Romance › Re: Can You Remember This Kid From Way Back.? (pic) by Oblitz(m): 10:34am On Jun 22, 2020 |
lilfort: lets pray for life to be gud to us and how come the baby don white I tire o! Baby don turn white |
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Sports › Re: Undertaker Announces Retirement From Wrestling by Oblitz(m): 4:58am On Jun 22, 2020*. Modified: 8:32pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
 ah! Please go and rest. I've been watching you since when I was a kid |
Celebrities › Re: Nigerian Scientists Announces COVID-19 Vaccine/cure by Oblitz(m): 4:56am On Jun 22, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Bisi Egbeyemi: Fayemi Not Planning To Impeach Me by Oblitz(m): 4:54am On Jun 22, 2020 |
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Technology Market › Re: Oppo R8 Clover For Sale 10k by Oblitz(m): 5:37pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
Size? |
Phones › Re: Dual Core, Quad Core, Octa Core. What Do They Mean? by Oblitz(m): 4:02pm On Jun 20, 2020 |
How about mediatek |
Politics › Re: EXCLUSIVE: Okonjo-Iweala still eligible to run for office of DG, says WTO by Oblitz(m): 11:15am On Jun 20, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: AfDB Vice-president, Blanke, Resigns by Oblitz(m): 9:13pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Hmm
Something's wrong somewhere. |
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi Pictured In Handcuff by Oblitz(m): 9:12pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Chai! So it's true |
Celebrities › Re: Top 5 Nigerian Musicians In The Diasporas by Oblitz(m): 4:01pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
hafeezkidd: No one knows you. Na true o! but you know me now  |
Celebrities › Re: Top 5 Nigerian Musicians In The Diasporas by Oblitz(m): 3:55pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Rubbish . Who knows them. This is Oblitz the best producer in Nigeria. If I don't know them, then nobody knows them |
Crime › Re: AAU Student Impregnated By A Pastor Dies During Abortion by Oblitz(m): 8:40am On Jun 10, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: Some Of The Dumbest Criminals Ever. by Oblitz(m): 6:56am On Jun 09, 2020 |
 stupid fellas |
Romance › Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Oblitz(m): 7:36pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
cynosuree: Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.
But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.
He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.
I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?
The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .
I'd like to know what you think I've been looking for a girl like you for years. It's not easy. I've only dated girls that are not 30% my intellectual capability. Nothing is as sexy as an intelligent woman. |
Celebrities › Re: Photos Of Michael Jackson And Princess Diana by Oblitz(m): 12:46pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
Mj was so handsome then. No Homo o! |
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Crime › Re: Top 15 Crazy Scenes From Minneapolis Riot RIP George Floyd by Oblitz(m): 7:14am On Jun 06, 2020 |
And after all these, d blacks would still think they're better than the whites? This wasn't necessary at all |
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Crime › Re: 18-Year-Old Girl Raped By Lagos Dispatcher, Police Mock Her, Father Disowns Her by Oblitz(m): 12:57pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Why are rape cases increasing by the day? |
Celebrities › Re: Peruzzi's Implicating Tweets by Oblitz(m): 5:13pm On Jun 03, 2020 |
Peruzzi, sorry. If true, your career don go |
Romance › Re: Viral Video Of Stripper Twerking In Isolation Center by Oblitz(m): 10:27am On Jun 03, 2020 |
Chai! This world.....someone should tell me one thing that has not happened before? |
Politics › Re: Baba Tela Tests Positive For COVID-19 In Bauchi by Oblitz(m): 10:03am On Jun 03, 2020 |
adioolayi: It's working....many have been infected and overcome it...(I agree it's debatable because no scientific evidence to support my claim...but, the thread on people's CoVID19 symptoms like experience buttress my claims)....We should be concern about the aged and people with underlying health conditions.
To me... CoVID19 is already living with millions of Nigerians...Majority of who are Asymptomatic Guy truest talk. |
Politics › Re: Baba Tela Tests Positive For COVID-19 In Bauchi by Oblitz(m): 9:54am On Jun 03, 2020 |
iyimide: Herd immunity wont work.. tell the Nigerian Government.. Ministry of Health Should read research publications.. people will die too much.. it is not time to release lockdowns.. whoever is advising buhari should be arrested.. Bro, you get sense. Very true |
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Nairaland General › Re: Trump Threatens Military Actions On Demonstrators As Protest Grew More Worse by Oblitz(m): 7:51pm On Jun 02, 2020 |
Chai, Engilish haff died. Grew more worse |
Celebrities › Re: Music Star Majek Fashek Is Dead by Oblitz(m): 7:14am On Jun 02, 2020 |
RAINMAKER RIP |
Health › Re: 416 New COVID-19 Cases, 115 Discharged And 12 Deaths On June 1 - ( 2003 Tested) by Oblitz(m): 3:57am On Jun 02, 2020 |
ENGINEERG: STOP DISTURBING YOURSELF ON THE FIGURE, NO ONE IS LYING, ITS A REALITY WE MUST ADMIT NOW... NO MATTER WHAT, SOME PEOPLE WILL MAKE MONEY FROM THIS PANDEMIC, BUT DONT BELIEVE GOVT IS AMENDING THE FIGURE FOR ANY GAIN, ITS STATE GOVT THAT SEND SUSPECTED CASES TO NCDC, NOBODY WILL TEST YOU IF U R NOT A SUSPECTED CASE.. NIGERIA DONT HAVE ENOUGH KIT TO WASTE AND THATS WHY THEY DO LESS THAN 2000 TEST DAILY PLS STAY SAFE , AND DONT PRAY FOR WHO YOU KNOW TO HAVE IT BEFORE YOU BELIEVE Leave the idiots them. They'll believe when they start coughing |