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Foreign AffairsRe: Thanks To Russia, The Ukrainian Army Has More Tanks Now Than When The War Began by obinna58(m): 12:23pm On Mar 25, 2022
The only advantage Russia has is their missile

It's more difficult using soldiers to conquer enemy territory
Men to men Ukraine has the advantage cos it's a home ground except Russia goes with full military force
SportsRe: Portugal Will Play North Macedonia For A Place At The 2022 World Cup by obinna58(m): 12:17pm On Mar 25, 2022
Dmacqh:
Good morning boss .
I wonder if most of here , won’t be happy if we make a comment without insult .
That’s my opinion . It doesn’t even cross nairaland talk more of reaching Santos ear .
Kindly make yours . Fighting here on Santos headache is foolishness.
Yes , if I’m a coach , I will correct Jota to involve more in team plays and lay the ball as often as possible . He hoards ball . Not my type of team player. Wether you like it or not , on the pitch , some players must serve others.
He’s quick and have energy .
Though , I won’t play him ahead of Leao or Felix if I’m Portugal coach . Unfortunately I’m not .
Not only CR7 , he struggle to give Mane or Salah ball to score . And as a coach I prefer ball to be at those 3 feet than Jota in front of goal . I’ll prefermy team been led by either Salah, Mane or CR7 instead of Jota . He’s there to compliment them . He’s not at there level yet .
If you happen to find yourself as a coach it wouldn't take time for you to quit due to series of wrong unending tactical moves
Sometimes players hoard the ball to utilize their advantage in full
Ronaldo does it
Salah does it
Mane is even the most selfish
Jota is a player who finds the net even at difficult times, he may not always assist but his goals are class
SportsRe: Portugal Will Play North Macedonia For A Place At The 2022 World Cup by obinna58(m): 10:13am On Mar 25, 2022
Dmacqh:
I have been watching Portugal matches with CR7 and Jota .
If Portugal wants to go far , they should bench Jota, or bench CR7 . We know doing the latter will be hard . The two aren’t good together . CR7 relishes a selfless striker who can make the runs , drop the balls on a player to him , but Jota isn’t ready for such . That guy is too selfish . Yes he’s a scorer but he’s not a team player . I prefer either Leao , Felix ,Guedes, Andre Silva etc playing with CR7 than him . I do still watch his play even at Liverpool, I know if not for his goals , he Klopp will hardly play him . Diaz is better team player than him . He doesn’t give assist . He hoards the ball too much . I think he should participate in build up more knowing CR7 limitations.
Like he doesn't have his own career than to serve Ronaldo
Jota is a very good player stop talking nonsense
EducationRe: Female Corps Member Causes Stir With Her Choice Of Outfit At Camp (VIDEO) by obinna58(m): 8:23am On Mar 24, 2022
Finished school with no enlightenment
EducationRe: JSS 3 Girl Beats Male Opponent In Boxing Game (Watch Video) by obinna58(m): 9:56am On Mar 22, 2022
By the time she develops boobs and wide psy, she'll realise her powers are no longer on the fist
FamilyRe: My Cousin's Advances by obinna58(m): 10:14am On Mar 21, 2022
Hubeznigeria:
Should he tell her sex won't happen or he should rebuke the fellow sternly? I hate nonsense. So he doesn't feel irritated by such gesture from her supposed cousin?
That's why openness is very important, here in Africa we hide our feelings as if it's evil, having sexual feelings for a cousin is wrong. tell her simple

She'll even respect you the more.
FamilyRe: My Cousin's Advances by obinna58(m): 10:03am On Mar 21, 2022
Tell her sex will never happen
RomanceRe: Who Is Your Celebrity Crush? by obinna58(m): 10:58am On Mar 18, 2022
Zhang shuai

The love of my life

RomanceRe: I Think I Am Loving My Male Best Friend by obinna58(m):
Sheleads:
grin grin never knew this post go enter front pageoooo lol.

*Update*
I have told him several times he was just laughing at me. He finally said that he doesn't want to cage me, that he wants the best for me. He still want me to experience life, and that I may meet other men and loose interest in him. And sometimes he avoids such discussion with me.
Anyway he said he doesn't want to tell me anything for now.
I just tire...
The tactics wise men use for the women they fear, no wonder you liked him. Should you both find yourselves as couple he knows he'll die of hypertension.
Not caging you, he knows you belong to the wild(big statement you ignored it)
He doesn't think you can stay with him cos you're shallow minded, you can turn around any time.
Experience life hahaha translation means go and taste different dvks you crave for.
I have a girl I like so much, I told her same thing in a funny way cos I know she can do and undo, she kept wanting relationship which she never got. She wouldn't think deep.

End point is you're a bad girl generally and unworthy of a quality man. Change for good.
RomanceRe: Men Who Give It To Widow Are Doing Gods Work by obinna58(m): 10:04am On Mar 17, 2022
ifinger:
Yes e go banker ur mama tolotolo
Las las sweetness go kill am
RomanceRe: Men Who Give It To Widow Are Doing Gods Work by obinna58(m): 4:13pm On Mar 16, 2022
ifinger:
Na ur mama be next for my gbola thunder ki u
shocked
This your gbola wan fvk everything ni
RomanceRe: Men Who Give It To Widow Are Doing Gods Work by obinna58(m): 9:29am On Mar 16, 2022
Man dies having sex
I hope you don't make front page

Sickness no dey reach your dck
Foreign AffairsRe: Zelensky Says 'We Realized That Ukraine Will Not Become A Member Of NATO' by obinna58(m): 10:02pm On Mar 15, 2022
Had it been he had known early there wouldn't have been war at all, Nato pushed them to fight their rights but left them alone in time of difficulties
Trump wouldn't have allowed this in the first place cos he's a blunt person, he'll tell Zelensky what's coming for him should he developed such stupid mindset of joining nato. The difficult truth.

Russia is lesser evil compared to USA
RomanceRe: Juan Carlos Escotet Alviarez Death: Billionaire Son Dies Rescuing His Fiancée by obinna58(m): 10:23am On Mar 15, 2022
Mumu man

I don't feel pity for him
RomanceRe: What My Girl Friend Mum Asked Me. by obinna58(m): 10:14am On Mar 15, 2022
Candidlady:
Don't even think bout settling down... Till you are financially stable or on the average.!!

Don't allow that poor girl suffer cuz her mum is laying pressure on you.. If you ain't ready don't make the move!


And yeah since you are not financially stable do not have sex with her or anyone please

Thank you
He should sex her with protection stop being selfish.
PoliticsRe: Uzodinma: Okorocha Is My Brother, I Have Begged Him For Forgiveness: by obinna58(m): 9:26am On Mar 15, 2022
Zeezy81:
Are you saying a Russian missile will take over 2hrs to hit target or are you saying deploying such high number of nuclear bombs wont affect the ozone , What is your point exactly?
It'll even take not less than 15mins to hit targets but politics doesn't happen such way, being a president esp in developed country doesn't mean everyone supports you even when you're wrong.
You'll quickly be overthroned when it involves emergency
Earth will heal itself and plenty will die but not the way you think
People will kill people for survive
PoliticsRe: Uzodinma: Okorocha Is My Brother, I Have Begged Him For Forgiveness: by obinna58(m): 10:21pm On Mar 14, 2022
Oshodipikin:
NATO IS AVOIDING WAR WITH RUSSIA FOR YOUR SAKE.
NATO's decision to not close the sky over Ukraine is correct. A shooting war between Russia and NATO should be avoided as much as possible and the way the US has been evading that confrontation is simply the right thing to do.If you think it is cowardice, it is because you don't know and this post will brief you.
Let me set it out in a very brief way.
There are three types of wars:
1. Conventional war - which is fought according to the rules of war: Don't kill civilians and children, don't hit civilian infrastructure, don't shoot surrendering enemy soldiers and PoWs, etc.
2. Total war - which Russia seems to be fighting in Ukraine right now and which it fought against Chechnya in Grozny. In a total war, you just kill everybody you see and destroy everything on your way.
3. Nuclear war.
On a normal day, Russia will fall quickly of NATO engages it in a conventional or a total war and Putin has admitted that much in a speech recently. There is no contest in that. NATO's firepower is extensive and its generals are top level.
However, the mismatch will force Russia to quickly resort to 'final-solution' tactics while it can - it will launch its arsenal of nuclear weapons. Lets be quickly reminded that since the 1970s, both the West and Russia have thousands of nuclear tipped missiles already programmed to hit targets in all major cities on each other's soil. With just the press of a button, those missiles will fly out and head for their targets.
But there are difficulties. Both sides have watchmen that are not sleeping. Every inch of Russian territory is under a 24/7 scan for missile launch by the West, using flare and heat detection satellites. Russia has the same system.
The moment a rocket motor ignites (most missiles are powered by rocket motors. Cruise missiles use air-breathing jet engines - pretty much the same used by aeroplanes, but they could be ramjets or jets with afterburners. Cruise missiles are usually called precision guided weapons), they know in the West. These missile scouts will start to track the missile or missiles and note their number, velocity and heading. They have about 10 minutes to confirm and reconfirm that missiles are being launched against the West. In this case they will mostly be ICBMs (Intercontinental Ballistic Missiles). Well, despite the heavy name, they are actually simple orbital rockets that can get into orbit and then re-enter the earth at the appropriate location - above their targets. At this point, they will release their thermonuclear warheads or bombs (all modern nuclear bombs carry thermonuclear warheads, that is, warheads that uses a small hydrogen bomb to initiate a chain reaction in its main fission bomb of Plutonium or Uranium). These warheads are shaped like cones and they are about 1.2m in height with a base diameter of about 800mm. The real active ingredient, Uranium or Plutonium inside the conical device is not bigger than a football but they are packed with the horrendous power of creation itself, the power of the nucleus of an atom called the Strong Force.
Two things will then happen in line with strictly established procedures it call it Battle Order.
Once a missile attack is detected, the US will immediately move it's president, his family, Pentagon chiefs and a few citizens into a bunker that is about 2 kilometers below the ground and under a mountain. It is suspended upon springs so it can withstand tectonic forces from a nuclear blast on the surface. The bunker contains provisions for two years to sustain the occupants. (I have seen the image somewhere about 25 years ago in maybe Times Magazine). Reporters taken there were blindfolded and flown for hours so they will not have a clear sense of direction. The location is totally secret but it is suspected that it is Nevada. It was not dug out directly but a lateral tunnel was created several miles away to this subterranean site.
1. The West will launch countermeasures at these warheads. (Usually, they will be 13 to 17 on each ICBM and at this stage, they are in their terminal altitude in space). This is the threat level the American THAAD anti-missile system is designed to contain. It will fly into space and try to steer kill vehicles into those warheads and of course, the success rate will understandably only be partial. Some will end up successfully re-entering the earth and dive (under zero power) for their targets. At this point, the Patriot system will come into action and try to swat the warheads. The Patriot complex deals with missiles within the atmosphere.
2. Simultaneously NATO will give orders for its own missile launches and within minutes, you will see missiles rise from silos and from submarines heading East to attack preset targets. B-52s ('Stratofortress'), B1, ('Spirit') and B2 ('Bones') -all long range bombers will take off from the US, Germany and probably Japan armed with hydrogen and Plutonium bombs and head for Russia. There are also about 1,500 nuclear weapons on each side that are currently in the field, mingled with conventional weapons but known to commanders. Those are probably the most dangerous of all these arsenal of nuclear weapons because they are already and permanently dispersed in the field. All - everything will be launched within just about 30 minutes in this make or break final combat.
Everything described above from the moment one side launches its nuclear weapons will not take more than 45 to 60 minutes and it is all over. If the attack takes place at night, right here in Nigeria, if you look northwest towards Europe or east northwest towards the United States, or northeast towards Russia, you will actually see a dull glow in your night sky though you won't hear the thunder of the explosions.
The next three days or even a week will be normal although wind patterns may have become suspect. Thereafter, you will observe that the sky is getting darker and midday seems like dusk. That is the cloud of a global thermonuclear warfare.
The sun will be screened out for months and plants will die off. This will lead to global famine, first step. Of course, global trade is already gone and the world has reverted to primitive levels. The Internet is no more and telephone services have become epileptic.
Next will come the global outbreak of all forms of cancers from radiation carried around the world by the cloud earlier described. Death will become so much more desirable than life that those alive will curse their lot.
There will be survivors of course: those who have been hidden away in military grade silos and have ample supplies to carry them for about two years.
Those who just manage to go through about three years of life as foragers and scavengers and somehow have not been killed by skin cancer, blood cancer and other forms of metastasis. They are the ones that will populate the new world and begin to try to establish a new civilization.
Now you have an idea why NATO keeps avoiding fighting with Russia. It is simply to keep YOU alive.
When lies and truth are mixed together
Most affected places will be where the bombs are deployed
It wouldn't take only 45-60 mins
The sun will still be very much alive in certain places

Nato is only protecting themselves cos there'll be hand over
Us or Russia might not even exist anymore
FamilyRe: I'm Scared Of Marrying Her by obinna58(m): 4:35pm On Mar 13, 2022
bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" shocked Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here
Brought up by single mother is already a disqualification
It's been preached here many times

Marriage is transactional not love, one day you'll wake and you won't feel the love anymore at this point you'll try to manage by her character, attitude and goodness but you won't find any
You'll be highly disgusted

Girls from single mothers are only there to punish men

Funny enough there are mostly beautiful that's why they think the world revolves around them
I had this girl too who had that feminism mindset but damn beautiful, I left for good.
PoliticsRe: Soldier Cries And Begs After His Superior Caught Him Collecting Bribe (Video) by obinna58(m): 3:02pm On Mar 13, 2022
BabaO2:
Scram jor, ode.
You are the typical example of clog in the wheel of progress of wherever you are, you can't be useful, you too full of negativities
Mumu man
PoliticsRe: Soldier Cries And Begs After His Superior Caught Him Collecting Bribe (Video) by obinna58(m): 10:39am On Mar 13, 2022
BabaO2:
Your comment and too know attitude is one of the resons nigeria is not prospering. Correction has to start somewhere, that soldier caught is likely never to collect bribe again in his remaining years in the force and will send signal to others
You lack knowledge
He'll rather see himself more as an unlucky individual who was caught
Even the exposer is a criminal
Jokes EtcRe: A Story Of How I Almost Got Disowned (memes) by obinna58(m): 4:19pm On Mar 09, 2022
This is an ad

Crap
SportsRe: FIFA Officially Kick Russia Out Of 2022 World Cup by obinna58(m): 1:25pm On Mar 09, 2022
I'm disappointed in FIFA for taking sides
Both Russia and Ukraine should be suspended not banning
RomanceRe: What's your take on masturbation. by obinna58(m): 10:11am On Mar 06, 2022
[quote author=AgirlsNightmAre post=110781923][/quote]Ask athletes who have sex and masturbate before going into sports
RomanceRe: What's your take on masturbation. by obinna58(m): 9:09pm On Mar 05, 2022
AgirlsNightmAre:
Don't listen to people who say there's nothing wrong with masturbation.... they've not been there before.
There's a lot of side effects physically, frequent ejaculation and orgasm will make you weak and reduce your testerone.
You won't perform well in demanding physical activities like football.
Don't even think of starting the habit........ cus when you want to stop the harder it becomes
Addiction to masturbation is worse than drug addiction
[s]Frequent ejaculation and orgasm will make you weak and reduce your testerone.
You won't perform well in demanding physical activities like football[/s]

This is the most common lie about masturbation and even sex
FamilyRe: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by obinna58(m): 3:42pm On Mar 03, 2022
Prayfortheworld:
At 24?
Ok oh
You're only meant to guide her wherever she needs you. At the right time she'll understand responsibility.
You can as well initiate conversation with her and know her plans/dreams and be there to remind her how best she could achieve it



Never mock her or give her the mindset she's a failure cos that looks like what're doing already.
Let her know you believe in her
FamilyRe: My Younger Sister Has This Entitlement Mentality. Help I'm Scared For Her. by obinna58(m): 3:29pm On Mar 03, 2022
Prayfortheworld:
You dy craze no be her mate dy do a lot dy go school at the same time.
The family no even need her help make she dy help herself we no go complain
Baba na you be the problem


Leave your sister alone
FamilyRe: My Wife Does Not Want To Take To My Advice by obinna58(m): 3:30pm On Mar 02, 2022
adeniyi1st:
What can I dohuh?

I tried all my best to please my wife in all "ramifications"( i.e. take her as a wife and partner, take her family as mine etc), but most time when I correct my wife on some issues that will make are better as a wife, she takes it so personal, in a way that she will resist the advice and prefare to rather justify her act.

Most recently, my younger bro came for a weekend and her attitude to him was not really welcoming, any little mistake he makes, she send an indirect message

Age wise my brother is older than her, he is currently a final year student in the University, infact the worst of it all is that she expected him to wash the plate he used to eat last night, when her nice is there, who do the daily watching.

I pointed it to her that she should try to be accommodating and be careful the way she treat my brother, she took it so personal, she forced me to say all sorts of thing that really made her angry.

I have try using words of advice to put things in order, but it is not really helping matter. I believe in changes, I also believe that learning is a continuous process, etc.

I need your help, I can not really express all in this forum, but I know that there is an issue somewhere, If you need more info I will try as much as possible to answer.
Last seen 18 jun 2007

It only took one year for the wife to finish him off
Christianity EtcRe: 10-Year-Old Twin Boys Born Deaf & Dumb Healed By God Of Chosen (Pix) by obinna58(m): 9:56am On Feb 27, 2022
Cashout loading
RomanceRe: Even If She Breaks My Heart This Is Why I Will Beg Her To Stay (pictures) by obinna58(m): 9:53am On Feb 24, 2022
The time women are valued for their cooking skills have passed
Tutorials of any kind of delicacy is on the internet

No woman can cook better than me.
She delivers perfection
I deliver perfection
RomanceRe: I’m Giving This Phone To My Girlfriend's Sister Without Her Knowing by obinna58(m): 7:57pm On Feb 21, 2022
Mumu man
HealthRe: Am I Depressed? [Picture] by obinna58(m): 1:58pm On Feb 20, 2022
I wanted to click the hit button immediately I saw depressed so as to motivate someone, then again I saw ilegend I knew it was going to be crap but a thought came to me, nothing is 100percent. I clicked and realised it's him and he's 100percent full of crap. He never disappoint.

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