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CelebritiesRe: 6 Nigerian Celebrities Who Became More Popular After Their Death by obaidan: 4:24pm On Nov 23, 2023
shey dem say Oladips no die say na prank.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:35pm On Nov 23, 2023
Puss360:
You all are just suffering from inferiority issues.... I'm not saying people of the western world are bad, but you all shouldn't make Nigerian women feel unqualified....
Besides most of you going abroad to marry, when u die, you all will want to be buried back home here...
Very very funny,..... Sadly for u, i got myself a very black n beautiful Nigerian woman with excess values, supporting my growth as much as I'm supporting hers....if i wan run street sef, i'm not in any way deficient, what's to feel inferior about
@boldened maybe u should read my initial response to you again, i said older Nigerian women that have values to add are even getting younger successful men, how is that to make Nigerian women feel unqualified. Having some form of tangible value, apart from f.vck prowess is the point.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:13pm On Nov 23, 2023
OBTOREPA:
And what are you?
She's 1000× better than you.
Apart from sex, what do you have to offer.?
which may even be rubbish standard, not to talk of ver low hygiene level
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 2:09pm On Nov 23, 2023
danzaki63:
My friend even here small boys date Older women as Sugar mummies. They even marry them if the woman has money. Check very well you will see them abound, what men hate is dating any middle aged woman who has nothing to offer.
Ladies want and fight for equality in pay, equal job opportunities, equal everything. When it comes to dating only people who have some form of value to offer, they want to preserve that privilege. It's now an equal world,as a woman if they dont have some form of value to add to a man, e dun be for them. If they r lucky to find one that will take them as empty as they are, there's a high chance they will be treated like a leech
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:57pm On Nov 23, 2023
Natbrowny:
33 with zero creativity and zero balance and trash attitude is old.

I have seen 35 and active and useful
Beautiful n classy n single. Men stil dey vibe 4 her hand in marriage..
EXACTLY...any woman that says men dont want to marry ladies above a certain age is just whining because she can't get her own man yet. Women close to 40, women over 40 are getting wooed by even younger successful men for marriage. na who dey whine no get value wey men dey desire.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:54pm On Nov 23, 2023
Puss360:
Lol... All because of money nah....
But honestly I don't really think it because of money...
Coz even with money sef, most Nigerian guys won't like to "Settle down" a woman almost 40yrs.... Instead they'll just want her to be sugar mommy to them...f.vck Nd collect money....

But once it involves "White woman"... age then becomes a number... They don't mind...
Follow Nigeria matured rich lady, they say no, say na oyibo dey hungry them...
What does the oyibo have that we don't have here... F.vck na f.vck... abi...

What do I know sef?? grin grin
that's a problem, you already think f.vck is the ultimate value u can bring. If he sees you as someone that will add value to him by helping to raise kings and queens as kids, if u will accelerate his journey to financial freedom like being an active business partner so u too can attain financial freedom early, if you will give him peace and help calm his nerves when things get tricky for him...he will wife u irrespective of age. Nigerian guys are marrying older women and they are having successful marriages, na who no fit pin down younger guy dey cry.

Meanwhile if its okay for ladies to put all their effort into looking for tall dark and handsome, why should it be a problem if men put their effort into looking for white foreign and non-nigerian. It's even more logical to defend wanting to be with someone with some set of values and perception of life based on culture than to defend wanting to be with someone just because they are tall dark and handsome
RomanceRe: Nigerian Women Are Not Too Old At 33 - Man Criticizes Double Standard by obaidan: 1:43pm On Nov 23, 2023
Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh
did your daddy marry his ancestor, i mean is your mummy your daddy's ancestor?
Christianity EtcRe: Pope Francis Hosts Trans-Women & Eats Lunch With Them At The Vatican (Photos) by obaidan: 5:22pm On Nov 22, 2023
orishirishi
FamilyRe: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by obaidan: 4:46pm On Nov 22, 2023
the man no get ur time again. and i'm super proud of him on this level.
the next stage now, u will ask for the sex, e will start turning you down. and that's the boss level, he's getting there soon
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan:
Omoawoke2:
If one can arrange and strategize well, after settling in abroad and getting a job, what one could achieve in one year, it will take 20 years in Nigeria
Some people love to condemn what they desire but do not have. Someone earning 250k/month in naija will come online and be saying nothing dey d abroad jor, d people abroad cannot save more than 300$ per month after paying bills. oga d 300$ pass ur monthly salary o.

And yes you are right, what's achievable in 1 year with the right papers is huge
Foreign AffairsRe: Ceasefire In Gaza Strip Will Last Maximum 10 Days – Reports by obaidan: 4:40pm On Nov 22, 2023
Padipadi:
Tell that to muslims that destroy things via religious riots in Nigeria. Islamists nor dey reason life n properties when commiting carnages.
Let your charity begin at home by doing the following:
1. Condemn, arrest and ensure rightful prosecution of fulani herdsmen. If you can't do anything you should be able to at least speak up as you v done now.
2. Condemn the jihad Dan Fodio used in spreading Islam in Nigeria
3. Condemn the massacres of Muhammad especially for Banu-Quryaza Jews who he n his bandits killed their young men
4. Condemn the madness of Gumi and MURIC
5. Condemn Nigerian blasphemous killings in name of Muhammad that has died over 1500 years ago in Mecca. Person wey nor send Africa.
6. Condemn the way muslims stopped Isese traditional worshippers from dong their festival in ilorin in July.
If you can't do these, you deserve a nuke.
I am not a fan of any religion, all na means to an end. humanity is my religion. Woe to all manner of extremists. But I will always be touched and never be in support of killing of any innocent soul.
PoliticsRe: The Most Corrupt Body Of The Year In Nigeria by obaidan: 4:27pm On Nov 22, 2023
- Everlasting winner is Nigeria Police Force, no agency comes close, no agency will ever come close till the end of time
Any agency that can replace a criminal with a non-criminal to serve their jail term, fear them


aiding electoral manipulation is the least of the evil deeds of naija police..na im small pass
INEC dey learn work, National Assembly dey learn, Judiciary dey learn work
Nigeria Police Force will declare you as wanted for committing a crime, but u will still get police report from the same Nigeria Police Force to travel abroad, while u are still wanted
if you don't fear naija Police, I fear you. Agency wey go tell u make u give them money for fuel before they can help u track thieves and kidnappers, agency wey go put gun for ur front put u in front of tv, show innocent as criminal just to prove they are working
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 4:20pm On Nov 22, 2023
sonnie10:
Leave people to pursue their fate. After all, Tinubu was a diasporan. Even Gbajabiamila was too. They all came back big!
looooooooooool another angle........Orji Uzor Kalu
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 4:19pm On Nov 22, 2023
Omoawoke2:
Those buying have accumulated wealth over their years in abroad and spending excess cash to acquire properties in Nigeria

Those selling have nothing at hand other than the property and are looking for opportunities to invest in themselves so they can accumulate wealth too.

Life is like chess, you give something to get something, don’t just get check mated but strategize well
leave them make dem dey play
who dun dey abroad since dey buy property to connect with his roots
dem dey laugh who dey sell valuable to be able to operate on that level in future
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 4:14pm On Nov 22, 2023
Don't badmouth japa because ur brother that travelled abroad on tourist visa and overstayed is visa to start hustling is finding it hard to send money to you back home
ur brother own no be japa, na wander he dey wander abroad
CareerRe: Sam Altman To Return As OpenAI CEO by obaidan: 4:06pm On Nov 22, 2023
loool
Foreign AffairsRe: Ceasefire In Gaza Strip Will Last Maximum 10 Days – Reports by obaidan: 4:03pm On Nov 22, 2023
Padipadi:
It was a good war and sweet victory for IDF. Islamists can burn in hell
Well extremists can burn in hell. War leaves many innocent in ruins, so much they can never recover, its sad. I just imagine someone that has hustled, acquired houses, good things of life, balling on a low, enjoying his or her life with his/her sweet family, now caught in the middle of this kind of war.....he's gona lose everything, maybe lose some family members too, probably lose some parts of his or her body.
CelebritiesRe: Mayor Of Atlanta, USA Declares November 18 ‘Davido Day' (Photos) by obaidan: 3:58pm On Nov 22, 2023
Owaincouncil:
This guy glory just dey shine left and right.
Can we say it was because he was born with silver spoon (but what of the likes of Cuppy)
I love ❤️ his passion, creativity and generosity
Cuppy dey her house jeje dey play with her cats, u still fire shots give am.
Foreign AffairsRe: Ceasefire In Gaza Strip Will Last Maximum 10 Days – Reports by obaidan: 3:51pm On Nov 22, 2023
War is pointless
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 3:50pm On Nov 22, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
A bird in hand is worth two overseas you are implying? Smh.

Please go and research why no diasporan Nigerian has never made Forbes list then we can be more realistic. wink
One thing you have to ask yourself is this, Is making Forbes list their goal? If that is the goal, Will the sold valuables put them on the Forbes list? People understand their situation better than us honestly and most times they are in the best position to decide what they can afford to trade in order to achieve what they want to achieve.

And I am not necessarily saying a bird in hand is worth 2 overseas, the issue is not going abroad, what are they going to do abroad, what are the plans in the next 2 years, 4 years and so on like that. At least the person that bought property from this seller is also abroad and most likely at some point, he also had to sell some valuable, now he says he's buying not just for financial gain, but just to connect with his roots. Why should we bash someone that is planting, when we also see someone that planted years ago now harvesting.
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 3:36pm On Nov 22, 2023
Gajagojo:
ONE woman some her inheritance so her brother can JAPA And somehow that is the whole nation and diaspora?
u dey mind them. Besides the woman sold her inheritance to also support her business too, not just for the brother's JAPA. Inheritance sold to give 2 people happiness, fulfilment and a chance to be greater than they are. I don't see how that is a problem.
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan:
Dittodat:
Most of these people selling their properties for peanuts just to japa will end up regretting their actions many years from now. That a shortsighted thinking.
Let's tell ourselves the truth, with careful planning and realistic goals, most of those doing that(MOST, not all, but MOST) will be in a better position to buy something better and even have some form of stability in a system where things work, and that will be to the benefit of their kids.
When the nation's capital was moved from Lagos to Abuja, the FG workers that decided against moving to Abuja office because of the comfort of certainty regretted years after. When carefully planned, change has a high chance of bringing growth, and this isn't even me on some fela durotoye stuff....we dey see am real life
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan: 3:17pm On Nov 22, 2023
well
PoliticsRe: Diaspora Nigerians Acquire Offloaded Assets Of Migrating Youths by obaidan:
FreeStuffsNG:
“Usually, many people who sell off their properties in order to relocate abroad do so with the notion of not returning anytime soon or not returning at all. This is due to the perception that the grass is surely greener outside the borders of our nation. On the other hand, Nigerians who have lived their lives for so long abroad would think of at least getting a landed property to serve as proof of their many years of hard work to their friends and family back home, so they would then take advantage of the situation and exploit the opportunities as much as they can.”

This is it. Those selling are ignorant and desperate while those buying are exploiting the ignorance and desperation of the sellers whereas the real estate broker is having a swell time making commissions money from both sides and giving themselves an unpatriotic reason to keep running down the country in order to persuade the sellers to selll; They have monerized the ignorance and desperation of those selling.

Anytime you are desperate, that's when you are most vulnerable.

For most of them selling cheap out of ignorance and desperation, they may just be fulfilling a divine wealth transfer of wealth they or their parents gathered unrighteously, transferred into the hands of others who may eventually still lose those properties if they acquired it with proceeds of crime or corruption.

The only true wealth that lasts is the one you acquire from clean and legitimate sources of income. If it's not clean, you will lose las las. Clean wealth is achievable, it takes time to acquire but it endures and can be passed down to your children's children like the biblical righteous man. Check my signature for free stuffs!
Life is in phases, those buying now also traded some valuables sometimes ago, to be able to now be in a position where they can now acquire something better. Those selling are not making a mistake if they have solid plan and realistic goals, they are planting now, they will harvest soon. For most, they will be in a better position to reconnect with their roots and buy much more than they are trading off to facilitate their sojourn.
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by obaidan: 12:39am On Nov 22, 2023
rickleye:
The mere fact she is asking you is a sign of respect. She could say she is going to visit a friend or a colleague . I would go with her and meet the dude and drop her off and pick her up. There is no way anything would happen after that. I can guarantee.
are you sure you are not that ex
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by obaidan: 12:39am On Nov 22, 2023
general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?
say she dey even consider am sef...na break up story u suppose dey share
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by obaidan: 12:38am On Nov 22, 2023
general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?
Grant her the permission to go and return no more
FamilyRe: The Year Is Gradually Coming To An End. What Is Your Achievement? by obaidan:
This year 2023, i gained a better view of the promise land, like play like play goals and aspirations dun dey be like say no be audio again, video dun dey show small small
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad's Dad Seized His Corpse After Autopsy, Refuses To Bury Him - Mohbad's Mum by obaidan: 11:26pm On Nov 21, 2023
tosyne2much:
The thing is this, people are just being too emotional rather than being logical

How on earth would someone even call Mohbad's father a bad father after singlehandedly training the boy to adulthood in the absence of his mother and even supported his musical career?

Did you also watch the video where Mohbad's father was pleading to Naira Marley on behalf of Mohbad where the father was standing while Naira Marley was sitting?
I saw it now. People are just too emotional. The people on the other side are playing the game right.....first to cry for media na innocent. I just wonder why DNA is so difficult to do if who u claim to be the father is the father.
Thank God That boy sang about his father borrowing money to send him to school and he dropped out and apologized, the only thing he had to say about his mum in his song was "10 years i no see mummy"...but trust Nigerians, they want to change the boy's story....because na man must take d fall.....someone here even tried to justify that the man is guilty because he/she doesnt like the face of the man.

Like you said, We have video proof of the man begging Naira Marley when he fought Mohbad...the only thing woman said in interview was that the boy was protecting her and didnt want people to know she is his mother... what manner of talk is that.

So proud of his humble beginning, he kept singing emi omo carpenter, never for once sang emi omo iya oni whatever...now world people say the man na wicked father.
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad's Dad Seized His Corpse After Autopsy, Refuses To Bury Him - Mohbad's Mum by obaidan: 7:11pm On Nov 21, 2023
CJStarz:
Never liked Mohbad's father the first time I read the interview he granted. Even his facial appearance depicts a hardened wicked husband and father.
Dunno....
he's so wicked he's the one the boy was praising in his songs for sacrificing everything for him. person sing "10 years i no see mummy" , does that sound like a joke to you?
I know what the father is doing now(the DNA battle) and what the mother is doing (conniving with mohbad's wife) is out of greed and fight for property. But let's say it as it is, he wasn't a wicked father to the boy, the boy didnt say that when he was alive, why are you trying to rewrite his story because u dont like his father's facial appearance
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad's Dad Seized His Corpse After Autopsy, Refuses To Bury Him - Mohbad's Mum by obaidan: 6:56pm On Nov 21, 2023
the boy sang "10 years I no see mummy" .... now mummy dun show dey fight to bury corpse. I smell manipulation

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