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Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

You can't be entrusted with that child now because you wanted her dead before, and now you are claiming be changed and responsible...The truth is that people hardly change, hence the saying "once a soldier, always a soldier", "once a Teddy, always a Teddy", maybe your sudden change is with a malicious motive...You past is dealing with you right now and I advise you to give them some time so that you can be proven worthy over time, don't rush things.

Graceful101:
Can i tell you my life experience?

There was a time in my life when i was very depressed. I will leave my house to visit a married friend who stays in her husband's village. Everytime i plan to go see this my friend i always leave as early as six in the morning justso that i can get to her house on time and spend quality time with her before coming back.
On one of my visit i entered a keke. I was the first person to enter this keke before i knew it four other guys entered and i was in the middle. The bad thing i did was that i was so engrossed in my phone that i didn't bother to look up and see the faces of people that entered. We journeyed until i felt goosebumps all over my body. The sensation was a strong one.
Mind you i only experience goosebumps when i see something irritating but in this case there was nothing irritating and so i waved it off and continued with my phone. The feeling became stronger and so i looked up and the faces i saw in the keke nearly killed me.
How i got down from that keke is a miracle. It is only the women around that saw what happened that can bear me witness.
My thoughts? What would your kind have said if they had succeeded in killing me? Would you not have sharply concluded that i went to visit a man?

Let me say only congrats for you being alive today after that encounter...I would have said more if it was a private chat.

noskcid:
Na 23 years big like this?

Stress can turn a young girl of 18 to look like 50years, and runs have a high level of stress. Come to think of it, it seems this girl is known for camping for a long time, that is why the mother never bothered about her whereabout for over a month...."The love of Benz is the beginning of ritual".

Graceful101:
You must really hate all women including your mother. Men go missing you know? Every time a lady goes missing you people want to link it to runs why?

Yes a large percentage of girls that goes missing are due to runs. Just visit any university environment in the evening you will understand what I mean better. Some even took prostitution to the just ended COP28.

Whenever a girl goes missing I don't usually take it seriously or something of importance, because if you see the risks these girls do take because of money you will weep. How can a girl visit a total stranger she met on a hookup website without disclosing where she is going to anyone? they will rather lie about their destination. Some will leave official motor parks and stand by the roadside waiting for a rich guy to carry them for free. Most girls hate to work, all they know is to depend on men in this times of money ritual. Well let the foolish become wise. Anyway I wish her safe return, of which I even doubt because it's been over a month since she went missing.

liamjakes247:
Web developer & media manager.

Web development can't get you a job today because anyone can develop a website without coding anything, it's that simple. You must diversify if you need a job.

jabor4Naija:
Then what is the essence of the two step verification if it can still be hacked? This is crazy

Two factor authentication is not a bullet proof against hacking...The pure truth is that no technology is 100% secure as of today, because hundreds of ways to hack each and every technology is continually in development and they are released every second.

Coolsat:
He's a Tinubu guy and he's getting his groove back 😂

Yes Sheriff Oborivwori was Okpe local government chairman at that time, his successor Emmanuel Uduaghan can be seen side by side with Ibori, the Odidigboigbo one of the universe.

maasoap:
Hell is imagination of the religiously brainwashed people

Are you in anyway related to this man?, because all your comments seems like that.

Islie:
She said the suspects would be charged to court after police findings.



https://gazettengr.com/akure-socialite-died-in-brothel-after-sex-romp-with-mistress-police/

When you get to some stages of age in life eg. 30 years and above, you must shun high/hot sex encounters as a man, I can't even imagine some individuals who take various types of drugs and and herbs just to please a woman sexually... You can't satisfy a woman 100%... I call this act "self sentence to death". Get married and go easy and slow with your wife, so that your days will be long.

Mama Africa doing her thing, cheers... I want you to also try and get married this year, atleast money is not the problem for being single...

liamjakes247:
How do you guys get remote jobs. I have skills but getting job, never. How are you guys doing it. Pls let me know

What are the skills you have?

CalabarPikin:
See how they cover their faces before taking pictures.

If na my beloved country, them for give them portrait shots with unimaginable caption

Yeah, it's called Mugshot!

Is this not the same Dauda Lawal-Dare that refused to pickup his calls when Allison Madueke requested for the $9 Billion that she gave him for safe keeping? Na the guy... in David's voice "Abobi answer your call oga"

hmm

WithX:
In as much as i enjoy and appetite your analogy, i must say the examples given are far fetched and unrealistic,
The person in question is a Chemistry Edu, are you implying that he should develop an atomic bomb for him to be seen as a treat
or he should rather develop a vaccine for the next pandemic

In all its good to have a skill that makes one stand out.

Then if this guy in question can't make anything meaningful with Chemistry Edu then let him switch to other productive ventures. Confining oneself to only one trade is suicidal.

dboY1123:
I haven't gotten a single job interview on LinkedIn and indeed, the few ones are got are from LinkedIn and a teaching job.
The teaching job is either very far from my place or a very poor salary! Already, I lost interest in teaching even before this time.

I went for an interview in ifo Ogun state, a government approved private secondary school, and the principal proudly informed me that they pay graduates 30K.. This school celebrated her 23rd year anniversary recently and you're paying graduates 30k?? And you expect me to leave SANGO to Ifo, just to take 30k he was even requesting for my original result and referees!

I took my loses and left, after I assured them that I will resume on Monday (yesterday), right now I'm still job hunting but I'm actually not interested in teaching anymore, maybe in Lagos they pay well, definitely not here.

The other jobs I applied for like, sales marketing, receptionist, virtual receptionist and so on, none ever replied me.

Am I doing something different? I am new to job hunting so how do y'all find and locate jobs?

Thanks for your replies

I urge you to restart writing again, but this time, try and write about what is in demand eg. scarce IT guides and tutorials, you must not write a 50 page book to make money, a small but concise write-up is enough. Then on how to monetize your book do online or even radio adverts.
Finally for you to get job on LinkedIn, you must standout, you must know alot about your field, let me give you one secret: If you can make yourself important offline then your LinkedIn profile will be contacted for jobs even without you applying for one. Let me break the word "make yourself important" down. Now for you to be important to numerous employers you must have either one or even two of these qualities
1. You are a threat to their business or organization. (One example of this is a young man called John Wu. This Chinese developed a free and open source Android application called "Magisk", this application can be used to root any Android device without any form of detection. Normally if you root an Android device some apps will detect the rooted device and they will automatically stop working and exit. So after seeing the ability of this young man Google Inc., the makers of Android employed him in 2021.)
2. You are well known or you just attained stardom in your field (One example of this is a UK young man called Marcus Hutchins, he stopped the Hushpuppi ransomware called WannaCry. I am confident to tell you that he works for multiple companies and even UK secret intelligence service GCHQ.)

stacyadams:
Una no talk when h dey alive why?

There was talks here and there but no body wants to listen. Just like OPM pastor, Apostle Johnson Suleiman and Biodun Fatoyinbo of COZA even St. DKG Miyerijesu etc that are currently alive today with multiple scandals and accusations did anybody do anything? even CAN did nothing. In 2014 when TB Joshua building collapsed and killed hundreds, did we got any tangible result or sanction from the Lagos state investigative panel?

Melezenawii:
You see this APC National Women Leader, Dr Betty Edu nah correct signing.

Personally, I had my reservations during the convention that produced her but hey, she has proven me wrong.

Osun 2022


https://twitter.com/AsiwajuOladimej/status/1547298038313517057

Her woes can be easily traced to when she said David Oyedepo prayers made her minister, the Bishop is a serious enemy of the president, following the yes daddy saga.

So many scandalous things about this woman.

Let us wait and see how all these drama will end.

State governments in Nigeria are killing farming ventures in Nigeria. Eg. in Edo state real estate agencies have bought almost all the farmland leaving only government reservation forests, but the price of getting a small farmland from this government reservation forests to practice Taungya farming which is legal is on the high side, that you even run at a loss.

Hmm

Mornachy system of government is worse than what we are experiencing today. In monarchy there may be no change of power during your lifetime on earth, meaning if the king is bad the masses will suffer until the eventual death of that bad king.

But this same Reno Omokri blatantly refused to speak about the International Tingo group investment scam of which he was a major player. Reno Omokri served as an ambassador to Tingo group and he was also promoted to the position of a director. The Betta Edu case is still under investigation and you spoke about it but your own that the US securities and exchange commission indicted Tingo group and charged same to court is too small for you to comment about.

hmm

hmm

Banbanna:
FYI, it's Ugbiyokho, not Ugbighokho

My spelling is the ancient and correct spelling, just research and you will see that it was corrupted, just the way people are corrupting Ekehuan to be Ekewan, and Sokponba to Sakponba, Ugbogui to Ugbogi.

hmm

Can the government really implement their threat of going after holders of fraudulent certificates? Infact it is fallacy to issues such a threat because the Nigerian government authenticated most of these universities during the period these certificates were issued...The other day a minister said the Nigerian government will sue the United Nations Organization... Let's think before we talk, not thinking after making a statement!!!

They acted as typical armed robbers by carting away properties with arresting any suspect. The case would have been different is the took custody of one or two persons, it would have been a case of bail...