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Donaldduke2019:
Lolzzzzzz.....Please remind me

This my yeye brain don forget

lolzx...... first two letters of the place SH.....last word E

Donaldduke2019:
Am doing great dear

Am coming 2 ur crib 2 chop enof Christmas rice oo

kikikiki. you are forever welcome......buh dont forget where you will be taking me to afterwards oo...

Donaldduke2019:
Nobodys happy new month

happy December dear...
how are you doing

awwn. I love d song. it will certainly blow especially in warri.... ..
proud warri babe. we are fresh like fresh fish for Banga soup. kikiki... I love efe's spirit....

Belafonte:
. You're an internet nobody. What you say has very little bearing with the realities of life. Okay, let's try this, only brain-dead bîtches think they can have an opinion on how guys respond to news they are expecting children. So easy. Yet, so insignificant banal and useless.


You don't say. No wonder.


Duh. Skin-to-skin feels so much better and more pleasurable. What are you, a virgin?

you can make a valid argument or sentence without indirect insults dear...... well my question to you is.
will you freak out if the girl you have been smashing tells you shez pregnant!??..... Will you be scared of what to tell your parents??

jaksmillioniar:
na small girl shes not matured

talking indirectly to me...when u can just simply mention me and say it....that's a form of cowardice dear. and I bet u won't say what you just said if you see me face to face.....gudnyt....switdrims.

ubunja:
u not in the mood for debate THEN U GO AHEAD AND DEBATE
what is it with girls on Nairaland and trying to sound special

lolz. I was not trying to sound special though. was just tired as at then......

makydebbie:
Phew!

Judging by the circumstances around the story, this isn't rape. Don't allow your emotions to cloud your reasoning.

dear... no Judge will take circumstances as an excuse...if her story is true then that is confirmed rape cause of consent......Biko some rape victims might be reading through these threads And these words only discourages them for standing for themselves....it's not easy to speak up I can tell you that for sure.....you will never understand rape until u are in the situation..... so let no be no. forget circumstances......

fuckpro:
...you must be new to this forum have you been formally received by the welcoming committee

sorry buh am not new here.

brosci:
The lady had better be ready for what is coming for her. She will have a whole lot of explanation to give in court. I bet she doesnt knw how lawyers twist cases. At the end of this all she's going to lose and may spend some time behind bars because her story betrayed her already and trust me when i tell u that she didnt say the whole truth in her write up.

You visited a guy and willingly agreed to pass the night with him.
You willingly allowed him cuddle and touch you in an intimate and sexual way.
He went down between ur legs and had his way with you via oral and you didnt even struggle a little.(according to her story) lol no intended rapist can dare that with a lady with functioning hands and feet
He had sex with you and when it was over guilt did what it does best and you cried your heart out.

From the above deduction every stage the lady and the guy went thru( from cuddling to sex) must have been a systematic breaking of the girl will power (i.e she gave consent even if she didnt want to due to persistence from the guy) rather than brute strenght from the guy And friends that isnt RAPE.

Note that all this could have been avoided if she didnt spend the night with a man u knw nothin about and isnt ur boyfriend. Who the fvck does that? Well maybe a girl that wants to get laid

oga. it's obvious u didn't read the story she posted. according to her, she started struggling and fighting him when he gave her a head. she said she cried and begged. so which story are you quoting??...
I know in this case everyone might be lying. the girl or the guy. buh let's not forget that one of them might be saying the truth
....from what I can depict the guy is trying to save his reputation..... the girl will probably lose in court even if she is saying the truth....and yes a girl can go to a Guy's hux and sleep there without actually wanting Sex. .
.I have seen cases where the girl' s hormones controlled her until the sense of force brought her to her real senses. I have also seen cases where a girl cooked up a story against a guy.....



lesson to all. CONSENT is very very important.wether you have given her head of even fingered her. as long as she didn't force you to do those things. you have no right to force her. no matter what. we are not animals so we shouldn't act like one......if you feel like a girl owes you sex then you. an go to a judge and tell him that and let's see what will be your judgment......

Belafonte:
Or guys that consider a future with the pregnant woman to be less than optimal. Just because you're getting smashed doesn't mean a guy wants to spend the rest of his life with you.

that's not a reason to freak out dear. like I said only small boys freak out and get concerned on what to tell their parents just like d op said....btw not every man spends d rest of his life with the mother of his kid. that's why they are babymamas around...
btw why will the guy be having sex without a CD in d first place when his not ready for a baby.....# smallboys....

ubunja:
as a woman how do u even presume to know what men will be glad to hear
stop thinking u know men better than they know men.
what that guy says is true.its not about being rich enough to afford a baby but everyman cares who brings his kids into the world. its about u not being the woman he wanna procreate with.

Biko am not in d mood for a debate. it's your opinion okay. it depends on the kind of people or men u flock it. till next time . bye

wizzyrich:
whether they are small boys or not, someone that will not marry you will not marry you.

i am not opposing that fact though .. all I know is that only small small boys freak out over pregnancy

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who is the most beautiful nairaland ladies??.....kikikiki......


beautiful in what sense? facial beauty? or body beauty? or ass beauty?

the third guy

I think am pregnant freak guys out?? ....well mayb you meant small boys who are scared of what to tell their parents..kikikiki...well made men will be very glad especially if they have bin waiting for you to marry them.......

....adesua is beautiful.....being beautiful is soooo beautiful......

nice article.... Men should learn to stand up for themselves .... just like the women and at d end of the day we will all be standing up for eachother cause we all need each other... u as a guy needs a woman and a woman needs a man.....gender equality is essential..

tosyne2much:
This is very funny

lolz. it wasn't funny to me Sha
soooo embarrassing

dicefrost:
Unfortunately it is not always easy to create proof on innocence. I was at a party with a friend, everyone was drunk. He and a lady at the party go all mushy and ended up in a bush nearby. They had sex. Next day she is telling everyone that he raped her, and stole her virginity. I know as well as everyone that they were both drunk. Where ll he get proof of innocence? We spent money on police case eventually. There are rape cases i take serious, but other times i sit back and analyze the situation cautiously.

yeah u are right... buh he wasn't smart though... smart guys don't get drunk. lolz. anyways it's a sad situation I also remember when a little boy accused me of touching his pee pee. . like I was sooooooooooo embarrassed.....I was just greeting him and admiring his cuteness and the next thing he started saying my pee pee leave my pee pee.....

everyone laughed about it. buh God I felt like disappearing....
all of these happens alot.... so if there isn't proof . please stand and defend urself with anything you can use.... ur words and statements also matters....
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dingbang:
The society has become so bad to the extent that these vices are now seen to be like a norm. The attitude of the society to victims of sexual harassment ain't what I expect it to be as in the days of old. Even to the extent you begin to hear comments like.. 'So is she the first person to be raped on earth"?

dear. you are soooooo right..... and it's soo sad... people no longer take rape victims( male And female)serious and this really affects their whole life and perspective

Bigbeard:
Perhaps we can discuss this privately. I'd like to have.an Angelic view on a few other topics.

lolxzz. will prefer here.

Bigbeard:
Interesting.

I hope this thread isn't about Ake festival because mentioning it corroded the topic at hand.


Anyways, I look forward to read what the Angelic spacebooker ahead of me has to say.

If she's intelligent enough, I might just take her home to mama before this year runs out.

lolzx.... I have read the thread over and over and still don't know what to say oo.....

op. nice article ... buh wrong topic.... like I don't understand what feminism has got to do with this.
yes soooo many people get accused wrongly and it's always bad ...
In d case of rape. what a guy should do is be smart..... be vigilant and try to create proof of your innocence.... that way no one can accuse you.....

u don't know if you are a Virgin or not??... how do u mean?

ReinaFarine:
It is going to be sexist if the teason he's paying for the full date is because he's a MAN.

No... Even if I am a lesbian, you ask me out, before we get to know each other, you pay.

I understand what you're saying...

@What I quoted, feminism encourages both of the sexes to pursue an interest.
In other words, the chyker can be of any gender without being classified as a cheap forward olosho.
In situation where it is the woman that says, can we continue this some other time, she pays for the date.

You declared interest, and until it is certain your feelings are reciprocated, you're goddamn paying for my attention since I didn't ask for yours.

But a time comes like I stated, I crave you as much as you crave me... Paying for a place or dinner of even #3,000,000.00 is worth it if you're considering the reward of hanging out with your
Significant other. And putting a little chirp in their step.

It is not the money. When it becomes a let's get a calculator and divide what you ate or divide until the last kobo, it is more mechanical than passionate...

Devicing a means of showing your SO he/she's appreciated for more than his money without hurting yourself even if it is by taking him to a #300 buka (if that's all you can afford), is what feminism strives to attain.

Thanks OP.

swithrt. you are so filled with wisdom... Please don't even waste your energy in convincing anyone...

. what was d van looking for in d shop?. gosh. someone will just be on his/her own and death will carry wahala come... so sad. RIP

something is going on here oooo .. somone please tell me who scored d three goals......* dancing one corner *

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wowwww. cnt believe my ibrahimovhic is back.....yippee....... I see 4goals rolling today from man u.....so sad I won't be able to watch it