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ogugua88: Because it's disrespectful. Love, trust, and respect are supposed to be reciprocated. If one doesn't love another, then leave. Most people aren't jealous that they're cheated on. They're mad because their partner or spouse lied, led the other on, went behind his or her back, etc.

If one feels he can't come to me and tell me something as life-changing as "I don't love you anymore so I'm moving on with someone else", then I have no business with him. I love, respect, and trust someone enough to go out and enjoy himself with friends, both male and female. Don't take advantage of my trust.

getting mad over cheating is an expression of jealousy. It's because you feel entitled to his full affections. When he gives some of it to another, you feel bad. That is jealousy.

The part of your post about about having no business with someone who does not respect you (by cheating) is your ego playing up. Your internal struggle with the feeling of jealousy.

You do get jealous, you just do not want to admit it. Or maybe you just do not realise it.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]How can they win when they never knew emotional cheating existed?

They even mocked the idea of emotional cheating until they were silenced with a simple link!

I agree. They won. [/color]

using terms like "emotional cheating" is in itself an offshoot of the human nature to get jealous. I mean, if one doesn't get jealous, why care if his gf/bf cheats?

Feeling jealous and acting on that jealousy are two different things. When you get attached to someone, you want to be treated as special. It's human nature. Even animals get jealous. Moving on within two months of a breakup does not change that fact.

NB: Denial is also human nature. Feel free.

ogugua88: #TeamRobots 1 - #TeamJealous 0

Ciao.

I disagree. They have made more sense so far. I think you guys have a streamlined opinion of what jealousy is.

Caracta: Even idowu gets jealous when oahray starts playing around

beht why? Why put me on the hot seat? Make I enjoy the thread na

[quote author=~ZN~]Waiting to see page 2000 eh?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-YiOvZuzAg

Portrayed so wonderfully.[/quote]ehya. I dey talk of page 2000, you dey show me vid. YouTube-mania much?

Man is such a vain creature. It's hard to appreciate the "made in God's image" statement.

In other news, guys, I think we have ruined their (the ladies) thread enough.

*exit*

Ok, they have ruined it

Brenda, we are waiting o

When Sharon smiled and said "Good bye", it was the last time she ever smiled. It was 8am on a sunny Monday.

Ok, it's Oahray, Brenda and Shuga. Anybody else can't contribute, unless the current writers all agree.

I'd start, Brenda next, then shuga

Lol... Just you and I, bbb

Oya, I'm ready now. Who's in for the game?

It's like a jigsaw of sorts. Contribute your own piece of not more than two sentences, to the unravelling story. Since it's a thread, we'd have to take numbers, so it would be orderly.

Shugamania:
See as u expose d guy..





U and ur bad mind. Tell me why not..

better you find out for yourself

ighoosagie: Is like u study d bible very well.

maybe

Shugamania: Okies.. Should be fun.

Or we try a truth or dare game..

you wouldn't want to play T or D here, trust me

ighoosagie: Our luv is as strong as death,
It flashes like d flashes of fire,
It's like a vehement flame
Which no amount of water can quench,

*culled from Songs of Solomon*

Br3nd4: Honey just start already

I'm outside. Can't concentrate.

[quote author=Larry-Sun]I Wouldn't Flirt With You If You Wore Skirt. [/quote]cos you wouldn't get a chance to.

Br3nd4: Yes please. You start

since how many years ago?

Lol @ larry flirting with everything on skirt

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Can She prepare Afang Soup?

Thank God for Brenda![/color]

wait lemme give you a list of food my Florena can prepare.

*Pulls in a book 7ft high*
It might take you several days to skim through. It's small print to reduce paper consumption.

Florena: *yawns..draw curtains and peep in*
What's going on here?

oh baby.. There's only one thing I know. I missed you.

Br3nd4: Granted granted

ok, all mods please take note
*evil grin*

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Maybe wih Orange gals like Florena and Wahs dah her name again?

My Brenda Is Cultured - A Lady![/color]

Unless Florena has ever flirted with you, don't say that thing again o
My Flo is everything a real lady should be.

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Dont trust U wih kisses na - U fit rapé ma Wife

That Statistics were culled from Wikipedia though - They're keeping records die [/color]

I don't do non-consent jor. She has to beg first sef

lalaosky: Lwkmd... LMAO@"Look... Look at me, look in my eyes *lifts her chin gently with a finger*"

I thought 190 and obino were the worst women wrappers, but you're now the chief of the women forces!!. Lmao

I decline the honour, sire. I'm a bad boy for Florena only

Brenda, gimme permission to upload something

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]Our Alpha Male arguement Contributed emersely to the growth of the thread!

I Fell for U, Ray fell for Flo - The Thread growth Percentage doubled to 50%

Here we are talking Fiction, Bible and Fact - 80%!

137 Pages? -- Baby Can U Jxt come Kiss boo and give my bestfriend Ray a Xtian handshake [/color]

lol @ xtian handshake. Wish you knew

El Guapo: [color=#0066ff]I'd hate to think U Love homicide [/color]

I do... Not.
Can't hurt an ant.

*walks past struggling mouse hung up by its neck on a thin string, looks around to see if anyone is watching, then pricks it's belly with a pin*

Brenda, lets play that story game. I'm bored in your thread.

Baby, I see you. Wait o... Can you ever not look good?

These efik/ibibio/ogoni people and their kpos and kpoms