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people people , nothing is going on. Thank thank you, u can now post and focus on the topic itself.

@tope5000 welldone ku ise.

@maray na wa for u o , untop say i don beg u to stop and let the issue die down.

you guys should also try to stay on topic and stop trying to fuel the drama, abeg whoever is deleting the off topic posts should please continue to do so jare, i support it in this case.

hollandis:
Well success means different things to different peeps
for example you defined it from an entirely parochial and myopic angle .The question wasn't targeted at you ,it was asked contextually olufofo

Okay o adeofofo

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=281339.msg3998380#msg3998380 date=1244534366]that's why I was asking what the definition of good vs bad was.
of course if the guy knows he can get as many girls as he wants he will go for it and that's how he becomes bad (if bad means guys who mess around). In this case, the guy is taking advantage of the unsuspecting girl

I agree with u[/quote]Oyinda u impress me with ur deductive ability,

Your statements which i highlighted is exactly the same thing that i was talking about.

1. Any guy can be a very good toaster whether or not he's good or bad.

2. A bad guy by definition is any guy who realises that he's good at toasting and then decides to use that talent to take advantage of unsuspecting girls.

3. Hence it means being bad does not imply being better at toasting than the good guy, instead it only shows that he bad guy is irresponsible for deciding to use his talent for evil. While the good guy who is likewise good or even better at toasting decides to stick with his babe and chooses not to use his talent to take advantage of other girls.

hollandis:
and what is your idea of success

Having money off course, duuurrh

FL Gators:
I grew where I was not supposed to grow, so I loffed wearing my jacket

@@N2A
Thanks jare

@Ogidi
Where you dey go, I dey wait o

Always a naughty girl

@oyinda

I understand ur grievance against whitelexi, i don't support the guy either (cus i don't support womanisers myself), but i think its better to let that episode remain closed, in other not to open fresh wounds for those involved.

gram:
because the good guys are bad toasters and the bad guys are good liars

There is nothing brilliant about the response. Who is feeding u people this kind of simplistic view of male/female interaction.

Its one thing to assume, its another thing to actually believe the hype, Please stop believing the hype and spreading untrue rumours.

- A guy is either a good toaster or he's not.
- It has nothing to do with whether or not he's good or bad.
- a guy can be a good toaster and yet decided to stick with only one lady at a time, instead of using his toasting skills to wreck innocent ladies.

Don't you realise that some of the so called bad guys actually started out good, hence inference is hopelessly flawed at its foundation. Cus simply put, ur statement is a self fuffilling prophecy, considering that ur some bad guys actually started out as good guys and only ended up being bad because they choose to use their skills for something sinister. Abeg don't u see the generalisation. The toasting skills of bad guys was not acquired by virtue of being bad, instead it was already there in the first place, and it is what enables them to become bad.

Most[b] good guys [/b]choose to be good, not by lack of talent downstairs and upstairs but rather by personal choice or personal experiences. Infact in most cases, the best toasters are usually the ones that people would generally mistake for being good.

OgidiBoy:
ewwww nasty

Wat is nasty   don't u fart or are u too classy to fart

aciddrop pls follow the procedure, Don't worry you would be showered with kisses, stalkers and roses once the result comes out declaring you the winner.

Just try and follow the procedure listing at most 10 people, you can include yourself at most once.

JeSoul:
My sister I don't 'think', I know it is the only truth. But that discussion is for a whole nother thread.

Jesoul i just gbadun u, that was a good and straight to the point answer

FL Gators:
LOL, amI not?
Dayo said "You're big. I never thought you were that big". rotfl, so you see. . .

Don't mind Dayo maybe he was talking about something else being big , u are not fat my dear.

Hence any attempt to be fat would be met with violent public response and that is a military order

why the heck would u want to get fat,  what is it with people and fat sef,


@FLGators u better not even think about getting fat or else am going to divorce u publicly

davidylan:
As at present? - Diva1

So Diva1 is ur new crush.

David lets try and follow the rule , cus am tired of everyone posting different people at different times. Let's make this a democracy and try to force the moderator to do as suggested in my procedure above. Cus its getting boring hearing different names here and there popping up.

Enough of this hottest chick thing already. This thread is getting too long and off topic.



Moderator should please do the following:
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1. Collate the names of the candidates (check the procedure below for how to collate names by using the swear word filter process to chk each post and pick usernames automatically)

2. Setup the voting booth for nairalands to vote in anonymity (without multiple votes) once a list of 10 people has been drawn up from step 1.

3. Set a target date and time for start and closing of the vote.

4. Release the result of the vote.



Procedure
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Starting from now onwards for the next 1 week, everybody should please list a number of ten people that they think should be voted for amongst the hottest chicks in nairaland. The order of listing is irrelevant for now. Each and every person's 10-chick list is meant to just allow the Moderator determine all possible candidates that each of us has in mind so as to choose at most 10 people (by order of popularity) out of all those possible candidates posted by each person, so that the whole of nairaland would now vote for those 10 people picked according to popularity. The moderator later on setup another voting and non-posting thread strictly for the purpose of voting and nothing more.

Note please ladies are allowed to include themselves in the list at most once.
Guys are not allowed to include themselves in the list.

This is serious people so lets get to work. chop chop, people.

@poster

It is obvious you love the girl, hence the feeling of hurt that you possess is driving you to talk about it on a public forum. However as a man, I would advise you to please move on considering that assuming you are right that she left you for someone richer, then i must congratulate you that it actually happened sooner not later. She obviously has contentment issues and has her head in the skies. All men start from broke to not broke, how early we get to the not broke point in life is what is different.

Trust me, one of the best way to test women and weed out the gold diggers from the lovey-dovey ones is[b] to actually pretend to be broke and actually try to get on her nerves by pretending to be completely broke when u are not[/b]. Hence in reality u have been saved from the agony of settling down with a woman that has her head in the skies.


Reality is that:

1. Ladies choose men either for love or money or sex or a combination of all factors. Hence it means:

   - If u have money but can't satisfy her sexually, then some ladies would leave you not matter what.
   - If u can satisfy her sexually but do not have money, then some other ladies would also leave you no matter what.
   - If u have money, good in bed but show no love or loyalty towards her whatsoever, then some ladies would leave you no matter what.

 This my friend is where the character of the woman in questions comes into play. Some women are willing to compromise on some of the issues listed above. Others are simply not willing to do so.   Hence why it is not advisable to toast or claim to be in a relationship with just anyone in skirt. you have to be careful who you fall in love with.  Yes there are attractive/beautiful woman around, nevertheless its not all of them that are partner material whether in the short term or longterm. Cus beauty and attractiveness is most times mutually exclusive to perseverance.

Thus as a man it is your responsibility to do the heavy-lifting of studying her, even testing her just to see her reaction under unfavourable circumstances.



2. Hence the issue here is that, ask yourself the following questions:

  - Did she really ever tell you she loved you or did she tell you she liked you. Love and like are not the same thing my brother.
  - How old is she, is she of marriagaeble age or just still a glorified teenager getting her grove on.
  - How did you meet and approach her and win her over. Did you win her over by flaunting all your shiny-shiny or did you win her over cus you guys were actually attracted to each other on a fundamental level.


3. It is fucking rare in this time and age of bling bling to actually find a woman that would love you for you and sincerely stick with you until you are able to get your act together. So i would also advise you to also save the ladies a little bit of agony by getting your act together before embarking on a relationship. Otherwise you stand further risk of getting ur heart ripped out by bling-diggers  


4. Finally please you too should try and get your act/shit together by seeking to be more comfortable than those guys she left you for.  As they say, you can lose money by chasing women, but certainly can't lose women by chasing money.

Adios Amigos

i have tried to wrap my head around it but i simply can't. How the heck does a man find another man attractive enough to have sex. Which biological hole are they using for goodness sake. don't tell its the same one that shit is coming out of.

Sometimes i think some of the so called Homos and Gay are just sexually frustrated ladies or guys that either have sexual organ inferiority complex or something or can't get laid to save their own lives.

Otherwise i still can't comprehend how someone would see Eve and yet choose to dig Steve


@michelin89

i think NL needs to find someone to love u enough to take those gay thoughts out of ur head.

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JeSoul:
wow 19 pages

I just got caught up on all the entries and thanks to all who've voiced their support or disgust  . It has taken many twists and turns not too far from the topic but I've enjoyed reading the very spirited discourse.

  Binna may have given me the answer I was looking for. He said and I paraphrase:
[b] Strictly spiritually speaking, People are not born gay, but they are born with the potential to be gay.[/b]

Just as some are born with the potential to be unnecessarily Hot

Just as some are born with the potential to be unnecessarily adulterous

in short

Everyone is born with the potential to be a sinner.


So Gayners and Homos should please stop all the excuse of genetics, its all about environment and choice.

oyb u better no let ur wife catch u say u dey chk out spiky, u are on ur own i no go help u beg like last time o

dayokanu:
N2A,

So na you wan carry Gators go for tonight? How many u wan pursue sef

Everybody that can fit in my baggage compartment.

@outstrip

By the way wats with your profile picture sef, u be married woman now, so why are u still advertising waterlemons.

dayokanu:
hmmm

Gators na wa oh

Peroxide on one side, N2A for the other

Dayo u just watch me as i dey carry Gators dey go, hope the bribe was sweet sha.

@Gators

who the hell is peroxide , make he vamose make i no acidify his ass .

Outstrip:
Kelly Rowland is definitely dark skinned. There is not a spot of light on her. It s hard for you to accept because fair skinned equals beauty to you. She has never been light. In fact she used to be darker than she is not. She has had a nose job, boob job and brghtened her skin a little but she s even still dark and it looks good on her

1. Wats ur own sef , did someone send u to destroy my fantasy (just kidding  ).

2. I know about the boob (hence why i keep commenting negatively about it). If it is true she has had a nose job, skin lightening treatment then she just lost my respect and attraction, simply because i don't do fake women.

3. How many times do i have explain to you that[b] i do not equate light skin with beauty[/b], its just my preference that my babe must be lighter than i am , even if just a little shade lighter (i am not that dark either so don't get it twisted).

If it is true that I equated light skin with beauty then why the heck do u think I have a problem with Beyonce, Halle Berry and White women in general in terms of beauty.

4. Kelly Rowland without all the artificialities that you have mentioned is light enough for me, the kind of dark-skin that i don't like is the Alek Wek kind of dark skin, cus that is certainly darker than i am. And i don't do ladies that are darker than i am.

Wayo Wayo , no ves me make i no report you to your husband o.

Okay confession time.

1. Alek Wek is average in beauty

2. Alek Wek actually looks better than Ataui Deng, hence i don't see what all the fuss about Deng is.

3. @Gators u got me.