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Reason why some would consider serving in Bornu or Yobe

I used to think only guys check a ladies profile looking for her picture........

Estharfabian:
That's ghetto American...

okay.... will need more lessons from you....cos will soon become a Celeb

When you are a celebrity.....correct grammar does not always matter.

Kate must be having a bad day.

Seems he's a pretentious and depressed patient. You just never knew that he's a sad person, especially the fact that he frowns with his siblings.

At 40 he's just beginning to understand the pressure of fending for a family. He must be battling with some inner conflict.

Take to the advice of Eddygourdo.......i have nothing else to say or you tell a marriage counsellor....(not a pastor..)..he's not psychologically okay.

DNA test of the baby or i don't believe.

Go and get laid......get more ladies laid....and turn her to your getting laid machine. Don't talk about it when she's back only if you are good at satire.

The lawless land always opposing to laws.....either good or bad.

Am i the only who didn't finish the epistle?

He is too temperamental and not understanding. You are in for a long ride if you get married to him.

Abeg na who smell all these people.

SavageGarden:
Wow! thanks bro...I really appreciate this

You are welcome bro. that she told means she can confide in you, it means she likes you and ready to change.....she needs your help

The prayer is that the tear rubber wont turn second hand.....Meanwhile any tear rubber does not remain that forever just maintenance.

Mr Bad guy appeals to their emotions , turns them on quickly , rarely judge them and gives them the youthful fun they crave fulfilling their sexual fantasies and fetishes.

While Mr .Nice guy is clueless about that fun and dirty aspect of a woman and even if he knows, he lacks the charisma, courage, fun and swaga to bring it out.....just too serious about life. Hence, marriage is the perfect playing ground for his seriousness cos marriage is a serious affair and not some game.

Don't judge her, compliment and appreciate her positive side. Let her understand that she's not the only one in the struggle, that many people are into it cos of some sort of sexual fantasies or depression that are not probably their fault. This could come as a result of sheer curiosity, wrong parental upbringing, Circumstances of life and environment she grew up from.

Discuss with her how she can overcome her boring moments by engaging in something fun , mentally productive, Skill acquisition rather than surfing the internet alone and staying in doors

coming out of her shell to meet people and make friends will also go and long way. Joining clubs or associations will also channel her mind into something worthwhile

Agree to date her, love her and give her a hot mind blowing sex that will reduce her interest in porn.
I hope this helps

The ball is in your court....You either ignore her or give her the attention and power to ruin your marriage.

Bitter would have been better.....you are a baby grow up.

Maybe he's not enjoying your honey.pot..(maybe not tight enough).......maybe you are not romantic and sexy enough....maybe your hygiene is questionable...maybe......find a way of extracting the truth behind his action.

Be cool about it and watch her..... don't let her suspect your moves. She will play into your hands very soon if you are cool about it or else she will change her tactics very quickly or become defensive...This can only work if she will be staying around for sometimes. if not,

Alternative is : calling her out on her attitude and making her know how disrespectful you find such attitude and uar not going to put up with it. Be firm and serious about what you want from her, then set the rules . And if there is a repeat of such ,that you might make some decisions she wont find easy.

And what are you good at??
Also
What are you known for

I assume yours must be disgusting and irritating to you. Sorry you can't cope with it.

I predict that the OP will end up in the pucci of an Ashewo ....now that you all have advised him to sin

After all these bashing intended to drive sense into your skull, if you fail to go on a tear dropping sober reflection then no hope for you. If you are not an animaal , i wonder why u would edit someone's post cos you cant stand correction.

If you don't know , you act like a cynical and paranoid patient who believes the whole world is after her, especially your ist quote and subsequent ones. And i know is more of a psychological problem for you. its not ordinary. Seek help fast!

It is sad , such a shame and pity a Man will end up with you. That will be an injustice of mis-match anyway......What a dumb ass with inferiority complex you are.......hot.tempered mongrel.

@OP with this kind of attitude you are doomed beyond repair. Either your mother in law is alive or not you are still going to be a pain in the ass of your husband......if you like edit my post again for your attack.....People lik you shdnt be allowed to open a thread cos you will never learn.

I knew you have a very repulsive and illogical behaviour from your first quote....thank God am vindicated, its glaring to others.

It means she provided a steady pvvssy when no other woman will endure giving him cos of his hardship/poverty

Guyman02:
Prof. Abioye Isaac

“Academic excellence is overrated! Did I just say that? Oh, yes, I said it.
Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life.
You could graduate as the best student in Finance but it doesn’t mean you will make more money than everybody else.
The best graduating Law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer.
The fact is life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorize it and reproduce it in an exam.
School rewards people for their memory. Life rewards people for their imagination.
School rewards caution, life rewards daring.
School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts those who break the rules and set new ones. So do I mean people shouldn’t study hard in school? Oh, no, you should. But don’t sacrifice every other thing on the altar of First Class. Don’t limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical.

Take a leadership position.

Start a business and fail. That’s a better Entrepreneurship 101.

Join or start a club.

Contest an election and lose. It will teach something Political Science 101 will not teach you.

Attend a seminar.

Read books outside the scope of your course.

Go on missions and win a soul for eternal rewards…
Do something you believe in!

Think less of becoming an excellent student but think more of becoming an excellent person. Make the world ur classroom!”

Powerful. What a priceless word of wisdom.

It would have been interesting to hear his explanation. Another legendary lie prevented.

I never knew hawkers get levels. There seem to be poor man and rich man version of everything.

and some

Pastors will be like : Lord make me an ambassadorial hawker , Oya Prayyyyyyy!

As a company , does nairaland pay tax? i don't know o