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Nairaland General › Re: Two Things You Can Never Engage In? by NiRfreak(m):
Arm robbery and becoming a Gaybriel are two stuffs my moral compass can't allow.
Crime › Re: Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op): 11:41am On Apr 11, 2021
Ammishaddai:
Oga, you're just an irrational liar with a hatred for pastors. Kindly go and conduct the survey and stop ticking my mentions with your hatred for the truth
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I don't hate pastors. But I won't be among who say they are too moral or holy to err.
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This post can serve as a mini-survey, if you allow people air their view instead of getting emotional as if your dirty secret is being let out
Crime › Re: Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op): 11:28am On Apr 11, 2021
Ammishaddai:
[s][/s]Conduct your survey first before coming online with baseless, factless accusations. And thank your God that this is "zoogeria" where rubbish flies. Had it been you were in the west, you would be sued for this rubbish you posted
Really? I will be sued for mentioning a pattern I saw?
If I say sexual immorality and exploitation is common among pastor, will I also be sued for this? even without survey would it be a wild claim to make? You are getting emotional, and unnecessarily precluding any attempt to x-ray the issue.
Crime › Re: Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op): 11:24am On Apr 11, 2021
chuksville:
There are domestic abuses everywhere including amongst pastors, but to tag it as if it's predominantly more present amongst pastors is a huge misconception.
Pastors are held in high standard of moral behavior, since that's what they preach. Their sermon and seminar on marriage seems to be the standard everyone are told to follow.

So a recurring pattern of abuse among them should raise a questioning eye about their honesty, character or practicality of what they preach.
Crime › Re: Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op): 11:13am On Apr 11, 2021
Ammishaddai:
You've not conducted any survey ; yet you came to an illogical conclusion that has no root to support its validity. So do us all a favor and go and conduct a credible survey, and see if we will not support you. But until then, you owe alot of people apologies
You seem to sound like a pastor, or their apologist. I may be wrong.
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Meanwhile, most statistics that arise after a survey is conducted are many times predicted even before survey... hypothesis sometimes become correct at the end of the day. Anecdotal evidence sometimes is enough to suspect something is brewing somewhere....so it's not until survey is out before one has the right to point out certain pattern. Let people lend their experience instead of shutting it down.
Crime › Re: Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op): 11:04am On Apr 11, 2021
Ammishaddai:
OP, there's nothing "common" in pastors abusing their. And there us also no statistic to support your basless claim, so don't start declaring lies all in a bid to ridicule people who you can never match up to.

Further more, not all pastors are pastors ; and the bible clearly tell us how to identity (Titus1:6). Anyone that does contrary to what the bible preaches is just serving himself and his sinful desires.
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Statistics of anything doesn't fall from heaven.
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People who take interest in any subject area or issue usually go out to conduct polls, survey and at the end a statistical pattern might be seen after analysis.
In this case, if we are to get a significant statistics to back my claim, people like you have to be honest, church members must be honest and pastor's wife too when sampling and questonaire is put forward, but here you are preempting the need to even conduct survey on something curious enough.
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Crime › Why Does Domestic Abuse Seem Common Among Pastors by NiRfreak(op):
This is fast becoming a pattern too obvious for my curious mind to ignore.
One of the high profile case was Pastor Anita coming out to accuse Pastor Chris of domestic abuse and other accusations before they parted.
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There was some years back the one of TB Joshua trended as being a serial abuser of ladies in sexual relation with him.
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The church I attended in my undergraduate days gave another picture. A friend of mine went to stay with the pastor cos the pastor liked him and wanted to take and groom him like a mentee. On living with them, he saw alot of flaws in their seemingly perfect marriage. Cases of domestic abuse, pastors wife matching up to his violence, subsequent disregard and disrespect of the pastor by wife, and larger than life attitude of wife who became uncontrollable. But everything appears perfect in public.
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Then last year I came very close to a young chap in higher institution. We stay close and I know his father is a respected pastor. But the boy came to like me and we gisted unend about life and every topic u can think of. Before long he got comfortable enough to let me in about the challanges in his family. I couldn't believe my ears, though I feign to not be in shock so he won't beat himself for telling me.
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On multiple occasions he told me how he doesn't like his Dad's violent dictatorial style, he disclosed how he beats his mom on domestic issues. And his mom is such a respected pastor in the church, and the area.
Recently, I was listening to her preach from church while in my room, their speaker disturbs the neighborhood, she was dishing out bullet point about marriage and heaping praise on this same wife beating pastor. Also advising women of the joy of marriage...I'm like hmmm.
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I came wondering if it's not the same woman whose son told me she's a constant recipient of domestic abuse. I'm like is she content about it? Or does she see it as necessary evil for husband to beat her into submission?
Then why do pastors seem to easily resort to violence to put their pastor wife in check? This may sound like generalization, but I bet many of you may have one or two experience too.
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Perhaps those pastors feel the need to enforce their headship even though with force since they are deeply rooted in the partriachal example of the Bible as regard marriage. My opinion though
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Or perhaps it's psychological since they see themselves as powerful pastors whom people fear, so they might see their wife as someone who must obey or fear him even though with force.
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by NiRfreak(m): 9:30am On Apr 11, 2021
Grace001:
So your carnal thought can’t imagine other part of her body. You know where you belong

Kontinue!
I belong to no strange place.. it's just normal curious thought...is the kpekus also sanctified? or can kpekus ever be sanctified?
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by NiRfreak(m):
Most of ya pastor dint even hear shishi before they got married..but they come with all fantastical tale of how angel Gabriel and Angel Micheal both brought the name and 3Dpicture of their prospective wives.........na set up
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The question to ask is ..why are the pastors always married to the most beautiful, smart and sexy in the congregation..almost all the time, God must have the affinity for showing them fine wife in the congregation...

But in Deeper life members' case, they claim to marry through the will of God, in their own case it's always worwor, poorly dressed, and sexually unappealing women the holy spirit usually give them...lol... Make una dey deceive una sef o...their holy spirit no like fine babe
Christianity Etc › Re: Do Intending Christian Couples Really Hear From God Before Getting Married? by NiRfreak(m): 9:22am On Apr 11, 2021
SanctifiedSista:
They hear from GOD but some have never heard from GOD before marraige


Diabetes is a terrible sickness. Buy this Ebook ..gives u food choices that will reduce your sugar level..check it on my link in my signature
I like this your moniker...Sanctified sister....But I slid into carnal thought imagining If your kpekus is also sanctified...
Romance › Re: The Number Of Girls I Have Dated and made love to (pictures) by NiRfreak(m): 8:41am On Apr 11, 2021
Lost count.
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How can you remember them all vividly? Ladies your age would have also lost count my brother. You still have more work to do in the pvssy Dept..
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Though you are on a right path.
Romance › Re: Who Are The Real MEN "Simps" Or "Redpillers" by NiRfreak(m): 8:28am On Apr 11, 2021
Patrioticbreed9:
Is still dosn't change the fact that you guys have to grow up, big yansh is not an achivement
...Look at the rubbish u posted up there...is it not ridiculous enough
Romance › Re: How Do Men Who Crave Personal Space And Silence Cope In Marriage by NiRfreak(op): 11:57pm On Apr 10, 2021
Lalasticlalala
Mynd44

Pls, kindly help move it to family section, that is where it was intended. Was Mistakenly posted on sexuality. Thanks
Romance › Re: Who Are The Real MEN "Simps" Or "Redpillers" by NiRfreak(m): 11:39pm On Apr 10, 2021
obinna58:
Nice one bro, leave this guys spreading hate in the name of redpill.

Know your game and you wouldn't fall victim, knowing your game first you'll have to calm down that's when the brain is activated.
Lols..these children wey never fvvck big yansh doggy without going to brothel..lol
Romance › Re: Who Are The Real MEN "Simps" Or "Redpillers" by NiRfreak(m): 11:38pm On Apr 10, 2021
All these secondary school children looking for attention.
Romance › Re: How To Seperate Prostitutes From Legit Women by NiRfreak(m): 11:35pm On Apr 10, 2021
You have to be on the street....You have to roll with, date or fvck all manner of gals from different background to get the distinction...Other wise u will fall for cheap deception
Romance › Re: Man Goes To Propose To His Girlfriend, Catches Her Having Sex With Another Man by NiRfreak(m): 7:24pm On Apr 10, 2021
smasher1:
Your last sentence is wicked. God would help us, please.
That's what it is...imagine if that guy had gone like 30 mins earlier before the gals fiancee showed up?
He would have gone to propose to a bitch who just sucked BBC...he would have also danced like a fool on the wedding day
Politics › Re: The Striking Resemblance Between Nigeria And 'Animal Farm' Is Astonishing by NiRfreak(op): 5:09pm On Apr 10, 2021
StacyO:
You made me laugh grin


Seems I'll start reading again after so many years.
It's really worth a re-read
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m): 5:08pm On Apr 10, 2021
SisterFire:
...read , think , write while praying in the church?

Do you really understand d term Education ?
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You are getting emotional. There was no where I emphasized their moral system...infact they had no moral guide apart from the dictatorial rule of Napoleon......
Anyone who understand the philosophy of education and have a target objective will design it to allow critical thought, debate and enquiry...
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m):
SisterFire:
... That's y I said after 7yrs u will know y wise Humanoids and aliens love that book than shakepare's , You are still sounding political as if you worship smart politicians in nigeria

...Only if u know how deep in rot Africa seems,

A question on ur Ideology... What advise will u give snowball if u notice the crook plans of Napoleon right on time , maybe 6months B4 the coup ,

After answering you ask me and I will give u my advice to president snowball ...
Lol...I don't worship wickedness.
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I'm just a neutral person observing the themes and characters in the book as it also applies to how this world is run. Simple.
That doesn't mean I support Napoleon's philosophy or how he inflicted pain and suffering on the ignorant animals. The animals sure need saviour, which they may never have.
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But for Snowball, if he knew of the evil plans of Napoleon six months prior, then the best thing to do is probably eliminate him.... That will be pure politics, cos if he dint eliminate him, someday Napoleon will definitely kill him the way he end up killing many animals that were against his rule....You see Snowballs life was also on the line as he had to ran away for his dear life.
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Now if he choose not to kill base on some moral reason, he should best then, try to educate the other animals secretly, so that they can easily detect the lies of Squelar the minister of information and thwart the plan of Napoleon.
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Snowball can't do it alone, he will need the support of the animals, by educating them or brainwashing them to understand the threat of Napoleon... And after succeeding, he must put Napoleon in prison. that's if he doesn't want to kill him.
Romance › Re: How Do Men Who Crave Personal Space And Silence Cope In Marriage by NiRfreak(op): 4:15pm On Apr 10, 2021
Patented:
Depends on your spouse and the ground rules u both agree too from the beginning. Obviously when chilren some into play that is another matter but in that case even a physical barrier may not entirely solve the problem.

there are many Horror stories of marriage out there but it is not everybodies story. many marriages are working but its not like they will make a declaration on social media. Who would come to nairaland just to say that their marriage makes sense...................? few if any.
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Romance › Re: How Do Men Who Crave Personal Space And Silence Cope In Marriage by NiRfreak(op): 4:03pm On Apr 10, 2021
Bluezy13:
You are vehemently accusing me of saying a married man has no right to privacy or personal space and you abruptly and conclusively opined that I categorically implied that to hell with a married man's psychological wellbeing for space.
I however deny these accusations. This is because a careful revisal scrutiny of my posts so far does not in any way justify your claim

I simply stated that your comparison of our fathers and forefathers marital lives with respect to having separate rooms from their wives is uncalled for with the reason that they had separate rooms because they were largely polygamists since one cannot marry two to three or more wives and expect to occupy one room with all of them. It was necessary not for psychological wellbeing but for privacy of sexual gratification, catering for individual family members in direct proportion to his wives, as well as division of labour and financial allocations.

In light of the above, I would not be derailing from morality and legality if I should sue you for false accusations,
defamation of character and damages for the megabits, battery, energy and time I dwindled in clarifying my stance.
Lol. Hahaha.
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Well I won't quite agree with your premise. Even though our fathers or forefathers dwelled in separate rooms from their wives as it seems separate rooms were more compatible with polygamy, I would say many who married angle wife also maintain separate room and it's not a norm that the monogamist amongst them shared same room.
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Meanwhile, you have not also tell us how married men cohabiting in same room today can enjoy the personal space and tranquility our forefathers enjoyed...unless u deem it not necessary which u almost implied. However how men who crave that personal space cope in this setting was the main thrust of my post, cos I believe those men still exist in marriage
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m): 3:56pm On Apr 10, 2021
SisterFire:
... I like this ur comment let me interprete it for better understanding shall we ?

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Snowball was wise ( yes , just like d president of recent rwanda turning rwanda to Germany with d speed of light ) , 2
But couldn't match Napoleon's political prowess because the foolish mass of cursed animals thinks is none of their business , because to foolish animals who ever has so much Political power is sent by god of the sugar candy mountain
3 So Napoleon employed all political tactics ie force(Terrorism ) , manipulation ( Religion) , wisdom( is hypocrisy *nirfreak I am disappointed wt u sad ) and cunningness ( tribalism)


But he can sabotage ie betray the manors farm Selfishly for his personal interest , so doing putting so much fear on those who thinks it dosent concern them and those who hailed his political sophiscation



My dear wickedness isn't wisdom ,
Don't let all I say here about sex , sex and sex confuse u with the codes of universe

One can be so wise to shed so much blood for justice ( you humans calls them Antichrist or wicked souls)

But a wicked man you foolish ant call wise and politically sagacious will still shed tonnes blood of blood in which a litre has no justice in tone ...

Wickedness isn't wisdom
Politics is one of the invention of corrupt Roman Catholic empire( Popes and emperors) full of blood lust
Be wise
Politics is a natural sequel of being human. Men are political animal by nature.
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Wickedness can be wisdom from the standpoint of the perpetrators if he uses it to deceive and gain advantage of others.
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Although true wisdom can be seen in an Utopia world where it leads to justice, the good of all, which is very rare to see on Earth..cos the earth is designed for people who uses cunning wisdom or cunny inventions to get advantage like it's a survival of the fittest...
And being fit here means using everything u can to take advantage of the other.....it's a cruel world. A very cruel world of no Justice, or sparing justice like we see in maybe the advance world...But this same advance world pillage blacks, treat Africa with callousness and injustice just to create a just society for themselves, but the hypocrisy is quite evident....
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Have u wondered why the world government and democratic tradition are always harping about human right like a slogan? it's their attempt to apply wisdom into governance so as to deliver justice, but at the end what do we get...lies, manipulations and severe injustice...so it's a cruel world.
Politics › Re: The Striking Resemblance Between Nigeria And 'Animal Farm' Is Astonishing by NiRfreak(op): 3:37pm On Apr 10, 2021
Kiaso:
THATS WHY THEY WANT THEIR OWN COUNTRY
How long did it take them to get serious about it? And how many of them are actually believing in this new country and working towards it...I think it's the minority, especially in the southwest
Politics › Re: The Striking Resemblance Between Nigeria And 'Animal Farm' Is Astonishing by NiRfreak(op): 3:33pm On Apr 10, 2021
Kiaso:
WELCOME TO THE CLUB

I KNEW THIS A LONG TIME AGO
ALL ANIMALS ARE EQUAL, BUT SOME (NORTH) ARE MORE EQUAL THAN OTHERS (SOUTH)
The south are obviously happy with the arrangements, cos they seem to be too stupid or ignorant to see it and do something about it
Romance › Re: How Do Men Who Crave Personal Space And Silence Cope In Marriage by NiRfreak(op):
Bluezy13:
That space is no longer necessary.
We don't marry more than one wife such that the women will have separate rooms..So there is no need for separateness
You are actively saying a married man has no right to privacy or personal space...
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But we know people crave such space for their psychological wellbeing. It means u are saying to hell with their psychological wellbeing for space.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m): 3:29pm On Apr 10, 2021
SisterFire:
...no no no ... Those you call wise in the book are foolish just like those you call wise today ie pastors , G.Os , presidents, prophets

Secondly in animal farm wise n old Benjamin ( George Orwell) suffers same as the rest of the animals , his sufferings are double because he knows what other animals don't know , and he was branded a mad donkey full of delusions,
His only crime is been wise and helpless in a foolishly cursed society of gross foolish animals,
In literal terms that suit the context of the book in relation to the majority of their subject, they are wise, though wickedly cunny is a a better word....but those animals are foolish, and ignorant...
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The way to fight the leaders is if the majority of the animals could read, write, think, and strategize to overthrow...but only well reasoned group of people can do that..
Politics › Re: The Striking Resemblance Between Nigeria And 'Animal Farm' Is Astonishing by NiRfreak(op): 3:14pm On Apr 10, 2021
chatinent:
The difference is that more of the masses in Nigeria's case aren't stupid. Some people only made themselves more equal than others.
Nigerian masses are very stupid... believe me..
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1. They believe in going to heaven to get their justice and retribution.... Islam and Christians alike....just like many of the animals were convinceed of Sugarcandy mountain.

2. They are stupid to see APC and PDP is same, come 2023, majority will still vote for the perpetuation of APC or PDP.....
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3...They are so stupid to see the cunningness and trap of their constitution, just like the animals couldn't see in their commandment that was used to fool them.....
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4...They are so stupid they quickly forget past memories of oppression and evil doing of their leaders, they will still praise same leader and reelect them...
the majority of Nigerians are foolish including many educated ones even on Nairaland here
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m): 3:07pm On Apr 10, 2021
SisterFire:
...if d book is wise against fools , where will u fix snowball ?
Snowball was wise.....but couldn't Match the treachery of Napoleon and influence of his political power..so Napoleon chased him away using force this time....so Napoleon employ all political tactics....force, manipulation, wisdom, cunningness
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But he could sabotage the Farm from outside and bring in forces to overpower it if he's so interesting in revenge....
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: UNIVERSAL CODES,INVERSE WORLD,NATURE, SCIENCE ETC ASK ME WAT DISTURBS U♥ by NiRfreak(m): 3:04pm On Apr 10, 2021
SisterFire:
...oh yes after 7yrs you move from ur political understanding of animal farm to winged Humanoidic programme scope which is the reason for the book,
By then you wont talk about politicians but wise ones and foolish ones
I think that analogy was captured in my first paragraph....Animal farm is obviously how the wise get their way, while the foolish got nothing but pain
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Have An Entanglement With A Doctor. by NiRfreak(m): 3:01pm On Apr 10, 2021
orohbiro:
Lies
That's what people like you can do
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Have An Entanglement With A Doctor. by NiRfreak(m): 3:00pm On Apr 10, 2021
MajesticKris:
You mean you are dragging a lady with a Doctorhuh

See the jargons, you typed... If you break up with her.. I swear na you lose...

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