Politics › Re: Politics Is The Only Lucrative Business In Nigeria, Says Afe Babalola by obaidan: 12:01am On Oct 23, 2023 |
Afe had Obasanjo's ears, did he tell Obasanjo this or he only realized this after his number 1 benefactor Obasanjo left power |
Celebrities › Re: If You Can't Buy It For Yourself, Don't Ask Him -Toke Makinwa Advises Ladies(vid by obaidan: 8:25pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
the host should let her guest speak na....chochocho ahan |
Celebrities › Re: If You Can't Buy It For Yourself, Don't Ask Him -Toke Makinwa Advises Ladies(vid by obaidan: 8:21pm On Oct 22, 2023*. Modified: 9:55pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Team #SmallGirlBigGod una mentor dun talk o |
Celebrities › Re: Olakunle Churchill & Wife, Rosy Meurer Welcome Their Second Child, Imisioluwa by obaidan: 8:18pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
Revolution2022: 2 seconds man with thick cum.No be how far na how well. Tonto Dikeh will not like this post  |
Romance › Re: Girl's Mum In Shock After Finding A Big Cucumber In Her Bag (pics/video) by obaidan: 3:12pm On Oct 22, 2023 |
let the young girl breathe abeg...if she collect real preek una go beat am, now she dun improvise, we should salute her innovation and creativity...... at least cucumber will not give her STDs, cucumber will not give her unwanted pregnancy |
Politics › Re: We’re Managing To Pay Salaries, Facing Enormous Challenges – FG by obaidan: 1:47am On Oct 21, 2023 |
VeeVeeMyLuv: Pump money into which country? Country that has no plans? That encourages insecurity? Abegi.
You are right though, even with your money 💰 it is deadly to live in the country, the best option is to japa Even if na small money for the survival of your loved ones, na something. Overall foreign remittance dey help. Nigerians want a change in their lives, but they vote continuity at d polls |
Politics › Re: We’re Managing To Pay Salaries, Facing Enormous Challenges – FG by obaidan: 3:39am On Oct 20, 2023 |
Someone in governement says this... Government faces enormous challenge especially now, the government is facing revenue deficit. There’s no money anywhere in the country, the government is just managing to pay salaries. The growth rate is very slow and the population growth is fast pacing and increasing. unemployment is surging amid high inflation. These are issues which non-governmental organisations must take on board in helping government to cover the space government could not cover”, he noted. .
Please leave Nigeria if you Have the means, you will be doing yourself and Nigeria a whole lot of good. Go earn money that you can pump into the country... naija is on the last lifeline....once FG starts struggling and salaries dun dey delay, na d end be dat o. And d people in government are already using style to say FG is struggling to pay people |
Politics › Re: We’re Managing To Pay Salaries, Facing Enormous Challenges – FG by obaidan: 3:33am On Oct 20, 2023 |
[quote author=socialmediaman post=126506767][/quote]U never still know weytin to talk? |
Business › Re: Naira Hits All-Time Low Of ₦1,152/$1 In Black Market by obaidan: 7:18pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
so u are telling me that 50k dols is over 50million naira.......wonderful.....what APC cannot do does not exist |
Celebrities › Re: Mohbad: DNA Test For My Grandson Is Non-Negotiable – Joseph Aloba by obaidan: 4:08pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mohbad: DNA Test For My Grandson Is Non-Negotiable – Joseph Aloba by obaidan: 4:03pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mohbad: DNA Test For My Grandson Is Non-Negotiable – Joseph Aloba by obaidan: 3:59pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
kennyz247: And if the results turns out to be negative,what den will happen? what will happen is that, facts will be established, just the same thing that will happen if the result turns out positive. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Passion Over Paycheck: Is It Worth Taking A Lower-paying Job To Do What I Love by obaidan: 2:48pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Your worries are valid and I think your heart is pushing you in the right direction. |
Business › Re: Bode Agusto Is Dead by obaidan: 2:46pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
princeemmma: if rich people die na news
when average citizens die, nobody cares everything in this life is rigged against someone that isnt rich |
Family › Re: Recurring Dreams About My Wife Wanting To Kill Me by obaidan: 2:42pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Handsomejok: I have been a victim of fake proohet which has destroyed my home in the past.
My wife and I were separated before and we have reconciled although our marriage is not the best but we are managing staying together for the sake of our children.
I have a problem bothering me that I keep dreaming about her wanting to kill me this dream is coming more often and I strongly believed she has no intention to harm me but I remember once when we were arguing I asked her why she has decided to come back to me if she doesn't want to do any effort to amend our marriage.
She said she cane back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children. When I think about what she said and also the way she treat me like her enemy I am scared and I started to think of what if she came with a plan to harm me to revenge back all the suffering I have put her through. I am confuse and I don't know what to do right now please advice me? At least when you get to heaven, you will not tell God that he didnt show you |
Christianity Etc › Re: Checkout What The Bible Says About Ga'za (Pictures) by obaidan: 9:16am On Oct 19, 2023*. Modified: 3:31pm On Oct 19, 2023 |
Tallesty1: One thing I learned from this Israel v Gaza war is that we have a large number of terrorists on Nairaland. A lot of terrorists in the universe...the majority of human race, na wicked men n women full there, why would anyone celebrate the killing of innocent people. Hamas should be crushed, not innocent people who are struggling to survive. Same applies to the animals from Hamas that attacked innocent Israelis. |
Romance › Re: American Lady Shuts Down Nigerian Women Advising Her Against Dating Nigerian Men by obaidan: 7:47pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Nigerian men were raised to be responsible for all or nearly all the needs of their women, they travelled abroad and didnt drop that value, now all women around the world keep shouting, Nigerian men are the best.
Nigerian women were raised to be nurturing, respectful to their men and take care of their needs (apart from financial), small internet like this nigerian women dropped that value and started dragging equality, toxic feminism. The value that stands them out of the crowd, they have dropped it, how will you be desirable. -when women from other places shout naija men are the best, ur own is to be dropping comment, they will soon serve this one breakfast.
Don't worry, keep fighting and nurturing bitterness towards anything masculine...........as u are doing it, just make sure u have money so that science can help u with sperm and surrogacy.....if u use toxic feminism chase men away, u no come still get money like ds....e dun be for u be that |
Romance › Re: American Lady Shuts Down Nigerian Women Advising Her Against Dating Nigerian Men by obaidan: 7:26pm On Oct 18, 2023 |
Eduadolero: Take it or leave it, African women are tha best any day any time best in what ma |
Celebrities › Re: Twins Video Leak: You Are Childish, Samklef Hits Back At Davido(pics, Video) by obaidan: 4:53pm On Oct 15, 2023 |
Wujio: They should kill the kids the way eniola killed them. People shouldnt post things on behalf of people. Thats the true disrespect Davido's dad recorded the video.....so na Davido circle release the video...and Samklef saw it online and reposted it.....What has he done wrong...Why not attack the person that release the video in your circle. Although stupid of samklef to start saying i dey ds industry before u, pointless, but i also dont understand why Davido dey attack d guy |
Romance › Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by obaidan: 3:25pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
BigYash: She should get the one her money can afford.. If you finally marry her,na so she go dey pressure you? she no ready marry d guy...she jus dey use d guy fund her lifestyle |
Romance › Re: Should I End The Relationship Or What Is The Best Approach. by obaidan: 3:19pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Godoverevery: Am currently in a relationship with a 31yr old lady for about 2 month now. She want to buy iPhone 12pro max and she doesn't have the total money. She has being complaining about how her phone (techno phantom) isn't good enough for pictures and videos bla bla bla from the time we met. In my last relationship I actually helped my ex get iPhone Xsmas, she didn't have the total money aswell and I added about 55k to get it for her which I later regret with every blood in me and now the same scenario is happening again. I actually advise her to get a lesser iPhone which her money can buy but she is adamant she want iPhone 12promax just to show off to other ladies in her office. She expecting me to help her get the phone and add the remaining balance. From my calculations she is about 70k-80k short of the money to get the phone and honestly I don't have a dime to give cos only a foolish idiot will make the same mistake thrice. She emotionally blackmailing me and I can't take it anymore.......at 31yrs I expect more understanding and more important priorities. dey whine yourself...something wey u go still buy..if u no ready buy am, u no go open thread to disturb us. meanwhile are u sure she's even serious with you, 31yr old ladies put pressure on their guys for marriage, your own 31 yrs old dey put pressure on you for iphone...oga u sef think am na |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 3:08pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Angelfrost: Yeah... You are right.
Still, traditional wedding over the others, as that confirms you have gotten the approval from her family... Most courts will ask you this. Are you sure about this. I doubt this is a compulsory requirement. People that didn't do traditional wedding wedding are getting married in Nigerian courts everyday. And don't get me wrong traditional wedding is cool and yes it signifies that her parents have given approval but when e set u can only fight for your rights with proof of court marriage. |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 3:04pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR: Then take it to the supreme court.
That magistrate level no go work. the man has a judgement already in his favour, it's now up to the woman to go challenge that ruling at a higher court. Right now he has custody of his kids(shared i believe), i am sure the woman won't even deny him that except she's ready to face contempt of court consequences again. see the best solution in these kind of cases is just for the 2 parties to do a co-parenting arrangement in peace, if u wan fight, u will get bruised |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:59pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Angelfrost: I doubt it, except you wish to marry without her parents' approval, which I will never advise. Once there is understanding on the part of both parents and families, the traditional process can be made moderate, and the groom shielded from so many expenses. With good understanding, the traditional process can even be done quietly inside the bride's father's house with just one or two witnesses. Court wedding is definitely non-negotiable, especially for documentation purposes. put it properly, court wedding is non-negotiable because that is what confirms marriage. every other thing is just ceremonial, tradition o, custom o, church o, mosque o, shrine o |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:54pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR: But it is possible. Once she relocates to igboland, that is all. Otilor. Your yoruba custom has no sway there. You have no rights to the children there, unless she pities you. If you want to marry, know the culture and do the right thing. But if you don't like the culture, stay away. Get this right: yoruba custom o, igbo custom o, hausa custom o, edo custom o, the laws of Nigeria go carpet all of them. i no dey do tribal battle. is igboland not a part of Nigeria again, even in igboland the laws of Nigeria is supreme. I get what you are trying to say, but let me tell you, you cannot hide someone's child inside Nigeria from him. If he is ready to fish u out, na weytin simple pass be that.......highest dem go begin attack each other spiritually but nothing like Otilor my brother, pikin wey say e mama no go rest, im sef no go sleep |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:44pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
CSTRR: Are you aware that even in America, people pay child support for children that are not biologically theirs.? It's not paternity fraud. Both couples know. But as long as the State has deemed him to be the father of the child and registered as their father, he has to pay child support. This is the 21st century in a first world country. "That's Igbo custom and it must be respected .. You can't be staying with someone's child without doing the right thing and you expect them to just be giving birth like pig. The worst thing is that they are prophet and prophetess" i responded to the words above, how are u able to bring child support into this. the poster insinuated that because a man gets her someone's daughter pregnant without paying her bride price, his right as a father of the kids they have together can be taken away from him because of igbo custom......and I said NO it is not possible. So me i do not get what you are up to with these whole America, child support, 21st century. |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:32pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Ttipsy: well the husband should pay the bride price and that settles it
Biologically they are his children, nobody is denying that fact right ?? He need to get married to the women properly else everyone knows especially the igbos knows he’s wasting his time . But the woman is denying that fact na, that's the reason she changed the surname of the children Did u not read that the man is not interested in having the woman, he just wants access to his kids, which no one can deny him. why should he pay bride price, he didnt pay bride price when all was well between them, its now he doesnt want her anymore that he will now pay brideprice |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:28pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Faposky95: As long as the traditional institutions on Nigeria are under the state, therefore, let the Law be clear on such matters. We can't Rob Peter and pay Paul with it..... It's a reflection of the endemic problem ingrained in our DNA as Nigerians and not an ever evolving populace.
Up North, it's Islamic....to the West, it's Law, traditional and sometimes religious.....so much confusion. Are we as Africans going to strap prenups to our marriages by force ......?. Scrap bride price and death related compulsory practices. We are first Nigerian...... actually no need to scrap it, there was never a contest, its just a freedom to practice anything u like, when e set, the court will reset people's brains. Anyone that thinks there's a contest between laws of the land and religious laws/custom jus dey play.....when jungle mature now, u see as the court rubbish the custom wey ds woman wan use. |
Family › Re: Igbo Custom On Bride Price Wicked, Evil Ungodly, Says Ondo Court by obaidan: 2:25pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
blogbuilder: That's Igbo custom and it must be respected .. You can't be staying with someone's child without doing the right thing and you expect them to just be giving birth like pig. The worst thing is that they are prophet and prophetess No matter how you spin it, what confirms paternity is DNA. What confirms marriage is signature on court documents. Custom, Tradition and all are good BUT when e set u go see say custom just dey play....the Laws of the land is superior to any other law, be it christian or islam or traditional laws...GOVERNMENT is King...every other thing just dey align with the laws of d land |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gaza To Run Out Of Power Around 12pm UK Time Following Complete Siege By Israel by obaidan: 2:14pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
EyeCumInPiece: Why attack someone that has power to cut off Food, Water and Power from you.  the first thing that came to my mind.......is it not insane. You dey attack person wey fit snuff life out of you |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Venezuela President : Israel Is Committing ‘Genocide’ Against Palestinian People by obaidan: 5:46pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
Sirmwill: Pele So what was done and supported by them to 900 Israelis was what "playcide"? I grew up hating Muslims with all my life. At a point in time,I gradually started having more Muslim friends than Christians. I discovered there are Muslims that are actually good people. Then I decided that "Bad Muslims" with evil ideologies are the ones that deserve to be killed. Muslims who attacked and killed people in hundreds deserve to be burnt to dust. So so true, but they will add so much value to the society if they put more energy into speaking up against the evil doers that are muslims instead of expending all their energy on defending themselves or islam...... Most of their energy should go into condemning and forming alliance to stop the evil ones tarnishing islam |
Travel › Re: To Those That Have traveled out of Nigeria. by obaidan: 5:38pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
isArray: Those who have traveled out of Nigeria to countries that have a better economy than Nigeria How does it feel, and how did it impact your life? High taxes, but there is peace of mind. There is freedom to explore different things without thinking of survival all the time Well High taxes is not a problem at all because the income is high too. And ofcourse the high taxes benefits the payer of the tax....so it is not even an issue at all. |