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FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 6:22pm On Oct 07, 2016
misspicy:
I guess I am well known that I thought. grin

I am actually leaving because you are insultive,call it blunt,doesn't change your subtle jabs.

I am not forming docility,I have only outgrown exchanging words to explain my point.
suit yourself then. Just be sure to please a man on your way out tongue
FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 5:36pm On Oct 07, 2016
misspicy:
[b]I guess my choice of words confused you,I would have expanciated and clarified what I meant but like I said,you are too insultive for me,so I pass.


Okay you win,cheers on that gringrin]/b]
you aren't leaving because you are afraid of insults. You are leaving because you have no point.

There's no insult in my posts. It's just blunt, and you know how to act victimized. I have seen your less-than-courteous replies to people on several occasions. This docilty no fit you jare.

Was never a contest. tongue
FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 5:24pm On Oct 07, 2016
misspicy:
Now you are becoming delusional grin
@bolded
Sound smart to impress you? who are youhuh

Its not my fault that you cannot debate on an issue without making it personal,I think I'm done with you,so as to avoid giving you a taste of your pill.

Lastly,call it whatever you want,Women are groomed for husband house.
delusional? I'm only trying to help you see how absurd your argument is. In defense of why a lady would alter her appearance and men get blamed for it, you insisted ladies are groomed for husband house to please the husband(man). You implied that it is normal for a lady to try to please men (men, not a man).

There was no use reminding you that existing to please men is not the same as pleasing one's husband. You tried to make them equivalent and I followed your lead.

If as you claim, ladies are groomed for husband's house and so must actively seek to please men, is it wrong to tell you to work harder to please me? I am a man afterall, and I'm only asking for a smarter argument not a lighter skin. You are a woman... So far, you've been arguing that women exist to please men. Why get upset at a chance to please a man?

No apologies for being blunt. You could be a walking pharmacy with loads of pills, for all I care. Na you sabi.
FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 4:46pm On Oct 07, 2016
misspicy:
Stop living in disney land and come back to Africa....

No need sugarcoating the obvious truth,that women are groomed for husband house,every other thing is an addition.
#fact.

How many ladies work with their certificate in ratio to the menhuh

And you don't need to make it about me,show some decorum
it's your opinion, and calling it the truth doesn't make it any more so. The only fact you've established here is that you were groomed 'for husband house'.

So working with certificate means what exactly? What of the many men who do not use their certificate? They were groomed for wife house also? I know you are trying to sound smart because many men love smart ladies, but it's not working. You have to work harder to please me.

You set the pace when you referred to my sisters. Don't play the victim now.
FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 4:26pm On Oct 07, 2016
misspicy:
You men are confused.


Why are your sisters trained for husband house?
is it not to please the husband(man)?
speak for yourself jare. Not every lady is "trained FOR husband house." Some ladies are trained to be useful to themselves and the world around them. Unlike you, some ladies do not exist simply to please some guy.

Today you ladies blame men for your choice of appearance. Tomorrow you would deny that ladies try to look good for men. Look in the mirror and see what confused is.
RomanceRe: 2 Lesbians Set Ablaze In Makurdi By Angry Mob After Being Caught In The Act (gra by Oahray: 11:59am On Oct 07, 2016
The story and the pics do not add up.
FashionRe: How A Girl Changed After 4Years (Photo) by Oahray: 11:55am On Oct 07, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Coz men like light skin gayls... U been pushing this type of girls to strip off their true color...




Only if y'all men appreciate dark skin ladies & stopped judging them coz of their skin... Maybe the bleaching company is not existing ryt now...
you ladies should continue living to please men, since that's the sole reason for your collective existence. You are a skilled blame pusher.

Your written English sucks though.
RomanceRe: Will You Marry This Girl If Her Bride Price Was Free? - Photo by Oahray: 11:46am On Oct 07, 2016
Laveda:
Snake? Naaaah
are you planning to marry a girl?
RomanceRe: Normal? by Oahray: 11:32am On Oct 07, 2016
Maybe you are like a brother to her smiley

Ok, she's uber self-conscious of her physical flaws or whatever she's hiding. It could even be a thou-shalt-let-NO-MAN-see-thy-nakednesss upbringing that is now deeply rooted in her subconscious. You aren't doing a great job at getting her to feel confident around you. Praise the little you see and it would be easier for her to show you more tongue

How can your wife keep acting like that around you and you haven't done anything about it? Instead you keep telling yourself that is how she has always been.

A lady that loves you can be sweet-talked into nearly anything.
CelebritiesRe: Yvette Meurer Shares Photos Of Her Face Shots by Oahray: 9:05pm On Oct 06, 2016
If she's the same person in the last pic with the crown, she isn't that pretty. Her makeup is eye-catching in the preceeding pics though. Na one month makeup she just use once.
EducationRe: Signs Of Ultra Smart People Hiding Their Intelligence by Oahray: 8:24pm On Oct 06, 2016
Hmmm... Good for them.
CareerRe: NL Females, Do You Want To Be President? by Oahray: 3:27pm On Oct 04, 2016
Lol @ "Almost all the best rulers of Europe both "back then" and now, are females."

I'm amused each time I see ladies complain about not having opportunities open to men. Is there any public Nigerian office from which women are constitutionally forbidden to aspire to? Haven't women been elected into the National house of assembly? Haven't women been appointed ministers? Has there not been a female speaker of the house of reps? Aren't there female speakers of some Nigerian state Houses of Assembly? So why make it seem like many women have contested for presidency and have failed simply because they are women.

Political power isn't like a business card that you'd be offered whether you ask for it or not. In fact no one would offer you power. You have to take it! You want people to say "oh, you are a woman, and for that reason come and be president." Even the men who have ruled Nigeria did not get there by evoking sympathy and pity. Look at the women who are world leaders... How many became leaders of their nations by playing the victim?

How many ladies can brave the rough political terrain? Buhari contested 4 consecutive times before he finally won the last one. How many ladies can keep trying when they fail, instead of blaming patriachy?

You babes better sit up, ditch your victim mentality and start becoming ambitious. No one is preventing you from being president.

MrsPhyno I thought you left NL.
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For My Younger Brother To Be Washing Plates For My Wife? by Oahray: 10:44pm On Oct 02, 2016
stephenmorris:
you are damn wrong so for example because i don't have a job ,i should surrender my honor as a man to a woman
so even washing his own plate is tantamount to surrendering a man's honour to a woman?

What exactly is wrong with some of you guys? Is it upbringing or what? If your wife na your slave, e go come still be your younger brother slave? If he's a big boy, why is he living with his married brother? His mates would have their own apartments.

The dude probably does nothing to help around the house. It's his brother's house, therefore he shouldn't pick a pin. There's a slave there to do all the work.
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: 3D ENTHUSIAST ZONE: Blender 3d For The Novice Of The Highest Order! by Oahray: 10:38pm On Oct 02, 2016
BRAINZBox:
Yea.....Its been a while I posted here....Still blending tho...Na character be my main headache now. If u have any tip to share on that, don't hesitate pls.
you modelled those from scratch? Bro you good abeg.
HealthRe: Infrastructural Decay In University Of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH) by Oahray: 10:32pm On Oct 02, 2016
CallofDuty:
Everyone is talking about sales of national assets, pros and cons etc..infact..They should just sell Nigeria..this country have tire somborai . cry cry cry kiss kiss embarassed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
what if the buyers (or new owners) na decide that they want you out of their property? Where would you go?
PhonesRe: [pics] Google Allo Better Than Whatsapp: See Reasons by Oahray: 10:21pm On Oct 02, 2016
wilnaira:
the assistant is not just a search bot! Do you know you can play games with it nd do other stuff?....do u know of a feature called incognito mode? With it u can set messages that u sent tu some1 to expire. Meanin d person cant have the chat to show to friends for example, if its some kindof privacy chat. You can read d features from d link provided
"it only excels as a search bot" is not the same as "it is just a search bot" so I dunno what you are refuting.

I know what incognito mode is, and there's nothing new about it. Apps like telegram have long had it (Telegram calls it secret chat). They haven't replaced whatsapp simply because they have the feature.

Someone developed Duta to be used with whatsapp, but people rarely use it. Know why? Simplicity is what makes whatsapp what it is. Many people do not care about added features, they want to be able to send and receive messages in real time at little or no cost.

One cannot easily locate his list of contacts on Allo, unless you want to select someone to start a chat with. To think someone said something about an excellent UI... UX is just as important.

Forget Allo... It looks Beta, and it has a long way to go before it can become a contender. If it were all about bots and incognito mode, everyone would be using telegram.
PhonesRe: [pics] Google Allo Better Than Whatsapp: See Reasons by Oahray: 3:46pm On Oct 02, 2016
I just checked it out and I've uninstalled. If telegram couldn't overthrow whatsapp, it's unlikely this allo can. The only thing worthy of any note is the assistant. However it only excels as a search bot, which is rather useless since you can perform a search yourself in your browser. Fails woefully as a chatbot; poor word recognition. There are waaaay better bots on telegram.

It might be ready to compete in future versions. Not yet. Not now.
FashionRe: Mr And Miss Nigeria International 2016 Finalist In Their Tradition Attires by Oahray: 10:32pm On Sep 30, 2016
Lolz... That Ekiti guy pic dey make me laugh. E be like say dem photoshop pikin head ontop e papa body. grin
ProgrammingRe: A Test For Python Guys. What Will This Code Do? by Oahray: 6:46pm On Sep 30, 2016
Hmmmm... I think it takes input for number of rows and columns, then prints a matrix of random numbers between a minimum and maximum range.

You gave me a headcahe trying to read this. undecided
RomanceRe: Is He For Real??? by Oahray: 6:11pm On Sep 30, 2016
Well, you don't even sound real yourself. Anyone can be anything on Nairaland. Just create an account and open a thread on your first post.
PoliticsRe: The Aftermath Of Jonathan's Cowardice Attitude And The Edo State Election by Oahray: 2:36pm On Sep 30, 2016
gidgiddy:
OP, the elections in Edo state has nothing to do with GEJ. Edo state was already in the hands of APC long before the presidential elections. As we all know, the incumbents have all the power and money to rig elections and that's what Adama Oshiomole did in Edo same as Rochas did in Imo. That's Nigeria for you. BTW, I'm neither for APC or PDP, I think both parties are beneath contempt
well said.
CelebritiesRe: Imagine If These 20 Nigerian Actors Lived In Your Neighbourhood by Oahray: 10:50am On Sep 30, 2016
Lolz grin
Nice one. You never mention some people o.
EducationRe: Student Auctions Her Virginity Online So That She Can Study Abroad by Oahray: 2:13pm On Sep 29, 2016
Later some would complain that women are treated like sex objects undecided
FamilyRe: Whatsapp Exposes Zimbabwean Man's Affair With Wife’s Much Younger Sister (Pics) by Oahray: 2:06pm On Sep 29, 2016
Hmmm... The whale wife looks scary though.

Na dem sabi. Nothing surprises me anymore.
PhonesRe: [pic+video] BMW Car Turns Into A Robot Transformer Via Remote-control by Oahray: 1:56pm On Sep 29, 2016
Awesome. Optimus Prime would love this. Can it walk? cheesy
RomanceRe: My Boss Asked Me If I'm Pregnant? Should I Get Angry? by Oahray: 11:03pm On Sep 27, 2016
You need our permission to get angry?
ProgrammingRe: Microsoft To Partner With Cc-hub For #winsiders4good Nigerian Fellowship by Oahray: 4:36pm On Sep 27, 2016
Hmmmm... Nice.
Christianity EtcRe: Pray For Your Enemies Or Destroy Your Enemies? by Oahray: 6:40pm On Sep 25, 2016
mabea:
I quoted you because you sounded judgemental. People responded based on their understanding of the subject matter.So calling someone churchgoer or true christian is not necessary here.
I'm expressing my understanding of the subject matter too.

I find it shocking that people can actively wish death on others and justify such desire even when reminded what Jesus taught. Whoever promotes the opposite of what Jesus taught is not like him. There's nothing judgemental about that.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Really Is Euchaaria? Is This The New Scam Method In Nairaland? by Oahray:
casttlebarbz:
I fell for that story like London Bridge
lol. Nice simile.
Christianity EtcRe: Pray For Your Enemies Or Destroy Your Enemies? by Oahray: 9:07am On Sep 25, 2016
mabea:
Are you a church goer or a christian going by the above statement.
there are multiple statements in my post, not just one.

I am not a self-centered, miracle-hunting, enemy-obsessed churchgoer. Being a christian isn't something you claim, it's who you are. So, I'd pass.
Christianity EtcRe: Pray For Your Enemies Or Destroy Your Enemies? by Oahray: 8:31am On Sep 25, 2016
Comments on this thread ehn... When I say the vast majority of church-goers aren't christians, people go dey look me somehow. How can you willfully practice the opposite of what Jesus taught and stood for, selfishly justify your actions, and still claim to be LIKE CHRIST?

If you are your enemy's enemy, and you both are churchgoers, there's the likelihood God would answer your enemy's prayer first, so prepare to drop dead at any minute while expecting your enemies to drop dead. Don't expect God to be your personal assassin though. He doesn't even listen to such prayers.

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