on the 1st of August 2017.

Therefore, if on the first of August 2017, you're asked how old you are, you'll definitely say 33 and half, and all the asker has to do, is minus the half (6 months), away from 33 and half, and he'll definitely arrive at february.

At this point, I'll like to tell you all that Jesus christ spent 33 and half years on earth. He spent 33 years and 6 months on this earth, before he died. . . Ask google right now if you do not believe that.

So, "Easter" is the celebration of Jesus death. . . Am I correct? And his death, or easter is usually celebrated in April, am I correct? If Jesus christ died in April, at the age of 33 years and 6 months, to get the month of his birth, all you fucking have to do, is to fucking minus 6 months away, from 33 years and 6 months, and you'll arrive at his real month of birth:

OCTOBER!!!

Jesus, was born in OCTOBER.

Christmas, is a scam. . . You celebrate what you do not know.

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Guy you have benign tumor in your brain. Thats how I personally classify people who think hightech. Even the bible mentioned that shephards were outside in the field tending to there flock wen christ was born. Then how on earth will they be in the field below freezing temperatures of December? Thats anoda logic to that.

Akalia:
Bro your comment just made my day. We are like minds.

You re even based my one and only 042. I was born and raised there and hence I feel indebted to that state mehn. I hope we can meet up someday and have a drink.

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]On rampage by yahoo boy pastors, confusing their sheep and fleecing them of their hard earned money. . . Preaching "prosperity", as against "the kingdom of God", that Jesus preached while on earth. Mixing in politics and becoming "vice president", while Jesus refused to be made a king, saying that his kingdom is no part of the world. . .

I'm not asking you to donate your last offering to "God", I'm asking you to fucking use your commonsense.

That's how one idiot was shouting over the loud speakers minutes ago, telling his sheep that the first money they give in 2017 is to God, and that they should dance while they drop their offerings, for they were dancing into glory.

Guess what the sheep did. . . They danced!

Ask me if God spends money, or if he has a bank account.[/color]

Hey bro I jst have to follow u for this perfect response. When you emancipate ursef 4rm mainstream nominal christianity and intellectually refute vague prophecies many tend to see you as an atheist.

mightyhazel:
Buhari is a disaster! Even a stone will defeat him com 2019!

The word democracy is fast fadding away. How do you expect Buhari to lose 2019 when INEC is already dependent barely two years on from the last general elections? See my friend, we are in for a long hard walk of 8 years and I suggest we fasting our seat belts cause Buhari aint losing come 2019. I guess thats the hard prize to pay for being swayed by vague promises.

Eketem:
It is posts like This that makes me realize that Nigerian women are not ready for Gender equality.

Imagine your parents educated you then started asking man to " Take care of you "

You too got into a marriage taking it as a financial plan so the man will be suffering and sweating with N120000 in this economy having zero savings while you are stashing your money.

What the heck do young intending couples talk about? Financial education and black and white financial blue print saves 80 percent of marital problems.

Go and sit with your husband on excel do an expense sheet and income sheet then plan how to share bills and save either together or jointly.

He cannot be suffering like a goat to pay all bills while you are stashing away your own money that is a silly mentality and shameful too in 2016.

Objectivity is the sole reason why I am following you and uplawal. Thank you for your back to back objective comments not riddled with emotions.

Timbuktuo:
Bukatyne:

Isn't it strange that women want a woman to be president just for the sake of it? And any man who doesn't vote a woman is a misogynist who isn't ready for a woman president. . Never mind that more white women voted Trump than Hillary. Trump got 53% of the white woman's vote. . Le Trump also got 45% of college educated white women voted to Hillary's 51%. I could go on and on about the statistics of voting but that would probably be pointless. But the media will try to tell you it's uneducated, basement-deelling white men who voted Trump in. Bullshit. Bullshit, I say.

But I think the most important lesson for you should be never to trust the mainstream media. Forget whatever CNN is saying, they have/had an agenda and pursued it till the very end, and were shocked, shocked I say.

Did you learn from the media about Hillary getting leaked questions to the presidential debates? I guess not. Why? Because they wanted it all hush hush. Guess who leaked the question to Clinton, a CNN operative. Oh, the shock. Now, imagine if it was found out that Trump leaked questions, the furore would be deafening. I guess Hillary is special and untouchable and above the law.

And no, Trump isn't anti-everything, he's anti anything that is anti American welfare.l, and he is not afraid to say so. That is the reason he won because he said he wasgoing to protect the interests of the average American. Trump got millions of black votes, don't get it twisted. The black voters who cast for Clinton are very likely on welfare , and that is a great incentive to vote Democrat. The leftwing media is in shock but a certain dude named Michael Moore, a Clinton supporter, expressly stated why Trump would win and it had nothing to do at all with bigotry or racism. This is a guy who hates Trump telling the world Trump's strwnght, but I guess it was a little too late.

Anyway, I'm happy he won. After all, we misogynists do tend to stick together.

What I learned? "Tell Ze haters to go and die."

Oga I luv ya brain
#No homo

I told my friend same thing yesternite. Those two plays as if they ve been together for aeons. Their synergy is quite astonishing and I jst wish adding victor moses to the fray will serve as an icing for the cake.
My formation is Ezenwa in goal, Musa Mohammed for right full back, Elderson Echiejile for left full back, Leon Balogun and William Ekong both for central defence roles, Mikel,Onazi and Iheanacho for 10,4 and 8 respectively,then Victor Moses and Iwobi at the flanks, while Ighalo leads the charge and its game on.

No be only senator sef na President Desmond Elliot.
All these wannabe bloggers!

My oh my! Finally is abt to go down mehn.Words cant express hw I feel right now.Jst wish sey I dey 042 now chei!!!!. All the same congrats to all who made that possible,always indebted to the COAL CITY mehn.

MrMacinterchi1:
what happened to giwa fc. did they withdrew form the league or what .

They were sacked from the league.

Its gona be quite painful if Flying antelop falls short of becoming champions this season. I jst wish the 042 boys will get two wins and a draw from the last 3 game and maybe clinch the title.
Even though I am an Enyimba fan, l was made in 042 and feels indebted to that amazing state (Rangers inclusive). Its gona be a delight to see the Imama boys win the league.

greatgod2012:
Call him and talk to him like a brother. Assure him that he's safe with you. Let him know that you love him and that you will appreciate him if he can reciprocate the love by respecting you and doing the right thing at home.

Give examples of what he does that do not go well with you, and with anyone he might have to live with after leaving your place, which he too can never accept from anybody.

Share life experiences with him.

Hopefully, he will turn a new leaf.

Na Human Relationship Manager u be?

greatgod2012:
ko le to yen!
This life is very simple!
And the world is a global village.

He needs your help now doesn't mean you can't need his help in the future.

It may even be your children that he will render help to in the nearest future.

We shouldn't use today to destroy our tomorrow.

Instead of making life miserable to him, speak out your mind to him, ask him if he too can accept what he's doing to you from another person. Not with screaming or cursing or throwing tantrums but maturely and patiently.


Remember, nobody is totally bad!

Madam, these words gel like agarose.Thumbs up

I ve noticed that Quite=Quiet and vice versa for some persons here.

I miss Friday night soccer via Nnamdi Azikiwe stadium and I sincerely wish The FQ in 32 years inspite of being a fan of Peoples elephant. I will ever be grateful to coal city for shaping me. Hope to be back to celebrate the league if Ranger becomes THE CHAMPIONS.