Norahsthought:
Who/what is a Igbo dear?

rposco123:
when it comes to making life commitment believe me all factors need to be considered.. i recommend this book to you.. "the normal bar"
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valentineuwakwe:
My problem now is that you are not in love with any of them so how do you think marriage will work? pls marry who you fall in love with n who among them love you most......I will advice you throw a test btw both n see who really deserve your love....
best of luck

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Norahsthought:
Thank you.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Davash222:
1: So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon


2: So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose?


You're not interested in starting a family soon, at the same time you've decided to be open to marriage.
Obviously, you're not just ready. You're just looking for flimsy excuses to satisfy feministic non existing career!

I THOUGHT I AM THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED SUCH A CONFLICT IN WHAT WAS WRITTEN BY THE OP .

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

majamajic:


Seems u are new here , Igbo is someone eastern part of Nigeria, yes
Afonja is SW ,

charleff512:
List out the qualities,traits and attributes you want in your ideal man and watch closely in the course of your interactions with them for the next six months before making your decision.Dont make any hasty or irrational decision based on pressure.
The Lord be with you

cooooooks:
Go out on dates, nothing expensive or crazy. IF you don't like them after 3-5 meetings, cut it off with them.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

meum:
If you are not ready for it going into it will make you regret when the challenges that come with marriage appears. Those that are urging you on won't be there by then. Even if they are, they have their limits when it comes to your home.

On the flip side, if you decide not to marry when you are ready, you might end up "hustling" for a man. By then I bet guys might just not be interested. In EVERY lady's life, there's that time where men will be flocking around you. Some come to chop and clean mouth while some come with the intention of settling down with the lady. So as a lady you should know how to make a choice. Every evening newspaper was once a hot sale newspaper/breaking news.

Make a list of YOUR expectations of a HUSBAND whoever ticks out most of the items on the list should be your pick. They both won't score 100%. Whoever meets your requirements(not your friends/family) in a HUSBAND should be your pick. However, listen and critically analyze your family's suggestions(not decisions) about who you should settle for. If they have your best interest at heart, they'll spot what you can't see. They'll see beyond all that "both guys are doing well and from equally good background" thing you typed. If your close family members decide to be selfish(marry A or B to secure your financial future or to cement our political/social ties), you can ditch their suggestions if their reasons don't align with the list I stated earlier. Kindly note, no man/woman is perfect but another question you should ask is this: can you live with your partners imperfections?

The choice is YOURS to make. If you decide to marry later you might still be lucky to have good men around that will still be interested. I would advise you not to marry out of pressure. Be ready before you go into marriage. But if you know you are not ready yet, work towards being ready now that men(in general) are falling over themselves for your attention.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

macfish101:
Truth is, it's none of them. If it was any of them, you won't be here seeking for advice. Meanwhile, you need to try more guys, give it time and when you meet the one, you will have no doubt in your heart. Try me�

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

ninetiethcrown7:


My advice, you’re 25 on a good growth path in your career. I wouldn’t advise you to risk jeopardizing that for someone you are not 100 percent sure about. That is just my advise, it isn’t necessarily the best advise.

To be honest, only you know what you really want, and I’m sure regret is not part of it. So, if you’re chasing a career my dear chase it.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.