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OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

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After Buhari and APC you the most stupid person have come across

ahiboilandgas:
she had all the time for her fingers to be sucked. Stupid girl and useless man

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You call an underage stupid?
U must be mental

Impressive but not impressed

Oizee:
i get ur points, but I can't run to nairaland for life threatening issue, i can only post here for more wider options or people's opinions and thats when I'm relaxed.......we already know 80% of the comments section will contain silly jokes, insults and stupidity, may be before the reasonable ones comment I might have passed out....

I could remember vividly when one of my son was convulsing, I cried for help and people rushed to my house cuz they heard me screaming, when he was revived I rushed him to clinic still, while I was now relaxing I googled the causes and prevention and I read everything about it, the doctor never mentioned it can reoccure, but I read it on internet dat day that it can and I was prepared, when subsequent ones happened, I didn't even shout or go to hospital again, I handled it well.....I wasn't stupid to rush here when I needed emergency help......

what OP posted was kinda funny and you can't blame people that's making jokes about it, I didn't think it was even a serious issue until I read Rikze comment, his own experience was horrible biko......it's better for Op to seek for medical help urgently and update us later.

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The fact is NAIRALAND mods are very useless, they contribute to the low level of comments you see here

Indispensable85:
E can pain....lol go hustle ooo.. make children no see u dey hide biscuits oooo

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Hustle like Ole, Olosho or Agbero?

Indispensable85:
It's not easy to be a broke ass in Nigeria. I feel your pains. ....Lol. ..

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Pains, I laugh agbero of ole and oloshos feeling cool...MUMU yapaa

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It's not easy to be a broke ass in Nigeria. I feel your pains. ....Lol. ..[/quote]Pains, I laugh agbero of ole and oloshos feeling cool...MUMU yapaa

Akpabio, the money miss road governor

Indispensable85:
Perpetual broke ass nigga....lol..

Ole Tinubu boss and Olosho Remi madam, agbero gutter rat boy at work

motionarena:
Spirogyra filled water

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And what do you say about the water in the bottle

Indispensable85:
Your own broke-ness na permanent one my guy....lol.... It's in your lineage... kikikikiki......

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Poverty de talk

Indispensable85:
E can pain......I understand ur pains bro..... it's bad to be broke....lol

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Broke is temporary thing but you are a poverty stricken gutter rat, Tinubu we know his story a criminal

Ojemedad:
Cz binance and Elon Musk back in high school

Lies
Elon Musk schooled in Pretoria south Africa, college took him to Canada b4 settling down in USA

Indispensable85:
E can pain...lol

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Pain wetin? Omo if u soji yaself beta de chop every Moni that comes 4rm d bullion van rogue because one thing is clear another Alhaji no go smell Asso Rock especially agbero from Chicago

Indispensable85:
Meaning your broke ass was insignificant and will still be insignificant when the time to choose the next president comes. Perpetual loser!

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Asslickers like running their gutter mouth for peanuts
Criminal Tinubu is bound for Kirikiri prison

Odewaleadesoye:
https://punchng.com/terrible-people-want-to-break-nigerias-appointment-with-destiny-tinubu/

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Super Criminal age 94 claiming 69

Indispensable85:
So what did he ride on in 2019 to return to power when dirty pigs like you were against him?

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Boko haram killers and followers like you made sure blood flowed like nothing, 2019 he rode on same media, demons like you and electoral fraud

Indispensable85:
Stop fighting what you don't have power to change, especially online. Online warriors like you boasted more than this against buhari in 2015.

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I supported the fraud back then, the social media was what we rode on, asslickers

oikirodah:
Tinubu Is A Builder: "On Your Mandate We Stand" Turns Household Slogan As Federal University of Agriculture Honors APC National Leader

There is this certain razzmatazz that comes along with electioneering campaigns, political slogans are meant to be memorable and pull attention to the political aspirant seeking an electoral office.

A slogan should correlate with voter's concerns and reflect the current political environment. It needs to be remarkable and concise. Great political slogans are not easy to come by, hence some great slogans have been replicated even decades after.

Check out Ronald Reagan's slogan for the 1980 United States Presidential election 'Are You More Satisfied Than You Were Four Years Ago? this slogan tops my number one political slogan of all times, direct to the point and self-explanatory.

We also have the hit slogan from Abraham Lincoln in 1864 "Don't change horses midstream"  this talked about his re-election campaign.

Then Franklin D. Roosevelt's first campaign slogan in 1932" Happy Days Are Here Again" was a banger that was reassuring after the great depression Americans suffered.

Tinubu's on your mandate we stand seems to be a slogan that is fast spreading like wildfire. Major platforms, political gatherings, discussion groups etc are not free from this slogan that is intermittently dropped by fans and loyalist of the former Lagos State Governor.

First and foremost is it even a slogan? The Jagaban has not yet indicated his interest in vying for the presidency but yet his adherents sing it like a National Anthem.

A mandate is defined as an official order or commission to do something, so why the slogan on your mandate we stand? In a desperate search of how the slogan came about, I stumbled upon a video where Jagaban was acknowledged by friends and associates in one of his yearly colloquium as part of activities marking his birthday.

He was practically honoured with a melody of the song 'On your mandate we shall stand," see lyrics below...

"On your mandate we shall stand... on your mandate we shall stand, On your mandate...On your mandate...On your mandate .....On your mandate we shall stand."

Getting to see great faces which included the Vice-President, Professor Yemi Osinbajo and numerous other top-notch political associates, then I fully understood the mood of the crowd.

Tinubu is a builder, a teacher,  likeable, lovable and above all an inspiration to all and sundry. His political sagacity is worthy of emulation even by his critics and detractors.

It is not surprising that since that event which occurred in 2020 to date the Jagaban is always complemented with the slogan "On Your Mandate, We Stand". No doubt this slogan would shape the coming days ahead as it has turned into a household nomenclature.

Meanwhile, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu has arrived in Markudi, Benue State to receive an Honorary Doctorate Degree( (D.Sc. Honoris Causa Management) from the Federal University of Agriculture Makurdi.

He's been accompanied by the former Governor of Adamawa State Muritala Nyako.

It is clear that Tinubu's antecedents have built a strong reputation for himself that his political students, fans and loyalist are confident in his ability to restore the lost glory of a great nation called Nigeria.

A golden fish they say has no hiding place, today everyone is identifying with Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu even when he hasn't indicated his intention to seek the 2023 presidency.

We stand on Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu's mandate for a better Nigeria.

Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah writes in from Abuja.

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Anytime any day anywhere.... A rogue is a rogue, Bobs Chicago goes nowhere but Kirikiri maximum prison

Indispensable85:
Online warrior....lol

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Online praise singers...spits

Indispensable85:
It will be near impossible to stop Tinubu in 2023..

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Tinubu is a dead meat

MrFollowFollow:
You people just want to go and make fools of yourselves. No lawyer will turn down a case even if he knows it's frivolous.

For you to win such a case you need to prove that the loan company defamed you and that as a result of that defamation you suffered loss either pecuniary or otherwise.

Now let me ask, if you borrow money from a company then when the loan is due you suddenly start avoiding the company and you also stop picking your calls will you then deny that you're on the run?

The law works based on facts which can be proven.

The defence of the loan company is to tender evidence of the call log from the GSM company which shows that they called you at least 3 times and you did not pick the call neither did you bother to return the call, this alone is grounds to assume that you are on the run and hence declare you wanted by sending text messages to your contacts.

Nigerians if you take a loan make sure you pay back on due date as agreed! It is because of people like you who don't like to repay loans that the rest of us get charged high interest rates because the Nigerian market is considered as being high risk due to high rate of default!

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Okay12 vetrovialMan DonBabaNG vetrovialMan

This guy is financial parasite, he is the kind that moves around harassing ignorant people with dubious police
You can see he is already frightened like a chicken at the coming of you all, I will advice you all stick to your plan like he said Nigeria is high risk which they know yet they still want extort maximally despite the volatility

The useless one I dealt with since last year are still calling me back with a massive discount offer and this jobless agent is trying to frighten you all....

Forget his rants

Kebbiprince:
As old as your father

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Frog

Kebbiprince:
Not possible at all, no state including lagos can survive without federal allocation

How old are you?

jeliliadedoja1:
I love Christianity, I read Quran as well as Bible, I am a Muslim and I once converted to Christianity ,a member of MFM for that matter. Today I am a practicing Muslim I left Christianity because it is make believe, deceitfulness, window dressing and a business ventures out to exploit followers.

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Foreign religion are for Arabs & Europeans...the African man have no bizness there

compton11:
a'ight ain't get problem with u

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Who do you then have problem with?

compton11:
christianity is peaceful religion right?

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I am a juju man

Hugomexis:
Is chevrolet really good for Naija roads?

I love the designs and sleek of the chevrolet camaro 2016 but I have some reservations about it especially the availability of parts in case of repair.

Will buying it be a good idea?

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What is your brand of weed?

compton11:
dumb ass nigga.

leave Islam alone and talk about how Vikings,crusaders,pope innocent III,columbus and so on spread your own religion of piss called Christianity.

In 2021you are still talking of Vikings and crusaders?
So you are on revenge?

Juliusmalema:
Stop meddling into what is not your business. I wonder what is your problem.

Face your ND republic and stop moving outside your cocoon.

Hmmm...be guided.

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Better face your market, this place is not a market ground