I hope you know being married doesn't make a man a simp.

RedpillAnalyst:


These happen more often than not. The excitement is over and it is time to move on.

Boredom is number one thing that push these women to unleash their whoredom.

In the next 5 years marriage will be an outdated concept. You can't sell marriage to any logical human being. You have to be a first class simp or live in Arabian country to enter that marriage contract.

Got no clue about crypto too. On the lookout for a guide as well.

bennyflipy:
This thread everything a young needs, only if i knew some of the things i know now.



N.B. please who can legitimately teach us about crypto here
I need to be investing some little saving on it, these banks are ripping people way too much.

Good move. It is important more women know not all men are suckers!

This is inspiring, hope to help more men in the future - beyond financial as well.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...

Sometime last month I went to get breakfast for myself in the morning..

The roadside canteen I went to was slightly full with all walks of men excluding women..

While I was there waiting patiently for my takeaway, two pretty ladies came for breakfast too...

They both kept to themselves and were pressing their phones...

Thankfully the men present there were all business men and artisans with more pressing concerns in their minds so the ladies were totally ignored..

I noticed an old man handling idly with a shoe needle... It turns out he was a shoe maker...

He had no shirt on, probably in his 70's with grey and white hair spewing out all over from his bald head and uncovered upper body...

Something hit me.. why should a man this old and shriveled still be fighting for his daily bread?

Where are his kids at least?

Why is he in the middle of a busy motor park with all the noise and other unpleasantries?

I still admired the fact that his pride didn't make him to resort to begging...

Knowing that he was depending on patching a shoe to get money for his breakfast..

I called the woman selling aside and whispered in her ear to discreetly ask the papa whatever he wanted for breakfast and that the bill is on me but she shouldn't mention me...


The girls didn't notice what I did because I wasn't trying to impress anyone or get attention...

When it was my turn to be served, I insisted she served the papa first...

So she went to him in his little kiosk and asked him what he wanted to eat that someone will pay..

The man refused to eat until he identified who was making such a gesture....


She tried to persuade him to eat and not worry, he still blatantly refused...

So I owned up he was just saying blessings and appreciations.. I just told him to calm down as I didn't want to create a scene..

He then ordered and was served...

By now the girls had noticed what happened..

They turned their attention to me one was telling me that I look familiar and she knows me from somewhere..

The other one was asking me if I go to dominion city church..

I could tell they were wet already..


Their eyes glistening with a mix of desire, excitement and amazement...

I cleared them that I don't know them and I don't attend the said church..

I paid for both I and the papa's food totalling a thousand naira, took my take away and left..

I was utterly disgusted by both girls..

Didn't bother reading this thoroughly. I'd advise you get more realistic with life

tosaino95:
I've see so many comments of people that astrology is trash and not real.

But today i want to use my case as an example as a Virgo i have dated two of my compatibles zodiac sign and one incompatible, and am beginning with the incompatible one which is Aries.

I will shorten the stories but in the end, and i will give my opinion zodiac signs and experience.


Aries :- The day i first see her i fall in love with her it was a love at first sight my eyes was all over her as if i never see girl before in my life, to save long story she was the first person to talk to me and Later ask me out for relationship which i gave in,and also tell her i like her too before. after two weeks or a month into the relationship all of the suddenly i started feeling strange about her after some days later my instinct told me i can only be friend with her because nothing about us is compatible but immediately i revoke the negative vibe because i so much love her ( Till Date Though )even than she love me. but i noticed one thing about her she is rude and stubborn she once tell and i confirmed it, another things about us we are boring in talk she can't bring topic or anything to discuss about and the same with me all our talk is either about her family or her then work that is stressful but the only thing i can say she tried in our relationship is about furthering my education which even lead to break up.

The Two compatible Zodiac signs.

Taurus:- This girl love me so much like am her first love but i play her love game and it was her same case i realise someone that love you can hurt you and cheat on you, but i guess it suppose to happen because if Virgo man doesn't reciprocate Taurus love, she will be tempted to cheat and it doesn't mean she didn't love virgo and we Virgo hardly trust our partners love as we like to analyze things and we also seek for perfection in any of our relationship ( i know this because i read it in our compatibility with other zodiac analysis )
unlike the Aries girl we flow well in talks if i don't talk she will do the talking and also sexual parts.
she later got pregnant to a guy during our relationship.
A week later she called my friend that she is so sorry for what happened but i understand as it's bound to happen i just smile and say OK to my friend.



Scorpio :- Hmmmm my ibo amaka exactly my type of woman, whenever i remember the day i toast her i always tell myself Guy you be bad boy.
because it doesn't take me up to 15 mins before she accept although she been falling for me but she think i like her friend than her and will go for her instead when she told this i just look at her said if to say our mind was our brain we use to study and write exam baby girl you go fail badly on hearing this, she laugh loud despite we were walking on the road that day.
on that same day as i was about to kiss her she drag to her tightly (like guy you too dey slow jare) and kiss me deeply.
after when depart i was just wondering after shock move and checking my lips if it still there.
With her am always funny and witty plus i do get the best of myself but this seeking for perfection of Virgo thing ruin our relationship i started wanting more of her and when she start giving her more i ghost her all of suddenly now am single no searching no mingle.


Now My Opinions.


Opinion On Aries girl:- Her type of girls are those that control their guys like taking the lead way ( Aries is Alpha Male and Female Zodiac sign ) and most especially female can destroy their partner stuff if he cheat and during argument they can stab their partner bother gender ( Most Notorious killers are Aries ) they are so mean because they are fire sign and Virgo is water sign so no way Virgo guy can't cope, just like i can't cope when our break up issue came up, remember when she suddenly shout on me on the road that I should never call her my love again that shout eh scared me off that day like when lion roar.

Experience :- I think you should know this will be my Worst Relationship i ever had so far.


Opinion On Taurus Girl. She easily fall for Virgo and She give you love you give her love too and she will be yours forever because it like Virgo love is her breath. but during the period Virgo seeking for perfection and thinking whether her love is true she will cheat,well i don't think female Taurus can stay loyal because they are impatient lover.

Experience :- She is the one that love me much but love is not all and just her love and desire for sex i can remember of her.


Opinion On Scorpio:- No much talk them just like Taurus the only difference is they hardly cheat in relationship.especially their females they are lovely and easily fall for Virgo just that Virgo seeking for perfection always ruin things sometimes for them,if we meet again and still the same person like before we can hopefully have something in future.

Experience :- My Best relationship so far, i can't swear 100% but 80% that she didn't cheat on me because the more i suspect her and try to catch her the less i failed woefully...

I hope you guys and ladies can learn from my relationship with them ?

I don't know who this lady is, but there's some truth to the tweet - that men can learn from.

First, like is implied here. Many men are dead average and there are more low-value men than high-value. A friendly reminder that being in this community means you should not be like most men.

And lastly, we all know most women that rant on intergender topics either do not live up to what they say or have some ulterior motive. To me, the lady here is spreading what I call, an ATTENTION NET. The intended target is some man who would slide to her DM and prove to her that he is not an average men, trying to debunk her claims.

When I see tweets like these, I don't take it personal because I can read everything from start to finish. A terrible non-redpill response will be to call names, feel hurt by the tweet or at worse try to get validation.

neyohh:
I come with receipts

This is amazing. Your story is one of the good ones, my point is that this isn't the same scenario for every marriage.

And to be real, food is a primary concern in marriages - your last sentence says otherwise even though you had to learn to cook, that speaks of a primary need to me.

Couples often fight over food, feeding expenses, and all sorts. Of course, it is not the foundation of marriage but it is like every primary need, even among singles. I would still never advise a man to dwell on blind faith that the woman he marries will learn to cook in marriage. Thanks for sharing your experience.

olabrinks:
I didn’t know how to cook when I got married. I was 23 and I just always hated the process of it. My mother always cooked for us growing up because she loved it, she spoiled us. My husband married me knowing I couldn’t cook, but the shame of me allowing My husband to cook esp when guests came over i just had to learn. Now years down the line, I know how people feel when they eat my food, its positive. And I know how my husbands friends envy him because he has someone like me, not to brag but it’s just the truth. So imagine if my husband left me for someone else whilst dating. I’m saying food is important, but trust me when you get married the kind of issues that you will face ehnn, food/good cook will be your last concern. Marriage is harrdddd work.

There is no near perfect lady. No one is near perfect - our flaws are too pronounced to be close to perfection.

Ladies have many trivial traits they use to select who they'd want to be with. Why can't a man also comfortably choose a woman on the basis of culinary skills. A lot of men get dumped or shut down by very funny qualifiers. With that in mind, I will not judge or villainize a man that dumps a lady because of kitchen business - whatever he thinks will work for him, that's his choice.

Some will follow your teaching approach and regret things like I mentioned earlier. And that is why I will never advise men to cuff a woman in hopes she'd learn to cook - maybe, the learning could be done pre-marriage.

tunize:

Valid point but in truth not everyone was pampered there Are some ladies that can't cook not necessarily that they can't light a match but they might just be lagging behind on some meals or have minor errors that I think can be learnt unlike wen a girl has bad character.

I'm not a great cook, but I'd do well to master it fast - cooking is a useful skill but for the sake of marriage, wise decisions should be made.

Still on you could have a near perfect lady that can't cook so because she nor Sabi cook u go dump am? Na to teach her

Before you dwell on this, know now that a bunch of women that can't cook will not want to even when married.

Some come from a pampered life of leaving things to a maid or have vowed never to cook for any man under the guise of feminism. So, a man cannot always bet that his already married wife will learn to cook in marriage. It works in Africa Magic, and romance movies. In the real world, you may find yourself cooking for your kids or eating out on a weekly basis.

I'm not a great cook, but I'd do well to master it fast - cooking is a useful skill but for the sake of marriage, wise decisions should be made.

tunize:
Why not cooking is learnable and teachable unlike bad character.

Miscellaneous Indicators of Sexual Market Value

Personality, Race, Age, Location - and every other subjective thing imaginable from a woman.

It is for this reason men shouldn't improve just for women. You can have Looks, Money, Status and still get rejected on the basis of X,Y,Z. Although, you will have better chances with those three.

This also shows that chasing women aggressively can be a waste of time. A man reaches his peak sexual market value in his 30s, and maybe early 40s. For women, it is in her 20s. This is why many try to get wifed up fast. I've seen women celebrate older women marrying younger guys like some trophy. They know his sexual market value is just on the rise, while their female counterpart is on the decline.

To make the best out of things, a man needs to understand SMV and improve it up to the point he attracts the best for himself without excessively chasing it.

A bright week to everyone. Peace.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Sexual Market Value

The well known talk on Looks, Money, Status is not very well understood - it is not just about getting laid.

Our world is fashioned in a way that a man has to perform and he can only come off as attractive and even manly when his sexual market value increases. A woman can choose to level up as well, but due to our gynocentric world and the rise of simps, she may just need to have an hourglass figure and endowments in the right places, or wait for some man to cuff her on the wedding aisle.

They have mad options, but we don't.

Looks

Now, we have the benefit of using looks to our advantage, but women cash in on it more. Almost any kind of woman is attractive these days, the range for men isn't so wide. You'd see an example of this in modelling industries that hype several obese models with the term plus-sized. Slowly, it becomes a craving fetish - can't say the same for obese men.

Still, we can choose to exercise, eat right, groom right. It isn't just for women, but for ourselves.

I used to struggle with body odor at a period in time. Recently rose above that by showering more frequently and applying scents more - perfume or deodorant. My confidence boosted after I got some compliments in that line - and I just wanted to smell better. Not everyone will look like Leonardo Di Caprio, but looks transcend a lot - clothing, facial impressions etc.


Contd

This debate has been on for a while now. I think it is trivial as I have seen points from both sides. It just looked like one party wanted their opinion to be endorsed so bad. But thanks for concluding on this note.

SOZINN:
Some of us here need to take chill pills, we being mad disrespectful to each other.

If I SOZINN was your wife and you shared some of your responsibilities with me, then you shouldn't have a problem with the kind of decisions I make. Let me give instances.

If we both return from work, there's no way in Hades you are chilling in the dinning while I make our food alone, the way I see it you've only got three options.
1. You get yo ass off that chair and join me in the kitchen.
2. U order your food online.
3. U go to bed hungry

If we had three kids and you paid tuition for 2 while I handle one. I'd withdraw that child and register him/her in a cheap school if I think his/her fees are expensive. With or without your permission, I don't need your approval. I pay the fees so I control this bìtch.

If we had one car, you can drive it to work for the first three days, i.e Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. I take it on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. On Sunday we can use it together as a couple on our way to church.

If our T. V broke and you wanted me to replace it, no problem but don't be surprised if I get a smaller one. If it's what I can afford.

If I have to contribute money to buy groceries and jumia can't deliver it to our house. Then we're going shopping together (couple goals).

My point is, if you can share your responsibilities with me then you should be cool if I decide how we're going to use my money. If you're not comfortable with this then you have a problem not me. Something is seriously wrong with you.

On the other hand if I was the man of the house, you can't tell me shįt like "chores should not be tied to one gender". Cos when we talk about providing for the family that has to be tied to one gender.

Now I've seen where the above scenario works, I know couples that are doing it and they're fine. But not all men can live like that.
I believe that masculinity should portray dominance in a home and feminity subordination. But that's me, I won't try to choke you with my opinions and force you to agree with me. This is why I don't like arguments.
Never let anyone define your masculinity for you, do things the way you see fit. Be your own man.


PEACE

Money

I've seen Nigerians make thousands of dollars in legit ways. Surprisingly, people can make more money by doing less work. By less work, it doesn't endorse laziness. I think smart/strategic work is the phrase.

To any man fantasizing about a world where he'd be respected without money, please stop. That thinking keeps a lot of men poor even though there is truly more to respect than money sometimes.

Some finance books I have read do not always translate money to numbers in a bank account. It could be an asset or people currency on the basis of financial benefits due to useful networking. A man without money many times will be disrespected and his masculinity questioned all his life.

Regardless of what others think, having money pays the said man the most and his income should always be used wisely.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Sexual Market Value

The well known talk on Looks, Money, Status is not very well understood - it is not just about getting laid.

Our world is fashioned in a way that a man has to perform and he can only come off as attractive and even manly when his sexual market value increases. A woman can choose to level up as well, but due to our gynocentric world and the rise of simps, she may just need to have an hourglass figure and endowments in the right places, or wait for some man to cuff her on the wedding aisle.

They have mad options, but we don't.

Looks

Now, we have the benefit of using looks to our advantage, but women cash in on it more. Almost any kind of woman is attractive these days, the range for men isn't so wide. You'd see an example of this in modelling industries that hype several obese models with the term plus-sized. Slowly, it becomes a craving fetish - can't say the same for obese men.

Still, we can choose to exercise, eat right, groom right. It isn't just for women, but for ourselves.

I used to struggle with body odor at a period in time. Recently rose above that by showering more frequently and applying scents more - perfume or deodorant. My confidence boosted after I got some compliments in that line - and I just wanted to smell better. Not everyone will look like Leonardo Di Caprio, but looks transcend a lot - clothing, facial impressions etc.


Contd

Status

You may not effectively gain status if you aggressively push redpill knowledge to the world. You may have to start with something else.

One of my favorite YouTubers happens to be a fitness and calisthenics junkie. His status came from his fitness niche, he still manages to dish out redpill information on the side.

Neil Strauss, author of 'The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists' did not just influence men on manosphere topics. He was also a notable writer and journalist and has a blog dedicated to dishing out useful life guides.

Point is, every man has a niche and sphere of influence before coming across redpill knowledge. TRP can only serve as a guide.

Gaining status has been quite hard for me. I have noticed you may find yourself playing to the bait of people in the process - but with an end goal. If you are in the habit of cutting people off for trivial reasons, you may not create so much influence. Sometimes to get to people, you need to play their game.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Sexual Market Value

The well known talk on Looks, Money, Status is not very well understood - it is not just about getting laid.

Our world is fashioned in a way that a man has to perform and he can only come off as attractive and even manly when his sexual market value increases. A woman can choose to level up as well, but due to our gynocentric world and the rise of simps, she may just need to have an hourglass figure and endowments in the right places, or wait for some man to cuff her on the wedding aisle.

They have mad options, but we don't.

Looks

Now, we have the benefit of using looks to our advantage, but women cash in on it more. Almost any kind of woman is attractive these days, the range for men isn't so wide. You'd see an example of this in modelling industries that hype several obese models with the term plus-sized. Slowly, it becomes a craving fetish - can't say the same for obese men.

Still, we can choose to exercise, eat right, groom right. It isn't just for women, but for ourselves.

I used to struggle with body odor at a period in time. Recently rose above that by showering more frequently and applying scents more - perfume or deodorant. My confidence boosted after I got some compliments in that line - and I just wanted to smell better. Not everyone will look like Leonardo Di Caprio, but looks transcend a lot - clothing, facial impressions etc.


Contd

Sexual Market Value

The well known talk on Looks, Money, Status is not very well understood - it is not just about getting laid.

Our world is fashioned in a way that a man has to perform and he can only come off as attractive and even manly when his sexual market value increases. A woman can choose to level up as well, but due to our gynocentric world and the rise of simps, she may just need to have an hourglass figure and endowments in the right places, or wait for some man to cuff her on the wedding aisle.

They have mad options, but we don't.

Looks

Now, we have the benefit of using looks to our advantage, but women cash in on it more. Almost any kind of woman is attractive these days, the range for men isn't so wide. You'd see an example of this in modelling industries that hype several obese models with the term plus-sized. Slowly, it becomes a craving fetish - can't say the same for obese men.

Still, we can choose to exercise, eat right, groom right. It isn't just for women, but for ourselves.

I used to struggle with body odor at a period in time. Recently rose above that by showering more frequently and applying scents more - perfume or deodorant. My confidence boosted after I got some compliments in that line - and I just wanted to smell better. Not everyone will look like Leonardo Di Caprio, but looks transcend a lot - clothing, facial impressions etc.


Contd

Not enough backstory to understand this. What was your standing relationship with her?

Stranger? Neighbor? spill!

By the way, I do not approve of fornication but I'd try to give the likely state of what went down. She probably shit tested you and you failed. In her mind, you're all about the sex and she pulled the friend card ASAP.

Or maybe you weren't interesting enough. If you just went straight and expected her to comply, then that could be the reason things went the way it did. If you're in your 20s or early 30s, I'd advice you keep improving your sexual market value and get the essentials checked - try to make you getting attention the norm, not the other way round.

Don't chase her without leveling up. That way, she'd know you didn't waste your time thinking of how to enter her panties but moved on.

Deejay1000:
had a small issue yesterday.
invited a girl to my house, its been a while we spoke. so i told her to come see tried to do the do but she nor gree las las sha.
told me that she sees me as a freind bla bla bla.
is there a way i can reverse this ??/

Like every community, there would be people who take beliefs to several extremes.

TRP educates men on intergender dynamics. In plain terms, what female nature is, how to handle relationships with women, become a high-value man and more. The involvement of women as the subject of discourse is the starting point for beginners, because most men are dealing with women wrong - google SIMP or BETA Provider to get the gist.

As a man progresses with TRP, he learns how to improve his sexual market value, and get his shit together - self improvement.

Since I joined, I have been more productive and strengthened interest in some self help books specifically for men. I am in no way begging for approval. Only posting this so the simps here and misguided men that do not know better will have something to think about before commenting.

dannyrhymes600:

so what are they all about

No it isn't

dannyrhymes600:
so this redpill and simp stuff is all about pvssy. SMH na wah oh, me Sha my own girlfriend is barbell curl

I get his angle though. Sex is what several women use to manipulate men.

It can be a very serious deal for a lot of men.

obinna58:

I hate reading bulsh*t like this. Stop being to hard on yourself
It's a man's nature to be a man.


I love sex but due priorities I have to do some things first before I think of sex.


I masturbate to keep alive though and I'm not ashamed of it.

Funny! I recently decided to quit soft drinks. Start by reducing the frequency.

That would mean not stocking up so much of it like someone mentioned earlier. No matter how active you are, it is never a good idea to consume too much of these soda drinks.

Kudos on the gym commitment. Stay fit bro!

Hugomexis:
I just came back from the gym about 20 minutes ago.My first port of call was to grab a bottle of pepsi from my fridge.As I was drinking,it occured to me that this was my 9th bottle of it in five days.I can't understand this my new craze for pepsi.Are there side effects?

I am not taking sides, so trust my comment to be balanced and unbiased.

First. If your story is true, then it is a case of sexual harassment. You don't just go out touching butts off context - man or woman.

Second, your comment here suggests hypocrisy and confirms in a way how women make claims of sexual harassment only when a man is involved.

If you keep doing this with fellow girls, touching parts off context - you're also in the sexual harassment business.

Peace.

Hintona:


Tueh! Not me.

I don't touch boys nyash only my fellow girls.

More reason men can't dwell in their shortcomings. We'd always have them and the things we lack may be in abundance for someone else.

Best approach might be to make up for it and never play victim.

DieRich5:
wahala no Dy finish at all
peoples Dy find tallness........me dy pray mk I stop to Dy grow cus I'm too tall

I'm sick of these angry ones mixing TRP with misogyny.

Bro, move past that anger, it might be hard. Truly strong people make out the best from bad experiences. The majority of the world is filled with weak people, that will choose to fuel bad with bad.

I can't understand your experiences well enough, but staying bitter or angry doesn't help - hope things get better with time.

Jmw2kblogposts:
I hate my mother because she is the worst thing that has ever happened to me, i see most women out there as the enemy now because i'm still fresh on completely digesting the redpill although i know its the absolute truth about women and then the young ladies i know today just keep proving me right even more and more and thereby complimenting to my accumulating mysogyny!

I just hope this doesn't affect me in the long run.

TRP IS GOLDEN!!

Get this. Being ALPHA starts from the mind.

I don't fancy using the word these days because every guy wants to be ALPHA, even at the cost of putting up a front. Height doesn't make a man ALPHA.

Can it be an advantage? Of course, but that is just on the attractive scale. A lot of people are drawn to tall individuals, some not so much. Even at that, you can score all points on the attractive scale and lack confidence and value - traits that define an ALPHA male. Work on that, and forget about your height.

PS- If you're under 5ft 8, you may want to consider moving out with taller guys less or keeping them in reasonable distance depending on the occasion. Many tall guys love being around shorter guys. It can sometimes exaggerate their worth before they speak.

Helios14:
I actually have a serious question. you know how women are attracted to god-like genes, what if you have everything but height, is it a problem? is height a determining factor towards being an alpha?

I have not mentioned this before, but I stand by Christian beliefs strongly even with my flaws. Although, I don't identify as religious (topic for another day). Why I can't always blame religion is because acceptance of wrong counsel starts from the mind - those church guys will believe what they want to.

TRP doesn't mandate any man to abandon religion. I've read enough to know that, a man can choose to level up in his spirituality too. The problem is being disciplined enough to have sound judgement. Not everyone here will be PUAs or spin plates till they die. Some want to get married, we have different goals.

The more people see TRP as a guide and personalize wisely, the better.

ayomikuolatunji:
You can't save simps...simping has come to stay and there is nothing we can do about it. I asked a friend of mine if he will knee to propose to his girlfriend, the idiotic and foolish simp said he will even lie down and propose and the other church guys supported... I hate religion. It build weak men especially Christian religion... Highly irritated.

Still on insecurities. I have long being a shy person but by reinventing myself, i can speak more confidently in public.

One very common advice i have seen some guys receive from women on social life, dating, business etc, is to be themselves.

In many ways, women are not doing that and do not take that approach to deal with insecurities.

A desperate woman probably with a long sexual history and looking for marriage reinvents herself to be an ideal wife material just to get wifed. On social media, ladies portray the same beauty standards they kick against, many times for attention and money. Let me not even start with those that patronise butt lifts, pushup bras and the likes.

Bottom line, ladies know how to recreate themselves and get what they want. You don't have to fake anything. Example, if you're shy, act/mimic confidence - it is several times better than staying shy and expecting the world to applaud you.

nwaezeemmanuel:
WHAT WOMEN DO #2

Size Up Other Women

Here's something observation has taught me, as i enjoy studying human behaviour real-time.

Women just by looking, size up other women - often to gauge their own worth.

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a woman scope another woman's body - to the most intimate of parts, especially if the lady being viewed is more attractive and fits the hourglass figure better than she does - it's sexual harassment when a man does it.

Besides body analysis, the centre of focus could be how well achieved the woman being viewed is.

In doing so, they can do the following:

- Analyse themselves and try to match up to that woman's standard.

- Bad mouth the better looking/higher achieving woman, or belittle her physically/mentally.


The point is, a lot of women have more insecurities than you think and war with other women at the very foundation of the mind.

So, many would reinvent themselves. Wear make up to hide about everything on the face. Wear high heels to nullify being short, a lot of times because they want to meet up to a standard - and yes, they'd deny claims of trying to impress.

As a man, don't play too much mental games with your insecurities. Work on your strengths, don't hide your insecurities, deal with them and move on.

WHAT WOMEN DO #2

Size Up Other Women

Here's something observation has taught me, as i enjoy studying human behaviour real-time.

Women just by looking, size up other women - often to gauge their own worth.

I can't tell you how many times I've seen a woman scope another woman's body - to the most intimate of parts, especially if the lady being viewed is more attractive and fits the hourglass figure better than she does - it's sexual harassment when a man does it.

Besides body analysis, the centre of focus could be how well achieved the woman being viewed is.

In doing so, they can do the following:

- Analyse themselves and try to match up to that woman's standard.

- Bad mouth the better looking/higher achieving woman, or belittle her physically/mentally.


The point is, a lot of women have more insecurities than you think and war with other women at the very foundation of the mind.

So, many would reinvent themselves. Wear make up to hide about everything on the face. Wear high heels to nullify being short, a lot of times because they want to meet up to a standard - and yes, they'd deny claims of trying to impress.

As a man, don't play too much mental games with your insecurities. Work on your strengths, don't hide your insecurities, deal with them and move on.

We can't really say. But i think our guys take simping to a whole new level.

The problem is lack of understanding, and as I've observed from time to time, a lack of self esteem.

In addition to the horrible social norms that they have been brainwashed with.

As i type, one of our unwise brothers is validating a girl he doesn't know jack about on Instagram. Some may be dumping their money on pointless Anonymous, until it gets red.

Most of us here, if not all may have made similar mistakes. We can only hope more men get smarter.

Saviolamemphix:
I think Naija has d highest number of simpanzeez in d world..

Very useful advice.

Combine this with a healthy diet. You don't have to be perfect, just avoid big dietary sins.

Like drinking too much alcohol until you're wasted. Eating more than you should, or always stepping down every meal with Pepsi.

Take care of your body.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Just finished a tricep home workout - dips and improvised movements, basically.

Not like I'm a fitness guru, but at least i felt some pump in my arms. Sincerely hope no one here goes a week without exercising at least twice.

Attractiveness aside, exercising is a very healthy practice and has weirdly helped me focus better on my personal life.

Just finished a tricep home workout - dips and improvised movements, basically.

Not like I'm a fitness guru, but at least i felt some pump in my arms. Sincerely hope no one here goes a week without exercising at least twice.

Attractiveness aside, exercising is a very healthy practice and has weirdly helped me focus better on my personal life.

Especially on dating.

SOZINN:
Never take advice from women about women

That's the spirit and this should be the mentality. Very inspiring piece.

May God crown all our efforts with success!

angelfallz:


i have 12 rules for life by Jordan Peterson, i would soon start reading it.

The red part, i made a decision years ago in 2016 to not be among those who were crying that govt is killing them. in 2016 if you guys can remember, Nigeria was neck deep in recession. No money anywhere, everywhere was dry, Buhari was killing the country. One day, I entered shoprite to buy bread, omo come and see people buying things, pushing trolley loads of goods. It was as if I entered a different country. Outside shoprite there was recession inside shoprite there was no recession.
I understood. During recession, men who are worth their onions are striving and pushing, when govt is bad, men who don't blame others are pushing, when govt put out policies that would crash the economy, men who determined are making money.
I promised myself then, that i would not blame govt for anything, I chose there and then not to be among those men that would be crying from pillar to post the wailing wailers that things are hard, that Buhari is killing them.

If other men are making it when things are hard, when Buhari is killing the country, when insecurity is everywhere, when 1$ = ₦460, why shouldn't I make it?

You can choose to find sense in what was posted or ignore. I have talked about my transitioning several times over here, and wouldn't waste my time.

blinking001:

Am I getting confused or something? Are you not thesame person that Supports women stupidity all over Nairaland? You repented when?