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Ladybee307:
Hi, I am Lady Bee: a wife (met my husband here, story for another day in another room !), mother, teacher, virtual assistant (both home and abroad), life coach, broadcaster(OAP), biographer, freelancer, content writer, community developer, data scientist and artificial intelligence enthusiast.

I started out early by going to school like everyone and I did studied a course of my choice; looking back now, I discovered that the Nigerian-System needs us all to make it better. MY bitter-sweet job hunt experience were elucidated below with lessons extracted:

1. Survival:
The first thing you need to do is to get the earliest job that will put food on your table, have a time frame in mind and work hard towards savings. This job should be within your locality so as to eliminate the cost of transportation or you relocate near your office.

Shared apartment is needed at this level (I shared accommodation with an aunt whom I was responsible to; she even screened my suitors before endorsing MY NAIRALAND HUBBY; !).

2. Development:
I worked in this survival mode for 5 years (patience is the key), but I did so many trainings (free and paid) and that is why I can tell you that I am into so many things. I got married and we had a son , things were obviously becoming better till my husband's investments CRASHED (story for another day , he came back stronger and better anyways )!

I kept on developing myself and here I am today... every year I make sure that I get trained on at least a thing (EVEN IN THIS COVID -19 YEAR !).


3. Lunching Out:
Create a job (solve at least a problem in the society)

This level is not for cowards, but strong willed individuals; lunch out to make your dreams come true; leverage on your contacts during your developmental phase, have mentors who have similar goals as yours and have made a level of achievement ahead of yours.

Service rendering is key: I started virtual assistance job free of charge and I can tell you that during the LOCKDOWN, I earned over 100k assisting friends and family with clerical jobs from my small apartment.


4. Do not give up, THE SUN SHALL SOON SHINE!

#welcometothefuture
I am ladybee307 (felt like saying " I AM James bond 007" )

Do have a fulfilling 2021

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TransAtlanticEx:
The real question is,
Are financially stable men looking for you to marry or to sleep with?
Before you insult me or broke shame me,pleaseknow that I am very very comfortable and as such wouldn't look at a 30year old woman in Nigeria twice for marriage.
The earlier you all understand this the better for you.
Unless you are very lucky but no big man marries women that aren't in their youth no more.
I mean who get that time to dey jump from one fertility clinic to the other or seeing your old skin almost everyday in the name of marrying old woman and worse still upon all my money?
Never!!!Better marry that poor guy and brush him up with your funds,else na 35 year spinster go clear you

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Fuckingmallam45:
Habits you should stop doing immediately

Stop pleasing everyone. Follow your own convictions, NOT what others expect from you.
Stop pampering yourself. Growth is found OUTSIDE your comfort zone.

Stop being distracted. We are the most distracted generation in history. No FOCUS, no results.

Stop relying on others. Your mama won’t save you anymore. NOTHING is free in life. Take accountability for your future.

Stop expecting instant satisfaction. Patience, PERSISTENCE and perspiration are your best friends.

Stop relying on motivation to act. Create the daily HABITS that will lead to achieving your goals.

Stop abusing your body. Eat HEALTHY, and you will look healthy, feel healthy and think healthily. Eat junk and you will feel like junk.

Stop surrounding yourself with negative people. We can’t change people, but we CAN change the people that we surround ourselves with.
Stop resisting change. Staying stuck in the past has PAINFUL consequences.

Stop fearing failure. If you are not failing, you are not trying HARD enough.

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useless country

AfroKnight:
Correct.

All you have to pay is child support which I’m willing to do for my child.

Marriage is no longer attractive these days cos women have turned it into a financial decision rather than a union meant for companionship.

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JamesReacher:
GOAT !!!!!!
Like for Ronaldo
Share for Messi
Ignore for Neymar

I love neymar Jr. he is an entertainer

Anyi3:
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or click on reply at the bottom of this topic

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I hope he has invested enough for his retirement, before he will start begging like other Nigerian footballers before him, when he retires, blaming government for not taking care of him.

whenever I see newly recruited Nigerian army posting with their uniform on social media, I see it as an obituary picture. I just feel for them.

that's why I dey fear to marry

I know that lamp

I love him. what a strong speedy striker !

4:3:3

I will load the whole money in my bet9ja account,
and it will be generating at least 150,000(15%) returns every month. in seven months time i have already double the initial investment.

God has left churches long ago.

great

u r definitely writing to me.
am really depressed since a week ago. I lost what I laboured for in my business. I try to console myself but it seems not working. am starting all over again !
but after analysing the situation, found out that if I was able to make all that from nothing , I think am well placed to do even more from the connection I have built. but still depressed. though I know time will heal me.

if u r staying around any tertiary institutions
opening a business centre will be OK.( photocopying, typing, internet services, etc)

good for u. u said u can't marry Igbo man. now see ur life.

aru !

apply them to Nigerian economy and bring recession to an end.

I love you great football legend.

I love great football legend.

that was how we suffered but thank God is over now .

ride on my President.