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illitracy:I have been reading comments and yours makes me feel relaxed to share my mind. That girl is not saying the truth or better still the whole truth. You are meeting someone for the first time and going with two of your friends making three of you and met with him and two if his friends making three also, what a perfect coincidence and now how did four of them sits comfortably at the back and those guys were able to still carry out the plans under tight things . Another thing that poke me is she claiming she can't send quotation via chat because the deal is a big one and she has been busy and cant get to sit down and figure it out but created time to go meet the client is unreasonable. I'm not ruling out the fact that she was robbed but I'm quite familiar with stories of such guys that are specialized in robbing runs girls. But no matter what no one deserves to be robbed.God will fight for her !!! |
dan761:Smiles only God is good we are only trying to watch each others back TBH, hustling with car is better (Uber ) when I was into the business full time I actually wanted to get a car and start the Uber stuffs atlst to cut away the agbero people but damn I was just fed up with the driving thing. Yes manual is more expensive and I will advise anyone who want to venture into such to go for manual because auto gives headache. Turbo is a kind of engine and it runs faster than the normal belt or chain engine. Turbo has speed but it makes the bus smoke faster and hence different problems Yes there are mechanics who are so specialised in fixing korope as well as rewires . Those bad ones really dealt with me but thank God he came to my rescue . My take, driving korope is not a too good idea and for your brother you can help him get a skill and with time he will be making money frm it with peace of mind . That was my escape route I learnt a skill and I'm picking up and I av peace of mind. Sincerely I still use the korope to work but it's just for chatter or I drive it to work and pick passengers early in the morning and late in the evening and I still make some token . |
dan761:Let me buttress my view about this korope/Marwa stuffs, I walked the lane and I understand everything about it to default because I own a mini bus (korope) myself. To be honest the idea sounds nice but not like a place in Lagos anymore. Nurtw people are doing more harm and no good with their levies , imagine paying about 3500 daily to those agberos aside the one seat payment on every trip. More people are coming into it because they see it as a very fast way to make money and hence there's congestion and everyone will av to share passengers The rate at which traffic is occurring now is scary and as a result of this how many trips can u make a day to cover agbero, fuel and save for maintenance and your ROI(Return on investment). Dnt also forget buying tokunbo motor is luck . If you dnt know anything about korope those guys will sweet talk you into buying automatic turbo and that will be the genesis of the wahala Not every mechanic is good at it but they won't tell you and you will get frustrated when korope start it's wahala. You will see money but you will later realized the energy you invest and the resources is more than the money you are realizing. To mention fuel is now 170 per liter and u will be trapped in the traffic and the passenger will ginger you to take one way creating menace so you can meet up for other trips and realize money but the day ur village people will grace the occasion is the day you will jam taskforce. Let me dnt even go to where you start finding it difficult to feed after you must have been drained by those monsters and the stress will definitely tell on you. Driving is stressful with korope because you carry few people ,if you are thinking of those 20 plus passenger it's a cool deal if you can make just two trips and get ur time involved with something else Korope is abt 1.2 million now and that's a huge money so not think of other business or skill that can give you cool returns witout all the headaches the mini bus will give I still make use of my korope(smiles) mostly weekends for chatter for owambe things and I take it to work anyday I feel I'm strong enough to battle hold up and I pick passengers to and fro. If you have any area you want more information abt and I didn't mention or not so clear hit me I will be more than ready to share . Shalom !!! |
gnss:Smiles . I love your analysis abt being a referee and how prepared one ought to be. I expected you to allow me explain better to you but I see someone who is determined and ready to concur so I wish you luck It's nice knowing you own personal properties but I blive you will understand me later. Cheers and I wish you success in your new hustle !!! |
I will advise none as long as you want to keep ur sanity. Let me ask you few question, Are u married ? What are your expectations on returns driving the said korope ? How long do you actually intend driving the korope if you settle for one ? If you can answer this I think I can help you with first hand experience. |
This is far frm sleep paralysis. Be honest about it you surf the net for p*rn after which you sleep off and experience such. You need to stay sexually pure and pray against spiritual manipulators . Shalom !!! |
Queenlovely:This is not making sense to me, no matter how much careful you are another person can hit you while driving and it happens. Being alive is by his grace and the protection of God almighty and I pray may you never be a target of spiritual wickedness. |
GTkester:Because they are the slaves to the north due to religious sentiments. I spit on them tueh !!! |
kilonshele101:Amen oooo, You got me cracked up with you hate nonsense too. Honestly I am non partisan although a better part of me is okay with PDP policies but I don't really care who is in power so far I can live a good life and I think that's not too much to ask for. We av the resources but this people are just something else. Honestly it's unfair, just take a look at the number of people available for the protest on a normal working day. It shows the level of unemployment, frustration and hopelessness You can't start your life from scratch in peace. Everybody is bent on outsmarting the other to make a living. We need God to heal this land and hence commit our resources into a visionary leader and a renown technocrat with a full understanding of developmental economics n social welfarism devoid of nepotism for party members Governance is not about empty promises but a good blue print of economic realities n how to implement it. Buhari only use Nigerian who couldn't read btw the lines to be among the long serving leader in the history of Nigeria and to have himself and his family take pictures inside private jet and be able to afford that his boy powerbike to groove around In other news one dollar is now one naira . ��� |
kilonshele101:No buhari takes all blames because that's how it rolls Was buhari not aware of other tiers of government when he was busy running his mouth like water colour on Jonathan and his administration? Sentiment apart buhari is a collosal failure and must be hold responsible for his utterances, he deserves all the bashing when he was parading himself like Messiah nko !!! I hate nonsense. |
You better don't waste your time n money. They will start by brainwashing you how useless it is to work for multinational coy and telling you working for state government or federal government is slavery. Las las you are welcome to GNLD !!! ��� |
wemmy01: |
Young man don't build your destiny around woman. It will end in tears. Don't start what you are not ready for, women generally think for the moment. Plan your life n get settled when you deem fit. Beware of ladies of choose between me and your mother, d nagging no be here U might not live to tell the lesson. I come in peace !!! |
BiggyB242:I think I now understand you better but the truth is knowledge is seek for and not dashed out. You see this advise of a thing it's better people seek it from you than giving it out randomly because most won't appreciate advise given when not sought for We are in a society of envy and unnecessary castigations, I still maintain my stand, that car might just be an asset for the guy and he owes no one any explanation untill he seek people's aid and come begging then one can judge and conclude that he's stupid . God no go shame us. |
BiggyB242:Bros calm down, a car of 2m is not above the league of Uber fleets. And I didn't say he bought it for Uber I only mentioned what if? My point is that people should learn to mind their business when the person didn't approach them for any aid and shld not just conclude because you dnt actually know the reason for such decision. Thinking it's for show off remains an assumption. Dazz all�� |
Honestly this your heading is just prejudice except you can prove the purpose for the purchase of the car. Wat if the car is on hire purchase for Uber business? Would you rather let him use that money for renovation when the car is actually for business purpose because of the state of the house ? The way people conclude for others is so annoying. It is well. |
I feel your pain brother, but firstly don't get yourself depressed. Marriage is spiritual and one can easily point the one with a wrong foundation. You have shown empathy towards your woman when she was down health wise and av tried to advise her getting a land for a secured future but I want you to be honest about this bro, Have you ever cheated on her or she suspect your are spending money on a mistress and you didn't come out clean? The truth is, if yes nothing pain a woman than that and she's just taking back her pound of flesh but if No I can say she's naturally selfish and insensitive. Some ladies can be won with love and not with ego. Try talk to her inlove and tell her you believe she can't have money somewhere and she watches you suffer. Marriage is partnership. As I noted earlier if you are guilty about it please swallow your ego and convinced her you are for her alone and relax for awhile and watch her reaction. Pls don't conclude the money in the account is for her but if she's honest she will mention it. And please dnt forget to pray to God to heal you and your home. Dnt give the devil a win over your family and honestly I know wat it means to be evicted from a home. I got evicted owing six months arrears June this year in my 3 bedroom apartment and currently putting up with my aunt n her family and I tell you it's never a good tale but it's just a phase and it will be over . I pray you get a timely solution to this and your family won't be separated in Jesus name (Amen). |
humilitypays:kudos bro, that man is just a bragging adult that selects for social status. Three idiots comes to mind. Intelligent n smart people see beyond paper qualifications. People with different stories and he shld be thankful he's privileged to afford tuition of a private university for his daughter. Smart people dnt acquire qualifications but knowledge. |
stuffs4me:but y ? Everything here is valued at do you know who I am ? For the fact that op can convince the said lady for a date means he is a smart guy. Not everyone is privileged going to the university talk more of a private owned The man shld more be concerned abt the guys maturity, intelligence,personality n his spirituality over educational qualification because it can b obtained later on. Pastor kingsly of David christain center met his wife according to him when she was doing her master's n him with just OND without a job. My uncle married his wife with bsc with just HND. It is the poor girl I pity for because she's the only victim I see here shld Op move on and the girl find it hard to get a responsible man. She will hate that man for life. The Op too might just be another victim if he strong-headed marry that girl because any of his shortcomings will be linked to his educational qualification n this might affect his home. Op success is a revenge but it's more beautiful when you dnt get successful to spite people who provoke you to work harder . |
Every girl is not a leech, she bought me two wristwatch on my birthday valued at 10k both. She organised a birthday party kindof for me. She knows I calcu alot n d most expensive outing was foot by her. She has done alot n most recent gift she planned with my tailor to make a senator outfit for me n d guy delivered it on the 1st of January dis year. The garment cost 16k. I love you fijabi me and my one n only rebekita. NB : dnt envy me if you can't cope . Only she understands. |
ZINIBANKS:I don't get you sir, spend lavishly on me so I can be convinced that yahoo is a good business. Let's not press farther sir, every man to his identity, I want to be identified with great minds like Dr ngozi iweala , seun osewa, adewunmi adeshina and other young souls that are making impact rather with financial terrorists. And sir I don't live so people can spend on me by the grace of God am FINE. |
whixstan:Let everyone choose a path that thinks it will favour them. If you truly you know this yahoo guys you will agree with me it's beyond survival but pure greed, show off and vain glory. This guys are causing havoc for people with good intent to do business with the international community. Yahoo guys don't understand the law of nature. Success n growth is a gradual thing let them learn to b patient . If they can't get a job let them learn skills haba !!! |
Thiwalade:Thanks alot and God bless you !!! |
Thiwalade:Mr thiwalade your points are crystal clear n I share your idea. You are really a nice guy going by your post but the truth is that most of this yahoo guy do so not out of frustration but greed. Most of them don't even try or give it a push. A guy that has a priority won't even yahoo because it's a sin against God and a crime to humanity. Even in a sane country people still do fraud in the midst of opportunities n surport system. Any excuse to commit fraud is lame. In my second year in the university I was intimidated by a friend who did dat yahoo stuff but I maintained my identity tho really tempting but I had no interest . I laboured n God rewarded it . I was really blessed and could raise shoulders but guess what I fall and tins was as bad as bad but the zeal in me kept me and am rising back gradually n av learnt d lessons from it but still doing yahoo never crossed my path because that's not the way to go. I mentioned my predicament because some will think it's because one is privileged but it's far from it. Life is in stages and it is always good to endure n reason along difficult moment because it's only a phase rather than b a menace to the society. The part that talks about girls choosing a yahoo girl over a guy wit a decent livelihood.it shows their value n no sane guy deserves such. I know a girl that stopped dating a guy because he's a yahoo guy n this guy in question gives her goodies n have a nice ride and when I inquire she said I can't continue because he's lazy. I need a man that can earn frm dignity. |
History555:bro calm down. It's not upto calling it quit. Women naturally love attention even when they are married or inlove. I honestly frown at what your wife did but I will blame you Your wife lacks your friendship and that's why she's teasing the guy to be reminded that she's worthy Try n let go because apart from the part you mentioned that she's receptive to the guys wish of marrying her nothing suggest she's at the verge of cheating. I put it to you bro, be her friend and she will gist you about the guy someday. You no fit date my babe sha ! Dat babe craze I swear she go call tell me hny I dey crush on that guy n we laugh it off. |
A wise man once said forgive a terrorist but don't forget his name. Surrendering is also a scheme to win a war. Once a lady cheats, she has Terrorize ur Territory To hell with I have built my world around her you can rebuild. But you try sha ! I dnt check their phones cos I dnt give a damn. If u didn't check her phone to discover her hoeing she will continue with the game. You know what to do but u just lack guts . Be a real MAN !!! |
Sorry bro for the pain. you have done literally nothing wrong to love your woman n family so much that you provided for them so well when things was going well for you. As a matter of fact u obeyed God's word. Without mincing words for you, you failed to realise that love is never enough to marry. Before settling for a partner think about her economic advantage. Her arrogance, disrespect n stubborness was there when u dated her for two years but because you thought u were either in love or believed she will change or u can endure. See bro ! marriage is partnership n you should not feel bad when u can't carry on with the family responsibilities but yes you ought to feel concerned as a man of honour but u married a woman who has never invested in the marriage so she can choose to act anyway because she feels you will be the looser. The Bible says two are better than one so when one falls the other will help the other to stand. You married a woman who might have asked you countless of times can u take care of me ? a question I detest so much been asked. what is the meaning of she dont want pain she dnt want stress, she wants to live a flashy life style, bro at whose expense ? A woman of economic advantage thinks above all dos bull craps. The deed is done and won't tell you your wife is bad or you shld not fight for her but this is an eye opener. The people u really deserve are the ones that are there when you are in crises. Available for you physically,emotionally n surportive. most women who are flashy are like cancers. Job in the Bible can relate better. They tends to be angels n caring when things are fine but demons n psychopath when things go wrong. uncle my advise for you tho am not married but am a high chief bachelor so u can decide wat to make of my advice. Women tends to get power when you beg them in such situation they see u as a weakling 1.dnt beg her just explain things to her. 2. pray to God for direction n restoration 3. work on your emotions n see her as non existing.4. still keep giving the little u have for your children. 5. if you are a christain and you belong to a church try see your pastor n seek counsel n help. las las if God willing your wife will come back to her senses n know her role in the marriage is to be a help meet n not a liability. she will step up her game and be responsible too but if otherwise bro you know what to do and if you dnt know lemme help u with the golden rule . YOURSELF FIRST. shalom !!! |
Diary of a single sister� He will come your way soon ok ��� |
Abejoye is not just another gospel movie it's a REVIVAL !!! What I learnt are as follows : 1. Boldness : chief oluoje cud strongly make his stand about organising a crusade at the market Square even when other chiefs warn him against doing so 2.Signs n wonders : you can't be a christain without a sign n power to dominate.still on oluoje, he could exercise that power when the daughter was in crisis (epilepsy). He demonstrated the power he believed in n there was a miracle. This signs shall follow those who believe,in my name they shall cast out demons ... 3.Always flee : This is all about bamidele n her mistress. bamidele is willing to give up on his adulterous way but he didn't do much. Giving attention, energy n consideration to her makes him give in the second time after confessing to his wife. The devil really used that against him no wonder the Bible says we shld flee away from every appearance of evil 4.Forgive n ignore if u can't forget : The truth is, as much as we try n walk in the spirit the flesh still manifest. one of the reason bitterness was much on laide is just that the pains of bamideles failure to his marital vows couldn't be forgotten even though he's been forgiven thus laide was quick to anger. Shalom !!! |

