₦airaland Forum

Well Oga, just pray she doesn't like the dude's suya more than yours sir

One needs to rise above ethnocentrism and state facts irrespectives of whose toes you step into. Not easy to be politically correct here, you're not a tribalist at all(poster}, its an observable fact and I have noticed that too. I think the Igbo culture frown at unmarried woman of age more than the Yoruba culture would and so, to Igbo women,getting married,out ways every other consideration. Again, because of cultural differences, Yoruba men are more likely to marry Igbo women and appreciate them more than Igbo men would to Yoruba women. Remember, we're tlking about marriage, not dating

How do you advice a kid who's playing adult role? Oga, culture or no culture, you need to take your wife & kids and go anywhere u want to and stay there alone, yor're mixing up your very own responsibilities. Anyone who comes to your house, mom or dad included, is a visitor and should be treated that way.Temporary stays by family members is ok. Your wife deserves a complete and unconditional freedom and a relaxed atmosphere in her own house, nothing short of that will do. Your PRIMARY RESPONSIBILY should be to take care of her and your 2kids and be protective of them, period. Other things can follow after that and I wish you well my friend.

So much for a peaceful religion, so sad. They've demostrated beyond doubt that that religion at its founding is filled with violent, that's an observable fact.

I wish him well

No one will force you to do anything you don't want to, just be very polite at all time. The worst thing you want to do at present will be to abandon your work and be dependant on someone else, don't do that, be strong. You can turn these ugly hostile work environment,I think that's what it is, to your very own advantage. People go through bigger obstagles and barriers in the lenght of their carriers, that's real world and real life. you cannot quit each time you hit a bump, confront it with plannings and win like you'll win this one.

I believe CV means certificates, plese give it to her, don't see any complications here, friends do help friends get jobs. God luck

Read again & again these advices especially from Omosexy1 and Chiteny, I think they covered it all. She's not even protecting herself, what a deceitful rot.

Was she kissing you before or just stoped, what's going on? ask her dude. Cleaniness is universal and so, what's up? I was in Niger for xmas, and believe me, I saw things. I'm not saying you're part of that at all but, remember,it's not only women that takes care of themselves. You have to be mindful of general cleaniness like grooming, flossing which is even more important than brushing and be attractive for her too. Women like to be extremely close, like falling inside you even when they're not thinking of sexx.

Wow, I can only immagined how uneasy you'll feel around him and office. Tell him and,don't be scared or embarassed, you have nothing to loose, how uncomfortable you're with all that unsolicited attentions and continue to look for another job like you don't have any, even if he stops. Remember,no one wins anything with angers, so, let your plans & strategy, guide you here and I wish you well.

Its never easy loosing one's parent, lots and lots of memories. Be comforted knowing your mom's in a better place, ok. May her soul rest perfectly with God,Amen

Plus sized,yep!!

Everyone needs someone

How sad poster! Patriotism, I believe is the devotion to one's contry. If Allah wants you to be patriotic, it means he wants you to be devoted to your own contry. You can still support whoever you want, don't think is a sin, disappointed maybe

Yep, domestic abuse noo good

Funny indeed!You became fond of him and goes to his office after school, Yep, I believe for more academic advice, I de Lafooo. You know what's up and I think you're here looking for support and you have mine. What you have is all yours to share with any body you want, assuming you're not married. So, please,go and have fun, there is no law against two adult sharing what they have, even in Niger. Good luck

Madam jennykadry, Did you say you're confused? Nawaoo! I think so too. You would have made it into one of those Niger comedy clubs but, your incompetence has deprive you of the ability to recognize your own incompetence, a typical know-it-all Niger woman, how sad. May be this is not the 1st time you're hearing it but, you do not have a good enough sense of humor to be funny. Your brain has been deceiving you into overestimating your own intelligence. Only dumb people criticize something they do not understand. All these may be an exercise in futility because you've shown you're too naive or stu pid to understand.

Madam Jennykadry,I de lafooo! "It's serious not to be growing, but its even more serious when we do not recognise that this is so" That was from Dr. Willis. So, you really believe this channel is a place you come to tell lies and transmit your deceitful behavior? Well, you're not just wrong, you're dead wrong. lying, or explicit misrepresentation of self here in Nairaland or elsewhere, is a subset of deceit. There is one good thing that comes out of all this, Nairalanders are in high level of consciousness about who you're. Madam Jennykadry, I pray thay your real self will continue to manifest itself and your deceitful behaviors drys up. What a fake, so sorry for the man you call husband. But then, you may be lying too

Madam Dominion247, nawaoo! You're extremely confrontational and enjoy bickering,challenging people with the illusion that you have upper hand. Your confrontational attitude is causing problem and so,you should be asking yourself what you might be doing wrongly. Most people cannot smell their own breath even though its right under their nose. Take the advice people like Joanna Sadley and others are giving you in good faith and be very humble. Humility is the quality of being modest and respectful expecially to your parents and not reaching for what is beyond your grasp and I sincerely wish you well.

Madam Jennykadry,Nawaoo! Your misinformation about subjects you're not qualify to give can be fun to read and even funny. Sometimes, people like you do damaging things without knowing it. A typical Niger home braker, you've been parading yourself here as a happily married woman but, I don't believe you. In your desire to get appreciated, your abrasive behaviour shows itself, so sad. Madam Know-It-all, at least you have this unique ability, learning just enough about the advice you give to sound conversant in it, how else can one define evil? The advice you gave to people here can be very annoying at best and dangerous at at its worst expecially coming from someone who merely crave for attention. I know you don't see yourself as a liar but, I don't believe anything you say here. Cut it

Lots of fakes, don't b fooled

Wow! Lots of fakes in Niger

I cannot believe the advices I'm reading here. I don't normally mention names but, Jennykadry, STOP giving inresponsible advices,it's very troubling.You cannot just trow words around insousiantly, unconcerned about the danger of such advices. The man maybe very flippand in how and what he says to his wife but, how in the world did you interprete all that to mean his wife, troubleSoul's worthless when infact, it can mean the opposite.TroubleSoul,I know what your husband says hurts expectially coming from a love one,but it's all in how you carry it that matters. Your husband is one of those people that says things without thinking but, he's not evil. Please, don't let some people here with brains stuffed with cotton destroy your marriage. You have a far better husband than most here will ever dreamt of and I wish you well

I de lafooooo