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Op, when was the last time you appreciated a girl for being smart? When was the last time you tried to have a deep and meaningful conversation with a girl, not sex-chat? Be truthful.

Stop pretending the majority of guys aren't more interested in a lady's curves than in her brains. You run after the ones who are obsessed with their looks and then try to act like you've met every girl out there.

Take a seat jare.

duni04:
Please the only person worthy of being called an engineer is the spacex lady, she's the only one doing real "engineering" the others are just board room sissies that sit in airconditioned offices with their pencil skirts and hand sanitizers. I find it insulting that the OP is even calling them engineers.

seriously? Even the one who is into artificial intelligence? You seriously dunno what you are saying. You don't need to build and launch rockets to be an engineer. Infact, you don't need to specialize in hardware design. There are software engineers, and that's what the majority on the list are. Look it up.

Explorers:
10.

Michonne! I dunno the others.

Nice one Explorers.

^^ lol. You need a soothsayer? You are definitely introverted, evidently intuitive, and seemingly turbulent. I'm guessing at INTJ -T

Media nonsense. America has never stopped being racist, they just pretended to get along. Racism isn't simply what you say or do, it starts with what you think of other races, whether you act on that thought or not.

So OP, in a nut shell, you don't want to be ever criticized for what you did or did not do. That's a rather lazy escapist mindset. Just be sure to open another complaint thread the next time a guy praises you.

Anyway, you shouldn't be bitter over the opinions of some guys about women. They are just as entitled to them as you are entitled to this your opinion that all men are hypocrites.

The Madagascar girl is beautiful.

Sweet talk, food and sex can cover your every mess-up abi? Una never jam. You ladies that can't handle rejection so.

These would work for some men only if you aren't the one who got them angry in the first place.

For someone like me, if you are the cause, it's easier to just admit what you did wrong and don't try to act like nothing happened or like it's not enough to get me angry. Before you light cooker, I don already know wetin you wan do, and heaven knows you'd eat that food by yourself.

US election party in Nigeria?

Africans no even know where dey pain them

I wonder why people keep moaning about men not wanting a woman to lead. So many stupid comments on Twitter and other social networks. Wanting a woman to lead simply because she's a woman is just as sexist as not wanting a woman to win because she's a woman.

To all those who said this was impossible, I hope you've learnt now to never say never.

Quit your prophecies about how bad a Trump presidency would be for the whole world. You fortune tellers predicted the election outcome and see how that went.

Last last, the matter no concern me directly. Life goes on.

deb:
Too much ignorance in your post. Those who understand how MMM works will laugh at your comment like am doing now. I'm a fan of intelligence and you don't derive it through hearsay. I did all my research about MMM both on positive & negative and nobody convinced me but myself to do the programme. It's the most intelligent programme designed to defeat every govt move. If the advanced world could not stop it how do this useless set of politicians stop it?

I'll advice you to do your research. Today I got paid from MMM but not by MMM; that is a clue for you.

it's not about defeating government moves, it's about sustainability. With every 30% interest gotten, a there is a deficit pile up that's invisible. I don't expect you to see the sense in it.

If three persons put 100k each, they are expecting 130k each. They have used the 300k to PH to others. Now they expect 390k total.

3 other guys come with 100k each, but they need extra 90k, so a 4th guy comes up with the 90k. The first 3 guys GH and leave with their 130k each. How we have 4 guys in the picture. 3 of them put 100k each and expect 130k each. The 4th guy put 90k and expects 117k. The grand total is now 507k.

The 4 of them GH. 3 new guys PH of 100k each, but it's only 300k, a little more than half. 2 more guys PH 100k each. It's now 500k but they need extra 7k. A 6th man brings the 7k. Now we have 5 guys who expect 130k each, and one guy who expects 9.1k. New grand total is now 659.1k.

The next persons bring 100k each again, but this time we need 6 of them and an extra man with the 59.1k.
When they GH, the total is now 856.83k.

Next we need 8 persons with 100k and a 9th person with 56.83k to balance the books.

You can continue the thought experiment on your own. From 3 to 4 to 5 to 6... The number of persons needed to keep the system working keep increasing. Even if they all put in the same money, we need more persons to provide help with each cycle. That's the wonder 30%, it's still unresolved in the system and getting worse. Who do you think would eventually pay for it?

The people that match you, do you know them? Those you get matched to, do you know them? To think you guys are so confident in the system.

Even if every Nigerian were to join, eventually we'd still need more persons. What happens when more persons can't join because everyone has joined and there are no extra persons to cover the invisible 30% deficit that has accumulated over time?

A crash. It may take months, it may not survive the year, it may take years, but at some point in the future it would crash. It's inevitable. MMM isn't scam, but it's enriching a few smart ones with the money of the stupid majority, an unsustainable system piling up heartache for its eventual victims. You can hate me for saying it, na you sabi. Just try to not be a victim when it happens.

Talk2nanro:
your life will crash faster than MMM

I hope you know this curse is for your closest family member

MMM would crash eventually, you don't need two brains to realize that. You are eating the money of those unfortunate enough to put their money last, and acting like the system is your father's property. Enjoy it while it lasts and keep your curses to yourself.

I pity the last set of persons to invest in MMM before it crashes. They are the ones who would pay for the 30% bonus people are currently flexing.

FG should let it live it's natural lifespan. Whether they shut it down now or it crashes in the future under the weight of it's 30% interest, there would be casualties anyway.

Yes it would eventually crash as the maths do not add up, but people do not care as long as it seems to be working at the moment.

J4parry:
StopWAM is to cancel auto renew, NOWAM is to cancel WhatsApp monthly bundle subscription.

dey there dey argue.

NO to 131 cancels data auto renewal
StopWAM to 131 cancels your whatsapp monthly subscription.

Something doesn't work for you yet you rigidly hold on to your stance as correct. Try to be more grateful for future help.

J4parry:
Can't trust MTN o, to even stop WhatsApp plan with the usual no NOWAM doesn't work any, so to activate, make sure u're ready for a twist.

it's stopWAM , not noWAM

Lol. Reminds me of secondary school. Picture moments when you all have to act like the most mature students on earth. They must have selected them beforehand and even rehearsed sitting positions and poise. Anyone with a tiny stain on her dress gets dropped.

After the photo session, bragging rights

#PresidentEnterMyClass
#ThatIsNowMySeat

Just30:
do the hard work

typical answer when you have no clue what to say about the question. Why then did you quote me pretending to have a working brain? The others were sensible enough to avoid my post, but not you. Bye bye jare, go and play.

Just30:
go Detox , you are not thinking straight

ok, agreed. Think straight and explain the 133% mobile penetration. I'm curious.

Nice thread. Truly haven't heard about a few of them before now. Some of dem ugly sha.

I've always wondered: Do animals have a sense of beauty? Do they look at humans and see a weird-looking or even ugly creature same way we think them cute, weird, or plain ugly?

Lol. OP, what do you mean by 133% mobile penetration for Ghana? You mean that for every 100 Ghanaians, 133 of them have access to mobile phones?

You cannot have 133% in that instance, stupid. Unless you are talking percent increase.

Anyway, even if we were to disregard the staggering difference in population, literacy level does not exactly define average intelligence, much less the other unrelated factors. In the light of your made-up statistics, it would have made more sense if you were arguing that Ghana is a better place to live in, not intellectual superiority.

Next we'd have a "right way to breathe." Nansense

gidjah:
While you may be partly correct sir,but one must know why he or she behaves the way the do ,else they won't know much about how to handle the matter.once you know your troubles,then solution won't be far fro you,or..What ya say about that?

never argued against knowing our personality traits. It's a good thing, as long as we don't try to turn it into a label that makes us feel superior or inferior to others or excuse flaws we can correct if we try.

I'm saying this because of the way everyone likes to establish what an introvert is or is not, or what they would like/dislike based on their own experiences. Those who aren't exactly like that may feel the need to conform to fit the label. It's all too generic. You'd be surprised how different introverts can be from one other.

Amelian:
What an excuse. I notice most people getting married, either the groom is. Not. IN love with his bride.. He's marrying her for. Other reasons or the bride is not. In love with the groom, she's marrying for. Other reasons. The communication gap is as wide and long as river Niger. People will say just marry the guy or the lady, with time. U will fall in love.. All na lie.. If u don't love your spouse, forget it.. Divorce is just by the corner.. Especially to people who believe in love.. No two ways about it.
With love when the ups and downs come, one will be able to manage his or her husband shortcomings and listen to each other.
I rather remain single than. Marry a man I. Don't love. cos I know max. 2years am thinking of getting out.

aunty why full-stop full your post like this na?

Olarewajub:
Knowing your personality is very important and beneficial. It makes you to understand why you behave the way you do. The problem is when you allow your self to be limited because of your personality trait.

our personality trait doesn't have to be a tag or label with which we define our whole essence. It's all to easy to try to stay true to our labels.

An example is a person on this thread (don't ask who) trying to explain his poor communication skills by concluding he's introverted. As far as he's concerned, everything about him boils down to his introversion, and there's no need to try to improve if that's what we are. That's what a label can do.

daewoorazer:
Please read well before conclusions. This came with a condition. The statement means while you still earn dat amount stated... You shouldn't nurture more dan a kid... Which means as ur income source grows.. U may and may not increase ur wards


At least a salary above 80kor100 on the least... And even with this, must not welcome more than a child.

there's nothing to read well there. Part of Argument 1 is:

At least a salary above 80kor100 on the least... And even with this, must not welcome more than a child.

'at least' only denotes a lower limit, what it should not be lower than. It says nothing about a higher limit or how high it can be. Then, "even with this, MUST NOT welcome more than one child."

500k falls under "a salary above 80k or 100 on the least" and so does 999k. So in essence, argument 1 is that even if a person is earning 900k monthly, he MUST NOT welcome more than one child. That's about as ridiculous as argument 2.

Olarewajub:
LOL, Don't underestimate Nairaland.


Introvert?

I'm just surprised. It's a rarity on NL.

Em... Somewhat introverted. I usually don't like identity tags though. It's like a box that restricts one from becoming so much more.

Neither. There are 3 numbers between 1 and 5. One says one child maximum, and the other says 5 children minimum. Why should I support either? What happened to 2, 3 and 4?

I don't believe in making rules in subjective matters. Just don't give birth to kids you can't take proper care of. By proper care, I don't mean just providing food, clothes and school fees. It's not always just about the money. Spend quality time with them too.

Hmmm... So there's a thread like this with meaningful discussion in it. Who could have guessed?

I can't say I agree fully. It's good to yield for the sake of peace at times, but be careful it doesn't become an energy-sapping pattern that would plague you for the rest of your life. Sometimes you just have to let her vent and calm down BY HERSELF, then you can talk things through.

It's good to understand where she's coming from and know how to choose words that wouldn't make matters worse. But never teach your partner that she is always right even when she is wrong. When you are wrong, admit it. When she's wrong but seems unaware, don't water down the truth. Help her see it, if not immediately, then at a better time. You are helping her become a better person.

That part about women not being logical, your post would be better without it.

The title dey make me laugh

Tell a girl... without telling her.

Sounds like a quote from a drunken speech.

McWhillion:
I stopped reading at the point where he was spending "two" years in 2749!!!

lol. You noticed that too. Very watery tale.

Lmao!
I've read better sci-fi stuff. This one no just follow.