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You always find it difficult to say no because it is a transaction.

You expect to get laid at the end but you get disappointed sometimes.

Remove the trader mindset and it will be easy for you to say no.

One of the many problems of polygamy.

Polygamy is built on ego complex and sexual fantasies whose ugly consequences are borne by the family across generations.

Eluala:
Unfortunately your dad's apparent inability to be the man of the house has affected you too in a negative way. A sheep can't raise a lion. Your chance at survival is that you have to get more adventurous, wipe out what you learned from your father, go out there and seek education on how to be a man. Teach and groom yourself to be what your father could not be.

Your mother did not just beat your father because he is weak from diabetes, she has already beat him and been beating him psychologically for a very long time. Trust me there is a reason other animals are still afraid of an old, sick and even wounded lion. It's a mind thing and if a man fails to be the man in the manner God has assigned the duty to him as the king lion, the head of the pride, then hyenas like your mother will fill the role.

At 20 I could imagine myself and the things I could do, the decisions I could take. At 17 I was already bold and big enough mentally to live a lone in a different town from my parents, yet I was in SS3. At 17 there were tough decisions I took despite all efforts by my father to impose his choice on me. He eventually had no choice but to respect my emergence a a man of my own. At 20 I was already way into my undergrad studies, the question of my parents disrespecting me was not even contemplated. You are 20 and from the way you wrote, you seem helpless. You need to start being a man by standing up to your mother in a way that she could understand that you are not afraid of losing anything she thinks she could offer or withhold from you. You father did not do it, that's why your mother has the guts to beat him up and dare him to do his worst, which is perhaps cry like you did. If you want it be respected, you have to earn it and trust me it is not served a la carte. When you are ready to be the man, then you will realize that you run decisions with your head, more that your heart and if you need to physically teach your mother a few lessons, the man in you will do it. For now, I can only hear a boy speaking like a child. '''My mother my mother''.

What you wrote above tells me you are still a 20 year old child. Grow up, else your condition will be worse than your father's.

You must have really beaten and wounded your mum at 17. Right?

Ona no dey ever get sense... So the only way to man up is to go physical with your woman... Like you have no alternative...

Kids in adult's body...

Tueh!

They are prone to this act...

Na open eye dey worry US.

Wrong freedom has destroyed their legacy so far.

Slay Mothers will do anything for attention,

I want to see the video where the baby was pouring the noodles on himself or herself.

Any small thing, you guys will be seeking consent from the outside and you cry that you are being enslaved.

Do they seek consent from you when holding their elections?

Rubbish!

Good for her.

Our woke generational should bear the brunt of their wokeness with their full chest.

IkeIgboNile:
NOwazobia
Investigation ongoing on D Banj.

Does he represent the whole Nigeria?

It's obvious you didn't read the write up. It's alleged that he connived with some government officials to fill N-power slots meant for ordinary Nigerians and pocket the proceeds.

Does the few officials represent, everybody

Chukabiz:
Omo, this one came very prepared o. See how she is keenly following the post, under every single comment. SMH

That is why she is still single and independent.

The begi begi must be generational.

Coach indeed...

These are the type of Coaches that have destroyed the long ago feminine virtue...

Anything their hands touch burn to the ground.

Chukabiz:
In other words, you know a man is kind by billing him from the moment he asks you out and he keeps giving without saying no AND the other party show their kindness by billing men, right?

No wonder one NL often says 'Nigeria girls are useless'

The OP's type are very useless.

No wonder they remain single for long and turn around to claim independent single ladies...,

It was the absence of no other option!

[quote author=IkeIgboNile post=118967788][/quote]Investigation ongoing on D Banj.

Does he represent the whole Nigeria?

Gold diggers using reversed psychology without punctuations...

No pot holes, no speed bumps, no traffic signs.. Highway begi begi.

Tueh!

IkeIgboNile:
Everybody in Nigeria is a criminal.....facts.

You may need to check the meaning of fact.

Many of our celebrities are simply like this.

I pity their followers and supporters

Tinubuwins2023e:
You have made an impact in your world just as Bola Ahmed Tinubu is making an impact in his world. It's well

Very great impact at 69 with many drugs, stolen properties, Agberos and Assassins, speech impairment and more to his name....

Trying to shame Obaseki...

Well, Obaseki has proven so far that Oshiomole is far better than him.

Very anyhow governor filled with so much arrogance with no performance to back it up...

FreeStuffsNG:
I would have suggested that you go and steal like him to find out what will happen to you and your family. Talk is cheap and cowardly hiding behind a moniker is far easier. Go and steal under Buhari to find out why kaaki no be leather. Nobody will stop you not to try it o

Just as you are cowardly hiding while licking Buhari's ass, Ozuor.

FreeStuffsNG:
His family is not going to see him for a long time and he will still vomit everything he stole-swallowed

PMB will press his neck so tey he will beg for plea bargain and his pleas won't be accepted.
check my signature for free stuffs!

Only Zombies will believe you. Rubbish.

onadana:
The story not clear...this DNA part.

How e wan take clear when you no gree read am.

GOODMAN88:
If this happens in the north, this same set of people would have been shouting
FEAR NORTH
ISLAM IS THE PROBLEM OF THIS WORLD

MEANWHILE MANY OF THEM AFTER BIAFRA WAR CANT SAY WITH 100% ASSURANCE WHO THEIR FATHER IS.

The Igbos are very known for this type of act...

Yes, it happens everywhere in the country, but the Igbos are at the forefront of it, including drug trafficking and some touch of ritualism.

This is not to sound tribal but factual... It is a cultural issue in that region.

Every tribe has its ills, but this is a specialty to the Igbos.

CutieKing:
Some of you are so brain dead and eternally deaf if you people didn't hear niger deltan state of delta state....just like saying south eastern state of Anambra state.

You be mumu... A cursed one.

Tueh!!!

Dementia

On this very one, I stan Russia.

post=118655412:
ABSOLUTELY!
END OF THREAD.

You don't just have a mind of your own...

Your first comment was in support, but when someone else tries to downgrade the seriousness of the post, you just jump to support, which is a contradiction on your part.

But I must tell you that that guy you quoted is wrong...

Lots of people are so shallow in thought and can't think deeply about the immense power of influence irrespective of how it may occur.

Our world today is a result of influence.

If the eyes don't see, and the ears don't hear among others, the brain won't interpret, and the decision to and not to wouldn't even be a topic, let alone fighting the resulting effect.

My 2 cents.

The okro be like wetin no draw self.

It is true that in the city of the blind, a one-eyed man is a king.

Just color modification?

or na my eye.

No RIP to waste...

sulaak:
Their leaders are still better than the rubbish in Nigeria. Iran has one of the highest literacy rate in te middle east

When one is comparing a devil with a devil, i dont take side.

But i am very concerned about a literate government killing its own citizen because of improperly wearing an hijab.

It sounds contradictory to me, or literacy is grossly subjective afterall.

Father4all:
They are now looking for trouble. When they start shooting them na they will be crying. This is not a protest again. It's now a riot with criminal intentions

with criminal intentions against a saint and righteous government...

You be mumu.

CheapHomes1:
You are spot on with your second sentence. The citizens have the power and are more than those with guns. But...we fear too much

Na one go still come online to blast the protesters that they selfish and destroying the economy just as you guys did to ASUU.