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LongT:
I beg take it easy with the poor fellow. The peculiarities of having a first class degree is daunting, as such his in ability to punctuate. But we all understand that some first class were non merited alas the drudgery in securing a good paying job.

One's credibility can't be tested by one post on naira land, some people will do everything they can to bring other people down it is in their nature. He knew the message i was trying to pass across, but ignored it and looked at punctuation to discredit every single thing i said. which is ultimately useless in an unofficially discussion like this.

ChybuzzDD:
You don't know where to use a comma(,) and a fullstop(.) when constructing a sentence, yet you're a first class graduate! Nawaoo.

Again, you said you've been writing books? You'll soon make people choke to death while reading your marathon, unpunctuated sentences and paragraphs.

I believe this is not an official publication, i can observe punctuation if want or not, i can even use pidgin if i want, but let me say this, posting on nairaland is not a test of your credibility, am simply voicing out what i have been doing for the past years since graduation. If you have nothing nice to say get over peoples comment than try to pick faults no one cares about your negative energy.

heniford2:
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dinodangana:
I wasn't on a 2:1 sha, but a strong 2:2 if there's anything like that, lol. Graduated 6years ago in Accounting, took 2 years to finish both MBA and ICAN simultaneously. Attended lots of interviews, basically NGO related, reached the last recruitment stage in most of them but always ends up unsuccessful, the regret mail I got last week was most painful but lass lass all man get him own time. Thank God I'm not a lazy man depending on corporate jobs sha, right now I Fry and sell masa(waina) while trying to gather funds to get a car for bolt

wow you are a great guy, hopefully you will get to where u desire cheers!

Asour:
You have a good profile.
Have you done your Professional qualification?

If not (maybe for funds) are you aware that ICAN gives scholarships to first class students?

Also you may want to streamline your pursuits. Too many pursued is none caught. I.e. You'll definitely lack depth in any one area.

Pick an area of focus for your tech interests. Be it Data Analytics, web development, Cyber security, etc.

For scholarships, You may want to be more open.
I.e. not just UK and USA. Good schools abound in much less popular countries. If you don't mind.

Russia has open doors scholarships into nice institutions like HSE University & St Petersburg state university.
Belgium has KU Leuven.
These are English taught programmes too.


Cheers.

Thanks brother, no i have no professional qualification mostly due to funds, i really want all these but i have been limited by funds so most of all what i learnt are self taut, even the web development i learnt it for free ,as for the area of focus i focus on mostly web development, i just felt digital marketing and creative writing will enhance my skills thats why i developed interest in them but i add them to my profile as additional skills, i really appreciate this feedback and i will look at the scholarships opportunities in Russia and other areas thanks.

I graduated with a first class in accounting and finance and finished my nysc 3 years ago. Since then i have attended interviews but to no avail, but immediately i finished nysc i started trading forex while looking for jobs. I also involved myself in my friend's entertainment start up 2 years ago as a web administrator on his website, travelled with him regularly for shoots even without pay. I Learnt digital marketing with a certification from google to improve my SEO skills, i took a lot of courses on how to code and build websites which i do today. I equally write books though i do this passively, am still hopeful i can have a tech start up soon, which is far from what i dreamt of when i was studying accounting and finance in school, but where i project the world is heading to. Though am still open to getting a job and launch my tech start up later in the future, as clients on web development do not come very often. I just love learning, i applied for a few scholarships over the years but still no reply, God will do it for me.

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HOW YOU CAN STAY FOCUSED WHEN CURRENT EVENTS DISTRACT YOU?

By clement ndiok

For one reason what so-ever the pandemic in 2020 scattered your plans, goals or infact turned your world upside down, we are left with so many questions to how to deal with the aftermath of the unbelievable event that took place in the world as a result of covid-19, what might seem like the in reversable doom of your plans can be turned around to be the start of something new. here are some viable ways to deal with your mental health to stay focused on your goals and starting something new if need be.
What to do when bad news affects your focus at work

Be an inquisitive eyewitness
Checking your movement, especially with regards to "burdensome substance," is a valuable strategy for managing the troubles of recent developments. Dr. Amishi P. Jha, Director of Contemplative Neuroscience at the Mindfulness Research and Practice Initiative at the University of Miami, says that asking yourself what you need to escape something, such as checking Twitter or Facebook, can assist with guaranteeing that you stay on track and don't wind up in a destruction looking over twisting.

"You must become meta-mindful, second by second. Which means, as you're becoming occupied with an assignment," she says, "it is a ceaseless interaction of observing and not contending with yourself." The more you work this meta-mindfulness into your day and become accustomed to analyzing what things mean for you, the simpler it will turn into.

"Be interested about how everything is influencing you. Interest is the antitoxin to tension," says Dr. Kathleen Smith, a D.C-based specialist and creator of Everything Isn't Terrible. "Approach it as an analyst. Like, 'I will notice myself in my regular environment and see what designs I see. Is there an alternate method of approaching my day? Is there a smart method to exist at the present time?'"

Put forward sensible objectives
“It’s a bad idea to have the goal that you should be positive and crushing it right now because, under high-stress circumstances, the amount of cognitive energy it takes to be positive can actually deplete you more,” says Dr. Jha. “Have a lower bar, accept it, just go through it, and do the things you have to do without adding the burden of having to be the most positive person.”
Asking yourself to work for five minutes, or breaking down your tasks into smaller pieces, for example, can be helpful ways to get yourself back on track.
“Don’t turn it into this all-or-nothing scenario,” adds Dr. Smith. “We tend to do that. But you have to be able to ask yourself, ‘how would I define what a good workday looks like in this crazy 2020 world?’”

Work inside sound limits
For some, throwing themselves into work when the world feels like it’s on fire is a solid option. But there’s a catch: “Being busy is one way of calming yourself down. But I think if it’s the only tool that you have for managing anxiety then you’re going to get in trouble,” says Dr. Smith. “You can’t always count on your work being busy. You still need to be exercising, getting enough rest, eating well, all of the self-care basics you would expect.”
Again, part of setting healthy boundaries around work involves that meta-awareness of what you’re doing and how it’s impacting you. Dr. Smith, for example, says that she “can’t solve any of the world’s problems after 9 p.m.” Adding boundaries like that to your workday can help you avoid unproductively dwelling on negative thoughts and emotions. It’s about knowing the difference between anxiety and thoughtfulness, which can feel the same for some. But there is a way to tell the difference.
“To me, anxious focus is often trying to manage the thoughts and emotions of other people. Thoughtful focus is focusing on yourself. It’s asking, ‘what does it take to be a responsible employee?’” says Dr. Smith.

Take a “both-and” approach
Balance and flexibility are key to getting through these difficult times. So making room for both work and everyday life—the things that help make us feel like ourselves and keep us going—is important.
“You can be productive at work and also give yourself space and time to process, and to think about these thoughts and feelings and see how that’s coming out in your thoughts and behaviors,” says Dr. Thomas A. Vance, an Atlanta-based therapist. He adds that doing things like making a schedule or creating a morning routine, taking breaks to go outside, exercising, and drinking water are great ways to work that sense of balance into your day. And it’s those other activities which can help make us more productive, too.
“We have these rigid definitions of productivity and success,” says Dr. Smith. “Maybe we could get away with those last year, but now we need extra support more than ever.

Keep your social connections alive
Rules on social distancing are significant. Be that as it may, so is keeping your public activity flawless. Indeed, it's important for what can help you stay propelled in troublesome occasions.

"There are bunches of approaches to be truly far off however not socially far off," says Dr. Vance. He recommends choices like gathering others at parks to eat and be outside with a protected measure of distance. Online encounters are as yet significant, and there have effectively been shifts in the innovation we utilize that address the social necessities that individuals have been inadequate.

"Bunches of dating profiles and stages are presently adding this video segment where you're ready to video talk with the individual no doubt about it," says Dr. Vance. "We are normally friendly creatures. So sorting out what ways we can feel more associated, regardless of whether that is through Instagram or Facebook, that is an approach to remain associated with this actual distance."

Social online media applications can in any case cause tension for a few, the pandemic has without a doubt made those applications more significant. Be aware of how we're utilizing these applications, ensuring we get what we need out of them and abandoning the rest.

Have sympathy for yourself
Many are grieving losses of all sizes, whether someone you know falls ill or your inability to see the people you love and live your life the way you want to.
“A lot of us are traumatized . . . It’s kind of like being in the same storm that everybody’s impacted by, but we’re all in different boats. And on the different boats we have different tools and different environments,” says Dr. Vance. These different boats, he says, take the form of intersectional identities, which shape both who we are and how we respond to things. And those identities can mean pre-existing depression or anxiety, or just generally higher levels of stress.
It’s important not to dismiss those layers of identity. It can feel urgent to “do all the things,” especially since so many of us have more time (theoretically) to be productive. But by giving yourself the space to be human and to heal, you can set yourself up for success and avoid pushing yourself beyond your limits.
So celebrate your wins, acknowledge when things are getting too much for you, and above all, be kind to yourself. You deserve it.

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MaxInDHouse:
The truth is there is just one group of true Christians today on earth just as it was in the first century. Satan only created false religion and multiplied them into so many sects all claiming Christians. 2Corinthians 11:12-14

The true Christians surely have LOVE, JOY and PEACE permeating their gathering, it's Satan's agents disguising as worshipers of God that can't produce the FRUIT of God's Holy Spirit! Matthew 7:16-18 compare to Galatians 5:22-23

Quite well u have full idea what you are saying seeing your biblical references but the true Christians you say today are very few and far fetched that's why we are encouraged not to judge Mathew7:1 that's the only way we could have have complete submission to God with the fruit of the spirit Galatians 5:22-23, God knows the human nature isnt perfect but the deviation we have today in religious gatherings have put us on course away from love and the truth, everything we have seen in from the book revelation by John is gradually playing out but then again the world needs help real help.

trillest1960:
God has no concern with whatever religion you practice... If the devotion in your heart is true God himself will pull you to himself.

Interesting, so we dnt need to accept Christ for us to be saved?

MaxInDHouse:
I would have pretended i never saw your post had it been you never mentioned the name of that man called "Jesus"
Most of you people already had preconceived thought on matters before bringing it to the public so opinions are irrelevant as long as it doesn't go down well with what you've already concluded in your mind.

According to Jesus of Nazareth the religion you practice MATTERS A LOT and it will play a vital role in your SALVATION!

Now let's try to read Jesus' mind on the topic by meditating on his words. Remember he said whoever listens to his words and took no action on it is like someone building his house on sandy soil! Matthew 7:24-27

These are the WORDS Jesus spoke himself regarding the topic of discussion:

Before Jesus' arrival on planet earth the one and only nation God was dealing with directly with regards to salvation is Israel. So whatever religion you practice aside from what God stated for this people is worthless before the true God. Now the same Israelites had issues within them and they divided ten out of twelve separated themselves as the northern Israel known as Samaritans in Jesus' days while the remaining three tribes (including Levites) were in the south known as Jews. So there was an ongoing contention between the two nations, the Samaritans believed that since they're also Israelites (descendants of Jacob) God approves their worship but the Jews kept insisting that any form of worship aside from what involves the Levitical priesthood is Idolatry.
This contention lasted for centuries and the Jews despices the Samaritans for this reason.

Now what did Jesus have to say on the matter?

Well a certain Samaritan woman was curious so she kept nursing this thing deeply in her heart until one day that she's so fortunate to meet the promised Messiah (Christ) one on one at Jacob's well!

So after perceiving that Jesus is a prophet of God she threw the question bothering her mind for years at Jesus:

The woman said to (Jesus): “Sir, I see that you are a prophet. Our forefathers worshipped on this mountain, but you people say that in Jerusalem is the place where people must worship.”  Jesus said to her: “Believe me, woman, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, because salvation begins with the Jews! John 4:19-22

This was Jesus himself declaring that God has always had a choice in the form of worship we engage in! Genesis 4:3-5
Even Jesus when he walked the earth shows that he is selective when it comes to the matter of salvation:

These 12 Jesus sent out, giving them these instructions: “Do not go off into the road of the nations, and do not enter any Sa·marʹi·tan city; but instead, go continually to the lost sheep of the house of Israel! Matthew 10:5-6

He answered: “I was not sent to anyone except to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” Matthew 15:25

Time and time again Jesus demonstrated that the person that sent him had a particular people in mind in respect to salvation!

The woman was a Greek, a Sy·ro·phoe·niʹcian by nationality; and she kept asking him to expel the demon from her daughter. But he said to her: “First let the children be satisfied, for it is not right to take the bread of the children and throw it to the little dogs.” Mark 7:26-27

In all of these Jesus proved again and again that there's a form of worship that you must engage in before God recognizes you as part of His own people! John 4:24

So don't deceive yourself thinking salvation could be found in any form of worship, you must belong to a certain group of people and practice the same sacred service with them before you can be saved! John 3:16; 17:3

May you have PEACE!

Another interesting debate, I believe Mathew 18:20 says for when two or three are gathered in my name I am in their mist, does that mean the church is not an actual place but the church is a group of people? There are so many conflicting beliefs among what different church denominations practice today and this conflicting beliefs have caused a high level of seperation among people who practice the same thing, love is the most important virtue to have after we become born again and seek salvation that is the same virtue lacking today in some churches.

achorladey:
James 1:27

New International Version
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

New Living Translation
Pure and genuine religion in the sight of God the Father means caring for orphans and widows in their distress and refusing to let the world corrupt you.

English Standard Version
Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world.

Berean Study Bible
Pure and undefiled religion before our God and Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.

Berean Literal Bible
Pure and undefiled religion before the God and Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their tribulation; to keep oneself unstained from the world.

King James Bible
Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this, To visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep himself unspotted from the world.

My brothers and sisters, some from Chloe’s household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. What I mean is this: One of you says, “I follow Paul”; another, “I follow Apollos”; another, “I follow Cephas[b]”; still another, “I follow Christ.”

Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptized in the name of Paul?

What I mean is this, that each one of you says: “I belong to Paul,” “But I to A·polʹlos,”“But I to Ceʹphas,” “But I to Christ.”Is the Christ divided? Paul was not executed on the stake for you, was he? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul?

So then, no more boasting about human leaders! All things are yours, whether Paul or Apollos or Cephas[c] or the world or life or death or the present or the future—all are yours, and you are of Christ, and Christ is of God.

So let no one boast in men; for all things belong to you, whether Paul or A·polʹlos or Ceʹphas or the world or life or death or things now here or things to come, all things belong to you; in turn you belong to Christ; Christ, in turn, belongs to God.

Very interesting I love the teachings of Jesus, he demonstrated his teachings in his actions as a living example and it is clearly started in John 14:6 no one comes to the father except through him, I still dnt know why the teachings of Paul, John and some other prophets and apostles are being so emphasized more than the teachings of Jesus today.

Mystery9:
Jesus Christ is the only hope of mankind

Yes Truly, I must say Jesus paid the highest price anyone in the universe could pay (John 3:16), he denied himself everything just to show us how we should live, imagine if some of our religious leaders had the power Jesus had? first some will make themselves the richest in the world first before we even talk of love. How many are even truly called by God?

Kobojunkiee:
Every human being comes equipped from birth with capability of independent thought so ignorance is not bliss even for those who were indoctrinated from childhood in these things.

Sadly many will chose still to allow themselves fall into the same pit that their equally blind leaders/parents when all is said and done.

Sure but as far as the world is manipulated by fear which these doctrines concentrate on knowingly and unknowingly people therefore will always be afraid, the Bible infact mentions "fear not" about 365 times stressing on the need not to be afraid except total fear of God (Job 28:28), (psalm 2:11) This world needs the kind of love Christ showed to everyone and the only hope will be establishing something universal that will be globally accepted that can bring love, then again these power hungry religious leaders will still find a way to bring structures to manipulate and control the world!

MrBrownJay1:
if a person needs a holy to know right from wrong then the problem is NOT religion, the problem is YOU
but sadly, these religions know that and therefore use these same holy books to control these weak lost men.

Exactly, but the problem here is that most Christians dnt read their bible and even the ones that do misinterpret it alot which alters our one believe on the basis of love. Humanity is in deep trouble with this possible threat on human extinction in the next century cnt be written out.

Amotolongbo:
God commanded love

Mankind brought religions

I agree with this, Jesus Christ was the incarnation of the word of God, he loved everyone I mean everyone even Judas that betrayed him, he told his disciples if they truly want to be his disciples they must love everyone as he has loved them (John 13:34) . This love is what is lacking in churches today, some of the hierarchy built in churches today have made people worship religious leaders, in real sense this hierarchy should be means of people occupying these positions to live an exemplary life.

Kobojunkiee:
Your churches are built on the doctrines and traditions of men, that which Jesus Christ declared were antichrist and an abomination to God. So what good can come of that which is against God? None!

Going to church only assures you a place in Hell, not Heaven as that which is against God cannot be where God is.

I think God some how permits and allows some things because this is what majority of people in the world have been trained to believe from birth, alot are so ignorant of so many things even till they pass on.

There are about 4,200 religions in the world or more do you think God cares about the religion you belong to? Or infact he just cares about we treating each other with love like Jesus did as a requirement to eternal life, why I asked this is because churches (in Christianity)
are very much separated in these times and the doctrines of these seperated churches are endless, tho most share some similar and common beliefs but their teachings and practice are completely different from each other. Opinions are welcomed

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