Youngjohnosas:
Ibo kwenu u guys will always rant. don't know Wat u meant my remanants of snails and others but whatever unruly message u r trying to pass ur region is far messed up and backward than u can imagine.

Ewwww! Even the first son given to a witch coven have a say!

enshi:


Well you have a point... I still can't beleiev how i got her to confess to me

That wasn't a confession, she is just too real. She is 22, if you don't wife her, better chances are at her feet.You are not a do-die affair to her you know.

[[s]quote author=Boss13 post=77706045]I have read about some many sad tales on Nairaland about marriages and I have seen similar pitfalls. Please note that my post is from a man’s view and does not aim to bring down women. I am also posting this because many young men do not get solid advice on how to pick their partners.

It is only when you get married that you begin to understand marriage. However, young men, if you adhere to some of the advices below, you will avoid some marital pitfalls and approach marriage from a logical point of view.

No 1 - Never marry for love. Love should never be the underlying factor to marry a woman. Why - marriage is a long term commitment for the foreseeable future. Love is an emotional situation and just like every other emotions, love comes and goes. There would be days and even months, that your partner irritates and disgust you. If love is the main reason you marry, young man, you would be heading for the divorce court.

No 2 - Never marry a single mother. What ever you do, never ever marry a single mother. Don’t start your family with another man’s family. Start your family brand new. I would love to explain this fully, but it would make this post longer.

No 3 - Assess and conduct proper due diligence on your future in-laws. Know your in-laws properly. Know their source of livelihood. Ensure your future in-laws are doing financially well as well as the siblings of your future wife. You will not enjoy your marriage when excessive financial burdens fall on you. Except you are excessively wealthy, which I doubt as a young man starting off life, and you have a big heart as well as a big house, don’t marry a woman where you cannot verify her family income.

No 4 - Don’t marry a lady from a broken home. Many women will paint a story of not leaving their marriage because they are from a broken home. However, please note these women do not have the knowledge, opportunity or privilege to be in a stable household. Many of them did not see their mothers adore and respect their fathers. Many only get to hear about negative information of their fathers. These are the first set of women to leave their marriage when things take a downward spin. If you want to have an idea of how your wife would treat you, look at how her mother behaves or treat her father and if the father is not around, this is a huge risk.

No 5 - Never marry for beauty. I don’t need to explain this so much. Beauty fades as one age and even if it doesn’t, beauty becomes inconsequential during marriage. Behavioral attitude matters a lot. At some point, your wife’s beauty becomes non existent and you begin to see her as an individual and not because she is beautiful.

No 6 - Assess your future wife’s friends and those who influence her. Women are largely insecure. Many rely on the advices of their friends, family, or spiritual leaders to make decisions. You have to assess the character of the person who has a major influence on your future wife. You have no choice on this because this individual would be running your home from his/her own location. If the individual is of no good and your future wife cannot cut ties, don’t marry such a woman. If the individual is of good standing, befriend such individual.

No 7 - Polygamous home - if the father of your future wife do not have a strong influence over his large family, run away.

No 8 - Never marry for food or sex. These are things a man with good income can easily get. Don’t let this form an opinion for selecting a wife. As you age, your sex drive dwindles down. Also, you get preoccupied with other more important things. For food, we can all agreed many of us eat out either due to the job or recreational purposes. Furthermore, food and sex do not define a man. If this is why you want to get married, think again.

No 9 - Never marry an illiterate, semi-educated or poorly educated woman. This is actually because of your kids. Women play a pivotal role for the early development of kids. An educated smart woman would raise smart kids.

No 10 - Never marry a prostitute. We get to hear prostitutes make fine wives. I wonder the foolish set of people who pushed the agenda. A prostitute has no regards for her body and health. She is highly materialistic and considers money to be her ONLY master. Prostitutes have served a wide range of different men and are only with men for money. A prostitute would marry you for the financial security you bring. She would be the first to sleep with your friends when that financial security no longer exist. She also may continue to indulge in her sexual escapades whilst married because she enjoys the thrills.[/quote[/s]]

Fallacies. Marriage got no manual. What you see in it is what you get. Change remains constant.

[quote author=nagastat post=78085713]While this is sad, a life lost.

But from precedents and antecedents, the victim is most likely igbo, the victim's definition of progress is to make money not minding the societal cost. You can make money selling fake, substandard and even real prohibited or non prohibited stuff just to make money not minding the effect of your venture/ commodity,/ business.
Nobody- African, European, etc... Would watch you denigrate their ward without malice.

There's jungle justice everywhere.
Yanmmiiirrrinnn on yanmmiiirrrinnn crime is large.
Of there are instances of high handedness from the authorities.
Fair though as it is better to kill a cockroach by any means necessary as per time and chance.

One less yanmmiiirrrinnn to worry about.

Cursed tribe of Nigeria.

Yanmmiiirrrinn



Its easy to spot a bastard birthed from incest.

During my days in Benin, winch those days dey use straw suck students blood.

[[s]quote author=Excaperx post=78080232] you stayed and school in a place for 5 years and still have mind to talk Ill about the place?

If Edo state is worse place as you described, that means your place of origin is cursed since there is no good university for you to study[/quote[/s]]

Osaz, free the babe. She talk true.

Jokerman:
So in your edoism mind, only Benin is in Edo??

Why not show us Okada, Ekiadolor, Auchi etc??

Him no fit try am Na. Him never reach ikpobs hill . He is just uploading GRA, federal buildings and ring road

Stupid op

Chimaokigwe:


It is one by one.

We are doing it in Trade Fair, Computer village. Alaba is in the works.

Let me hear an Igbo man call Lagos no man's land.

NO MAN'S LAND!

GrabHisBalls:
You haven't watched shIt! Go watch Regina Daniels or one of those your locals abeg, GOT isn't for kids. Bye!

If only you know this people you quoted spends more time masturbating than fornicating .
The op was busy calling his "mom " and "dad" all through his conversation

I have four cars and my blood dey trek go work? I must be stupid to do with that.Can I drive 4 cars at once No!

Edo state has good road network but its a very mediocre state. Many ugly untarred roads. GRA looks like an average street in surulere. Very poor drainage system and very little rain can fload half the whole city.

Sorcery evidences on every nook and cranny of the city is usually an eyesore. From the remnants of snails to the mutilated bodies of tortoises. For a state so fetish, I'd expect atleast 14 hours supply if light, the worst is going home and meeting darkness EVERYWHERE at night. Its Terrible.

Bi-polar.
Tito needs very good pyschatric attention or in a more mild term, she needs therapy. Churchill was a big mistake that never could have happened and that thought is ravaging her... She loved him then but what she feels now is growing recentment and hate.I dont think she is jealous of him, she feels cheated that she fell and gave almost all affections to the wrong man. Her son continues to be a deep reminder, she loves her son but loves MORE the fact that keeping him away from Churchill will hurt him more... Sometimes when you begin to hate what you once love, it can be a quite obsessive.
My advice

Stay off social media. Close all accounts for now. Be scarce... Feature in a good movie. A good one documentary one that talks about The Girl-child delinquents....
Reshuffle your friends.
Engage in something time consuming. She can be an actress and also feature in int'l NGO program where she can also get paid or be a volunteer.
Make peace with her ex, he should get visit rights.
Travel more, talk less.
Read, pray, love and dance. Life goes on.


Fall in love again, a much older guy who commands outmost respect.

The only reason why she is yet to harm herself is because she is taking it out on everyone.

Yorubas again? This tribe wey dey use shit plaster wall?!

The woman should expect a half spirit half human step Children.

PSTEMMA1960:
thanks sir, when I was in Benue I do worship there......but currently I'm in Abj..

Much better....
Come to the branch in Abuja, Behind NHIS Utako Abuja.

Lol. You just f! Ck up! Now they will be talking about marriage so they can have a "Real" baby.

ghettochild4u:

Where e dey so when I visit naija...I go just go for prayer ooo

Which branch?

ghettochild4u:

I concur

I will advice he joins as Pastors on training.He will go through so many sacrifices of the flesh, but he will be covered and deliverance will come eventually. Its not magic in Greater Liberation City, deliverance is slow but sure.I'm a catholic but I don't joke with that church.

PSTEMMA1960:
Thanks sir, in fact when I was in Benue I visited a branch of libration city church the pastor then at that time Pastor Unique Israel called me out and gave me accurate prophecies.

He told me that very soon I was going to experience positive change in my life......I was happy because I never met him b4 then.....he told me my name, the village and where I have worked.....

But 2 years after still no change.....(though I haven't giving up) I may likely visit the head qtrs once I am financially fit....

Go back to Dr Chris okafor ministries. GO BACK!!!Visit the following branch where their resident pastors have more grace. Abuja Branch -Pastors kelvin. Lokoja-Pastor shedrach, Onitsha Branch, most especially Abuja Branch.Visit Abuja branch and try to join as Pastors on training if you can, its not going to be easy BUT your deliverance will come. Many of their pastors you see today came from worst family than yours.

PSTEMMA1960:
Sir pls u not need to be upset, u can still help me if u are willing......

Don't change ur mind because of what someone who doesn't know u said about u....(prove them wrong)

I've even called ur line but it was off....

You're under an age long ancestral curse. And you need very serious deliverance. I have witness several cases like yours and trust me, its not going to be easy but you can change. More than 30% of genuine men of God I know comes from your kind of foundation. They break out and that's why I will employ you to visit greater Liberation city. That's what they do majorly. That's their gift there.... Altar for Altar deliverance and curses. Which state are you presently?

PSTEMMA1960:
Thanks sir, in fact when I was in Benue I visited a branch of libration city church the pastor then at that time Pastor Unique Israel called me out and gave me accurate prophecies.

He told me that very soon I was going to experience positive change in my life......I was happy because I never met him b4 then.....he told me my name, the village and where I have worked.....

But 2 years after still no change.....(though I haven't giving up) I may likely visit the head qtrs once I am financially fit....

Go back to Dr Chris okafor ministries. GO BACK!!!Visit the following branch where their resident pastors have more grace. Abuja Branch -Pastors kelvin. Lokoja-Pastor shedrach, Onitsha Branch, most especially Abuja Branch.

Old news!
Nigerian police is for lunatics who suffer low self esteem.

LANDLORD72:
NIGERIAN GIRLS.

1. At 14, they are the fine sweet teens.

2. At 16, they wanna roll with older ones. It's fun being the new hottie in the group.

3. At 18, they probably have had 1st sex.
They cling to this one guy & talk all about how they won't leave the guy.

4. At 20, they might be at the University. They make new male friends & slowly lose interest in
the former guy.

5. At 22, they make friends with girls who wear more expensive clothes & who also date expensive guys. These set of girls use porsh phones, so they get intimidated & need to join
the elite school girls league.

6. At 24, they are now porsh! They now roll with rich male friends who they scam & take
money from for mere sex. At this point, if a random guy chats her up, she might snub! If you ask her phone no, she makes you feel like a stalker.
They prefer guys who actually want to spend a fortune on them.

7. At 26, the trend continues...fun, porsh &
money remains the keywords because she has changed her mindset & increased the standards she wants in a man, money.

8. Between 26 - 28, she is a maid of honour for her friends.

9. At 29, none of those guys proposed...

10. At 30, night vigils, adoration ground & Shiloh...

11. At 32, the same girl who refused giving phone nos to some serious guys goes to
Linda Ikeji's blog & posts " Hi am Stephanie, am 32 & searching for a serious relationship.
Call me on 0810000000800

12. At 35, morning cry...

13. At 40, God why

My dear receive sense now.....and stop slaying.

#copied

And a man at 40 without a roof over is head is called what? Do you know how many hopeless men roaming the streets these days? Suffer and regrets is not gender specific. Stop making fun of peoples misfortune.

Some men are just plain silly.He could have cause a dissolution of marriage.

GreatResearcher:
I'll keep a girl I bleeped with 10naira if she has what I need in a woman.


Hunger might be the reason for her action.

See, we still have good girls alive. Just that situations sometimes make crayfish bend.

I have seen a girl who sleeps with another man just to get money and pay her boyfriend's house rent.

That act doesn't make the girl a hoe

You're a COMPOUND FO`OL!You can advice your sister to get laid to pay someones rent.Anu!

ceasarpoetic:
if it has not happened to u, u won't understand,had a similar experience of rentin a house for a girlfriend (3yrs relationship) only to find out she was bringing a guy to sleep in the house. confronted her & she claimed the guy was a relative untill I caught Dem unaware cuz my informant was the compound. it was painful, bed I bought someone was lashing my girl. I burnt the bed & some of the belongings and broke up with her. at least not worst like this guy.

You're a fool.

Emceesaka:


God forbid

Emceesaka:


Olosho graduate una dey produce from the Yeast part.

Yet una dey come yeast come marry them

Emceesaka:


By the special Grace of God, Your Olosho sister skull will be harvested in Jesus name. I trust my people, they can't disappoint me. Ndi araa

I trust your people more...By Gods grace she will be done by the time your kinsmen are almost through with thorough family incest.

MCMLXXVI:


You're very correct - A Yoruba man would stand there like the bloody coward he is as they taser his wife. Then, after her death, he would mine her skull and use it for rituals. Nice.

You is brutal
Jesu mimo!

Good one!
A carton of budsweiser to my goon!Dont care the fuuucking tribe.Nigger got me nodding with pride here.