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HealthRe: Urgent Help: Less Than 3yrs Old Baby Girl Possible Molestation by Obatolysis(m): 6:32pm On Feb 05
It could be a benign variant of normal called "Prepubertal vaginal bleeding". It is necessary to rule out other diagnosis by a workup with a paediatric doctor to arrive at this diagnosis
RomanceRe: Should I Marry Her Now Or Let Her Go? I’m Not Ready Financially by Obatolysis(m): 7:06am On May 03, 2025
I was in exactly the same situation like you three years ago and I sat down and thought it through. Yes I truly loved her but why should I subject myself to unnecessary pressure and risk my peace of mind. I am equally a very anxious person. After everything, I made it clear to her that I wouldn't be able to make it. We peacefully parted and I think she is now married. I am now financially stable overseas but yet to get into another relationship and no longer thinking of marriage due to the stress of relationships and my age. The summary is that my relationship/marriage became my opportunity cost which was not easy for me but my peace of mind was non negotiable and I don't regret it till today. In certain difficult situations, you have to logically and rationally think through your list of preferences, not emotionally and have to go of the less important preferences
HealthRe: Can I Get Stroke At 30? by Obatolysis(m): 10:25pm On Mar 26, 2025
It is unlikely a stroke. It is more of compression palsy of one of the big nerves in your upper limb (Median, Radial and Ulnar nerve)
TravelRe: Saudi Authorities Blame Heat, Unauthorised Trips As Hajj Deaths Reach 1,300 by Obatolysis(m): 7:54am On Jun 24, 2024
Queengee:
Muslim countries are always a disorganized society
Ordinary haij, you guys cannot organise successfully
This is just true. I worked in Saudi Arabia for three years and I can say that the Country , most of their citizens and other Arabs are very disorganized. If not for their strict rules, it would have even been worse. It was until I got to Saudi Arabia that I began to appreciate their sharia laws. Without those laws the country will be upside down.
TravelRe: Saudi Authorities Blame Heat, Unauthorised Trips As Hajj Deaths Reach 1,300 by Obatolysis(m): 7:54am On Jun 24, 2024
Queengee:
Muslim countries are always a disorganized society
Ordinary haij, you guys cannot organise successfully
This is just true. I worked in Saudi Arabia for three years and I can say that the Country , most of their citizens and other Arabs are very disorganized. If not for their strict rules, it would have even been worse. It was until I got to Saudi Arabia that I began to appreciate their sharia laws. Without those laws the country will be upside down. Ev
Christianity EtcRe: Apostle Arome Osayi Reconciles With His 'Son' Apostle Orokpo Michael by Obatolysis(m): 11:54am On Jun 16, 2024
Men of God can have disagreement and it is even biblical. But how it is settled is what portrays the Christian love. John the Baptist had to send his disciples to ask if Christ was truly the Messiah as his expectations was somewhat not met. Disciples of Jesus were arguing who the greatest is even in the midst of their Master. The Early Christians had disagreement about circumcision and it took the first Jerusalem council to clarify the matter. Paul had a misunderstanding with Barnabas that the had to separate along the course of their mission. There are different denomination of Christianity today because of disagreements. As long as human relationships exist, there will be always disagreement and misunderstandings but how one lives and deals with this misunderstandings is what matters. Most often no party is right or wrong but this is just how each reason which cannot be exactly the same
PoliticsRe: CSU: This Is Tinubu Application For Admission (undergraduate) To The School. by Obatolysis(m): 11:24pm On Oct 02, 2023
The male section was marked X indicating the gender is female
HealthRe: 4 Newborn Babies Die In Sapele Central Hospital, Delta. Doctor ‘Found Drunk’ by Obatolysis(m): 3:00pm On Sep 07, 2022
Very terrible media. So because the grieving relatives accuses the doctor if being drunk, you then report it as such. May the soul's of the babies rest in peace. As for those who are quick to condemn, may you be crucified in innocence and sooner than you can imagine
CrimeRe: Lady On The Run After Setting Her Cairo-Based Husband On Fire (Pics/Video) by Obatolysis(m): 11:34am On Jul 20, 2022
In this era, people still don't know how to write. Pathetic
HealthRe: Help, I Have Painful Mouth Sores(graphic Pictures) by Obatolysis(m): 4:52pm On Jun 27, 2022
If it is recurrent, then it is unlikely herpes simplex except your immune system is weakened. Although primary herpes simplex can cause similar condition called gingivostomatitis, it is more common in children . Reactivation of herpes simplex from the ganglion of nerves causes small blisters called cold sores usually along the angles of the mouth. The most likely diagnosis is an aphthous ulcers AKA cankersore. 2% Lidocaine applied to the lesion 5 minutes before oral activity (brushing, eating etc) can help ease the pain. Steroids are the corner stone of management but are more effective when begun immediately the symptoms are being noticed. Dexamethasone elixir 0.5mg/ml strength, swish for at least 5 minutes and spit out 3-4 times a day is most effective for all cases. Don't rinse your mouth or take anything at least 30 minutes after spit out. If ulcer persist for more than weeks, then a biopsy of the lesion is warranted
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are The Dead Taken To Church For Prayers; Does God Forgive Sins After Death? by Obatolysis(m): 8:46pm On May 02, 2022
Some people are getting the Catholic church wrong though. The Catholic Church teaches that the opportunity for salvation remains as long as one is alive. After death, there is no opportunity for repentance and faces God's justice. So either one is saved or is damned. One is as well rewarded according to his/her deeds. However the Catholic Church teaches that some will be saved but not through any profitable good works because their works wouldn't survive the test of the fire. In other words our good works will be weighed and rewarded accordingly. But because they have believed in the son of God and trusted in his Mercy while alive , they shall also be saved but as though escaped from the fire 1 Cor 3:15 to satiate Divine Justice. So for instance, if a hardened criminal sincerely repents at the last hour, trusting in God's mercy for Salvation, He will be saved by God's Mercy but he will undergo some purification before he can see God, for nothing impure shall see God. These purification is what Catholics calls Purgatory. The Catholic church teaches that the slightest stain of sin that does not lead to death must be satiated in this life or the next before a Soul can see God . It also teaches that one must make reparations for temporal punishment due to forgiven mortal sin in this life or the next before one can see God. So when we pray for the dead, we are actually praying for the faithful in Jesus prior to their departure, praying God to grant them mercy, not due to their good works while they were alive but for they fact they had believed and professed the only begotten son of God who Himself had said "Whosoever believes in Me shall not perish but have eternal life "
CareerRe: Lady Loses Her OAP Job For Having A Speech Problem (Photo) by Obatolysis(m): 8:01pm On May 02, 2022
It is called Rhotacism. It isn't an uncommon speech impediment as many are suffering from it. The R letter is the most difficult and the last to learn and some kids never learn it even unto adulthood. I am a victim of this as well.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Are The Dead Taken To Church For Prayers; Does God Forgive Sins After Death? by Obatolysis(m): 1:19pm On May 01, 2022
The issue here is that caused by Martin Luther. While many Churches still retain the unmistakable teaching of the Holy Catholic church, they really don't know why it is so. Traditions like praying for the dead , Prayers like "May the souls of all the faithful departed, through the Mercy of God rest in Peace" is actually a Catholic and early christian prayer based on the teachings of Purgatory. But one will say, where is purgatory or something related to praying for the Soul of the dead seen in the Bible ? Well that leads us to the real origin of the scripts of the Bible. While Other Christian denominations attack Catholics for making up some alledged additional books of the Bible, they can decide to find out the truth whether it was actually added before the Division by Luther or if Luther's disciples actually excised those unfavorable portion to suit their teachings. To understand this, One has to understand that there are two scripts of the Old testament. The Septuagint (Greek) text and the Masoteric (Hebrew) text.

The Septuagint text existed since , translated in series from the TORAH around 250 BC and then the TANAKH, 150 years later ie 100BC. That is to say the Septuagint text existed before Jesus was born and centuries before the Masoteric text, which only came into existence at about 1000 AD by Jewish Scholars ie to Say 967 years after Christ had returned to the Father. The early christians had been using the Septuagint text for centuries but Because the Jews considered Christianity a polluted form of Judaism, they wrote and adopted the Masoteric text after many years.

So early Christian teachings was based on the Septuagint text which contains the books of Maccabees which is the basis of purgatory for the Catholic church. After Luther separated from the Catholic Church,the disciples of Luther, not Luther himself in 1825, (For Luther has included this books in the first German translation of the Bible and these books are present in the first King James Version of 1611) , ie the Edinburgh Committee of the British Foreign Bible Society excised , some of those books or rather to say adopted the Masoteric text of the Old testament for reasons best known to them.

If anyone cares to know the truth, one can always allowing the spirit of God to guide him with unrefutable evidence of Truth. However God spirit dwells in a humble heart where there is no arrogance like someone that have told another to throw away the Bible that contains the Book of Maccabees.
Foreign AffairsRe: Joe Biden Sticks Out His Hand To Shake Thin Air After A Speech (Video) by Obatolysis(m): 6:32pm On Apr 15, 2022
That he said he was a full professor of such school when he never taught there indicates a phenomenon termed confabulation. His dementia is likely due to thiamine deficiency and should be evaluated for thiamine deficiency as it seems to me he has progressed to Korsakoff's psychosis. His gait as well supports this fact as it seems wide based, slow and short spaced
Foreign AffairsRe: US "Doomsday" Plane Sent With Biden To Europe (Pics) by Obatolysis(m): 8:01pm On Mar 26, 2022
America na your mate ?
CrimeRe: Anambra Police Arrest 13 Suspects Who Flouted Soludo's Ban On Illegal Revenue by Obatolysis(m): 4:51pm On Mar 26, 2022
The government needs to be very hard on criminals. These idiots make life very difficult for humans and can kill. I have lived in Onitsha and encountered them and I know what they can do. They are not fit to live with humans. They deserve to live with wild animals and they should be sent there ASAP.
Foreign AffairsRe: ICJ Orders Russia To Immediately Suspend Invasion Of Ukraine by Obatolysis(m): 6:51pm On Mar 16, 2022
Righteousness2:
People do not yet understand what is playing out..

These ICJ resolutions will have little or nothing impact on what is on ground.

In these Last of the Last Moments, the Lawlessness on earth is beyond ICJ.
Putin will continue his Rage . Inshort he will still go towards the Middle east to rage.

There is only one man on earth who can stop Putin's rage. That is the antichrist ( whom I believe is Obama, the Ex US President).

Unfortunately, his time has not reach to come on the World stage. As his time will be after the RAPTURE of the Bride of Christ.

We are in the Last of the Last days. The Rapture can Happen at anymoment.
Everyone needs to Run to JESUS Christ and Surrender completely to HIM, to avoid Super stories.
I have just been observing your write ups and you really make mockery of Christianity. You really have an altered knowledge of Christianity and the Lord isn't happy with your queer version of Christianity. You claim to have the spiritual eyes to understand the signs of the times but alas you walk in path of darkness. Unfortunately pride hasn't allowed you to look deeper into your errors and make amends. May the Lord deliver you from unseen errors. I give thanks to God that greater scholars of Christianity existed before you and from them, true Christians understand the true religion. It will be nice that you consider you may be plagued with a schizotypal personality disorder and may need help. Moreover, remember anyone who leads others astray would be better he had a big stone hung on his neck and dropped into the sea. My prayer for you is that through the infinite merits of the most Sacred heart of the saviour with all its fountain of mercy, you will be converted and be saved
Foreign AffairsRe: Germany, Allies Have Taken Decision To Cut Some Russian Banks From SWIFT by Obatolysis(m): 10:26am On Feb 27, 2022
Mehn! If America stands against you, it would be very difficult for you to succeed walahi
CrimeRe: Court Sentences 'Evans' Chukwudimeme Onwuamadike To Life Imprisonment (Pictures) by Obatolysis(m): 3:09pm On Feb 25, 2022
The penalty for crime doesn't really serve as a deterrent. This is why I like middle east countries and far east. This man killed a lot of humans, ending their life in seconds and what he gets is life imprisonment.
SportsRe: Senegal Vs Egypt : AFCON 2021 Finals: 4 - 2 pens On 6th February 2022 by Obatolysis(m): 11:06pm On Feb 06, 2022
This Gabaski reminds me of El Hadary in those years of 2006- 2010. Infact na God just wan bless Senegal. At least make dem carry am once. Egyptians were crying like seriously. You don win am 7 times, wan come carry again.
FamilyRe: Doctor Batters Wife Over Refusal To Circumcise Daughter by Obatolysis(m): 7:11am On Jan 22, 2022
MDCN should revoke his license and cast him out
HealthRe: What Could This Be? by Obatolysis(m): 12:12pm On Sep 30, 2021
Pseudofolliculitis of the pubis . It's common in blacks due to their curly hair. Following a very low shave , the regrowing hair penetrates the hair follicle rather growing along its path or may grow out and repenetrate the skin.
Definitive treatment involves avoid a very low shave (use of perhaps shaving scissors) or chemical depilatories for shaving if you really want a low shave
Foreign AffairsRe: China Unveils Deadly New Anti-submarine Drone( Pics, Video) by Obatolysis(m): 11:38am On Sep 29, 2021
Empty vessels makes the loudest noise. Chest beating China
PetsRe: Mum Mauled To Death By Bulldog As She Sacrifices Herself For Her Kids by Obatolysis(m): 11:24am On Sep 29, 2021
One dies for the stupidity of another. May her soul RIP
HealthRe: What Kind Of Disease Is This And What's The Cure Please Help Me by Obatolysis(m): 10:09pm On Sep 24, 2021
See a dermatologist. A skin biopsy would solve all the puzzle behind that
PoliticsRe: IPOB: End This Madness Of 'Sit At Home' Before It Turns To Something Else Ooo by Obatolysis(m): 10:47am On Sep 14, 2021
I have no problem for people who wish to sit at home on their own choice. But one becomes a terrorist when he infringes on another's freedom of movement. I mean the person is not different from Boko Haram and completely bereft of common sense. Infact such person is an insult to the Igbo tribe because such isn't in our character. I will have no sympathy if the military opens fire on these miscreants.
RomanceRe: Some Men Need To Think by Obatolysis(m): 1:54pm On May 05, 2020
sexylassie2:
Lol, we are not western ladies. These same men want traditional women but can't stand her demands.

How many of these men complaining can handle an independent woman. Do they think an independent woman will respect them for not bringing anything to the table.

These same men with their huge sexual appetite will be so fast to create drama if sex isn't given to him for doing nothing.
I'm really scared of marrying a Nigerian lady. Mentality is so so low. It seems I have to reconsider my stance and marry a white lady afterall
RomanceRe: Some Men Need To Think by Obatolysis(m): 1:45pm On May 05, 2020
OP probably is a kid. While I don't buy idea of check mating in a relationship, generosity from a guy doesn't make him Lord over you and the licence to checkmate you. But to attach taking care of her bills as signs of love, you are yet to learn. As a lady, if you can't take care of your own bills, you aren't meant to be for marriage. Develop, work on yourself and be at least self independent first before thinking of marriage. Marriage is not poverty alleviation scheme
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Obatolysis(m): 5:45pm On May 01, 2020
piamily:
Okay. There’s thing guy I met one time last year. So he came up bold and said he was interested in a relationship. He didn’t even waste time. I was impressed . Normally I was supposed to dish out my “naija shakara girls style” you know, but I didn’t . After some days I agreed to date him.

I found out he’s easy going so I decided to give in and be mutual with the love and attraction etc. as soon as I got interested, he withdrew.

I noticed it . I don’t understand why a man will do this. Was he not interested? And does he expect the woman to hate him.

I see some men complain about ladies being hard to get and now a lady didn’t play that much hard yet the man withdrew a bit. Still don’t get men sometimes sha
I don't think it's applicable to every guy. The problem we have in this country is the tendency to generalize a peculiar issue. Perhaps the guy noticed Sth about you he doesn't like and he is not confident to tell you so that you don't feel bad. So discuss with him about his recent attitude, he may tell you the reason. As for me, anyday I don't talk to OR See my fiance, I would be restless and yes, we have dated for a year.
Christianity EtcRe: Installation Of New Catholic Bishop In Ekwulobia Anambra Amid COVID-19 Pandemic by Obatolysis(m): 1:12pm On Apr 29, 2020
plaetton:
Clowns.

The irony of dressing like clowns to go worship an omni omni invisible god who , at this particular time , appears totally impotent while hundreds of thousands of people are dying, eludes them.

While these clowns are doing their habitual clown show, the adults are busy looking for a scientific cure for the pandemic disease.
I wouldn't have called you a fool if you had minded your business. But I'm gonna burst your bubble. Every atheist is a big fool and more so you for not minding your business ,you are the biggest fool of the year.
HealthRe: 45-Year-Old Man Commit Suicide In Imo By Hanging (Graphic Photos) by Obatolysis(m): 11:21am On Apr 29, 2020
Zico5:
Forget lockdown jare. see where he is still living at 45. No direction for better future and u are telling me the man will not be frustrated. How do u expect a 45 years old not to be frustrated when a 20 year old yahoo boy is already driving Benz. may God help us, Nigeria can only get better when we do the right thing, but for now I give up.
You are the only person that have made a sensible comment here. Others dey yarn trash
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Blasted By His Followers For Lying To Them by Obatolysis(m): 6:55am On Apr 28, 2020
Aunty Kemi may be right. This guy might be an impostor. NK may be truly dead

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