greatnaija01:
I do not blame you but I blame how you were raised

SWEET is not BAD when u taste it BUT if as a child you are allowed to take sweetish things as often as you want, by now your sugar level will be highly unhealthy talk less of your teeth....

BAD has several definitions.... some BAD are not instant... but in a long term are deathly terrible.

SMOKING is not bad but dying of LUNG cancer prematurely is not natural either cos it could be avoided

DRINKING ALCOHOL IS NOT BAD but When you drive drunk and cause accidents on the road... that is so BAD in every governmental country on earth even mexico.

so also

WATCHING PORN is not bad(Let's agree to DISAGREE) but soon enough SEX is all you would be able to think about in a period of 24 hrs.. 15hrs will be spent thinking about sex... SO you wont be able to WORK EFFICIENTLY, STUDY IN SCHOOL intelligently, or do normal activities without the CRAVE for it... thats part one

PART TWO.... no ORDINARY sex will satisfy because you will crave the same SIZES and SHAPES of the models(male/female) you have been watching meanwhile even you do not have the same BODY they have.... you will crave it and soon be dissatisfied with NORMAL people....

THE WHOLE THING IS USELESS ALTOGETHER.... IT IS BAD because it is a bunch of lies (fantasy lies of moanings, orgies and all psychological ponzi) THAT GIVES FALSE EXPECTATIONS and LEAVES YOU UNSATISFIED

UNLESS God and people who truly love you intervene.... IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.

people Are different. ...i don't think about porn all day. ..maybe you do but I don't.. ..i set my time for everything

wiztobet:
Its bad...try not to be an addict....because you are saying it gives pleasure....thats a way to masturbation and once you are masturbating....you are inviting satan to put a mark on you as his own........I cant conclude you are already masturbating but I'm sure you are at the edge....masturbation is not scriptural and its not good for your health too........God is awesome that He put MR CONSCIENCE in us....I'm sure it was your doubt over your conscience judging that pushed you to ask hoping you will see headup.....noooo....porn is destructive..to your .your relationship,your spiritual life, and scary enough that it will get to a stage where you will be having wet dreams.....strange powers from marine will be sleeping with you in your dream and then you may put your destiny in trouble just with graphics pleasure......porn is a satanic instrument.....its not a tutorial oh......Abraham didnt watch porn for different strange styles before sleeping with his wife....dnt be deceived my dear......You can break free.repent..seek to av a new heart and..dwell more in Gods word.......#Peace

People are different.. .i don't masturbate

I hate when I tell my friends that I just finished watching porn as a lady.. .and they say porn is bad. ..porn is the same as sex na.. ...
Something bad is something that causes pain but porn doesn't cause pain.. .it brings happiness. ..pleasure. ...relief.. ..so many other positive feelings. .etc..just as the way sex does....

I need your opinion
Is PORN BAD?
feel free.. .and comment anyhow you like.. ..ITS A FREE WORLD.. .NOTHING IS NEW UNDER THE SUN

Evaberry:
Yoruba tout!!!

dullard who can't speak simple and correct English

pon pon music

senseless gigolo


Sense fall on u!!!

Jealousy no good ooh.. .do your own

Ugo4hotish:
Ugly pastor with ugly wife

your entire generation is ugly

colossus91:

i don't argue with badoos

boring

Rumplesteelskin:
This is what happens when Mallams are the ones calling the shots..

shut up joor. ..what do you know

Baddest69:
oh! What a poor generation you have dear...

dry

NLProblemChild:
i asked who is he? And is that suppose to be ur reply.. No chill at all..

Read ur post i reedited it for u.. B2S

so You think you've made it Huh. ..ode

kullozone:


Goat.

Monkey

colossus91:
thought he would change his interlocking everyyear like he changes his cars mtcheeew still houseboi to elumelu tho

but you don't have one.. .you see your life

PEPPERified:
juvenile!

jealousy no good ooh

thesicilian:
The child looks like an albino.
The father looks like a crossbreed between a Ghanaian and a Kenyan.

for your mind.. .you think you're famous now ehn

mannobi:
That guy with a poo mouth always spewing thrash to be relevant

ode

[quote author=NLProblemChild post=58797391] i asked who is he? And is that suppose to be ur reply.. No chill at all..
Boring

[quote author=Baddest69 post=58921796] .educated illiterate ��

[quote author=NLProblemChild post=58797391] i asked who is he? And is that suppose to be ur reply.. No chill at all..

Read ur post i reedited it for u..common sense you don't have. ...i don't have time for educated illiterates like u

Baddest69:
Only thing I love about simi is her sweet voice and her gentleness


Issit her groundnut bwess

Or flat yansh wey Adekunle Gold 'abi falz' don scatter finish.


QUOTERS I dey my house

fool...atleast she get money pass your whole generation

NLProblemChild:
Who is he?

you're very stupid. ..i bet he's famous than your entire family

Please let's help ourselves. ...who works in waec office should tell us when our held results will be released.. ..I Am crying and frustrated and so depressed. ...please nairalanders I need your help.. ..i beg you. ..i can't take it anymore

Can withheld waec result be used for admission? ?
Please help me. ..God why me!!

SINZ:

Don't mention.

thank you very much

SINZ:
Remind me never to let my daughter come close to this OP.

knowledge is power.... Hypocracy is a disease

1........Take a trip to the drugstore.Buying a few items ahead of time can make losing your virginity a little easier. Consider picking up:Condoms, which both help prevent pregnancy and help stop the spread of sexually-transmitted infections (STIs). Even if you're on another form of birth control and you trust your partner, using a condom can erase any doubts that might make you anxious in the moment. Don't worry about buying anything that's ribbed or extra tricked-out for your first time — your biggest concern is that the condom fit.


2.........Partners should consider going together and buying a few different types of condoms and trying them on and seeing what fits best so you'll be prepared when the big moment arrives. If your partner has a latex allergy, nitrile condoms are a great alternative.


3.........Lubricant will ease a lot of the pain by reducing friction. If you're using latex condoms (which most are), do not use an oil-based lubricant, because they can weaken the latex and cause the condom to tear or break. Instead, opt for a silicone- or water-based lube. It is safe to use any type of lube with a nitrile or polyurethane condom.



4........Know what your hymen is. The hymen is a thin membrane that partially covers the vaginal opening, and almost every female is born with one. It starts to wear away over time due to a variety of activities, such as playing sports, tampon usage, menstruation or normal movement.


5....... Here's what you need to know about it as far as losing your virginity is concerned:You probably have a partial hymen. If you're a teenager, chances are that only part of your hymen is left — which is normal, particularly if you've already started having periods.


6........ If you want to investigate more, you should be able to see your hymen easily with the help of a flashlight and a hand mirror.

7.........If you do bleed, it shouldn't be very much. Any bleeding you experience after losing your virginity should not be on the same level as having a period. Instead, it should only be light spotting for a few hours after. Some girls won't bleed at all.Breaking your hymen shouldn't be overwhelmingly painful. Actually, if you do experience pain during your first time, it's probably from friction if you are not sufficiently lubricated or aroused — not because your hymen has nerve endings (spoiler: it doesn't).



8..........The good news is, although you can't control your hymen tearing, youcan control how relaxed you are.In some cases, your hymen may not break at all. It can stretch or the opening in the hymen may be large enough that the penis, intimacy gadget, or fingers inserted do not tear the hymen.



9......Get familiar with your clitoris.Contrary to what you might see in the movies, women rarely experience orgasm from penetration alone; clitoral stimulation is usually how people who are female orgasm.


10.......If you are nervous about pain, MouthAction or clitoral stimulation before penetration can relax the muscles. If you orgasm before penetration, this can alleviate any potential pain due to the flood of endorphins in the brain.

11......... Talk to your partner about engaging in MouthAction or stimulating the clitoris manually during pre-intimacy and before penetration.


#Nikkycares
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Ingredients

2 cups of rice

1 onion

1 red bell pepper / tatashe

500ml chopped tomatoes

100g tomato purée

2 scotch bonnet

100ml vegetable oil

Maggi

Salt to taste

1 teaspoon curry

1 teaspoon thyme

1/2 teaspoon garlic

1/4 teaspoon ginger

2 cups water or stock




PROCEDURE/METHOD

1.......Blend your tomatoes, scotch bonnet and tatashe together. Chop your onions and keep them aside.



2.......Put your rice into a bowl and soak with hot water. Allow this to soak for 10-15 minutes. Then, wash with warm water and keep aside, or parboil your rice and wash. This is important as you will get rid of excess starch in the rice.



3.....Put your oil in a pot and allow it to heat up.

4.......Add your chopped onions and allow to fry, but be sure not to burn them

5.......Add your blended ingredients and purée and allow to fry, just until you get rid of the sour taste (about 10-15 minutes).


6.........Add your maggi, garlic, ginger, curry, thyme and salt and mix together. Be careful with your maggi as you do not want it too salty (2 maggi cubes for a cup of rice). Add your stock or water, and mix too. Taste to adjust to any seasoning.


7..........Pour your rice into the pot and mix together, making sure it is covered in the tomato sauce.

8.......Cook on low medium heat.
Check your rice after at least 10 minutes, using a wooden spatula to dip into the rice. This helps with getting the sauce to get the bottom of the pot, so that it does not start burning when the rice is not cooked.


9........Cook until soft. Do not overcook your rice or get your rice too soggy. When rice is soft, lower the heat and allow to simmer so the water will get completely dry.







10......Rice is ready to serve. Serve with fried plantain and your choice of meat, if desired.


#Nikkycares

SINZ:
How to behave after sex?

Can't I just sleep?

lol.... no

1....Approach your crush when you are alone. The first time you interact on a personal level should be in a casual situation without too many other people around to distract you. The middle of the dance floor would not be great place to have a lengthy conversation, for example.

2....Go up to your crush during lunch time in the cafeteria. Ask him or her if you can sit next to them and begin to strike up a conversation. It's often honestly as simple as that.


3......Talk to your crush at a party. Whether it's a birthday party or a pool party, if you're both invited, you have an excuse to talk to them.


4........Interact with him or her through one of your mutual friends. If you're friends with one of his friends, go up to the friend and start talking, waiting for him to give you something to say.


5........Pay attention to your body language. Your body language communicates a lot, whether or not you want it to. Sometimes, your body will says things you can't help. But a lot of the time, if you're aware of what your body is saying, you can correct it if you ever notice it betraying you. Here's what to pay attention to:



6......Eye-contact. Making and keeping eye-contact says that you're interested in what the other person is saying.Face in their direction.



7....... Face your body in their direction. It means you're interested in what they're saying and aren't shy.Smile. Smiling says the other person makes you happy.



8......Flirt with body language. Especially if you're a girl. Gently bat your eyelashes, twirl your hair, or touch their shoulder.



9......Laughing at their jokes. Even if the jokes aren't that funny, smile and do your best to humor your crush.....

#Nikkycares

1....Let the intimacy of the moment fade gradually. Just because you’ve enjoyed yourselves doesn’t mean that the feeling of intimacy should end when the sex does. Put another way – you use pre-intimacy to gradually ramp up the sexual attraction, and you should use the time afterward to gently return to the “real world.” The biggest mistake people make after sex is getting up and leaving as soon as it is over, destroying all of the intimacy you’ve built together.

There is no rule saying you have to talk right after sex. Spooning, cuddling, or even holding hands is a good way to slowly relax back into everyday life.If you want to put some clothes back on, keep it casual (underwear, sweats, pajamas, etc.) and hop back into bed. You don’t need to stay naked if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Turn off the phone—no one wants to feel like their partner would rather talk to someone else.

Stay out of the kitchen – it is natural to feel hungry after sex, but that doesn’t mean your first comment should be “I could use some food.”Stay awake—falling asleep right after sex will make your partner feel disrespected, used, and unloved. 


2.....Enjoy some time in silence if the conversation feels awkward.Enjoy the quiet and only speak when you have something to say. There is something incredibly loving about being with someone, enjoying each other’s presence, and not saying a single word. Sex is an intimate act, and a lot of intimacy is unspoken.

Try just making eye contact, smiling or laughing, holding hands, or cuddling. When the two of you are ready to talk, you’ll feel conversation bubbling up organically.

3....Keep any conversation candid and casual. After a moment as intimate as sex, conversation can seem incredibly mundane and difficult.

Don’t feel like you need to drop a movie-worthy line – you won’t come up with a good one and it won’t sound nearly as romantic as you think. The most important advice for pillow-talk is to be yourself. Be relaxed, honest, and open and the conversation will feel natural.

Opening up about your day – share a funny story, talk about work, or explain a new project, hobby, or event that you’re excited for

.Asking questions— you don’t need to start an inquisition; simply ask your partner how their day went, if they have any weekend plans, and let the conversation unfold.


Thank you.....

#nikkycares