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Riola1435:
I have logged in and it’s showing exam taken
I checked this morning

CzarBillion:
Guys follow the thread na. just common sense questions. what is the meaning of NDLEA? How many local goverments do we have in nigeria? where is weed grown in nigeria n shit

Ihatemen:
I hate men

vizkiz:
It is not difficult to identify a bastard nowadays.

Just take a look at these kids undermining the post of a father in their lives. The system has so much brought down the role of a father. Making him look like a figure head. Praising the mother alone.

Little wonder we have so many days assigned to praise women and just a day to notice the value of a man (Father’s day). Most times the Father’s Day come and go without anyone noticing it

Same father who worked all his life to take care of his family? Same father who will risk his life day and night just to put food on the table? Same father who paid your fees from the very first day you were born till you started earning your own money? Same father who put a roof over your head and even assigned your own room? (No wonder men die early)

Only for him to be cheated again when he is to reap the fruit of his Labour. Little wonder most of you are cursed. It is because you have offended God and man by being a fool.

Just take a look at the cheap gold-digging girls we have nowadays. All they do is look for a ready made man. So after having kids for that guy, those unfortunate kids will rather take care of her than their father who has worked for money all his life?

What happened to 50:50? To hell with you simpletons.

My mum has done a whole lot for me and I’ll do anything just to make her happy but my dad (bless his soul) deserves as much love and happiness.

Even the 50:50 sef, my dad will still buy gifts for mum from that money. I understand most of you are not from stable homes sha...Una dey use una family problem judge the matter.

Kylekent59:
Having a GF in Nigeria is a set back. They won't allow you focus.

Leave GF for now and develop yourself.

When the money comes, select a damsel with good character and marry.


I repeat, forget GF for now!!!

luvlyoracle:
Pm me for ur past questions...its free.

Interesting15:
by Sunday Akanni

One of the most common issues many young people today can easily relate with is cases where their fiance/fiancee keeps threatening to dump them if they won't yield to their desire to have sex at the moment. Note that this has even extend a mere boyfriend/girlfriend thing; but we are talking about a relationship where the duo have been engaged, with marriage in view.

And so, you hear things like: "I have to know our sexual compatibility before I can proceed with you", "After all, we will eventually get married few weeks/months from now", "If you love me truly, you won't deny me your body", "I need to be sure your sexual organs are working fine and that you can satisfy me", "You must first get pregnant before we can get wedded", etc.

You see, we must apply wisdom when discussing very important issues like this, and wisdom demands we draw direction from the Right Source - an Authoritative Source. We shouldn't just jump at such serious life issues with a "this is what I think" mentality (to avoid leading people astray and into destruction). Instead, we should be sure the source/perspective we base our beliefs on is one that is tested and proven (the one that has a record of leading people aright)

Let me state confidently that there is no Source that is as reliable as God and His Word. And so, in issues like this, a good reason we must seek and proritse God's Will above every other is because He made humans, sex, relationships and marriage too. Therefore, He has the best Knowledge about all these.

Now, what God said is that all sexual pleasures should be enjoyed only between a married husband and his female wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution (not even between a fiance and his fiancee, even if their wedding is tomorrow). And so, we must first establish the fact that sex between a fiance and his fiancee is a sin before God, as it is against God's Will.

So, when you are at such crossroad, to choose who to please between your fiance/fiancee who wants premarital sex, or God your Creator Who loves you before you were conceived in your mother's womb, you should remember that disobeying God will lead you to regret, both now, and eternity (hell fire)

Let me tell you this. There are different types of people on earth working for satan. Some are working directly for the devil, while some, indirectly. The former consists of those who possess demonic powers, witches and wizards, occultic individuals, folks that belongs to the marine kingdom, who are aware of their allegiance to the devil. They appears like 'regular', 'normal' and 'innocent' humans too, but they have a goal: To make people sin against God one way or the other. You can't identify them easily unless by the Spirit of the Living God. And so, if that fiance/fiancee of yours is pushing you to sin against God by disobeying His Will, the person might not be an ordinary person, you need to be sure you are not planning to marry a devil.

For those who are working indirectly for the devil, they are individuals who do not necessarily have demonic powers nor belong to devilish spiritual circles, but just ordinary people whose lifestyle is making others commit sin. Their habits, characters, beliefs and way of life is helping the devil populate hell fire. Your fiance/fiancee might be in this category.

So, the secret has been exposed to you, it's left for you to make the wise decision. To either choose God's Will (which comes with peace and bliss) or the devil (which comes with regrets, pains and grief). Choose God's Will!

Now wait, how sure are you the person won't still have a reason to dump you even after yielding to their sexual demands? Being engaged doesn't guarantee marriage in today's reality. After the act, the person can still dump you due to "sexual incompatibility" (something that would have been easily worked on if discovered in marriage). Yes, he might still afterwards complain: "She is a cheap lady. Since I can easily persuade her, it means another man can do same too."

Even if both of you got married eventually, know that your marriage has been built on a wrong foundation that would come with some avoidable headaches. When you have sex with your fiance/fiancee outside marriage, you have opened a loophole in your union that the enemies will capitalise on to afflict you as an individual, and your marriage too. These are spiritual truths that exists - either you believe or not.

Now you might ask: "But I'm not getting younger, what if the person dump me?" You should count yourself lucky then! It shows the person never really love/want you for who you are in the first place, and that the person is not meant for you. When you decide to honour God in such things, God will honour you too by blessing you with a spouse indeed (a spouse who will make you experience a very happy and fulfilled marriage).

Even if, after the person dumped you because you didn't yield to their sexual advances, and a new spouse is not forth coming (and you are getting older by the day), know that it is better to please God and remain unmarried than displease God and head to hell via your desperation to get married. After all, marriage is made for humans, and not humans for marriage. Your resolve should be: "I will rather remain unmarried than compromise God's standards because I want to keep my fiance/fiancee". After all, being married or not is not a criteria for inheriting God's Eternal life.

"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the immoral and adulterous" Hebrews 13:4

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Davash222:
It’s too early to quit when they’re still owing your 80K.

achorladey:
Aishaemeka: I was in a church were if you committed immorality, you are to meet the church leadership or maybe a pastor to confess what you did. I mean after praying for Forgiveness to God, you are still to go to the church leadership to confess.

Achorladey: This account of the scriptures will aid your answer to your question.

Luke 7: 36-50


36 When one of the Pharisees invited Jesus to have dinner with him, he went to the Pharisee's house and reclined at the table. 37 A woman in that town who lived a sinful life learned that Jesus was eating at the Pharisee's house, so she came there with an alabaster jar of perfume. 38 As she stood behind him at his feet weeping, she began to wet his feet with her tears. Then she wiped them with her hair, kissed them and poured perfume on them. 39 When the Pharisee who had invited him saw this, he said to himself, "If this man were a prophet, he would know who is touching him and what kind of woman she is-that she is a sinner." 40 Jesus answered him, "Simon, I have something to tell you.""Tell me, teacher," he said. 41 "Two people owed money to a certain moneylender. One owed him five hundred denarii,[1]and the other fifty. 42 Neither of them had the money to pay him back, so he forgave the debts of both. Now which of them will love him more?" 43 Simon replied, "I suppose the one who had the bigger debt forgiven." "You have judged correctly," Jesus said. 44 Then he turned toward the woman and said to Simon, "Do you see this woman? I came into your house. You did not give me any water for my feet, but she wet my feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair. 45 You did not give me a kiss, but this woman, from the time I entered, has not stopped kissing my feet. 46 You did not put oil on my head, but she has poured perfume on my feet. 47 Therefore, I tell you, her many sins have been forgiven-as her great love has shown. But whoever has been forgiven little loves little." 48 Then Jesus said to her, "Your sins are forgiven." 49 The other guests began to say among themselves, "Who is this who even forgives sins?" 50 Jesus said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you; go in peace."

Towards the end of the account, the SINNER(woman) got forgiveness of her sin from the person who had the power to do so. Afterwards Jesus said your faith has saved you GO in PEACE? Not GO TO THE JEWISH RELIGIOUS LEADERS and the rest to tell them and CONFESS to them about your sins that have been FORGIVEN.

Aishaemeka: The fact is, will someone make heaven as a church worker if he covers up fornication & continues his church work?


Achorladey: This your cover up palaver get as e be. An individual that has openly acknowledged his sins to the Lord in his or her closet and desist from repeating such sin again, can you still call that a COVER UP?


Concerning the first part of your statement above 1 Corinthians 6: 9-11 has this to say..... Emphasis failing to DESIST from all mentioned below.

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.


Aishaemeka: There was a scenario where someone close to us before, slept with a lady I really know. He reported to the church leadership about what he did and was suspended.

Achorladey: James 5: 14-16........ Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. 16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

In the account above was there any issue concerning SUSPENSION?

Is confession of SINS LIMITED TO THE CHURCH LEADERSHIP as highlighted in verse 16?

When religious organizations woven there POLICIES in a way that the scriptures are made to fit into it, then TECHNICALITIES ABOUND such as this posted earlier above

(Do you have an idea if he told them the sex styles that were used? How many times/rounds?

Or he left out those important details?).

Hope you get the answers you seek after reading through.