Ijogz K:

Go 4 him naaaw,  Maybe he would feel better  

Mavor:

Who fu<king cares? 95% of 9ja ladies are wahala and deserve to remain single for the rest of their miserable gimme-gimme life. You see the writing on the wall and you are still fooling yourself. Dumba$$

Mr. Chuks:

Thank you all for your comments and advice. It has been one long morning. Let me clear the air about some issues some posters raised.
That I decided to join my father at his company was not because I am a “daddy’s boy” but he finally agreed to offer me a major controlling share in the company which was the reason I refused to work with him initially. So financially, it is a big leap for me.
My apartment is a modest one. I’m happy about that.
I asked her when I woke up this morning and I got the response I was expecting- ‘I don’t know’. I then took her down memory lane for a while to make her realize that she had really goofed. After that, I called off the relationship. I could see the shock on her face. She didn’t expect me to be blunt and insensitive. I called it off and gave her till noon to leave my apartment. She didn’t say a word while I walked away.
Since I was taking today off from work, I decided to work on some proposals I am expected to turn in this week. While working, she came up to me and asked for my audience. I granted her and she burst into tears immediately and could not even talk properly. I just sat where I was, sipping my coffee as though nothing happened. The truth is, I wasn’t feeling anything at that moment. I allowed her shed tears till she was able to speak. She then began to tell me the truth about the whole thing. How the guy had been her friend over the years and how he came around during the period she was in her childhood’s friend’s place and took her over to his….and blah blah blah.
Well, I told her it was too late and that her response ‘I don’t know’ meant she didn’t want to be with me. She kept on and on till I shut my system down and walked away. I just told her I didn’t want to see her when I returned.
I’m back to my apartment now. She is not in, but her things are still here. Inasmuch as I’m tempted to pack them up and drop them at the doorstep, I won’t. I would just wait till she gets back before I react.
My siblings and friends have been calling since morning, all excited about my supposed BIG day. I have tried my best to be diplomatic because I don’t want anyone to come rushing and begging me at this time.
I await her return.

namechio:

Hi. Its amazing how much one is willing to go when they are in love. i am passing through heartbreak as well and some of the things you cited in your story as per how withdrawn and passive your girl has become, also have been happening to me. it hurts so much when someone who used to love you and be your everything, suddenly takes away the love. In my case i have cried so many times even in her presence, begging her that we should get the feelings back, but she just watched me cry my eyes out and never said sorry. Instead she would accuse me of self centeredness.
Please take this advice; Do not turn brash wit her. just let her carry on wit her withdrawal while you keep showin her affection for as long as your heart can carry you. Trust me, if you try acting macho and allow your self to scream at her and walk her out, like you planned, she would have succeeded in staining your current blameless love. let your love be beyond reproach, stupendous and blameless, so that if it so happens that you guys parted ways, (and i pray u don't, cos i hop love grows back), your consciensce will be free and you'll always be happy that you once loved someone without limits.
meanwhile, please don't misunderstand me; your discoveries are still salient and on the basis of that you have proof to show that she is seeing another guy. what i am asking is that you shouldn't be the one to say the words that its over, let her fizzle out on her own, so that records will be stated in future that she walked out on the relationship. finally, this tough one. love is amazing and is forgiving. Chances are that your girl may in future (indeed, shortly) want you back. Trust me, its hard finding love, and in your case you have found out that you love her. If in future she comes back and you haven't found it possible to love another person, and she has actually atoned for her errors, wouldn't you take her back. Love is forgiving.

190_@:

I understand the feeling -

Ive been down this path before i got married myself

Its terrible    

moroh:

Married??

Of course im married with 6 kids

kaydkay:

@Poster,

I remember my Ex telling me some yrs ago that she didnt think we had anything in common,

Ds was the same person that  culdnt stop telling me she loved me, at times with tears in her eyes!

She was in Abuja and I was in Lagos but we talked almost every hour until she came up with d usual
bullsh**t, 'Its not about U, U deserve better, lets give ourselves some time maybi the feelings will come back'-
U all know all this breakup lines now.

Though I loved her I just decided to move on. Now am married to the most wonderful woman in d world and we have a lovely baby girl.

As for the Ex, she is still single and probably doing big girl in her Abuja. My advice, Move on and don't take her back!!

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