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bigpicture001:
.....Guys always talk about gals being of assist ......na cuz una never meet such gals..I have multiple times.....

You will lose something in return....maybe respect, maybe, control of the relationship, and you will start to like d gal for the wrongest of reasons.....


Just know that gals with money have their own problem ,only more money makes sense to them

Talking from experience bro and you sincerely know the game

In this life money is not just everything... I let go of a relationship with a girl who is averagely okay but the respect is gone..

It's far from inferiority complex and she knows it but I think it's better if a girl gives u peace n term broke than asset and arrogant..

This life sha he no balance !!!

This life sha he no balance !!!

Our tradition is seriously threatened if the babe is a divorcee...

Kings don't marry strictly VIRGINS again?

I have a question for you...

What does marriage mean to you and what makes a partner eligible?

A few word is enough for the wise !!!

FatherCHRISTMAS:
nitoriolohun

Sir

Maxymilliano:


You just have to give it to the standby tailors who are always on ground to deliver uniform attires to abducted school pupil's almost immediately after their release.

Was thinking I am the only one thinking in that direction...

Honestly this people aren't that smart and so annoying they are taking smart Nigerians for a ride...

Released by 10pm,boom 7am all of them are in same uniform...

Nigeria a country of the more u look the less u see...

No one is dieing sir !!! It's called segede in Yoruba

Get Shea butter(ori) and also try n get all this thick sand that always stick to d wall... Most face me I face you do av it or old abandoned building..

Get the thick sand(mould) grind it and mix wit water and apply there as many times as possible and also apply the Shea butter when you are not applying the thick mould..

It will take like two weeks before it goes n it's not life threatening... Try take painkill okay... Pele !!!

johnfem321:
I'm sorry you need a Laptop.

Ok I can get one.. I am still interested !!!

Thanks

johnfem321:
I have a Long term Job offer available for anyone interested in working from home. You will be paid Minimum of 12,000naira weekly. The task can be completed in 2-3 days depending on fast you can work.

Preferably someone that has a laptop and not lazy.. It's an 100% legitimate Job

If you are interested, Just drop your email and Number


Good Luck

I am in but I dnt av a laptop can phone be used ?

timisworld@yahoo.com , 07013030035

Thanks .

27Pushing30:
It’s call dark humor

Google it

I just did but the motive of such humour is to calm tension using violence,war etc and yet it's still funny..

Nothing is funny in her skit but thanks to you I learnt something new... Thanks !!!

You claim to be a comedian abi?

So what is funny in that skit? Comedy is meant to make one laugh n not another scenerio for prayer points...

What do I know sef? Any strongthing waiting to humiliate us at the verge of breakthrough die by fire die by fire die by fire !!!!

NB : For me n my household we believe it is real!!!

Let me tell you something I have learnt over the time... It's not a nice idea to always settle for a lady you met randomly for a serious relationship it can only pass for entanglement

Before you choose a partner the first thing to do is to pray so God can position you for the right person

Getting a girl by association ( church,office,school, any place of interaction)is far better than meeting randomly because this will enable you to know this person without pretence or prejudice on your part

Both Susan n Benita is not just ideal... Pls don't b a simp but it's necessary to love n care for your woman.

Being a simp is evil n mind you stop putting your confidence in a better job let ur confidence be in you, a more better job or not...

God will give u a decent woman (Amen)

sapien:
Her mum and I do talk on phone. She calls me most times and even drops motivational messages for me on WhatsApp. I have gone to her place only once. She did say she wanted to meet her daughter's man back then which was made me to go see her. She liked me afterwards and said she had taken me as a son.

Regarding her daughter, we have been communicating everyday since that September, even though we weren't seeing each other. Her levels of calling reduced in late December. By the third week of January, she wasn't picking my calls again.

She usually gave me series of excuses why she couldn't see me or I couldn't see her every weekend. It's either she's going to the market with her mum, attending to her sister's kids because of her busy schedule or she has cramps or Endsars protest or she was going to meet her project supervisor or whatever excuses she could come up with every weekend. Before we knew it, 3 months had passed.

The day before she stopped picking my calls, I called her, and she agreed to come and see me over the weekend. A day later, I called her to remind her of her visit, then she stopped picking my calls since then. I was shellshocked.

That was what prompted me to call her mum. Until then, her mum never knew we hadn't seen each other for months. I never reported her to her mum since we were always in good terms.

Bro I'm really happy for you !!! That girl is actually pregnant and the mum knows about it

She's actually attempting to flush it n she's scared about it... She want to do a perfect job n get back to shape before she come around because you both have been into a sexual relationship n its most certain u hit when you meet..

The most painful thing is that the mum knows about it but feel sorry for you and conscience is pricking her because she has demanded for your commitment by telling you to come see her(As a prospective in-law)

Bro count your loses and move on and get on the way because the beautiful ones are not yet born !!!

Yes but it's nothing to fear about before some covid-19 soldiers start shooting ontop the matter

Everywhere is dusty because of the season we are so it's unavoidable and it's also accompany with catarrh.

Taking excess water this period is advisable to prevent it and also constant taking of vitamin c will do the trick

Please don't go for that over glorified Ican if you don't have a strong link for jobs after graduation.

Go and get a skill I beg you will in the name of God.

By the time you are done with your degree and you have mastered a skill very well, getting a job is a plus for you and by then you can start asking about ican

I developed cold feet during my induction when one of the protocols said we should go and learn trade or skill
He didn't even mention establishing an accounting firm

The truth is there are jobs but not enough to go round so help yourself and plan to engage yourself.

Your story is so close to my story at a point I was like finally I know ur (my ex ) nairaland handle

The truth is that you are not saying the whole truth because I strongly believe it was not that singular act that let him just ghost you .

You said you put him to test about needing money but I can bet you the guy is smart enough to know you are not sincere reason why he's not just responding,(I might be wrong though)

Most women can't handle financial prowess

When a man has money he thinks he needs a woman or even more but when a woman has money she thinks she doesn't need a man anymore

But to be fair, your man may really be insecured or you are over exercising your independence

TBH I give it to you still trying to reach out to him even after three weeks you av a soft spot, you can involve his close friend

Most importantly choosing a partner is beyond logic, always involve God . Shalom !!!

Don't let your mind freak you over it. There are many reasons for putting a call for interview on hold but I will highlight one critical point .

It happens more in an organisation that is solely own and the CEO most times is always interested in knowing who is coming new into the company hence always available at the final stage of the interview to make personal observations and approval.

The truth of the matter is that the interview is not going to hold again the day initially scheduled for it and a later date will be arranged.

I use anything that you believe in to wave the notion that village people is on your matter .

As I'm commanded to do receive uncommon favour to get the job in Jesus name (Amen). Shalom !!!

Modify : The CEO might have other important engagement for the date stated earlier reason for the cancellation .

Mariangeles:
How come nobody understands the principle of giving gifts and the honour that comes with it?
It is not about what you give, it is the thought that counts.
If the young man had brought something as simple as fruits and the woman complained, then she would've been wrong.

It has nothing to do with poverty. Only someone with poverty mentality would think expecting gift(s) from someone is out of place, and only someone with inferiority complex would think it is a thing of shame to except gift from a certain someone.

"A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men"

Giving gifts will make way for you in the presence of Kings and great men.

Pls don't misquote the scripture, the gift here is talking about talents.
That wasn't the first time the guy visited and when he did he brought something. Is it everytime one will be carrying nylon up n down. The guy knows well that giving gifts corrupts and he might be there to ascertain some doubt,believe or concept.

The woman should have used it as an opportunity to have an unbiased mind with the young man and enjoy his company than making an issue over gifts.

This pov is kind of dicey, only simp will wait to be motivated by a woman to make money.

Stop putting yourself under unnecessary pressures because of women biko let women make their money by themselves

Sometimes no matter how hard you try money won't just show up and having this kind of woman spells doom, nagging left and right and no form of motivation and encouragement.

Women who are so money conscious push weak men to crimes. Money is good but let's be moderate !!!

VanessaKokomama:
I have bow leg

Okay, you beautiful though ! Welcome to d family sis !!!

Welcome , wetin do your leg�

CapodeCapouti:
Nice write-up, we need more of this on Nairaland. In life, always remember that they're two sides to a coin.

You keep talking about those who started business and are doing well now.

You should also know that there are thousands out there who towed that line and got their fingers burnt.

If you were married, and you started a business, someone like your wife could be the person on ground while you keep your job.

The guy himself should have sticked to his business idea and come and tell us how far

People are for real making it in business but opportunities differs and resilience differs

Business is not for everybody !!!

In life we are always in the middle, we better than some and some better but unfortunately we are in a world that pressure you to compete even if u just want to be on your lane.

The reason a particular gen set is named I better pass my neighbor is a clear clue but honestly it's so unhealthy because we are exposed to opportunities differently.

God will bless us all , Happy Sunday family !!!

Femi you are just a praise singer because you getting your daily bread from this administration. Even buhari is begging Nigerians and knows he has failed .

If you are not appointed I bet my left ball you must have written countless article to highlight the woes of buhari- led administration

Saying buhari is incompetent is not a hate speech but a fact. Many people don't hate him as a person but we are not just fine with obvious reasons.

Femi stop this evil .

This is a proof that we still have good ladies. It's very normal to really think about finance in getting married but I will advise you to take it a step further.

According to you no one cares in his family but you guys understand each other perfectly. If I may ask why is he unemployed? Is he looking for a job or wat ? Why not agree with him to learn a skill he can use to sustain himself for a while pending him getting a job or able to establish real big and cut a big cost on the money you have already saved to finance other logistics.

Where is he staying at the moment ? Is he a zealous type? Has he been talking abt his plans and you know the only thing stoping him is money? You know this guy better, you have been with him and you can tell the kind of person he is.

In this life ehn some guys will rise with the help of their woman ( the story of m k o is a good example) same way countless ladies have risen from the help of a man and it shouldn't be a big deal because we are more privileged than ourselves

And again nothing last for ever , do not make a permanent choice because of a temporary situation because with the right support that guy can rise and if you go for a financially stable man today things might go south.

Pray and let God guide you my sister . Shalom !!!

Gayatri:
I do not know how to start this but i will write as it comes... I was in a 2 year relationship that ended in march this year.. I was so commited in it like naturally when im dating, i DO NOT notice other guys and i DO NOT ask my boyfriend for financial assistance because i feel im not his responsibility,, what i do appreciate mostly were little things like, chatting, kindness, hugs, opening and closing of doors for me,, just little things, coz i adore them so much.. But anyway it ended.. And i vowed never to date again come what may.. During the break up process, all my friends (guys, hardly have a girlfriend) were there to help me pull through.. Calls and texts constantly because, according to them, they knew my type, thus the help.. Funny enough, i never got attracted to any of them (even the ones that initially asked me out when my friendship with them was fresh) and im not the sex sex type to just fall for any to satisfy my desire.. Though i got advice from neighbours to find someone else than staying alone, i said no especially as i am a loner but a happy loner.. I keep myself busy with work or any stuff that makes me happy.

Fine, two months later (june), some guy reached out to me even as he knew he's got a girlfriend, whixh according to him later, they were in an open relationship.. He stays in oshogbo, his girl stays in kaduna while im in sagamu..Before then, he reached out online by first stalking me on facebook (even though we did same online business), after a while he got talking with me.. At first, i was harsh, very harsh to him but he never minded.. At a point i stopped talking to him.. A month later he reached out again, asking if we were still friends.. I was like yeah, not nice to him at all but he was patient with me..

From mid-july we started talking well as friends, he was very open as i was to him. We flowed well that things were happening to us coincidentally.. Whenever he yawns, i do at my place, if im having a scratch, he does too.. There was just plenty of this connection that we never got tired of each other.. In the procesa of our been honest, he told me about his girl and how she was still keeping her ex and all whatnots... I didnt feel any iota of jealousy because i had not feelings for him yet.. I asked to talk things through with his girl and he says well if she gave the chance.. So laters, by august, september,october, feelings grew.. He got so fond of me... According to him, he has not seen my type before.. Fine! During my birthday, he wanted to do something for me, i said no, then two weeks to his birthday in nov, he asked that i visit him at their family house, that i did..

What struck me most was how the elder brother (married) took care of me... I was not allowed to do nothing.. The brother even cooked for me.. God, it made me fall more for the family.. The kind gestures i have never experienced in my life.. There are kindnesses but there is kindness, the real one.. I felt it.. Every thing that i want in a man, those little things, this guy has them all.. According to him, it baffles him that with the little he shows me, i do not take for granted even before he told me he's having a girl..

When i returned home, we continued our normal talks and he then said, that his girlfriend would be visiting during his birthday.. At that point i went silent.. (Meanwhile he met his girl this year but before me, also during her break up).. He was unhappy that i displayed this little jealousy.. So he says he has not broken up with his girl to start a new relationship and he is hurting that he is hurting me.. He's got feelings for me but he loves his girl.. So i said i was going walk, even though i never meant it, twas hard to even say that but i had to and he says no... That he's become so attached to me even his family thinks he's dating me.. That he controls his feelings for me, could i do same and i said no.. I could not be friends with him when i know that feelings are involved.. Finally, we came to terms to just flow with things since he was not engaged or married to her.. Even so, this guy just lost his job and he says unlike his girl, im the one pushing him to have something doing, he says i help him alot but i wouldnt know.. So we continued to let the whole feelings to flow until last week, when with my help, he was called for an interview in lagos..

As usual we talked and i wished him well.. I always pray for him.. In lagos, we talked well until the third day, our communication changed and before it did, my heart was literally aching, so i knew something was wrong.. I called to know why but he was telling me that he'd let me in when he got back to oshogbo, which he did.. He said his girlfriend who was having something to do with her ex, called him and wanted to settle things with him.. But the truth is, because this lady already had his facebook password when they were together in kadauna, she 3 days before her birthday on the 8th of this month wanted to know why her boyfriend was no longer perturbed over her behaviour, so she saw my chats with the guy and decided to do something,,, this now pushed to talk things out with the bf and apologise to him.. Then she asked him if anything was going on between is and he said no.. That we just friends,close friends.. He lied to her but opens up to me.. He says he doesnt want the girl to ask him to cut me off totally.. So the whole thing got him confused.. He says he's never double dated and he isnt happy that he's hurting me and im taking it... I asked him again if i should walk and he says no.. He does not want to lose me and i do not want to lose him either but i want to prove my love for him so that he one day sees that the girl, probably loves him but she's got no integrity.. And i purely love him.. But because i respect his relationship, i CAN NOT TELL HIM TO BREAK UP WITH HER but wanting him to see things himself but the question is for how long.. He says they are working things out now but he doesnt want to lose me esp as a friend... Difficult.. Out of God knows what, we agreed to let things flow since i will respect his relationship, like whenever his girl is around, i should make him believe that i will be fine.. Now, he isnt happy because he said if he hadnt met the gf, he'd have gone ahead to date me.. For me, i cannot sleep, ive been typing this since God knows when and this is 3:36am.. Since he is confused now, please people, friends, family, can i use love to make him see the difference between his girl and me.. He loves his girl, he is controlling his feelings for me and afraid to let it grow because he knows we'd bond, while my feelings toward him is real.. Money has not been involved in this.. We are 6months now.. I believe in true love and that it does not come easy.. Talk to me Y'll because i have no parents to talk to,, i would have talked to my mum now but she isnt here... I want to win with true love.. I turned 27 this past november and he turned 30 same november.. Thank You and God bless..

Smiles, that guy is a smart guy codedly positioning you as a side chick . Puke !!!

Weneda:
Dear Emmanuel ,

Based on your online application, you have being scheduled for an interview session by Elyte Entrepreneurship Training & Consulting for the position of a "BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT ASSOCIATE"

Roles and responsibility includes:

--Business building

--Presentations and training

--Digital marketing

--Drafting of business plan

--SME business start up

Date: Friday 11th Dec 2020

Venue: Elyte House, 150b, Oba Ogunji Road, Ogba, Lagos

Time: 9:00am

Due to the restrictions caused by the pandemic, selected candidate is to adhere to the following;

-You will be working from home 40-60% of the time.

-You will be coming to the office thrice a week.

-Attending online meetings via video conferencing apps.

-You must strictly follow the company's guidelines concerning Covid-19 precautions & come wearing your face mask.

Note: Applicants must come with their updated CV, and a printed copy of this invitation letter.

This invite is for Lagos residents only, strictly comply.

Regards,

GRACE OLUBOLA.

For More Information

Tel Contact:: 09081610416

Website: www.elytetc.com

Na GNLD people bro !!! Their packaging no be here.
I'm still looking for time to go and slap that girl that tell me you know you are not qualified but I will pity you, smiles. All na format
Dnt waste your time and money. Their website na packaging too .

brownemmanuel43:
Pls if u know where I can buy fairly use of this drum pls quote me.
I need more than 200 units

What's your budget and location ?

Let's pray for our beloved osaze it's obvious he needs help.
Am I really missing something , Is Peter okoye a gospel singer ?
Beloved it's time to pray tomorrow may be to late. Shalom !!!

Firstandonly:
my girlfriend is very good in sawing and she have always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. she is still in school and support her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.
should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life. pls have any body face this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome

My dear brother do not use few cases to judge every scenerio. We have bad people and we have good ones too.
People give girlfriends phone that is very expensive as gift yet it didn't work out. Just place your priority on giving and that's okay.
In life we need one another to grow, See it as a sacrifice and don't appear entitled. You mentioned that she's hardworking and all that. Girls who are unloyal hardly follow that path, they are always positioning themselves for highest bidder.

If your mind can't release the money try and disguise as though u will help her borrow it and she will return it afterwards. God will help you in deciding on what's right.