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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:20pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
I doubt you're serious with that question. SILENTandSMART2: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:17pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Gender equality can't be achieved and shouldn't because men and women are unequal in many respects. Now, fairness is possible. But what we have these days is female supremacy and conquest, with little to no regard for merit and responsibility. What you just experienced may repeat itself, the CDS officer is among the many misguided and toxic women in society today. Emmynator: 13 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 7:49pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Are you sure you have your sexual urge in control? SOZINN: 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:17pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
I think i get this. I've noticed men are slowly suffering from a help deficit for the sake of being men. Our world is in many ways channeling so much on women. I don't consider your intention selfish, it is very needed. tope777: 14 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:11pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
LATE, BUT MIGHT BE WORTH READING I have been reading more self help books specially written for men. One is Can't Hurt Me by David Goggins, the other is 12 Rules For Life by Jordan Peterson. A crucial thing i learnt from those books that spoke to me was that as men, we should never play the victim card. "I don't have money, curse the Nigerian government" The quoted statement above is characteristic of a man that blames the world for his problems - he is always the victim, and refuses to move past that. "I don't have money, what can i do to get enough of it?!" The quoted statement above is characteristic of a man with understanding. He knows his shortcomings, accepts them and wants to grow. As someone that has blamed the world for about everything, i can say for a fact that that mentality is self-limiting. I also very much relate to how life can be so hard that someone just has to take the bat for it, besides yourself of course. Thing is, men with victim mentality do not only come off as weak, but also incompetent. It is a continuous mind-battle that pays off in the long run - to stop blaming, and start fixing no matter how small. Kill that whiner, complainer, and take action. Have a blessed week. 32 Likes 7 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:56pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:16pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
You'd want to be the man that never buys into her game. Other men will validate her, and prove she can command attention because of a pic with a teasing show of her breasts or whatever sexually triggering picture in the book. Flip the script, and unlike other men show you have control of your sexual energy even when it is called out. nwaezeemmanuel: 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:04pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
WHAT WOMEN DO #1 Assess Her Sexual Market Value on Social Media When a woman wants to see or test how well she'd fare off on the sexually appealing scale, she'd likely do the following online. 1. Thirst trap male viewers with raunchy or sexually suggestive pictures/videos. 2. Express how bored/Hot she is, and watch guys entertain her in the DM. 3. Revisit old messages from die-hard SIMPS, lead them on for a moment, and wait for self-validating messages to roll in. Many women express hatred for random flirty comments on their pictures. Best believe, a lot go back to those comments and feel good inside - because their SMV received appreciation. Many women complain about unsolicited DMs. But you'd see some screenshot those DMs and share with their girlfriends, of course, excited they're receiving an audience. This is just an observation, and may not be universal. But make no mistake about the truth in it. 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: How To Get A Classy Nigerian Babe by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:04pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
I value patience, but even the most patient man knows when and when not to be patient - if he must make good decisions. For every man's sanity, if she's not interested, don't waste your time. richmond500: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How To Get A Classy Nigerian Babe by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:41pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
No. 5 Guys, please disregard. If a woman is uninterested, she is uninterested and will very well never come around. Don't read so much meaning to it - you can't keep negotiating interest. You aren't jobless, yourself. Valenciabaddie: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:34pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Hope you don't find your name here. nwaezeemmanuel: 1 Like
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:32pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Check out this thread. This female monicker is feeling fly because of the load of guys unwise enough to send her messages. Best believe that some of those messages will contain everything that betrays TRP. https://www.nairaland.com/6479602/men-prison-waiting-reply 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:16pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Dear Brothers, It is very easy to blame and complain for hours, after understanding female nature. That is not where you should be. Understand it, accept it and move on with it. This community isn't for weak minded men. My mental and physical state has been tested since i joined - because it is hard to change a conditioning that has been active for years. Please, don't spend your whole day thinking about women without doing what will make them and anybody think about you - it all comes down to leveling up! If you must play game, don't be without ambition. Always, always work towards becoming high value. It is hard, but it'd be worth it. 32 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: The Insinuation That Everything Is About Money.... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:57pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Money is powerful, but it's not everything. Still, guys. Never buy any hope from a woman that says we will grow together or that you just need to be ambitious. You're always better off maximising your finances, but don't tie your level of confidence to what you have in the bank. It is that false confidence that turns women off - the kind that is hinged on money. Some women feel like villains admitting they want someone with enough money, they'd try to sound humble. If you don't want to have headache, have enough, financially and in every area of life. Peace. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 6:24pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
It's a dicy situation. But in all honesty, the brave heroic man wasn't very rational. He just may have placed himself in extended danger with a potential gang of thugs in that area. Of course, he'd be hailed online - if his actions led to a mob attack, nobody would come for his funeral. If we had a functioning security system, I'd have advised placing a call - or at least providing a distraction that didn't involve exchange of fists. I know it looks 'right' to fight and save people. But always know, martyrs get forgotten. Zabiboy: 17 Likes |
Romance / Re: Guys Help Me Out On This Issue. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:55pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Her not showing up is a very big sign she may not have high interest in you. She has no excuses, you could have given excuses too. On communicating, you don't have to talk too much. Find a balance between listening and talking. Guys that are smooth don't really say anything extraordinary or magical. They'd use her responses to expand the convo, and try to be at least interesting. I care for you, and advise you don't end up being her gist partner forever. That surprise visit may never happen, and she could just be stalling and avoiding meeting up with you. Good luck. pkang: |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:32pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
A 304 woman is promiscuous. They don't have to look like it, trust me. DeSepiero: 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:27pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
I'm very happy to see this. Guys, i believe we aren't just here because we want to get laid or have more women. Becoming a high value man should be the ultimate goal. Not only will you not have to chase women to get their attention, you'd become a better person. I try to exercise daily, read something daily, I even made a small list of life-rules to abide by on a journal. Those aren't ground breaking changes, but small steps to getting better. Hypergamy can be a serious wake up call for guys who don't have their shit together. I wish us nothing short of positive and beneficial changes. aomine: 10 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:02pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
No offense taken brother. I still consider my early times here as more of naivety than being a simp. Probably simpish behaviours manifested from my naivety but i feel it was more rooted in it. I hope more men welcome change with less stubbornness and grow. Martinez39s: 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: After Reading This, You Will Fear Women. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:54pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Far from it brother. I believe in red pill philosophies - go check my posts. But it is very primitive to believe any gender is useless on a wide scale. Thinking that way doesn't also make you ALPHA or woke and is very limiting. mosdii: |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:20pm On Mar 23, 2021 |
I understand a lot of people are here because of some brutal and personal backstory. Mine, on the other hand is more of external observation than a story of some lady that hurt or betrayed me. Trust me, this is not the case. I had to see things outside my world; the guy on social media that got a false rape allegation, the lady that dumped her faithful partner for someone else with no valid reason but hypergamy. And several other experiences I've heard, seen - some within my circle, but not my personal burden. Most people aren't that open minded to accept change and progress. This is why for a vast majority, they need to have personal experiences to learn, the experience of others is never enough. Joker09: 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:04am On Mar 23, 2021 |
It's important every man understands game, even if you want to follow the marriage path - you'd pick something. You'd learn games women play. You'd know to never dwell on low-interest women and signs that show high-interest. You'd also know how to spot the 304 woman. Most, if not all women would wish you knew nothing about it because it strips them off their tricks and gimmicks. nwaezeemmanuel: 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:53am On Mar 23, 2021 |
That's because they've been given so much privilege. We live in a gynocentric world, where the man is largely believed to be a villain by default. To deal with these women, you can't afford to invest so much in them. Some may leave for another guy, but it won't matter so much to you. In a relationship, the person with power is the one who needs the other the least. heartofcity12: 13 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: After Reading This, You Will Fear Women. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:46am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Deal with your rage brother. This is primitive reasoning. mosdii: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:43am On Mar 23, 2021 |
Women play game by default, even the ones that are 'not like other women'. They know when to put on Let's Be Friends, when to put on Long Distance Relationship, how to have options, how to weigh those options and cut some off. When a man does that, he's a cheat, player, and every other insulting name in the dictionary. heartofcity12: 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 9:27am On Mar 23, 2021 |
The person that tweeted is probably capping to chase clout. But there's truth in this. It's outrageous seeing men comment there, I'd have to believe they are fake accounts heartofcity12: 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Girls Respect Based On The Male Financial Level by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:02am On Mar 23, 2021 |
My brother, listen and listen carefully. There is so much that goes into the nature of a woman that is hinged on money. Never for once second guess its power, in hopes that some perfect woman won't consider it in the slightest. itzvictor219: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:23pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Polygamy is not the only way to build and develop an ALPHA frame. I'd advise we all read and re-read Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Dude was married with kids at the time of writing and he is one of those highly referenced figures in the redpill community. I get the crippling tendencies of marriage very well though. BLOODYSPERM: 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:16pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I'm glad you are honest. I sincerely hope things get back to how it should be. Rinoxy: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:25pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I think we really need to address these marriage issues. Being redpill-aware doesn't mean you cannot marry. The big problem is with the terrible social notions surrounding marriage and how easy it is for men to lose their masculine frame in marriages. For instance, the soulmate/one true love garbage popularized by Disney movies is one reason men will keep cuffing women blindly. The best approach is to let your masculine frame blossom pre-marriage. You're not marrying the perfect woman, you're molding her to your frame. For this reason, you may end up interacting with dozens of women. Most men are hasty with ONE-itis and cave in to social pressure, so they marry with little knowledge and have regrets. Please guys, marriage is not a goal. It is also not mandatory. In fact, if you must marry, don't approach relationships like you need to marry. 18 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:08pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:06pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I won't tell you to divorce her, because that isn't a move for everyone. From your posts, I think you're slowly becoming needy. You've made it known to her the lengths you'd go just to make the marriage work while she watches and validates you. This is the best time to prove how ALPHA you can be. Show you can sustain yourself without her input. Divert your attention to your kids. She chooses not to cook for you, eat out or make your own meals. That sounds emasculating, but technically, you're in control and that beats begging her to no avail. Try to nullify anything that gives her an opportunity to bring you to your knees, vagina included. The idea is to remind her your value isn't hinged on her. Flip the script wisely and watch how things go. Rinoxy: 13 Likes |
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