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Literature › Re: Silent Tears by Oahray: 8:33am On Jun 17, 2013
Nice... Only wish you'd work on the spacing. Makes for easier reading.
Forum Games › Re: • Two Truths And A Lie Game - by Oahray: 8:14am On Jun 17, 2013
Where is he nau?
Romance › Re: Mr Nairaland June 2013 Campaign Thread by Oahray: 7:48am On Jun 17, 2013
Interesting...
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 1:21am On Jun 16, 2013
[quote author=Find Out!]You know say na you be the ajasa dropper/motivator /instigator cheesy sometimes for every romance section argument thread.lol grin.

Did anybody win ni? shocked tongue

Me & Modella had one small fight on one thread some months ago o... I wonder if she has forgiven me sha undecided[/quote]Modella would never have a small fight with anyone. She knows her worth too much. It's either full scale war or nothing. grin
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 1:17am On Jun 16, 2013
Caracta: This is where i drop my pen in the basket of glory grin
grin
*drops pen too*
Mine is basket of love o *dreamy sigh*
It's good night from Oahray, and, I am not a robot smiley
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 1:02am On Jun 16, 2013
Let's all go to bed.
Oops! That didn't come out right. I mean, em... Let's call it a day on this ish.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:52am On Jun 16, 2013
lalaosky: No, but your comment right there is silly.. No" oofeince"

How does crying make one silly?.. That means all humans are silly cos as a new born kid, we all cried(apart from the blind and dumb ones)
huh? Blind babies didn't cry?

Lala if I sand you slap ehn? angry
Babies' first cry helps them start breathing, else you might end up with a blue baby.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:46am On Jun 16, 2013
lalaosky: No bro, she's a medussa, she will freeze me if I try such
if I am not frozen, you wouldn't either. Go on and try it wink
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:41am On Jun 16, 2013
BoboYekini: what's that supposed to mean? undecided
exactly what the dictionary says. You are too bothered with keeping up with appearances, to truly be yourself.

I'd pick a merkki any day.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:39am On Jun 16, 2013
lalaosky: Smh... Why did 2legit trust you in the first place?

@oahray, I never knew cataract, flirts this much. Smh
she isn't flirting... Look in her eyes next time she quotes him.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:36am On Jun 16, 2013
BoboYekini: That Merkii sounded like a club gal. Smdh
you sound pretentious
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:34am On Jun 16, 2013
lalaosky: Are you married to merkki?. Lol
are you trying to upset caracta on purpose? angry
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:27am On Jun 16, 2013
Caracta: Ashewo!!!! Idowu, see him.o.
It's just a dance na smiley
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:25am On Jun 16, 2013
ItsModella: looooool @ learning how to cry. I imagine this is how it goes

Step 1: You must feel really bad or excited so that your tear ducts can act faster due to the overload of emotions.
Step 2: Scrunch your face rea hard
Step 3: Breathe in and out
Step 4: Avoid blinking rapidly
Step 5: Let the tears fall freely.

How? Just how can you teach somebody how to cry for goodness sake? Is there some sort of manual for it?
lolzzzzz grin
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:22am On Jun 16, 2013
Merkki: He does! Nice. Well i can dance with him, he doesn't "exhibit" jealousy. His girl would understand. It's just a dance.
I don't exhibit jealousy either. Disregard my previous posts smiley

So can we dance? Just once. No touchy feely. Last offer tongue
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:15am On Jun 16, 2013
Idowuogbo: *guides his hands down her waist*

Modella, close yA eye joor! Jerosi! tongue
oh baby smiley *sigh of satisfaction*
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:14am On Jun 16, 2013
Merkki: You have a girlfriend here.
is that the answer? He has a gf here too. sad
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray:
BoboYekini: nothing bruv. You gotta understand, these emotions/expressions are learned. Crying, jealousy. So, they can definitely be unlearned.
crying is learned? Hmmm... So who taught a foetus to cry since that's the first thing infants do at birth? Jealousy? Animals get jealous too. At what point in time do they learn it?
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 12:03am On Jun 16, 2013
Merkki: Oh no! My man would be jealous if i dance with you. *winks*

Debate is over. Time to groove and rock the dance floor. In my part of the world, only "normal" people have fun.
buh you asked if sexkillz wanted to dance. I'm not jealous o... I don't get jealous. Just wondering what he has that I don't angry
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:59pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: Pardon? Abeg if na joke stop am! I no my worth!! angry
oya, dance with me then smiley
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:55pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: Modella, serve my Father-in-law


Welcome Sir! smiley
lolz grin
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:53pm On Jun 15, 2013
Merkki: Aint no high horse here? Thought you wanted to argue? Why play slow? Do you want to chicken out at this point? Hurry pls, i need to go dance!
can I have one dance? Puleeeeez?
Idowu won't get jealous, promise.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:50pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: Kai! Ray!! Wots wrong with u? grin grin grin grin
I've stopped na smiley
Friendly chitchat with my friend lala
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:47pm On Jun 15, 2013
Caracta: *grabs popcorn*

grin grin grin
oh, cut for me na sad
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:44pm On Jun 15, 2013
lalaosky: I beg to differ... Everyone can cry... Everyone laughs.... Everyone gets angry... Maybe everyone cannot love but cry, laugh and angry?..that's some fantasy sh1t.
actually, some can't do some of them... Buh its a disorder (medical or psych). Every normal human can can cry, laugh, get angry and love... And with love and attachment comes jealousy.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:33pm On Jun 15, 2013
ItsModella: oahray and idowu, can you please quit the lovey-dovey? some of us, the ordinary humans, are getting jealous angry angry
grin Let's call it payback... Remember the bingerdella show off? tongue
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:23pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: Lmao!

*whispers*






[size=2pt]Hell yeah! Love is beautiful thing.[/size]
love you too kiss
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:20pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: shocked shocked shocked

Ray, get him!!!
shocked
*whispers*
Not so loud hon smiley
Don't want anyone to know. I get jealous sad
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:16pm On Jun 15, 2013
Idowuogbo: Awww....

U no I love you right? wink
lol. I think so.

Do you? embarassed
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray:
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Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 11:11pm On Jun 15, 2013
sexkillz: [color=#000030]When someone cheats on me, I get hurt. Being hurt is not jealous. Feeling bad isn't jealous. Don't you feel bad in other circumstances? Will you refer to that as being jealous? You feel bad if an agreement isn't honoured. Is that jealousy as well?

You now define ego as an internal struggle with jealousy? What's that? Lol.

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the internal struggle with jealousy I mentioned is, not the "ego", but the "ego playing up". It's not the same thing.

The fact that you get hurt in other ways does not mean that jealousy isn't hurt. You do get hurt when cheated on? Good, that's what I needed to establish.

Malaria is an illness from mosquito bite. But there are other illnesses that come from bad food or water or infection of open wounds. You cannot call all these malaria just because they are illnesses too, but does it make malaria less of an illness? Get it yet?

Promised someone I'd quit the argument, Id like to keep my promise now.
Romance › Re: JEALOUSY: Who Exhibits It More; Male/female And How by Oahray: 10:57pm On Jun 15, 2013
ogugua88: That isn't my ego. That's the truth. No two people are the same. I have nothing against people who get jealous. Just don't tell me I get jealous because you and/or others do.

Entitled? Hardly. I love someone because I choose to love someone, and someone loves me in return because he chooses to love me.

Feelings can change. They often do. That isn't a crime. Again, I couldn't care less if someone stopped having feelings for me. If he chooses to give his affection to someone else, then fine. I can more than cope. Just tell me so that I don't waste my time.

I don't come on this forum to say what I can't defend. I have gone through my own personal experiences and know what I am saying is a personal truth and has worked for me.
alright then... If you insist.

"We may live under the same sky but, we see different horizons."

Idowu taught me that quote.

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