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CrimeRe: Blessing William: Rivers Single Mother Found Dead In Apartment by obaidan: 6:44pm On Nov 13, 2023
UptownVibes:
Did I say she is the killer? No. I said suspect, so they need investigate. Stop being emotional Oga, you no be woman. Who voted who? How can you put pressure that rigged themselves into position? Looks like you live in the diaspora
i'm not being emotional, security operatives usually expand their investigation perimeter to cover close people already which is standard practice, i am just saying we shouldn't say things that will make people run away from helping people in distress
FamilyRe: My Brothers Gambling Problem by obaidan: 6:38pm On Nov 13, 2023
Pamfresh:
My dad is already considering locking him up because we recently discovered he used my dad's BVN and our last born's BVN to borrow total of 400k from loan sharks.
That's the one that threw all of us off balance
your brother own dun pass addiction
FamilyRe: My Brothers Gambling Problem by obaidan: 6:36pm On Nov 13, 2023
AsomArchitectNG:
Too many gambling cases arising these days..

How do ppl get themselves involved in gambling?

These guys ain't out for ur interest as many may think. They're all out to make profit too so there's no way you can be smarter than them. The sooner you stop seeing gambling as a get rich quick scheme that wouldn't have any positive impact in ur lives and desist from it, the better...
if its about who is out for your interest, even your employer for any work isnt out for ur interest. It's a dog eat dog world. Nobody dey help anybody.
CrimeRe: Blessing William: Rivers Single Mother Found Dead In Apartment by obaidan: 4:12pm On Nov 13, 2023
UptownVibes:
That person that asked the son to go home and bath is a suspect..
Y'all need to stop doing these, the same reason someone will see another in distress and not help because if u help and the person dies, na u be prime suspect.
Let the security people do their job and if they decide to be useless and not do their job, punishing an innocent person is the worst thing ever, that's why people should put pressure on the people they vote to build efficient security system
EducationRe: Herbert Wigwe To Build $500M University In Nigeria by obaidan: 3:22pm On Nov 13, 2023
TheSuperX:
He should create more jobs instead, imagine building universities while graduates are still jobless for decades due to unemployment.
Honestly.....he should empower the jobless ones in the pool first so they can have the capacity to create ventures that will employ the ones in the university....u have that much money to invest...that's 500 billion naira, half of a trillion..... get 100,000 young business minded people with good ideas, 5m each to support their businesses........focus on tech, agriculture and production of items that can be exported
EducationRe: Herbert Wigwe To Build $500M University In Nigeria by obaidan: 3:21pm On Nov 13, 2023
at least if u need Access bank job, u know what to do
Foreign AffairsRe: Former UK Prime Minister, David Cameron Becomes UK Foreign Secretary by obaidan: 3:02pm On Nov 13, 2023
These are the people willing to serve..if na naija politicians........dem go so na downgrade...i dun do governor before, i no fit do commissioner for anyone
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Manchester City (4 - 4) On 12th November 2023 by obaidan:
the only problem is that chelsea will not produce this performance regularly..........and that's where the coach is not doing well.......If these boys can reproduce 80% of what they did today, we will be solid to get UCL football..just 80%....
this is not a time to laugh with the players and pat them on the back, let them know its failure if they cant reproduce this same performance week-in week-out, the coach needs to grind them to keep this standard...it's practice, they have to be able to reproduce these movements n tenacity in their slumber....that's what successful teams do.....maintain same level of high performance over a long time.

If you have players that appear world class today and then it looks like they should be sold the next week, and keep having fluctuating standards in performance, then the manager still dey play....stamp it in their heads.......practice it over and over and over and over.
TravelRe: Handworks To Learn In Nigeria Before You Japa by obaidan: 5:33pm On Nov 12, 2023
ObongBassey:
Nice thread.

How about hair dressing and barbing saloon
Infact na d best
Car TalkRe: Nigerians Don't Know How To Use Headlights. by obaidan: 2:54pm On Nov 12, 2023
Cooolme:
No mine will just serve as a correction not revenge, something like a flash. Saw it on a video.
If the drivers don't learn they will, the hard way.
You don't know one of the consequences is increased likelihood of crash. You give am high beam , e runs into you, weytin u gain.
CrimeRe: Toluige Olokoobi Babalola's Husband Was Met On Top Of Her Body by obaidan:
this life is very risky...human interaction is very risky, u are the prime suspect if u are close to a dead person.

Imagine the husband was detained because the neighbours said the husband called for them to help him and that they met him on top of her. Is it that the husband called the neighbours to come and witness him kill his wife? Very soon people go dey wear bodycam around, incase of anything, police can see what we do at every point

What's wrong with using technology to investigate him, get warrant and use technology to look at his activities instead of troubling him.
FamilyRe: HELP My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave by obaidan:
Rubyjade:
From DM
I feel permanently guilty and as if the only way I will get my husband to do less is if I do more. The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't.

THIS UP HERE IS THE REAL PROBLEM..........UR HUSBAND CANNOT STAND MESS, BUT U ON THE CONTRARY, DO NOT MIND MESS..... DOnt make the man feel bad for being a normal human being.
If you feel guilty for being a mess, deal with it without bringing the man into it.
She is the perfect symbol of selfishness, its unfortunate the man finds himself with this kind of woman, she feels guilty for not doing anything to support the cleaning of the house, then the solution in her head is not for her to step up a bit, but for her to get her husband to do less...so that the whole house can be dirty and she will not feel guilty again...God abego
BusinessRe: CBN Liquidates 20 Banks - NDIC (names) by obaidan: 4:57pm On Nov 11, 2023
Woodshot:
In the US you would hear names like; JPMorgan Chase
Citigroup
Wells Fargo & Co
U.S. Bancorp
PNC Financial Services
Truist Financial Corporation
Goldman Sachs ...

But these Nigerian banks names would make me not put my money there
Their history and performance over the years made their names sound all that...if its about names how is PNC better than PHB or GTB...even these liquidated ones have very cool names
FamilyRe: This Whatsapp Status Was Posted By Someone's Wife. Should I Tell Her Husband? by obaidan: 4:59pm On Nov 10, 2023
Dchampion65:
...... be your brother's keeper in this situation has sent some to untimely death or break a long time relationship.
so what would you have him do...watch his friend struggle with a loveless relationship that is already draining him(because he said his friend was suspecting his wife already) ...... i know u have a point but what would you have him do for his friend
FamilyRe: Moment Bride's Mum Warned The Groom Not To Lay Hands On Her Daughter (Video) by obaidan: 4:46pm On Nov 10, 2023
Right warning at the wrong place. She should have called both her daughter and the groom in private and advice them together. And give this warning.
FamilyRe: This Whatsapp Status Was Posted By Someone's Wife. Should I Tell Her Husband? by obaidan: 4:39pm On Nov 10, 2023
Gkay1:
You don't know what that woman is passing through in secret
Let him just facilitate the ending of the marriage, so that the woman can stop passing through whatever she's passing through
FamilyRe: This Whatsapp Status Was Posted By Someone's Wife. Should I Tell Her Husband? by obaidan: 4:37pm On Nov 10, 2023
I would have said you should mind your business, But You've got to be your brother's keeper
FamilyRe: Newlywed Horrified To Discover Husband Has A Micropenis by obaidan: 4:23pm On Nov 10, 2023
If you agree to do a "no sex until marriage" with anyone, then you have no right to complain about his/her inability to satisfy you sexually after getting married......
Just divorce in peace, then go and marry another person. You will now have to test that other person before marriage.
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 4:22pm On Nov 10, 2023
nairamaniac:
the magun is not visible. It's spiritual.

But for real, there are less chances of someone fvckin your wife if she's not attractive
true
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 4:00pm On Nov 10, 2023
Unrated900:
This is the plan.
Settle your house payment at least 2 years from this moment.
2.drop one million naira for feeding and upkeeping for your wife and kids.and.tell.your wife to manage it without going to parties.
3.use the remaining money to travel abroad and start hustling within 1 to 2 years you will be stable of bringing your wife and kids there with you..
4.do this and thank me after 2 years.
5.dont listen to anyone's much advice here on nairaland
Most of em are kids and have no family.
God will guide you in all you do.....
You have spoken well BUT that your No. 3 na bullet point, if we begin to develop it, e fit reach 1000 pages. he said he has 5m.....he will drop 1m for his wife. he will probably use 1m to buy ticket. he's left with 3m which is just 3 thousand dollars. He has not said that he has anyone that will receive him when he gets abroad and help him facilitate getting a job, how will he get the job. He will be working illegally, so to get that job/hustle it has to be through networking or talking to anyone he meets or sees, so as he is speaking with people what if he goes around to speak about his condition to a whistleblower. Its one thing to be ready to beg anyone on the street for a job, its another thing if u have to watch your back while doing that. another thing people do not know is that those jobs he will be able to do will not leave him with so much savings. to be able to bring to bring 3 other persons after 2 years
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 3:50pm On Nov 10, 2023
kapelvej:
You can achieve and obtain your residence permit in about 6 months as long as you are travelling with a genuine tourist visa. The guys advising you that tourist visa will get you no where are doing so from the point of limited information.
Reach out to me I will give you the info. Please I am not asking for a dime for this. Just completely free info. If you are hard working, your family can join you in about 9 months, ie 3 months after obataining your residence permit
LOOOOL why u dey carry am go koro to advice him....shey u no dey collect dime, u wan do am for God, drop the advice for am i public
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 3:46pm On Nov 10, 2023
nairamaniac:
First take your wife to shrine to swear and also place magun on her. naija men no get joy, they will shift his magun aside, do what they want to do, and place it back for him, he will meet his magun there when he gets back

But if she's ugly and maybe Fat, you can rest your mind. forget, e go still happen
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 3:40pm On Nov 10, 2023
Gwin007:
I don’t have any job idea to do there, [b]planning when I get there I will look for something doin[/b]g
Don't do it. At least not yet.
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan: 3:39pm On Nov 10, 2023
Kobojunkie:
If you don't already have a plan on how to hit the ground running when you get to the other side, then I suggest you back in Nigeria and wait for when you do. undecided
Just Listen to this guy
FamilyRe: Leaving My Wife And Kids To Travel Abroad by obaidan:
Gwin007:
Good day nairalanders.. please I need advice on what to do.. am married with three kids, 5, 3 , and a year old.. I own a bussines.. but for now my bussines is down, the has been very good and lucrative.. but due to lack of capital to invest more on it. It was now shaking.. but the thing now is that.. I have the capital to invest on the bussines.. but now am saying should relocate abroad with the money and leave my 3kids and wife back home or invest on the bussines.. cus am traveling with a tourist visa and it’s a Europe country and I don’t how long it will take to get my papers over there please Nairaland I really need ur opinion not make future mistakes

Thanks
LOOOOOOL.....NO TRY AM........NO EVEN TRY AM
You don't seem to have a concrete plan or maybe you are not sharing some other details. What part of Europe, Poland na europe, Germany na europe, Sweden na europe, Bosnia na europe, Italy na europe, even Hungary na europe.

If it is not US, don't follow them to do that japa on tourist visa with the intention of not coming back. Even US sef, u still fit hear am small but that one light dey dey at the end of the tunnel, e fit happen for u quick but those European countries? make e no be say na u go dey beg for deportation eventually
CelebritiesRe: Ilebaye's Outfit To Davido's Party Causes A Stir by obaidan: 10:37pm On Nov 09, 2023
na una wey dey watch Big Brother encourage nonsense
Science/TechnologyRe: South Korea: Robot Kills Factory Worker After Mistaking Him For Box Of Vegetable by obaidan: 8:08pm On Nov 09, 2023
adioolayi:
Limitations of technology
Lack of precaution by human.
TravelRe: I Regret Coming To Europe- Nigerian Woman Says, After Family Ate Her N30m (vid) by obaidan: 7:44pm On Nov 09, 2023
no be europe no good...na ur family no good
FamilyRe: How Can I Deal With A Quarrelsome Wife by obaidan: 2:35pm On Nov 07, 2023
Divorce her...any partner that will not give you peace of mind, whether na man or woman, divorce them. The only thing u need as you grow older is peace of mind.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Chelsea (1 - 4) On 6th November 2023 by obaidan: 12:41am On Nov 07, 2023
OKOATA:
Oga red card is part of the game that's why it's in football. As long as it's a win no one really cares.
you dont seem to get the point...no one is saying red card isn't part of the game, we played 2 men advantage since 55th minute but it never looked like we would surely win the game until 94th minute......we managed a goal at 75th minute and tottenham with 2 men down had a goal ruled out at eighty something minute.....
There is no reason a team with 2 men down and 2 crucial players out due to injury during the game, should be holding us till extra time before we can feel some relief....Son nearly scored too.
this is the reason we will struggle against nottigham, brentford, anyone. an average team(not even a good team) will put this game beyond the opponet's control before 70th minute. 2 men off, tottenham still played a crazy high line in defence all through, the space was visible for everyone to see, the space was so much cucurella was making through runs on goal
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Chelsea (1 - 4) On 6th November 2023 by obaidan:
I am not convinced about this chelsea at all......Pochetino has work to do......they played against a team playing with a crazy high line and 2 men down for 39 minutes, before we could heave a sigh of relief
FamilyRe: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by obaidan: 2:24pm On Nov 06, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
"Sir, should I divorce or remain subject to this punishment for my infidelity? Or leave and start a new life without my family? What should I do ?

I am a married woman. I have no problems in my marriage. My husband had just been posted to another city. But I knew a young man when I was younger. We got back in touch. As chance would have it, we ran into each other one day when we were leaving the hospital.

We called each other regularly and saw each other. But I couldn't imagine it could reignite the flame still inside me. Unknown to my husband I told him out and welcomed him home. One day I introduced my husband to him. Everything was fine.

One day I fall so low by sleeping with him in my home. The children returning from school accompanied by my husband caught us in the act.

My husband and the children didn't say anything and my friend also left. Since that day neither my husband nor the children speak to me. No one eats the food I make. No child accepts that I even touch them for their shower. No one asks for my help with their class assignment. My friend also abandoned me.

I begged my husband for forgiveness but nothing. It has already been 11 months that I have lived as a stranger in the house. Their silence weighs on me. I told my parents about this.

My father no longer speaks to me. My mother occasionally only insults and calls me a harlot and stupid. I don't dare tell his family exactly. My husband also didn't tell his family.

I'm so ashamed of what I did. I broke my home. I do not know what to do"
u dey practice story-writing or what

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