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Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 10:18am On Jun 24, 2013
freecocoa: Lol, my bad if I implied its an igbo identity, I just meant most igbo people know how serious the osu issue ish.

Osu worse than twin killing?now you know you are joking.cheesy
fine... Fine. *shrugs* you can't blame a boy for trying to prove a point smiley

Look through the eyes of an osu and tell me what you see. grin
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 10:06am On Jun 24, 2013
freecocoa: I don't see how twin killing can be compared to this but then, its your choice.

Marry an osu if you desire but dismissing it as nonsense is being foolish as an igbo person that you are supposed to be.
hmmm... I beg to disagree though.

I'm not igbo, but I think it's rather weird to imply that the osu caste system is central to igbo identity. It isn't...

Twin killing violates the right to life. Osu caste violates the right to dignity, right to own property (in some cases), and maybe others I cannot connect yet.

You are right. It's not the same as twin-killing. It's worse.

I know I'm an outsider. tongue
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 9:50am On Jun 24, 2013
ogugua88: It's so sad. And ridiculous.

Most Igbos who are religious are Christian of some sort. I wonder how one can discriminate against a fellow human being in the name of avoiding an osu and its supposed repercussions, often times for personal gains, and claim to follow Jesus at the same time. Lol. Selective Christianity once again.
obviously, religion has no effect whatsoever on the lives of many who profess it.

What's more, some can argue (with Bible verses) why discrimination is necessary.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 9:37am On Jun 24, 2013
ogugua88: I hope you're not trying to compare hereditary illnesses, which can be detected via procedures, with ancestors pointing at someone and calling him or her an osu based on what ancestors may have done decades ago.
unfortunately there isn't much of a difference when it comes to traditions in some parts of Africa. The ancestors say so, therefore it is that way.

Those affected are usually rendered too powerless to fight it.

Those with the power to fight it do not care, since they are unaffected.

The rest who care, are outsiders who have no say in the matter.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 9:24am On Jun 24, 2013
freecocoa: Lol, my sister its not as easy as y'all seem to think.

These things go really deep, I can't disown my family for anybody alive or dead(especially not a man that could turn against me tomorrow).

I have seen people who are facing the consequences of marrying an osu and those who decided they know better than everybody else in the family, I'm not such a person.cheesy
hmmm... I get.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 9:23am On Jun 24, 2013
freecocoa: Speak ya mind dear.
ok, two things on my mind. First is...

I STILL HAVEN'T FORGIVEN ONE OLD WOMAN THAT TRIED TO CONVINCE MY MOM THAT GIVING HER CHILDREN MEAT AND EGG WOULD MAKE US THIEVES. angry

Ok, the other thing on my mind is... WHY CAN'T YOU?
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 9:18am On Jun 24, 2013
ItsModella: I think their offsprings have to offer some kind of sacrifice to become Nwadiana again, I'm not too sure.
alright, thanks. I'd try to find out more.

Some aspects of our traditions really suck sha. When I speak up against some at times, people look at me and say crap like
"this one has been lost to the white man's culture..."
"Too much foreign movies..."
"So the white man is always right ehn?" . Surprisingly, even some supposedly learned people have that mentality too.

I kinda understand when people choose to go with the crowd. Fear of reproach from fellow humans can be strong at times. But God knows I no send those silly traditions sha. Those gods have long died, why do they still have human belongings? Mtscheeew!
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 8:59am On Jun 24, 2013
freecocoa: I cannot marry an osu(may I never find myself at such crossroads, amen).
lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 8:41am On Jun 24, 2013
ItsModella: Because they became properties of the gods and nobody wanted to associate himself with properties of the gods.
by property of the gods, is it objects of human sacrifice?

Why can they not partake in many things that others can?

If they offered themselves willingly, why can't their offspring just opt out?

I'm asking cos the way people talk about it, it seems they are somewhat lower humans, having little or no worth at all. It's terrible anyone would be discriminated that way.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 8:30am On Jun 24, 2013
ItsModella: Osu are those people who offered themselves up to the gods. Many did so for the sake of protection.
so why are they stigmatised?

Don't get upset at the questions o. Got more sef. Just never had anyone willing and able to answer them.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 8:27am On Jun 24, 2013
[quote author=ItsModella][/quote]em... Thanks. I still don't understand it though. Viv's explanation makes it sound like some sort of slavery.

At what point did they get "owned" by "us" or "the gods"? Why? lipsrsealed
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 8:15am On Jun 24, 2013
Na wa o. Once asked a friend about this ish and he flatly denied it's 'modern' existence. Realising the opposite is somewhat shocking.

What did the people do to be outcaste? Either no one mentioned it, or, I missed it.
Romance › Re: Can U Marry Osu by Oahray: 12:29am On Jun 24, 2013
This is sad... sad
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 11:28pm On Jun 23, 2013
Br3nd4: Shey you nor fit greet aunty again abi? na to dey shout Florida anyhow anyhow undecided grin tongue
where the auntie? lipsrsealed
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 11:21pm On Jun 23, 2013
[quote author=I.Joan]What did Flo do? sad[/quote]*changes topic*
How are you dear?
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 11:10pm On Jun 23, 2013
[quote author=I.Joan]hey kiss[/quote]howdy? smiley
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 11:09pm On Jun 23, 2013
Florena angry

Shey you know I'm not happy with you?
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Spain - Confederations Cup: (0 - 3) On 23rd June 2013 by Oahray: 10:05pm On Jun 23, 2013
I dunno which is most annoying...

The fact that Spain won 3-0 like I expected...
Or the fact that they did it with ease, toying with my Eagles throughout...
Or the fact that Ideye Brown thinks his role is to miss chances...
Or that Gambo ram! angry
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 7:04pm On Jun 23, 2013
Page 200? Hmmm... Brenda come talk wetin you put for the thread o.

Good evening friends.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs. Spain: What's Your Prediction? by Oahray: 6:54pm On Jun 23, 2013
qhiwegh: Never say never. Last Confed Cup, the USA beat Spain 3-0.
It was 2-0 bro.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs. Spain: What's Your Prediction? by Oahray: 2:45pm On Jun 23, 2013
Saint Chukz: He is alleged to have predicted a humiliating bashing of our Super chickens ; 8-0 in favour of the spanish La furia Roja team.
that's not true. It's just people preparing the framework for another TBJ bashing.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs. Spain: What's Your Prediction? by Oahray: 2:42pm On Jun 23, 2013
Nigeria 0-3 Spain

I wish Naija would score (and even win) sha, buh our boys are too wasteful to be trusted.
Celebrities › Re: Brazilian Man Changes Face To Dog Face Through Surgery by Oahray: 11:26pm On Jun 22, 2013
Damn. People dey crase o.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:09pm On Jun 22, 2013
spikes C: Junior antelope cool
No way I'm stealing Andy's title tongue
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:08pm On Jun 22, 2013
dont8: Hey you, where have you been huh
Earth. You?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by Oahray: 11:00pm On Jun 22, 2013
No fight? sad
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 10:30pm On Jun 22, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]he can kill himself too lol[/quote]yes he can, but he wouldn't.
Life is too sweet tongue

Who would pat all those cheeks (not on face)? cheesy
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 10:21pm On Jun 22, 2013
PretiEbony: I'm 5n 2...
jst feeling scared. I pray i shldn't have niqhtmares 2nite oo
scared of what? lipsrsealed
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 10:20pm On Jun 22, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]no the person who tells the secret...she tells then she kills herself cheesy[/quote]hehehe... I like the gender btw cool
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 10:09pm On Jun 22, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]the other person will always tell[/quote]always? Ok, make I no argue. So, em, is it always the person that dies that would have let it out? tongue
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 10:06pm On Jun 22, 2013
SniperInADiaper: Somebodies gonna die cool
lol. Not me sha tongue
Forum Games › Re: Girls Night In; No Boys Allowed (Peeping is allowed sha) by Oahray: 9:48pm On Jun 22, 2013
[quote author=mondi_cheeks]2 can only keep a secret wen one of them is dead[/quote]what are you suggesting? shocked

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