johnmartus:
Anambra are the major problem we have in southeast region just like this op . I wish the boundary can readjust my state Abia can be in south-south region. Inferiority complex is another problem facing us in southeast.

We know where Dangote started from and the efforts he made to be call the most richest man in Africa.

Federal government creates a good environment that's why dangote business is thriving in Nigeria. And of course our brother innoson enjoy same thing.

Even federal government patronize innoson than any other company in Nigeria. Some northern states also patronize innoson.

Go to all the southeast states you can't find dangote company there. No region in Nigeria that dangote not have company except our region. And I can't blame him.
Reason is Because our envy and hatred was enough for other people to run from our land.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.

BSMS:
(001)
DON'T TELL ME YOU DON'T HAVE THE FOLLOWING INFORMATION

(1) How many Igbos live or work in Kano State?
(2) How many Igbos live or work in Abuja?
(3) How man Igbos live or work in Lagos?
(4) Is it true that more than 20 million Igbos live or work in other parts of Nigeria outside Igboland?
(5) Is it true that there are more Igbo owned businesses outside Igboland than those located in Igboland?
(6) If true, it means Igbos earn more than half their income from economic activities occurring in other parts of Nigeria outside Igboland.

If you don't have the above information, how can you honestly and realistically plan for secession or for Biafra?

If as a result of secession millions of Igbos are to relocate back to Igboland, what plans do you have to provide them employment and settle them in Igboland?

The funny thing about ipob is that they never think about these things. They just emote.

One thing they forgot was that by the time Ojujwu declared Biafra in 1967, all Igbos in Nigeria had been forced back to Igboland. If millions of Igbos were freely doing their business in Kano and Lagos, Ojukwu would not have attempted a secession.

You need to consider the 20 million Igbos scattered all over Nigeria outside Igboland. If you were them, would you abandon your successful businessrs in Kano and Lagos and return to Igboland to fight over land with your village people?

Those 20 million Igbos are richer than those in Igboland. When referendum comes, they will vote against break-up and they will use their influence to get their brothers at home to vote against it. So, I can predict with certainty that the referendum will fail woefully.

The Igbos are like eagles. They need a vast space to soar wide and far. Igbos don't need to be confined within a tight space. They are free spirits. For the Igbos, there should be no national boundaries. The Igbos need a borderless world, without national boundaries.

We just need to give them an enabling environment, a levelplaying field, a system where reward will be based on merit and hard work, justice and equity and fair play. What the Igbos want is a fair play, not a border. We are free people. The whole world bu nke anyi. Africa should have been like India or China - just one country.

Now, let's debate. No insults.

scorpiogal:
Good day everyone... I made a post yesterday about my brother that has been missing since on the 7th of March. That’s the link below for the post.


https://www.nairaland.com/5740195/find-brother-missing-person-case

I really wanna appreciate everyone that said a prayer or two for my brother, and those that called to sympathize with me, God bless you all.

My brother made contact with us yesterday night, he’s fine and okay, though he hasn’t given us a story of what happened, all he said was he has been sleeping under the bridge at dopemu, how he got there all the way from ogba, we have no idea.

He’s home with us now, and we thank God that he’s at least fine.

That aside, someone from Nairaland tried to blackmail me... he called my line saying he has my brother and if I don’t do as he says, he’s going to send down his body parts, luckily for me, my brother had already contacted us at that time. So when I got the call from this dude saying he has my brother, I knew it was all a big scam. Glory be to God almighty

I posted for help here, not for someone to come take advantage of the situation for his own greed and wickedness... If you are reading this now, you know yourself, you better change your ways.

Below is the number of the “supposed kidnapper” and the message he sent when I stopped picking his calls.

*08158725704*

Rochas2023:


Without gov you are nothing. No infrastructure in East, that's you guys are running away. If you don't play politics and get something now you and especially your children will suffer in future

CSTR2:

You are not ahead of any tribe.

You don't even have a railway in any part of igboland.

CSTR2:

Wrong approach.
This is the same foolish mentality that created an avenue for another region to act as lord and master of the south.
This is what tinubu wants.
That is why the south east is getting $0.00 in the 30 billion dollars loan.

Like my igbo lecturer in PRE572 used to say, apoliticism is self defeatism.

If you like your children and the future of Igboland, you would drop this attitude and play with the highest bidder.

ijustdey:







https://dailypost.ng/2020/03/16/2023-north-will-lobby-southeast-for-presidency-arewa-youths/


lalasticlala

omenka:
You Ibos on this forum bring nothing but shame and reproach to the rest of your tribe.

What a pity.

Slimranky:
I have known this girl for some months I helped her secured a job of which she worked for about ,3 months and had to resign because of jamb
.she's writing exams on Tuesday after which we both agreed she would come visit Me on Thursday
.The point is am so into her, have been crushing on her secretly and would love to have sex with her how do I lure her into sex willingly with me
She Love's ice cream off which I plan to get for her when she comes I need to have sex with her in order not be friend zoned by this girl
Pro's in the house I need your advice

Richarddjudkins:
A Nigerian Twitter user took to the platform to share her experience of dating short men and according to her it has been “terrible”.

'My experience with dating short men has been quite terrible' - Nigerian lady recounts

According to @ulomareen, some of the short men she dated had fantasies of correcting their height deficiency with her, had anger issues while others told her to stop wearing heels.

She also recounted her first kiss with a short man, which left her bending and thinking her neck was going to snap.

She tweeted;

“My experience with short men has been quite terrible. 1st date & they’re already telling you to stop wearing heels. Some will start fantasizing about having kids with you so that they’ll correct the height deficiency in their offspring. & their anger no be here. I no do again.

To make thing clear, I’m not mocking short men. I’m only stating MY experience as a tall woman navigating the dating circle with them. I’m 6’0 and many tall women like me can relate. And we’re genuinely tired.

The first time I ever kissed a short man I had to stoop down to reach his lips. Thought my neck was going to snap. It was so awkward and we ended up laughing about it. I’m so glad the kiss was good because what would I have today my parents if my neck had dislocated?”

SEE ARTICLE SOURCE

Twifemmy:
STORY OF MY BESTIE she's in pains now


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ

I have decided to ask everyone here for advice —
should I marry a very decent guy if I felt nothing more than respect and friendly feelings to him these days?

The reason I ask is that I’m 28 but I haven’t had any relationship before this. I’ve fallen in love several times before but the guys either turned out to be married, not interested in me, had a very unstable mind, or were irresponsible and let me down…

I would love to listen to my heart but even till today, my heart is used to making the wrong decisions…

Now I met this guy, and he fell in love with me immediately. He is very responsible, caring, perceptive…
But I simply don’t feel anything for him…


I’ve told him that already but he asked me to give him a chance and to see if I would change my mind…
I’ve given him that chance but I simply don’t feel emotional or physical compatibility…
I just can’t imagine having a spousal relationship with him…

Should I give him a straight-up “NO” and continue to wait/search for someone while living my life?
Or is there a chance that love will come after marriage? This my last question sounds very funny but what brought up all these is due to the many videos I've watched on YOUTUBE about how to give up in a relationship/how to fall in love.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HT_yAdd10XQ
The responses I get from Youtube Videos are quite complicated, some seem helpful, but I remain completely ignorant about my present condition.

Thanks for reading and I expect your advice.

Sadteen:

It is called addiction. Read it up

ezenwajosh:
YOU ALL AFRICANS ARE CRAZY


PRAY AND FAST, GO TO CHURCH AND WHATEVER


U FEEL LIKE WATCHING PORN DO IT FOR Bleep SAKE JUST BE A GOOD MAN

MUST YOU ALL SEE EVERYTHING A SIN

anslemarinze52:
I'm so addicted to pornographic movies.

whenever i buys Data to my phone next thing you see me doing is checking xvideos(a site for pornographic videos).... I can even say that what Burns my Data most times.

Please can anyone help!!!!!......I've been trying to stop but to no avail..... there was a day I deleted all the videos before Yu knew it I was back at it again.

Those of you that were able to stop how did Yu do it??

ChildOfDoom:
A popular Nigerian pidgin adage goes: "Pikin wey go get head, na from small dem dey know".

it's been 7 years of waywardness. no sign of me changing my obnoxious lifestyle. I'm even getting worse. it has gotten to a stage that my life and health is being threatened.......

ashacot:


Many of them don't understand though. Na 2023 election time go tell. You see them here making noise? By then u will see them obilating like they Atikulated last year.