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CrimeRe: My Church Choir Member Was Robbed! Girls, Be Careful Who You Do Business With by nitoriolohun(m): 5:52am On Nov 29, 2020
illitracy:
3 guys, 3 girls, which car accommodated 6 nyashes was it a limo?
I have been reading comments and yours makes me feel relaxed to share my mind.
That girl is not saying the truth or better still the whole truth. You are meeting someone for the first time and going with two of your friends making three of you and met with him and two if his friends making three also, what a perfect coincidence and now how did four of them sits comfortably at the back and those guys were able to still carry out the plans under tight things .

Another thing that poke me is she claiming she can't send quotation via chat because the deal is a big one and she has been busy and cant get to sit down and figure it out but created time to go meet the client is unreasonable.

I'm not ruling out the fact that she was robbed but I'm quite familiar with stories of such guys that are specialized in robbing runs girls.

But no matter what no one deserves to be robbed.God will fight for her !!!
InvestmentRe: . by nitoriolohun(m): 5:57pm On Nov 26, 2020
dan761:
@ nitoriolorun ... You are a Man with good heart at least for sharing an experience so others could Learn ...Actually when I saw the thread I decided to Learn as well because I have a Junior one too who have been Unemployed for so long ,Manages a Teaching Job with a very Low Income...and I have been Contemplating on venturing into that as well .He can drive well and he has been using my Car during weekends to Hustle .Back to some Points U made ....1 : Traffic : How about Plying a well Tared Road Routes with Very Low Traffic Tendencies....2: Automatic Turbo ...What do you mean by this ? I found out that Manual are more Expensive than Automatic why is this so ,Automatic Vehicles should be more Expensive but in the case of Korope it seems not to be so . Probably Automatic are not as strong as Manual ,My thought though ....3: Good Mechanic : Are there Special Mechanic For Korope ? I anticipate your further brotherly Advise
Smiles only God is good we are only trying to watch each others back
TBH, hustling with car is better (Uber ) when I was into the business full time I actually wanted to get a car and start the Uber stuffs atlst to cut away the agbero people but damn I was just fed up with the driving thing.

Yes manual is more expensive and I will advise anyone who want to venture into such to go for manual because auto gives headache. Turbo is a kind of engine and it runs faster than the normal belt or chain engine. Turbo has speed but it makes the bus smoke faster and hence different problems

Yes there are mechanics who are so specialised in fixing korope as well as rewires . Those bad ones really dealt with me but thank God he came to my rescue .

My take, driving korope is not a too good idea and for your brother you can help him get a skill and with time he will be making money frm it with peace of mind .

That was my escape route I learnt a skill and I'm picking up and I av peace of mind. Sincerely I still use the korope to work but it's just for chatter or I drive it to work and pick passengers early in the morning and late in the evening and I still make some token .
InvestmentRe: . by nitoriolohun(m): 4:55pm On Nov 26, 2020
dan761:
. God Bless U sir ...I humbly ask as well to tell us the things that the op is likely to Understand later .It would Help others just as it's mentioned above.
Let me buttress my view about this korope/Marwa stuffs, I walked the lane and I understand everything about it to default because I own a mini bus (korope) myself.

To be honest the idea sounds nice but not like a place in Lagos anymore. Nurtw people are doing more harm and no good with their levies , imagine paying about 3500 daily to those agberos aside the one seat payment on every trip.
More people are coming into it because they see it as a very fast way to make money and hence there's congestion and everyone will av to share passengers
The rate at which traffic is occurring now is scary and as a result of this how many trips can u make a day to cover agbero, fuel and save for maintenance and your ROI(Return on investment).
Dnt also forget buying tokunbo motor is luck . If you dnt know anything about korope those guys will sweet talk you into buying automatic turbo and that will be the genesis of the wahala
Not every mechanic is good at it but they won't tell you and you will get frustrated when korope start it's wahala.
You will see money but you will later realized the energy you invest and the resources is more than the money you are realizing.
To mention fuel is now 170 per liter and u will be trapped in the traffic and the passenger will ginger you to take one way creating menace so you can meet up for other trips and realize money but the day ur village people will grace the occasion is the day you will jam taskforce.

Let me dnt even go to where you start finding it difficult to feed after you must have been drained by those monsters and the stress will definitely tell on you.

Driving is stressful with korope because you carry few people ,if you are thinking of those 20 plus passenger it's a cool deal if you can make just two trips and get ur time involved with something else

Korope is abt 1.2 million now and that's a huge money so not think of other business or skill that can give you cool returns witout all the headaches the mini bus will give
I still make use of my korope(smiles) mostly weekends for chatter for owambe things and I take it to work anyday I feel I'm strong enough to battle hold up and I pick passengers to and fro.
If you have any area you want more information abt and I didn't mention or not so clear hit me I will be more than ready to share . Shalom !!!
InvestmentRe: . by nitoriolohun(m): 2:11pm On Nov 26, 2020
gnss:
. Thanks so much for your Question .A man that intend to go for the Work of a Football Refferee knows that he has to use a whistle ,Has the Ability to run from Goal Post to another and engage the Players as well .In every working Environment either Public or Private ,You deal with People ,Large or Few ,One does not have to work as a Transporter before loosing one Sanity ,Even as a Trader in a very Popular Market if you are not Careful and enduring ,You loose your Sanity ,A Bank Cashier ,A Customer Relation officer dealing with all manners of People both Crazy/ mad ,Ill-mannered and Well behaved people is a human being too ...The work of relating with Passengers ,Enter with Ur Change shouting yet some will still enter ,Men in Uniform refusing to Pay ,Some enter and want to short pay ,The Agberos Money Factor ,Some would enter and start begging U there is no money to pay scenario etc ...Police Harrasments are well Known ,I have been a Passenger myself for many years and I know how a Well mentally stable man can have His Sanity Affected somehow .Secondly I wouldn't know how the Area of been Married would affect this , On expectations on Driving ,I am not Anticipating any Greedy Magic from it ,In every Venture ,There are Cost of Running ,Expenses/ Expenditures Returns / Profits ....I do not think at the end of the day after Paying Agberos/ Parks Money ,buy Fuel and other Miscellaneous ,I won't be able able to have some Monies Left for saving ...I don't think so ...I do not Womanize ,I don't drink ,I don't Patronise beer Parlours ,I don't Klub ,I am not an expensive Fashion Freak ,I do not belong to any Social Gathering that requires Buying of Owanbe clothes etc and my wife does fine in her Business ,Very Understanding .Well I have seen two or three guys riding Marwa not even Korope ,Marwa with just 4 Passengers ,Korope is 7 passengers ,They are doing well and Fine ,Two even bought extra one each to give out .Tell me of one business that does not have one or two Discouraging Experience ? I have talked to different people privately from the Forum and they have been Helpful .Done feasibility studies as well and still Learning .I already have a house of my own so I am not running Helter Skelter to build House ,My wife has a Car of her Own . Soonest I shall be completing a Course on a Skill which I will start to make a Production from ,Even the Apartment to.make such Productions is owned by me Thanks .
Smiles . I love your analysis abt being a referee and how prepared one ought to be.
I expected you to allow me explain better to you but I see someone who is determined and ready to concur so I wish you luck
It's nice knowing you own personal properties but I blive you will understand me later. Cheers and I wish you success in your new hustle !!!
InvestmentRe: . by nitoriolohun(m): 10:16am On Nov 26, 2020
I will advise none as long as you want to keep ur sanity. Let me ask you few question,
Are u married ? What are your expectations on returns driving the said korope ? How long do you actually intend driving the korope if you settle for one ? If you can answer this I think I can help you with first hand experience.
Christianity EtcRe: Help! Is this still Sleep paralysis? by nitoriolohun(m): 3:55pm On Nov 25, 2020
This is far frm sleep paralysis. Be honest about it you surf the net for p*rn after which you sleep off and experience such.
You need to stay sexually pure and pray against spiritual manipulators . Shalom !!!
CelebritiesRe: Somebody Died In This Accident - Comedian Craze Clown Speaks (pix, Video) by nitoriolohun(m): 11:29am On Oct 28, 2020
Queenlovely:
when you buy a Chinese BMW, forget about God

I have survived this long in this country because I have developed a 6th Sense.

I drive a Mercedes Gguard, but I drive it very slow, people even mock me in my hood.

I avoid suspicious friends, I don't overstay 8 PM outside the house.

I don't like taking commercial flight when I travel, I rather rent a private jet.and the pilot credentials should convince me.

I know that I will die even with all this precautions, but at least I will live longer
This is not making sense to me, no matter how much careful you are another person can hit you while driving and it happens.

Being alive is by his grace and the protection of God almighty and I pray may you never be a target of spiritual wickedness.
PoliticsRe: I Am Blushing Right Now,igbos Are Finally On Yoruba’s Side by nitoriolohun(m): 7:45am On Oct 16, 2020
GTkester:
We don't have problems with the yorubas. Our problem is with the Yoruba Muslims.
Because they are the slaves to the north due to religious sentiments. I spit on them tueh !!!
PoliticsRe: #EndSARSProtest: 'Nigeria Has No President' - Farooq Kperogi by nitoriolohun(m): 9:37am On Oct 14, 2020
kilonshele101:
lol, that's how what rolls?
anyway freedom of expression is entrenched in our constitution and the real power belongs to the people in a Democratic setting, so we're free to voice out our individual and collective displeasures .

but if you ask me, I will tell you that though blaming GEJ for everything is an obvious sigh of incompetency, but it isn't wrong to blame PDP who have been in control of all tiers and arms of government since we're back to civil rule and yet failed us though I can mention some of their ground breaking projects that I'm proud of but their failure is way more than their success ,that's why we desperately voted them out. APC under Buhari is performing below our expectations but sentiment apart I'm still not ready for another PDP Marathon especially under atiku, I Also hate nonsense.

Anyway, may Lord see us through
Amen oooo, You got me cracked up with you hate nonsense too.

Honestly I am non partisan although a better part of me is okay with PDP policies but I don't really care who is in power so far I can live a good life and I think that's not too much to ask for.

We av the resources but this people are just something else. Honestly it's unfair, just take a look at the number of people available for the protest on a normal working day. It shows the level of unemployment, frustration and hopelessness

You can't start your life from scratch in peace. Everybody is bent on outsmarting the other to make a living.

We need God to heal this land and hence commit our resources into a visionary leader and a renown technocrat with a full understanding of developmental economics n social welfarism devoid of nepotism for party members

Governance is not about empty promises but a good blue print of economic realities n how to implement it.
Buhari only use Nigerian who couldn't read btw the lines to be among the long serving leader in the history of Nigeria and to have himself and his family take pictures inside private jet and be able to afford that his boy powerbike to groove around

In other news one dollar is now one naira . ���
PoliticsRe: #EndSARSProtest: 'Nigeria Has No President' - Farooq Kperogi by nitoriolohun(m): 6:27am On Oct 14, 2020
kilonshele101:
the last time I checked ,there's freedom of association in our constitution.


the fact that you choose not to associate with buhari doesn't mean it's mandatory for him too not to , you don't expect people to have the same mentality like you, that's what makes human.


some (I can't say majority) of Nigerians including myself are not satisfied with the state of our nation, but just like him, it disgusts me too the way some people dish out unnecessary hatred for Buhari and blame him for everything without holding any of the 774 LGA chairmen who are the closest to the people of the 3 levels of govt or the governors who have almost the same functions as the president except the ones in the exclusive list. should 1 old man be blamed for the failure of all the 3 levels of govt, the failure of all the 3 arms of govt ,for the failure of a failed system that has being failing for over 50 years before assuming the post. we might be divided deep down, but we all need raised above tribal/religious sentiment when it comes to matters that involve collective efforts and stop the blame/victim game. we should criticize bad policies like his recent INEC appointment when we see one and stop unnecessary hatred undecided
No buhari takes all blames because that's how it rolls

Was buhari not aware of other tiers of government when he was busy running his mouth like water colour on Jonathan and his administration?

Sentiment apart buhari is a collosal failure and must be hold responsible for his utterances, he deserves all the bashing when he was parading himself like Messiah nko !!!
I hate nonsense.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Pls Who Knows This Company ( Chrisgold Consult) Inviting Me For Interview.. by nitoriolohun(m): 9:10am On Oct 12, 2020
You better don't waste your time n money. They will start by brainwashing you how useless it is to work for multinational coy and telling you working for state government or federal government is slavery.

Las las you are welcome to GNLD !!! ���
CrimeRe: Police Break The Head Of Arise TV Cameraman, Hours After The End Of SARS by nitoriolohun(m): 10:31pm On Oct 11, 2020
wemmy01:
If your parent na police or nepa or politician, hope u know say u suppose dey prayerful because on a normal, e no suppose better for u.

Or lastma ��



I stand with #endpolicebrutality
FamilyRe: Babe Rejects Birthday Gift For Sending A Wrong Gift. by nitoriolohun(m): 3:22pm On Sep 27, 2020
Young man don't build your destiny around woman.

It will end in tears.

Don't start what you are not ready for, women generally think for the moment. Plan your life n get settled when you deem fit.

Beware of ladies of choose between me and your mother, d nagging no be here

U might not live to tell the lesson. I come in peace !!!
CrimeRe: Man Calls Out A Boy Who Bought A N2M Toyota While They Live In A Dipilated House by nitoriolohun(m): 10:21am On Aug 25, 2020
BiggyB242:
Bro, that's why we have elders. Mind your business mind business na so country take spoil. There are some decision some younger folks want to take base on experience you can tell them omon don't do it this way while don't you do it that way.

I meet a guy he wanted to a buy an iPhone worth 150k I was like why don't you buy a cheaper phone, and use the remaining cash do something else and he listened. Mind you non be me give am money.
I think I now understand you better but the truth is knowledge is seek for and not dashed out.

You see this advise of a thing it's better people seek it from you than giving it out randomly because most won't appreciate advise given when not sought for

We are in a society of envy and unnecessary castigations, I still maintain my stand, that car might just be an asset for the guy and he owes no one any explanation untill he seek people's aid and come begging then one can judge and conclude that he's stupid .

God no go shame us.
CrimeRe: Man Calls Out A Boy Who Bought A N2M Toyota While They Live In A Dipilated House by nitoriolohun(m): 9:52am On Aug 25, 2020
BiggyB242:
The way you guys talk Sha, who buys that model of car for hire purchase. We all know that car is to show off.
Bros calm down, a car of 2m is not above the league of Uber fleets. And I didn't say he bought it for Uber I only mentioned what if? My point is that people should learn to mind their business when the person didn't approach them for any aid and shld not just conclude because you dnt actually know the reason for such decision.

Thinking it's for show off remains an assumption.
Dazz all��
CrimeRe: Man Calls Out A Boy Who Bought A N2M Toyota While They Live In A Dipilated House by nitoriolohun(m): 5:36am On Aug 25, 2020
Honestly this your heading is just prejudice except you can prove the purpose for the purchase of the car.

Wat if the car is on hire purchase for Uber business?
Would you rather let him use that money for renovation when the car is actually for business purpose because of the state of the house ?

The way people conclude for others is so annoying.

It is well.
FamilyRe: We May Go Our Separate Ways by nitoriolohun(m): 6:32am On Aug 19, 2020
I feel your pain brother, but firstly don't get yourself depressed. Marriage is spiritual and one can easily point the one with a wrong foundation. You have shown empathy towards your woman when she was down health wise and av tried to advise her getting a land for a secured future but I want you to be honest about this bro, Have you ever cheated on her or she suspect your are spending money on a mistress and you didn't come out clean? The truth is, if yes nothing pain a woman than that and she's just taking back her pound of flesh but if No I can say she's naturally selfish and insensitive.

Some ladies can be won with love and not with ego. Try talk to her inlove and tell her you believe she can't have money somewhere and she watches you suffer. Marriage is partnership. As I noted earlier if you are guilty about it please swallow your ego and convinced her you are for her alone and relax for awhile and watch her reaction.

Pls don't conclude the money in the account is for her but if she's honest she will mention it. And please dnt forget to pray to God to heal you and your home. Dnt give the devil a win over your family and honestly I know wat it means to be evicted from a home. I got evicted owing six months arrears June this year in my 3 bedroom apartment and currently putting up with my aunt n her family and I tell you it's never a good tale but it's just a phase and it will be over .

I pray you get a timely solution to this and your family won't be separated in Jesus name (Amen).
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by nitoriolohun(m): 1:17pm On May 03, 2020
humilitypays:
Yes you have a point, but brother let me brag small, I am a born genius. If I was a white, I am supposed to be in the league of late Albert Einstein and co.


The person you are chatting with here finished reading Physics by Abot while I was in SS1, started studying Physics, Further Maths, etc right from Junior secondary. There was no Internet in my time.

I conduct physics and chemistry experiments in my room as a Junior secondary school student. When I got to senior secondary, chemistry, physics, further maths, etc were like book of my bible stories for kids for me. I was way above my mates right from nursery school.

I was a wonder kid. I won lots of school awards growing up. I do multiplication, division of even decimal figures with my head without calculator.


I helped so many people write waec, jamb, etc and they all passed. I was just too good academically.

I read virtually anything readable; holy books, science books, newspapers, magazines, even awake I never missed any of their publications all thanks to my wonderful Jehovah Witness friends that visit regularly for Bible study then.


I hardly go out cos I was engrossed with reading anything I see. I finished oxford dictionary page to page, Bible almost.


My point is, life experiences have taught me a lot, academic degrees, paper qualifications are nothing....wisdom, intelligence, success, smartness is not by your academic degrees or qualifications.


I didn't further after my first degree cos I saw no need, I saw that academic qualifications are a waste of smart and talented people's time, so I quit but I am far more exposed, learned, knowledgeable and better than most professors.


My mates call me prof till date cos they say I am a born prof.


So you guys should quit those paper qualification crap u use to measure people's success, future and intelligence, it's foolishness
kudos bro, that man is just a bragging adult that selects for social status.
Three idiots comes to mind. Intelligent n smart people see beyond paper qualifications. People with different stories and he shld be thankful he's privileged to afford tuition of a private university for his daughter.
Smart people dnt acquire qualifications but knowledge.
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by nitoriolohun(m): 7:17am On May 03, 2020
stuffs4me:
Keep deceiving yourself.. The Op even failed to defend himself in front of the girl's dad.

The hypocrite and lazy OP should find his level and look for a fellow diploma lady like him to go and marry.

Masters no be beans..
but y ? Everything here is valued at do you know who I am ?
For the fact that op can convince the said lady for a date means he is a smart guy. Not everyone is privileged going to the university talk more of a private owned
The man shld more be concerned abt the guys maturity, intelligence,personality n his spirituality over educational qualification because it can b obtained later on.
Pastor kingsly of David christain center met his wife according to him when she was doing her master's n him with just OND without a job. My uncle married his wife with bsc with just HND.
It is the poor girl I pity for because she's the only victim I see here shld Op move on and the girl find it hard to get a responsible man. She will hate that man for life.
The Op too might just be another victim if he strong-headed marry that girl because any of his shortcomings will be linked to his educational qualification n this might affect his home.
Op success is a revenge but it's more beautiful when you dnt get successful to spite people who provoke you to work harder .
RomanceRe: Guys, Your Girlfriend Ever Bought You A Gift? If Yes, What Is It? by nitoriolohun(m): 12:18pm On May 02, 2020
Every girl is not a leech, she bought me two wristwatch on my birthday valued at 10k both. She organised a birthday party kindof for me. She knows I calcu alot n d most expensive outing was foot by her. She has done alot n most recent gift she planned with my tailor to make a senator outfit for me n d guy delivered it on the 1st of January dis year. The garment cost 16k.
I love you fijabi me and my one n only rebekita.

NB : dnt envy me if you can't cope . Only she understands.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Yahoo Boys As Lovers by nitoriolohun(m): 9:44am On Apr 29, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
Hopefully one haven't spend lavishly for you before just normal outing that why you're talking like that
Bro you gon think twice if you ain't doing it huh
I don't get you sir, spend lavishly on me so I can be convinced that yahoo is a good business. Let's not press farther sir, every man to his identity, I want to be identified with great minds like Dr ngozi iweala , seun osewa, adewunmi adeshina and other young souls that are making impact rather with financial terrorists. And sir I don't live so people can spend on me by the grace of God am FINE.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Yahoo Boys As Lovers by nitoriolohun(m): 9:11am On Apr 29, 2020
whixstan:
I wish we could all honest and stop being hypocrists
Fraud is bad
Yahoo is bad

But you make it seem as if yahoo boys are the problems this country have

With an enabling environment we can think progressively and do greater things all these boys are thinking about right now is survival

But you won't see that side

I think it's jealousy that's why you came here to create such a thread someone didn't steal from you nor did he beg you money he's just living his life and you here ranting

Your politician are busy cashing out and burning offices you didn't create a thread on it but you are here now calling yahoo boys heartless

GOD KNOWS ALL OUR HEARTS �........
Let everyone choose a path that thinks it will favour them. If you truly you know this yahoo guys you will agree with me it's beyond survival but pure greed, show off and vain glory. This guys are causing havoc for people with good intent to do business with the international community. Yahoo guys don't understand the law of nature. Success n growth is a gradual thing let them learn to b patient . If they can't get a job let them learn skills haba !!!
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Yahoo Boys As Lovers by nitoriolohun(m): 8:57am On Apr 29, 2020
Thiwalade:
You are mature because you have a value and you stuck to it.
Thanks alot and God bless you !!!
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls And Yahoo Boys As Lovers by nitoriolohun(m): 8:24am On Apr 29, 2020
Thiwalade:
While I am not in support of yahoo in any form, I prefer to say nothing about how some people want to live their lives. The most important is knowing who you are and investing in yourself. Someone like me can't do yahoo cos I rarely thrive in shady stuffs. I choose education because it is sustainable, brings respect and other opportunities over the years. Peace of mind is something I also want, enjoying your life in peace is important to me. Some enjoy living on the edge but I don't judge them. Have you ever been in a situation where you have no money and you have no food? Good qualifications but no job? Whether we like it or not, all these matter. We talk about small beginnings but what hope can a graduate collecting 20k salary have of building a house or having a car? After how many years of working will he be able to have a family, feed his parents? Though you might argue that's not the way out but what's the way out in a country like Nigeria where you've toiled all night in the University to come out with good grades only to get paid peanuts. If every graduate is paid 100k and above I believe the menace of yahoo will be very low. You'll be surprised many people love peace of mind like me. I've lost some of my girlfriends to yahoo guys but it only means there's someone better in the future who's worthy of me. One of the issues I have with them is most have misplaced priorities, some are into yahoo just to impress girls and the society. Just pray for God's favor in all you do, trust him alone no matter how much it seems like it's a long road. When God is with you, even the yahoo guys and their babes will envy you. Don't give up, trust him alone.
Mr thiwalade your points are crystal clear n I share your idea. You are really a nice guy going by your post but the truth is that most of this yahoo guy do so not out of frustration but greed.
Most of them don't even try or give it a push. A guy that has a priority won't even yahoo because it's a sin against God and a crime to humanity. Even in a sane country people still do fraud in the midst of opportunities n surport system. Any excuse to commit fraud is lame. In my second year in the university I was intimidated by a friend who did dat yahoo stuff but I maintained my identity tho really tempting but I had no interest . I laboured n God rewarded it . I was really blessed and could raise shoulders but guess what I fall and tins was as bad as bad but the zeal in me kept me and am rising back gradually n av learnt d lessons from it but still doing yahoo never crossed my path because that's not the way to go.
I mentioned my predicament because some will think it's because one is privileged but it's far from it. Life is in stages and it is always good to endure n reason along difficult moment because it's only a phase rather than b a menace to the society.
The part that talks about girls choosing a yahoo girl over a guy wit a decent livelihood.it shows their value n no sane guy deserves such. I know a girl that stopped dating a guy because he's a yahoo guy n this guy in question gives her goodies n have a nice ride and when I inquire she said I can't continue because he's lazy. I need a man that can earn frm dignity.
RomanceRe: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by nitoriolohun(m): 11:51pm On Apr 18, 2020
History555:
From the chats the guy was a classmate in the university and he resides in the east. But you know cheating starts in the mind b4 it acts out in praticals. I don't want to get to that stage so callin it off will enable her to join the guy.
bro calm down.
It's not upto calling it quit. Women naturally love attention even when they are married or inlove. I honestly frown at what your wife did but I will blame you
Your wife lacks your friendship and that's why she's teasing the guy to be reminded that she's worthy

Try n let go because apart from the part you mentioned that she's receptive to the guys wish of marrying her nothing suggest she's at the verge of cheating.

I put it to you bro, be her friend and she will gist you about the guy someday. You no fit date my babe sha ! Dat babe craze I swear she go call tell me hny I dey crush on that guy n we laugh it off.
RomanceRe: She Cheated With 3 Men, I Think I Still Have Feelings For Her. Help! by nitoriolohun(m): 10:46pm On Apr 18, 2020
A wise man once said forgive a terrorist but don't forget his name. Surrendering is also a scheme to win a war. Once a lady cheats, she has Terrorize ur Territory

To hell with I have built my world around her you can rebuild. But you try sha ! I dnt check their phones cos I dnt give a damn.

If u didn't check her phone to discover her hoeing she will continue with the game. You know what to do but u just lack guts .

Be a real MAN !!!
RomanceRe: Ok by nitoriolohun(m): 11:50am On Apr 06, 2020
Sorry bro for the pain.

you have done literally nothing wrong to love your woman n family so much that you provided for them so well when things was going well for you. As a matter of fact u obeyed God's word.

Without mincing words for you, you failed to realise that love is never enough to marry. Before settling for a partner think about her economic advantage. Her arrogance, disrespect n stubborness was there when u dated her for two years but because you thought u were either in love or believed she will change or u can endure.

See bro ! marriage is partnership n you should not feel bad when u can't carry on with the family responsibilities but yes you ought to feel concerned as a man of honour but u married a woman who has never invested in the marriage so she can choose to act anyway because she feels you will be the looser. The Bible says two are better than one so when one falls the other will help the other to stand.

You married a woman who might have asked you countless of times can u take care of me ? a question I detest so much been asked. what is the meaning of she dont want pain she dnt want stress, she wants to live a flashy life style, bro at whose expense ? A woman of economic advantage thinks above all dos bull craps.

The deed is done and won't tell you your wife is bad or you shld not fight for her but this is an eye opener. The people u really deserve are the ones that are there when you are in crises. Available for you physically,emotionally n surportive.

most women who are flashy are like cancers. Job in the Bible can relate better. They tends to be angels n caring when things are fine but demons n psychopath when things go wrong.

uncle my advise for you tho am not married but am a high chief bachelor so u can decide wat to make of my advice. Women tends to get power when you beg them in such situation they see u as a weakling 1.dnt beg her just explain things to her. 2. pray to God for direction n restoration 3. work on your emotions n see her as non existing.4. still keep giving the little u have for your children. 5. if you are a christain and you belong to a church try see your pastor n seek counsel n help.

las las if God willing your wife will come back to her senses n know her role in the marriage is to be a help meet n not a liability. she will step up her game and be responsible too but if otherwise bro you know what to do and if you dnt know lemme help u with the golden rule . YOURSELF FIRST. shalom !!!
RomanceRe: A Love Letter To My Awesome Future Husband by nitoriolohun(m): 1:43pm On Apr 05, 2020
Diary of a single sister�
He will come your way soon ok
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Christianity EtcRe: Lesson Learnt In Abejoye, Season 3. by nitoriolohun(m): 9:17am On Apr 05, 2020
Abejoye is not just another gospel movie it's a REVIVAL !!!
What I learnt are as follows :
1. Boldness : chief oluoje cud strongly make his stand about organising a crusade at the market Square even when other chiefs warn him against doing so
2.Signs n wonders : you can't be a christain without a sign n power to dominate.still on oluoje, he could exercise that power when the daughter was in crisis (epilepsy). He demonstrated the power he believed in n there was a miracle. This signs shall follow those who believe,in my name they shall cast out demons ...
3.Always flee : This is all about bamidele n her mistress. bamidele is willing to give up on his adulterous way but he didn't do much. Giving attention, energy n consideration to her makes him give in the second time after confessing to his wife. The devil really used that against him no wonder the Bible says we shld flee away from every appearance of evil
4.Forgive n ignore if u can't forget : The truth is, as much as we try n walk in the spirit the flesh still manifest. one of the reason bitterness was much on laide is just that the pains of bamideles failure to his marital vows couldn't be forgotten even though he's been forgiven thus laide was quick to anger. Shalom !!!

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