Yeah I am beginning to wonder what it is that makes non-Nigerian women go gaga over Nigerian men. A girlfriend of mine invited this non-nigerian lady to lime with us last night and while we were chilling in a club and getting to know ourselves she was tripping how much she loves her Nigerian men, counting how many Nigerian men she has dated for me and even revealing that she had a child with a Nigerian guy. Her reasons for liking Naija men is that they are fantastic in bedmatics (no be me talk am o-o-o), homely and responsible. According to her, her Nigerian Baby's father has returned to Nigeria yet he still cares very much for his daughter even across the Ocean, paying her school fees and taking care of her needs (their child attends one of the best schools). Her present b/f is also a Nigerian and you need to see how she was endlessly telling me how much she loves and loves him very much.
    I also have this 51 year old girlfriend (she really looks 37, believe me) that lives in my street who is crazy about Nigerian men and everything Nigerian, when she broke up with her 32 year Nigerian boyfriend she cried and cried, called me every minute of the day to cry on my shoulder. Kept on lamenting "how she loves him" and "So I will not travel to Nigeria again?". When her heartbreak subsided she found herself a church being pastored by a Nigerian pastor just to be around Nigerians and perhaps get another Nigerian boyfriend too. She can't stop telling me how she wants a next Nigerian man and I am wishing that she gets married to one because that woman will make an excellent wife (she is homely and real domesticated). She recently persuaded me that we will both travel down to Nigeria and when I replied that she should save up money for the ticket and hotel bills, she was like that she is not staying in no hotel but in the village----lol.
     All in all, I appreciate Nigerian men much too (I remember saying so in the thread below), I just wonder what this craze is all about What do you think may be the reasons??

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-474286.0.html

@topic. [size=30pt]REALLY??[/size]

Carogirl, are you asking me or you are stylishly affirming that because the the way I see you catching your fun and socializing here, you can't say that you don't like Nigerians----lol

I am a NON-NIGERIAN and I don't go GAGA over NIGERIAN MEN, they ain't nobody special

*walks into thread turns around to go call the remaining guys*

@op its a mystery

@Mrseve where are you from,cos i thought ur nigerian.

Mrs, Eve:

I am a NON-NIGERIAN and I don't go GAGA over NIGERIAN MEN, they ain't nobody special

she's from benin republic

They have Benin Republic in America? Hmm.

Mygoldie,

I am in the land of the GREED,

Mrs, Eve:

Mygoldie,

I am in the land of the GREED,

o yeah?

@Topic that is not true. I like African men period, the country is irrelevant.

*Nigerian men are wise guys though. They are sarcastic and some are chauvinistic but are some of the few men on this Earth who can use their intelligence ("big words" to explain why their machismo is necessary lol. They are the ONLY men I know from being on this site who can write a novel worth of replies on why they are superior and sometimes I have to catch myself because it's so convincing lol. Sometimes I find wise ass men attractive. . .in a weird way, I guess it's the challenge I like. It's like you want to hate them but you love them.

That is probably not the answer you were looking for but oh well. . .

Mz Dark,

I am like you I like African men and Black men. I don't particular care for any other race of men when it comes to dating or having children with. However, I do not push my preference on others. I have seen people do that online and offline. I am like okay, have your preferences but do not force it on others because then it becomes prejudiced.

I have dated African men and black men and the ONLY thing different BETWEEN THE TWO is that they both regionally different. NOTHING ELSE. I don't see the hype about Nigerian men and they are no better than Ghanian, Sudanese, Liberian, South African, Kenyan, and any other African men.

Then again THAT MY OPINION.

^^Amen sister! Amen. I have a thing for black men though but I do not date African American men. NOTHING prejudiced about it as my father was African American, it's just I love foreign black men like Afro.Latino/Caribbean and African.

BTW You are my sis, so I might as well say something before some jack arse tries to insult you but "black" do you mean A.A.? Because you said black AND African.

When I say black I am referring to Black American and I have always called African men in USA by their country of origin. For example, if they are from Ghana I would say Ghanian American or Black.

I always say my husband is Nigerian although he is Nigerian American.

Mrs, Eve:

When I say black I am referring to Black American and I have always called African men in USA by their country of origin. For example, if they are from Ghana I would say Ghanian American or Black. I always say my husband is Nigerian although he is Nigerian American.

Evy so after all these denial you still hit the nail on the head, so you are even one of our wives who got gaga-ed to the point of marriage with a Nigerian man and there you are singing "they ain't nobody special". Now go ahead and tell me that your husband isn't a fabulous man, isn't very homely and down-to-earth, isn't responsible and that there isn't just that thing about him that you can't place that makes you love him much.
Go ahead and tell me girlfriend cause right now I have you in my trap and you ain' t wriggling away. No way Baby girl. 

Don't forget to buy some goodies this xmas to come and greet us (I mean pay special obeisance to us the daughters, the adas, the umuokpu's) if you understand what I mean. Ask your husband and he will explain to you the traditions that nobody messes with the umuokpu's-o-o-o so we are waiting for your gifts and thing. Smile!

Mrs, Eve:

When I say black I am referring to Black American and I have always called African men in USA by their country of origin.  For example, if they are from Ghana I would say Ghanian American or Black.

I always say my husband is Nigerian although he is Nigerian American. 

so this is it eh ! And you were busy throwing formats in your replies. ladies and this their die hard methodology of "don't let them know what you thinking". Am sure the guy is a real Man pocket wise and otherwise such as Strength and gusto if you know what i mean

Ivynwa:

   Her reasons for liking Naija men is that they are fantastic in bedmatics (no be me talk am o-o-o), homely and responsible.

The boldened part is undisputable. . . The ladies can attest to that

Not this Non Nigerian girl. I like them as friends but not in a relationship. Bad experiences has made me gun shy. I did not find the ones i knew to be responsible at all. Very child like!!

I get the best of both worlds, with my Naija swag and my Black American outlook.

Ivynwa:

Evy so after all these denial you still hit the nail on the head, so you are even one of our wives who got gaga-ed to the point of marriage with a Nigerian man and there you are singing "they ain't nobody special". Now go ahead and tell me that your husband isn't a fabulous man, isn't very homely and down-to-earth, isn't responsible and that there isn't just that thing about him that you can't place that makes you love him much.
Go ahead and tell me girlfriend cause right now I have you in my trap and you ain' t wriggling away. No way Baby girl. 

Don't forget to buy some goodies this xmas to come and greet us (I mean pay special obeisance to us the daughters, the adas, the umuokpu's) if you understand what I mean. Ask your husband and he will explain to you the traditions that nobody messes with the umuokpu's-o-o-o so we are waiting for your gifts and thing. Smile!

Uhmmm, what else do you call a Nigerian? Are there other names I don't know nothing about?

Me calling my husband Nigerian still doesn't negate the fact that Nigerian men are no better than other African men nor American men.

I don't think non-Nigerian women wake up going I got to get me a Nigerian oooooh lawdy! Let me hunt for me a Nigerian.

Mrs, Eve:

Uhmmm, what else do you call a Nigerian? Are there other names I don't know nothing about?
Me calling my husband Nigerian still doesn't negate the fact that Nigerian men are no better than other African men nor American men.
I don't think non-Nigerian women wake up going I got to get me a Nigerian oooooh lawdy! Let me hunt for me a Nigerian.

Ha-ha-ha Naughty girl! You still haven't answered my question, don't try wriggling out of it cos I ain't letting you off the hook 

jmaine:

so this is it eh ! And you were busy throwing formats in your replies. ladies and this their die hard methodology of "don't let them know what you thinking". Am sure the guy is a real Man pocket wise and otherwise such as Strength and gusto if you know what i mean

Jmaine
Don't mind her one bit!

Tink_sh:

Not this Non Nigerian girl. I like them as friends but not in a relationship. Bad experiences has made me gun shy. I did not find the ones i knew to be responsible at all. Very child like!!

Girlfriend don't deny that time in the past that he was rocking your world. Deny it let me hear you! Lol

Ochi_Agha:

I get the best of both worlds, with my Naija swag and my Black American outlook.

I think you came close to pin pointing it out brother, is it in the Nigerian swag? Is there something like that in you guys dictionary? I am trying to place it but can't yet.

I answered your question,

If you spoke in your native tongue then I will need a translator for it is my right to understand what the hell you talking about? I am sorry hun for busting your bubble but Nigerian men aren't on the top of the food chain when it come selecting partners.

Please do not let me go further because then this thread will be derail for I will have to fight Jaybee for "chastising" me.

Yes mrs.eve my world was rocked but the irisponsibilty out wieghed the rockeing, hehe!!

Tink_sh:

Yes mrs.eve my world was rocked but the irisponsibilty out wieghed the rockeing, hehe!!

Hello Tinsk,

I think you meant that for Ivynwa, but I hear ya though. They think cos they made a few chicks have an orgasm they ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD, whatever, (rolling eyes)

@ poster
I agreed with you.Nigerian men are the best compared to other african men.Atleast i have seen it over and over.

vomits

Naija men rules the world.

Hate it or luv it, I bet YOU'r still fukkin a NAIJA d1ck!

Unfortunately.

@Ivynwa what a nice post this is but i bet to differ a bit, did you know that every man have their own wonderful character that others lack so respect be given to every man from African continent else some pple will start having swollen head lol