It's fine, try coming back stronger.

NwaEje:







I just relapsed after viewing your thread...

I'd take a hit for saying this, but I'd say it because i care for the health of men.

To the newbies or naive, blown away by nude pics, getting hard just by reading 18+ comments.

These guys commenting with names off hand and very vivid memory of individual porn stars have at a point scrolled through volumes of porn content - for minutes, maybe hours.

Some experiencing the guilty post-nut reality of jerking to women they'd never meet. Some, perhaps not addicted but rely on it as a buffer for rejection and inability to handle their sexual urges in the real world.

Don't be blown away.

She shit-tested you and you failed.

You want her to see you as someone that is not after sex, but you went on giving explanation after her rejection.

In my opinion, your babe is holding the cards. First, you were surprised she chose you. She probably knew you'd be surprised.

Next, she shows you what seems to be a worthless proof of cutting things off with the other guy. Who says she can't call the other guy or send him a mail or SMS.

And last, you have revealed your desire for sex and it backfired. She also knows you'd do all you can to enter her thighs.

I'd advise you review the relationship and don't let her vagina control you. You're not in the right frame for marriage going by this post - not judging, i am also not in a frame for marriage at the moment.

Really don't want you having regrets or doing something irrational. And at worse, find out you were her 'backup' guy.

OMOJOHN001:
Guy's how do you handle this type of Girls in a relationship,

Now let me gist you Guy's small, Don't even call me simp cuz I have overcome as many as possible ladies that came with this yeye scope before.

I stated dating this babe about three weeks ago now, I love her so much to an extent that I have plan to marry her if she is a serious type.

when she accept to date me, I asked her if she has any BF she said (yes)though their relationship is not more than two months and Nothing like sex has happened between them. She said.

I said no pro, Just three days into the relationship I asked her to Choose between me and that guy, that I can't be dating one girl with another dude. To my surprise this babe choose me, Now two days ago she came to my side telling me she has broke up with that dude and she even delete and block the guy number on WhatsApp in my presence.

Just for this babe to come up with an excuse of No Sex yet today. I was just there laughing and Told her no one does a relationship without sex in this Generation but this babe said she can't have sex yet oooo.

Now guy's before one werey go mumu me and act smart.
How do I handle this babe, to avoid her seeing me as someone that's after sex, and from the Romance we had I notice she is a virgin, but not sure sha.

Cuz I gat to chop her before she can collect shi shi from me, I hate story that touches the heart.

In relationships, women place more priority on it.

It's not something to feel bad about. It is what it is.

Naomila:
PEOPLE respect based on financial level.
Has nothing to do if you male or female. once you got money MOST PEOPLE respect u

Of course. Reason why i said it is more or less an avatar and that a simp can have all three.

Life is a mindset game. I believe the mind is a man's most powerful weapon. That is one core part of TRP - restructuring the mind.

Just wanted to emphasise that in the real world, and to help with standing out - those other things will help - and you can have the best of both worlds.

Thanks for the extra clarity!

RedpillAnalyst:
@nwaezeemmanuel

Before Looks, Money, Status. I would add Mindset. The blackpill often talk about these characteristics as the main determinant of one's outcome in life.

I agree Looksmaxxing and moneymaxxing can help, but they key thing is always to have the proper mindset.

Lots of people looking alpha still act like simpd, many people with money don't have peace of mind.

Reading History, Bible, Quran, about business and politics etc and applying this knowledge to daily life will keep you at peace and even increase your level attractiveness. Moreover, you'll always have an edge over many people and this in itself is like an aphrodisiac to women.

Looks, Money, Status

Gents, the three things above are very powerful. It is more or less an avatar, and doesn't absolutely define an ALPHA man.

You can have all three and be a grade A simp but try to level up with that in mind. I have said this before, your personality doesn't make a first impression.

Don't make the mistake of pursuing those things to validate yourself. Instead, pursue them because it makes you a better man.

Try to look more presentable. Know haircuts that fit your head, and on and on.

Money, is a very powerful force and opens doors in our world. It may not be easy, but at least start by doing a review of your finances. People will tell you it doesn't matter, it's not everything until it becomes EVERYTHING in that truth-revealing moment.

Status often determines how seriously people will take you. You don't need to be famous, just try to have a sphere of influence.

We're all learning and growing, my hope is that we all crush the LMS scope of life and beyond.

I think the main difference between a perceived alpha and a sigma is in their very core values. They're both believed to be equal in the hierarchy and in several ways similar.

But a sigma approaches life in a quite nomadic free-will way, doesn't concern himself with societal systems and is often described as a lone-wolf.

TRP isn't just some school to convert men to ALPHAs. In fact, several parts of it point to what a sigma man would do (like becoming free from popularly held and toxic social conventions).

It also touches the flaws of the BETA man. Don't overburden yourself with personalities, we're not psychologists. Only the ALPHA is able to rule and comfortably succeed in a hierarchical system on his own terms.

That is where every man should be.

phantomx360:
I have some questions,

What do you think of a sigma in relation to an alpha?



If the sigma and the alpha both sits at the top why is only the alpha referenced in the redpill philosophy?

Beta males, simps, feminists will tell you it's an evil cult or some toxic masculinity movement because they cannot understand.

I see this forum as a community and nothing more. TRP is like a compass and for you to guide yourself. Sure, some may choose to brand themselves, wear red clothing and all of that but that is only out of their personal decision. You are not under any spooky mandate.

By the way, a cult is a social group united by common interests. It doesn't always have to be negative. And to be frank TRP isn't a secret society, best believe the world is aware of it and there is nothing to hide. Use Nairaland as an example, both male and female users are aware of this thread and what is being discussed - they just choose not to accept it.

You'd meet more people that will vilify TRP, ignore and also carefully consider where they are coming from.

Warrgidanairala:
OK my guy,please are redpillers cultists? is it kind of a secret society? I asked because someone told me so but I really don't get it,Im waiting for your response

I have come across this.

The username is obviously an attempt to buy media controversy, but I have learnt from some videos. Highly recommended for guys that believe in the terrible universal innocence of women.

Saviolamemphix:
Redpillers i recommend this page on ig for everyone
Churchofmisogyny..

Waiting for someone to answer this.

I'd just say this. No matter how good you are, no matter how red pill aware you are, you can still be rejected.

And it doesn't mean you're worthless.

When that happens, you move on. To me, the process of leveling up and self improving just expands your value. Hypergamy and existing hierarchy makes it impossible for you to be every woman's first choice.

EmeraldHash:

Bro I want to start this 21 days of forming habits on approaching ladies. I think and analyzed too much because of fear of rejection. Please can you guide me on how you went about it, and be my accountability partner?

Of course. I'm not debating here, only pointing things out for clarity.

LadyTiannah2:

You saw the part where I said men should respect a woman, as long as she isn't showing him disrespect or causing him harm right? Of course you did.

Going through pregnancy is a big deal, considering complications that can prove fatal and the burden of it itself - I've seen some videos.

See what i did there?

I, as a man put myself in the shoes of a pregnant woman. What a lot of women do not do is put themselves in the shoes of a man.

They'd believe a man goes through nothing because a woman goes through pregnancy - which is not in any way true.

LadyTiannah2:
Why is it that many Nigerian men are fond of trivializing the act of carrying a pregnancy to term and giving birth?? Like do you men think that thing is easy?? Carrying a baby for nine whole months, having your body change drastically --the weight gain, painful boobs which start to sag, frequent urination, cramps etc-- then pushing out the child, not to mention the depression some women feel afterwards. Has any of you ever bothered to watch a video of a woman in labour to see the agony she passes through?

Yet one entity with an appendage dangling between his legs will come online and show so much disrespect to women, they'll say things like "and so what, is she the first woman to have a child?", "there's nothing special there", as if its easy. She'll take care of the child, clean the house, cook, yet a man will make her feel inadequate and that she's not contributing to the home because she's not earning money. Let me tell you now, being a mom is a full time job and any woman who is able to combine raising a child, taking care of her home and adding a paid job to it is a goddamñ super hero in my book. Learn to respect women. As long as a woman isn't showing you disrespect or causing you harm. show her respect and stop being a fúcking asshóle. Period.

And before some of you start yarning dust, I'm not a mom or pregnant. Not even considering marriage yet, cos to be honest, the thought of marrying the present day Nigerian man scares the crap out of me

I'm a man, so this isn't strange.

I bet we all here have struggled with this too. I'm not telling you to gain control because of some spiritual or moral backing - which i strongly believe in.

Here's one reality you should come to understand. Some of those random ladies you've paid have gotten laid for free. Whether you overspend or not, vagina shouldn't be part of your expenses.

If you can't control your sexual urge, you will always remain open to female manipulation.

4ckz:


I get you.

But, in the case a guy is yet to control or not willing to control his urges?

Sex is a part of me and my only get away from work, I am a very busy person.
I just use it to relax.

I won't lie, my life has improved a lot since I took my first pill, and cut off my numerous girl friends, been a lot more peaceful, a lot less spending and I got time to only worry about me.

However, I have been living like this since my university days, always fuking random people steadily.

You can't just wake up one day and tell me, "hey, control your urges". This is already a part of me, and it seems impossible for me to reduce it, or even stick one pvssy.

In my case, and I know there are others like me, wouldn't it be better we limit or don't over spend on pvssy, minding our income level, rather than the control urges thing.

It seems impossible to me, and frankly I can't suffer my self like that.

I feel there is a side of it that may betray TRP.

One of which is the impulsive habit of appreciating sexual experiences with money. It can place a man on a mandate to always pay for/reward sex, whether he is broke or not.

When such a man is in a relationship, he's most likely going to be a bonafide provider all in the name of vagina.

I think a redpill aware man should master his urges well enough to create healthy experiences from them. Escort platforms take that away and may often switch power dynamics.

4ckz:
Before going back to page 145, I would like this to be dealt with thoroughly, citing the reality of the society and being completely rational.

What's the stand of trp on patronising prostitutes?

Before, I took my first pill, I have always been a guy with many gf's at every time. I had a lot of gf's and I was always toasting new ones. I didn't fvck any lady more than thrice coz I will soon get tired of her pvssy.

Picking up the pill, I dropped almost all of these women, however my urges are still there, and I deal with it through call girls. Less drama plus more income saved. I do still have normal girls, some where hard to cut lose.

However, bearing in mind that there's a need to constantly fill your urges, and being someone like me whom is always after a different pvssy, what do you say in my case?

I know other guys seeing this might have questions regarding this.

I make use of other platforms, particularly YouTube. Shared some channels i follow earlier, they've really helped.

SOZINN:



I've been following your posts lately
just a few weeks into the red pill community but you have acquired so much knowledge
You sound like someone that has been in this game for years
keep up the good work
ODOGWU

Thanks for adding clarity.

JESHAL:









The red pill is nothing like feminism, which is misandry right from the start. And there is nothing like moderation with the red pill. The red pill is the red pill, neither moderate nor extreme.
The anger that comes out when men start taking the red pill, is the initial rage that comes when they realise how foolish they have been for most or all of their lives.
Its a phase/stage of the red pill.
Some men have the mental fortitude to overcome and pass that stage and move to the next stage, but some men don't.
Such men, become really enraged at how they were conditioned to behave right from childhood. How every aspect of society was geared towards making them subservient to the feminine imperative(This applies heavily to western men).
Imagine, at the age of 45 or 50 you realise you have been an ozo all your life. You are not getting those lost years back, It can drive anyone crazy

Advice to Members of TRP Community.

With just a few weeks of embracing TRP, I have realised a lot. There is default hatred for members of TRP by both men (beta & simps) and women.

I am learning to navigate the world with redpill knowledge, through these tips.


1. Let your actions speak louder than your words, reduce time arguing and convincing other men/women of truths in TRP - they won't buy it.

2. Brand yourself as a person before your red pill beliefs - you're a man before you joined this community.

3. Do not commonise or obsessively publicise your knowledge of female nature, it is a compass to guide you.

4. Put in the work of becoming better, it's not easy but knowledge without action is just knowledge.

5. Do not be bitter like many feminists, do not be hateful and let people see the good intentions of TRP through you.


A wonderful Tuesday to everyone!

A man is different from a woman. That sounds simple, but our gynocentric society is always surprised by this obvious fact.

They'd do all they can to cover up those differences. Never for once should you think men and women are equal, they're not.

I'd say guys should find more healthy and possibly productive distractions.

For weeks, I've tried to focus on the tiniest things about my life that I'd normally ignore. What that did was to give me less idle time harnessing sexual urge.

When you get to a point where 24hrs isn't ample time to get things done, you may have less time scrolling through porn videos, wanking till you're wasted.

Obsessive porn consumption is almost always a sign of low self esteem and poor self control. Working on that can help as well.

Zabiboy:

So guys, i have another Self-Evaluation topic for discussion....This might be the last because it seems most people are more interested in women talk...But that's fine tho...everyone and his interests....
The question is "How do you overcome/supress your sexual urge?? Or How can a fellow guy addicted to porn and or masturbation control his sexual urge without watching porn or masturbating??
Practical and Readily accessible methods/activities ONLY..
This could help one or two people out there..

Understand this. There is some extremism and hate within TRP. We have some brothers here that do more noise making and hate than self improve.

And it may be hard for you to believe, but even in my naive days i didn't seek to worship anyone. That is why it is very very easy for me to identify in this community without regrets.

Ekemeze:


Hahaha. I think a different person is using your account.

You? Redpill? Its unbelievable, if so then there's hope for other men who worship women.

I still remember how u blasted us severally, u even tagged us "toxic" for calling out one old hag zzor and chii59(lil bitch).

Lolz. What changed? Can you now see that we don't hate women? But instead we are hated for not allowing ourselve to be manipulated.

One thing is clear, simping won't make you rich. Lol

You surprised me big time

If at all you want to be in a relationship, be smart!

Don't give her the benefit of doubt once you start seeing red flags or signs that she's from the streets.

It would save you a lot of unnecessary headache. Happy Sunday!

nwaezeemmanuel:
Short Clip

The dude came home earlier than his fiance had expected.

He ends up finding condoms in her drawer two weeks before their wedding.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CMVPTuooYza/?igshid=sl6i2sl0c0m5

Short Clip

The dude came home earlier than his fiance had expected.

He ends up finding condoms in her drawer two weeks before their wedding.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CMVPTuooYza/?igshid=sl6i2sl0c0m5

Brothers, you need to be masculine enough to understand that you can't attract every woman - and this isn't just about sex appeal.

Not everything has to be about that. There'd always be a better option for that lady and it is fine if you're not it - move on, there's a hierarchy!

Don't play the hope card and sound wishful, that would just come off as weak.

Even with people in general, you can't afford to mean something to everyone - it's not pleasant, but that's reality.

nwaezeemmanuel:
From an anonymous platform

I am a man that identifies with red pill knowledge, easy with the branding.

It's very easy to claim redpiller without doing shit about it.

Femzaremz:
WOW! So nwa'simp'zeemannuel is now a redpiller? Interesting! This is almost like saying jesusjnr is now an atheist!

what did you find?

Soulrebel2:


Let me go and read his posts

Looks aren't everything, but they matter particularly for the intimacy and romance part!

Inner beauty/personality may not suffice in the other room.

BadRadio:
I hear a lot of persons talk about inner beauty being that vital prerequisite for choosing a spouse and that physical looks should be considered last or not considered at all.


is this true?

or what would be ur opinion on the topic?

where would you place physical appearances in ur list of the qualities u will be looking out for?

You're right about the Nigeria part.

There's a huge tendency for female businesses or individuals to be considered for roles and opportunities in our present world - regardless of merit.

Why?

Because everyone wants to play the non-oppressor card, and avoid being blacklisted in the name of political correctness.

I personally don't care if a woman gets more because i believe there'd always be enough to go round BUT men need to understand that we are also oppressed and cheated on to the advantage of women in certain respects.

JasperVII:

I just looked this up and it's very true. Funny enough this our shithole of a country is not even one of the 45 countries.

I've simped in past years, like many men. But my former views here were purely personal and not a product of simping.

What i believe i had though was the inability to understand the plight of men and my blind naivety.

I got prompted to take the red pill out of curiosity, the need to fully control my life and rising evidence of the horrors of female nature.

Martinez39s:
GUYS! BE CAREFUL OF THE MONIKER Warrgidanairala. SHE IS THE SAME PERSON AS Zzor (aka Rozz). SHE IS THAT NAUGHTY KID. She is presenting herself as a prospective redpiller and she is masquerading as a male and trying to feign curiosity and concern about the red pill.

@nwaezeemmanuel
I am surprised at your rapid improvement in the red pill. You used to be one of the greatest simps of nairaland. Care to share what prompted you to finally take the red pill?

According to Wikipedia, International Women's Day is observed worldwide.

International Men's Day is on the contrary formally observed in just 45 countries.

If you're that man that still believes women are largely oppressed and not respected, please wake up!

Know what is real, and what isn't. Have a great Friday!

nwaezeemmanuel:
Good morning!

Good morning!

short for bullshit

ObinnaValentine:


sorry o but what is BS