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Family › Re: What Other Means Do We Use? by Oahray:
deols: I understand the point of view of Christians who think PM sex is alright since all sins are equal. But a Muslim dare not say that for with us, stealing a 5naira pencil isn't the same as killing somebody. There are major and minor sins.

Another is the issue of what the mind thinks. With us, that is not a sin since it is absolutely normal to have thoughts. It is not possible that you would be married to someone you have no feelings for. We however are encouraged to find a way out of such thoughts, get up, do something like reading, fasting, to take the minds off stuffs that cqn lead to sins. Until the acts perceived are carried out, it is not termed a sin.

Everyone talking about how uneasy it is to not have done any kind of kissing and touching haven't seen enough. I have heard and seen and sure they exist.
abeg eeee. Quit the subtle whatever-it-is-you-are-doing. As if I don't have Muslim friends. They also rationalise about stuff like this.

Truth is, the Bible doesn't say all sins are the same. It even says there is a sin that can't be forgiven. It doesn't advocate premarital sex either, and even terms sexual acts outside intercourse as 'loose conduct and uncleanness'. Your post made sense but comparing based on the opinion of some who see nothing wrong with it, and ignoring the ones who do, is just not right.

Btw, it's easy to talk about overcoming temptation, especially online, when you haven't faced one. What happens when you have the chance to do what is wrong? That's what counts. Have real friendship with non-relatives of the opposite sex and come back to tell us how easy it is to avoid those things.

That is even assuming you are one of the persons you know that have never engaged in the mentioned acts. tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 4:32pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=~ZN~]What was a perverted act 40 years ago is now the new norm. So much for the future generation. Who knows what might spring up 50 years from now?[/quote]lemme suggest...
Reduction of legal age of consent to 12, legalising bestiality, redefining public nudity...

Lemme stop there smiley
The world is going crazy, and it is termed freedom.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 4:11pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=~ZN~]Had a feeling it would come to this. I care less about the gay men - more shawties for the likes of me. cool[/quote]forgotten lesbians? Watch that babe you want get married to another babe grin tongue
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Supreme Court Strikes Down DOMA by Oahray: 4:06pm On Jun 26, 2013
Afam4eva: I hope the law that says a human must marry a human must be truncated. Some humans prefer marrying their dogs. I think they have the right to do that.
lol. I think the USA is getting there grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 4:05pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=~ZN~]angry Always include the warning label is LARGE Red fonts.

Good thing, I had my mouse just at the exit button. What is that "thing" anyways? grin[/quote]she isn't that bad jor. undecided
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 4:03pm On Jun 26, 2013
ogugua88: I told ya! 5-4 in the other direction. cool
oh, he presicted DOMA would be upheld?

CFC and you agreed that you predicted correctly angry
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 3:50pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]shocked shocked shocked what stopped u from reaching a conclusion?[/quote]em... I can't discuss family issues in public smiley
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Supreme Court Strikes Down DOMA by Oahray: 3:47pm On Jun 26, 2013
CFCfan: Yeah. The law was unconstitutional in the 1st place.
abeg eeee... I can't believe they re-defined marriage just to ensure 'gay rights'. Keep it up undecided

*moving to Russia*
Family › Re: What Other Means Do We Use? by Oahray: 3:43pm On Jun 26, 2013
biolabee: very succinct

The third camp is those whom osisi, if i presume to speak for her , is really interested in
Those who did not have premarital sex, did not kiss or lick or fricky do...
she might have to search hard sha, or ask older generations in arranged marriages.
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Supreme Court Strikes Down DOMA by Oahray: 3:37pm On Jun 26, 2013
Smh... CFCfan, you predicted this... Or was it the opposite?

At times it feels like I do not understand the world anymore. Generation gap perhaps? Not unexpected sha. undecided
Family › Re: What Other Means Do We Use? by Oahray: 3:31pm On Jun 26, 2013
bettymafy: 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 verse 36

But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
I do not think it's talking about freedom to have premarital sex, but about marriage vs singleness. Quoted out of context.
Family › Re: What Other Means Do We Use? by Oahray: 3:26pm On Jun 26, 2013
babyosisi: I wonder if there are people reading or writing on this thread that are test driving as the thread grows grin grin
Even if I was (I'm not saying I am), I wouldn't pretend it's test-driving when it isn't. tongue

So far, on this thread, the only difference I've seen between the two camps is that one intended to do it (sex and related practices), while the other did it (maybe even many times) unintentionally and thus is more righteous than the former group. lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 3:14pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: undecidedundecidedundecided

@oahray, why cancel my name?.. It's not as if you even saw her bra hand grin
how can I see what wasn't there? lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 3:13pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]did u do practicals too?cheesy[/quote]assuming I understood your question, yes, but we didn't reach a conclusion lipsrsealed
Family › Re: What Other Means Do We Use? by Oahray: 3:08pm On Jun 26, 2013
You guys should quit the argument already. "pro-test-driving" and "anti-test-driving" alike. I do not think the thread is on the sinfulness of premarital sex. The bible is clear on that one.

If you fornicate, you have sinned. If you imagine it, you have sinned. If you condemn another for doing what you are doing, you have sinned again. tongue

What was the topic again? lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 2:49pm On Jun 26, 2013
Caracta: Last night ke? I was with lalaosky and oahray last night.
yes it's true grin

Family discussion sha smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 2:17pm On Jun 26, 2013
Am I allowed to blame GEJ or NEPA for the double post? undecided
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 2:16pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=~ZN~]Some chinese kid born with the deformity. The sad part is, it's growing longer each week. shocked

What's worse is, surgeons (at least the ones she went to) say it can't be removed at the moment. undecided

Read this line:


Hopefully, something will be worked out for the poor boy. sad[/quote]I read about it. It's sad mehn... sad Many weird stories from China.

In naija, you'd have seen headlines like...
"BIZARRE! Woman gives birth to baby with tail"

And comments like...
"na village things"
"the work of the enemy"
"the anti-christ has been born"
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 2:06pm On Jun 26, 2013
Tovot: oahary the moon man how are you cheesy
and I thought I was hiding sad

I'm good. How is our in-law treating you?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 2:03pm On Jun 26, 2013
joeydozzy: who's cussing out my ex?'angry angry

and who added one more side to make it triangle? undecided
grin
You guys are crayzee sha grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:59pm On Jun 26, 2013
[quote author=~ZN~]Closet thing I could picture. huh

"Rope-like azz" = an azz with a rope? undecided



[size=5pt]Seun, wtf, I can't type any word like it is again?[/size] angry[/quote]ok, buh that pic is still gross and pitiable. Ruined my good laugh at Sholly's expense. grin

*puts on armour*
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:49pm On Jun 26, 2013
That's gross zn
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:38pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: I was baffled too when I saw her rope-like azz in her leaked sexxx tape grin
we didn't have this conversation, ok? undecided

grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 1:30pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: My gen's rope got spoilt, can I use your rope-like azz to start mine?grin
rope-like? Not like sim-card, or plywood, or grinding stone... Rope? Now that's hard to imagine. lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:53pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: Buwahahahahahahaha... Lwtmb for here grin

I've had worse!!

Moments like

*nepa brings light*

Me: UP NEPAAAAAA...*voice comes to an immediate sad end when I realised they took it while I was praising them**

Moments like

ME: guy wetin dey sup?. Light don come?

Friend: yes o, since 3mins ago

ME: I dey show now..*enters okada*

*receives call while enroute to my house after a minute of making the call*

Friend: guy, these idiots don take.. (I no go even allow am finish the bad news*

ME: okada, abeg turn back grin
bwahahahaha grin

The okada part got me rotflmao grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:47pm On Jun 26, 2013
grin grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:40pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: Lol.. I'm not disputing that.. I hate nepa pass you for all the seen and unforseen/future fustrations they will/had/will give to me

But I'm just saying some places are lucky with light
you no fit hate them pass me jor. Have you had moments when, after many hours of lack, they finally bring the light, and when you rush to plug your phone or lappy, they immediately take it again for some more hours?

Arrrgh! It's annoying just thinking of it sef.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:36pm On Jun 26, 2013
ItsModella: On another thought, Eze since you're gonna be hosting me, send me a first class ticket, I'm allergic to economy.
dem no go wreck my Eze broda IJN.... Say amen! tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:34pm On Jun 26, 2013
jackbauersballs: Somebody won that lottery last night sha...and it wasn't me

I was so angry when I realised this morning,that it was another day of grinding that awaited me...and not the life of big booty bytches and egbow plantations embarassed embarassed
grin grin
People sha grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 12:31pm On Jun 26, 2013
lalaosky: See as all these gehls wan come PH cos of "hosting".. Smh

@modella, most villa don't get light for long period of time but those that do get, omo if you go there, you chop light sotay e go purge you. Just go to nise(at least the part I went to), and you'll give testimony
abeg eee. Naija's room for improvement in power sector alone big pass a combination of Old Trafford and Stamford Bridge and Camp Nou and... *continues reeling names off a long list*
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:46am On Jun 26, 2013
Idowuogbo: Come to where? Bros d money wey I go use tour dem sides, I go buy full tank for my made in Nigeria generator,buy correct Marijojo wey go last 2wks, con join 3 trips to dat buka wey dey sell all kinds of wahala for mushin. Come orlu ke? Na Nigeria dat wan dey? undecided
na my naija you take style yab like this? angry
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:26am On Jun 26, 2013
ItsModella: Again, Lynxxx will give me his BB pin before I believe that there's a place in Lagos that gets at least 12 hours of power everyday. I can believe the villages in Ekiti and Anambra and wherever because the population there is low. Do y'all know the population of Lagos? In a neighborhood, do you know the number of houses sharing one transformer? A transformer that is meant to serve probably 5 houses will be serving 20 houses...and that neighborhood will have 12 hours of power?

God, where art thou?
lmao grin

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