It's easier for women to get away with not being in shape because they'd always be some man's fetish, not like I have any grudge with that.

Our lost brothers that open arms to anything in skirt make it worse. You may not get that freedom.

Critique her shape honestly and you get called out for body-shaming, directed at a man it's nothing. We can't change that notion entirely and you can't dwell in the comfort of attracting people that'd love you for you.

Because deep down, they'd wish you looked better. Don't give up on that little exercise routine, even if you don't get results - you'd improve with time.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Get in the best shape of your life

You don't have to be buff like Dwayne Johnson. Just don't let yourself go.

Our world will always judge visual appearances. A first impression of you almost always will come from how you look, not the BS personality you'd hear people say.

If you're overweight, try doing more cardio exercises and reduce your daily feeding ration.

If you're too lean and want to add on healthy weight, I can't give expert advice because I am also learning. But I'd recommend you follow up on legit fitness platforms, you'd most likely need to train your muscles more and eat accordingly.

Whichever way, plan on being the best you. Look like you put some effort to your body.

Get in the best shape of your life

You don't have to be buff like Dwayne Johnson. Just don't let yourself go.

Our world will always judge visual appearances. A first impression of you almost always will come from how you look, not the BS personality you'd hear people say.

If you're overweight, try doing more cardio exercises and reduce your daily feeding ration.

If you're too lean and want to add on healthy weight, I can't give expert advice because I am also learning. But I'd recommend you follow up on legit fitness platforms, you'd most likely need to train your muscles more and eat accordingly.

Whichever way, plan on being the best you. Look like you put some effort to your body.

First, there is nothing like our women

That's how naivety begins, not every woman is for you. I believe people that say you shouldn't spend on a woman aren't explaining well enough.

The bigger question is why are you spending, what are your intentions, why should you spend in the first place, are you better off not spending, will you have financial regrets when she dumps you, are you going to be like the thousands of men that empty their savings on a woman that has low-interest

You shouldn't be stingy, but you should also be wise and understand that your money isn't another woman's entitlement

Warrgidanairala:
Does the redpill requires we men not to spend on our women? does that make sense? someone should guide me

True, more self improvement topics!

softguy1:


ACCORDING TO TRP: IT IS MUCH MORE BETTER TO WIN IN LIFE AND THEN ATTRACT WOMEN THAN TO ATTRACT WOMEN AND LOSE IN LIFE.

The hardest pill to swallow and the hardest truth people rarely tells you is that: it is possible to win in life and then attract women but almost impossible to attract women and win in life.
You can read the above again.


it is already visible even to the blinds that we have gone far with regards to women nature.
and any person who is still interested in learning more about female nature should be able to go through this thread from the beginning to this present page,
or better still they should go through Ubunja, Martinez, and other threads created by redpillers here that is talking about female nature and I will assure them they will be good at games.

TRP comprises of many aspects of which we have learnt more about female nature, and I think it is hard time we move to other aspect like self improvement: which is the major aim of TRP.

With self improvement you we will be able to attract those women and then apply the games you have learnt accordingly.

So if I should suggest I will say that, let focus more on self improvement like: INVESTMENT, GYM WORKOUT, BUSINESSES, DISCOVERIES, EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITIES, EMPOWERING OURSELVES and many more. While still touching the female nature occasionally.
Just my opinion though.

There are different views of the red pill

To some, it is about having more women to get down with.

To some, it is pure hate for women and nothing short of extremism.

To me, it is about being a better more masculine man, very aware of the nature of women that many men are ignorant about - coupled with self improvement

For instance, media/entertainment popularises the idea that women are harmless and innocent - but reality will show you how very devious and manipulative they can be.

Warrgidanairala:
my guy Can you elaborate more on the redpill for me

On relating with women online

Don't be like my past self, naïve and without boundaries. Time your replies, don't be her everyday escape from boredom. It subtly communicates idleness and neediness. She may offer you several opportunities for small talk, a picture on her status or a direct ask for a video call or audio call - don't just jump at it like her long list of attention seekers.

Create boundaries, and an inherent value of scarcity. Women know this and use it to drive men crazy, this is why we have an emergence of men cry and complain about a woman not returning their calls or replying their texts.

Control your conversations and know when to bail. A productive Wednesday to everyone!

Watch what a woman does more than what she says!

This goes beyond women, and can give you insightful wisdom about a person.

It's more pronounced in women because of how indirect and heavily implicating they are wired.

A woman can post man-hating tweets today and end up having sex multiple times with men she swore to have nothing with the same week. Once you check for those patterns, you'd observe contradictions you were initially blinded to. Have a great week

Because money gives stability and women are hypergamous.

She wants to be with someone who has a higher status than her. Unlike many men who don't mind being the higher ground to a woman below their class, women look out for the bigger picture.

Godoverevery:
So I noticed this pattern in most ladies.....if you ask a lady to tell you why she choose her bf/fiancée the reply is most times this.

it always about the guy financial strength...how he is from a rich home or has his own money bla bla

There is this lady I just met ....she is a medical laboratorial i asked her she choose her guy.....she said because he is financially ok, his mum abroad, dad also rich....all what she said was all around the guy finance.... which is somehow to me.

Gone are those days you hear lady choose a guy because he is brilliant, hardworking, ambitious etc

So this my question why is it that what attracts most lady to a guy this days is how good you are financially.

Is it a good or bad.

Has anyone here gotten feedback from SEPLAT?

No, they didn't. I'm not that insecure.

Since I started following TRP, I have gotten back to exercising daily and have achieved more goals than I normally would. The difference between you and me is that I am open minded enough to know good information from bad ones.

Zzor:
They finally got you with their comments that's sad,you were one of the few good ones left.Good luck

I have taken it but it hasn't made me a hateful person.

Even feminism has extremists, same with TRP - learn to filter proper information, amidst the noise.

Zzor:
He can't take the redpill, I will never allow that,I hate you.

Oh, i know her...she's alright i think

Your last sentence...you'd be better off pursuing something positive.

Telegrambot:
Exactly
This dude went as far as trolling the lady because she has sickle cell anemia, now she deactivated who knows if she's dead or something.

They were about 5 or so, I won't rest till I make these guys lives miserable too

I don't get why Nairaland is filled with made-up stories!

Oh yeah, it's an anonymous platform.

@OP how many times do you get raped?!

Easy there, we're all brothers here.

I think we should have more posts that talk about red pill extremism.

TRP is to me more about being less naive, understanding female nature and self-improvement.

If you're a woman hater here or feel your masculinity depends on piping women (you've let TRP defeat its purpose)

Telegrambot:
Even though I support redpill, majority of you assholes here don't even understand or take this redpill thing to far.
Why will some of you cowards go about trolling or bullying innocent ladies here just to confirm your stupid status.
Like the dimwit I used as my DP, like I said earlier I'm a redpiller but will be coming for some of you cowards.
Ninejaywon what do you think

Brothers, i want us to be aware of some social baits women use on men to get what they want without you being aware.

1. Be A Gentleman

This is one of the oldest in the book, the idea is to make you feel less of an honourable man on the basis of what you choose not to do for them.

Like when you get a seat after waiting for hours on queue and she comes in very late, you turn down her request to give up your seat and she says, "be a gentleman" - almost as if your seat means nothing to you!


2. You're Not A Real Man

A way to get to a lot of men is to threaten their manhood. She knows this, and will play this card confidently when she can't have what she wants - even if it is to your disadvantage.

The typical simp will start to doubt his masculinity and allow her to keep validating him.


3. You're Stingy

Now i believe being stingy counters an abundance mindset, but a woman often gets to a man by threatening his providing capacity.

A beta provider will feel guilty once she says this, and keep providing even when he shouldn't.
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There's more, I'm sure this is not so new but even self proclaimed ALPHAs fall for this. Have a great weekend!

Word!

CaveAdullam:
DAY 65, REDPILL 2021

You must first value yourself before anyone must value you.

If you throw yourself like a shit before women you'll be treated like shit.

If you don't take care of yourself, no woman can take care of you.

If you don't put yourself on the pedestal, you'll always worship all and sundry, including women.

If you don't know what to do, a woman won't teach you either.

If your brain racks round the clock, women occupying more than 80% of your thoughts, you're doomed for failure.

If you don't accept yourself, she will reject you.

If you're not useful to yourself, she will treat you like a handkerchief to wipe her messes.

If you're not good to yourself, she will treat you badly.

If you don't place a crown on your head and attach a prize to yourself, you will attract nobody.

Authority: Value yourself.

I don't strictly identify under groups because there are always extremists in every movement

I've digested some red pill knowledge and find it beneficial. This doesn't mean I'm anti-women because that is not what TRP really is about!

Martinez39s:
Nwaezeemmanuel! Am I seeing double or have you really taken the red pill?

Hey bro, i get that there are extremist views out here.

Here's what i think some guys are driving at. As we speak, there are hundreds if not thousands of men emptying their pockets to their detriment just to get cheap momentary attention from women - in the form of ANON or public recognition.

I can't say how a man should spend his money but this is not always about generosity.

noble2faith:


The girl was rewarded cos she didn't trade her dignity.

3. Austin Dunham Vlogs

This guy is all about social experiments, especially for the doubting and naive man.

He's a fitness junkie, and got into TRP not so long ago.

He'd prove how women are moved by money even if they tell you personality is all that matters.

He'd share his private DMs from women who want to get laid, some in relationships - and on and on.

https://youtube.com/c/AustinDunhamVlogs

2. The Roommates

A video podcast owned by two men who have had struggling pasts.

They invite successful men and sometimes women to share views on matters that are crucial to the average man.

You'd feel like you're listening to elder brothers you wish you had a long time ago.

https://youtube.com/c/TheRoommatesPodcast

1. StephIsCold

He's Black-American, and probably the realest dude out there.

Like a couple of redpillers, he has had humble beginnings and been through slaving relationships.

He dives deep into female nature, self improvement and life in general from a male perspective.

https://m.youtube.com/channel/UC3n-Hywbms82-FPejNPpnEA

YouTube Channels On Red-Pill Themes, Masculinity & Self- Improvement

I'd recommend the three that gave me genuine and clear approach to the topics above.

Dude is still in his simping days. A lot of guys have been there and will stay there.

Can't tell any guy how he should use his money but using it to buy cheap attention or try to fill a void is very unnecessary

That's -NGN175,000 just to make a stranger happy

Vecto:
I've said it before and I'm saying it again that the number of foolish guys in this country is just too damn much. 175k just for doing nothing?

https://www.nairaland.com/6443979/lady-trekked-ikeja-mile-12

Don't confuse who a real man is just because you read a story.

Nusaibart:
See what a real man look like but broke and bitter nairaland guys will still come here and display jealousy and insecurity and stupidity

Very genuine definition!

TheVictim01:
By my definition, the true sense of 'High value' is that which accepts his nature, yet unbothered but aspire to be better and grow in all aspects of life. A man who understands life, knows there exist a thing beyond his power and control. Adapt, improvise and overcome.

Only commenting because you mentioned medical space. Your idea of dominance may be different from mine. A huge amount of pioneering medical breakthroughs were made my men. Perhaps, the recent female to male ratio in medical institutions and settings may be large but it isn't always based on intelligence.

Same with why we have more guys in engineering fields. It can be a numbers game and reflection of natural tendencies.

I believe there are women capable of intelligence and critical thinking. But I also feel they are more vulnerable to emotions than men and process things differently.

qtguru:


I was banned, Candance Owen is a foreign matter not Nigerian, Nigerian women are intelligent and they are dominating in the Medicine space in both the US, UK and countries seeking doctors. If you say Nigerian women are not intelligent then you are either consuming too much Red pill. Unless you are not a professional or never have worked with women. 13 years of working or more and women dey, smart ones. If you are not in that environment you will always classify women based on the ones you are exposed to. Change your environment. I don't mean move to the island, but go to places of intellect and you will see what I am saying.

Evening everyone. I recently got something of an introduction to TRP.

In the past, I have condemned it because of the extremist views I came across. But, it has been enlightening.

Brothers, do not let redpill rage consume you or start to believe that piping strings of women makes you a high-value man. God guide us as we level up!

Nice of you to share, here's what many people going into marriage do not know.

It's not going to be adventurous and romantic 24/7. Sour days will come. These days, i'd advice people to spend more than 6 months knowing a person before settling down. The reason is because there is usually a lot you will never know in half a year.

About sex life, it's easy. Switch things up. Try to communicate better with him and if possible find ways to bring back the memories that brought you both together in the first place.

Rhodaogunpeju:
I decided to write this because I have come to realize that Love can get boring..
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I remember when I met my husband , he was such a Nice and handsome Man. I mean I already decided if he ask me out I will say yes from the first day I met him but I still made him beg and purse me for a whole year before finally accepting to date him ..

6 months after our relationship we got married. and our marriage was bliss , I married a friend , we have our downs and quarell but we always make up before we sleep because of the fact that we made it compulsory that we must have a family prayer Every night , we usually settle most of our fights during these prayers ..

But sometimes marriages can get boring , you have gisted all the entire gist ,talk about everything talkable till there is actually nothing to talk about,. Then the husband starts drifting away .maybe he's got a new friend or found a new love ...sometime this new love might not be a person ,For instance my husband new love is politics..He's always working and when he's home he is either watching the News on Tv and even when he tries to talk to me he will be like "Baby can you believe what kai muhammad said again"..

And I'm just sitting like who and what is my concern with lai muhammad?... Yet he doesn't see my reaction,he just continues to talk untill we fall asleep.i listen to him because I have to he is my husband.

The love flame was slowly wearing our ,I mean he no longer wants me to wait for him before I eat. .. if I call him to inquire when he is coming back home , he replies with "I don't know but eat o.. don't wait for me "...

How about the sex life ... What use to be mind blowing sex is now just average .just because he's had too much if it ..I could also say the same about me..I mean before seeing my husband in boxers turns me on but now even if he's naked it doesn't seem to move me

Hmmm but regardless I still love my husband. .I have sat him down many times and talked about spicing things up but you know Men... Anyways the moral of my story is that when you marry ..marry someone that even when he/she changes you would still love them because trust me they will....
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There is truth in this, not just for a crush

Believe it or not, people sense neediness when you're too fast to reply a message or always available

There is value in scarcity

Great man! Had my hands in a couple of things

You?

JasperVII:

Nwoke so you're still around. How are you doing?

Seconded

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