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AnonPoet:
This was written by Samuel Ogundipe Of Peoples Gazette.


https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/201165-i-made-first-millions-tinubu.html?s=09

They have started. This drug baron has started oo... that's how Ogo Joe came to tell us he had no shoes dah year. They have started oo

officialmario:
Good morning Nairalanders

I want to use this medium to seek for your advice..

Me and my wife has been together since 2014, although we have not done marriage as we only did introduction, but we planned having our marriage this year, we had two kids, but I think right now I'm not comfortable living with my wife.

I am not enjoying this relationship anymore, she keeps beating me whenever there is quarrel between us, she is fond of slapping me and giving me punches, at times she makes use of wire and and broom to scatter my head.

The one that happened on Monday is really giving me much concern, she checked my phone and saw a friend I was chatting with and instead of her to ask me about the lady, the next thing she did was to slap me and she started beating me to the extent of having right hand dislocation.. It's not as if she can beat me if I decided to fight back, I don't want to raise my hand on a woman, it's a curse and I don't want to do that, this is getting out of hand and I am not living comfortable at home again, we sleep on different bed, she doesn't allow me touch her again.

She is even planning to get a room by ending of this month when she gets her salary..
I told my sister about her behavior, the advice she gave me is that I should beat the hell out of her whenever she raises her hand to beat me.

I have pleaded with my wife to let us continue the way we have been doing before but she wouldn't listen to me.

I am really confused and I don't know what to do right now..

I need your advice my great people of Nairaland.

Dear op, if by any chance What you said is true, you are a fool, a wimp, a simp, and a complete embarrassment to manhood. And I wish you die from the beating.

Generation of idiots!!

Emergingnation0:
Terrorists on the rampage in Plateau, Niger, kill 52, abduct hunters, others



https://punchng.com/terrorists-on-the-rampage-in-plateau-niger-kill-52-abduct-hunters-others/

Issa lie. The North Is pissful joor

Peace081:
So you mean all your sisters are PROSTITUTES

Emotional blackmail. Very privilient among Nigerian prostitutes.

Omooba77:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/01/boko-haram-still-in-control-of-2-borno-lgas-says-zulum/

Issa lie, north is peaceful

SureBadBoy:
As seen, me I want to share, if you got any thing to say omo voice am



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2w79UIkNpVk

A minute of silence for the simps that took this one in. Shall we?

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Chai... this is soo... unAlpha male. Guy you messed up. Beg oo... keep begging and coming up with strategies until she forgives you. Chai...so you can't just manipulate your way to fu.vk the woman you call ur wife? The best you deemed fit is by beating her up and forcing your way through? Guy u Bleep up. Beg oo continue begging, buy gifts, whatever means you think is necessary. Just keep begging. Chai...

Conwarden:
The North is bleeding!!!





Life sentence for all scammers . . . Including paternity fraudsters!

You lie. North Is peaceful!! And will remain so. You are an IPOB terrorist spreading fake news.

naptu2:
https://guardian.ng/breakingnews/former-nigerian-leader-ernest-shonekan-is-dead/

And Buhari is still a live. Fishy

ProudBornoBoy:
More photos

Make una continue playingbthis chess game.

Trimjos:
They say there is dignity in labour.

This beautiful lady by name Precious, an Agricultural and Bioenvironmental Engineer decided to drop the ego and pride to take brushes to do wonders.

She has all the beauty to move into prostitution or other societal ills, but she rather, made-up her mind to delve into this world/job dominated by men. A big Kudos to her.

Should this be news? Well...I don't blame us, ladies in this part of the world had always been known to be slots. Kudos to her

Trimjos:
They say there is dignity in labour.

This beautiful lady by name Precious, an Agricultural and Bioenvironmental Engineer decided to drop the ego and pride to take brushes to do wonders.

She has all the beauty to move into prostitution or other societal ills, but she rather, made-up her mind to delve into this world/job dominated by men. A big Kudos to her.

Should this be news? Well...I don't blame us, ladies in this part of the world have always been known to be slots. Kudos to her.

tit:
when the civil war start.
all the eboes in lagos, we use their head for juju

After we have used your father's shapeless head first. Fallowed by ur mother's Tangerine breast!!! Ode!!

Joeblazeochola:
Hmm... Looks like pig bizness will become more lucrative in future oh.

Keyword: Genetically altered pigs

MANDIPUTIN:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/the-north-is-not-bleeding-protest-hits-kaduna-streets/

Yes oo...the not is not bleeding. In fact, it is the East and West that is facing annihilation by IPOB and Yoruba terrorist groups.

Let's all continue to be mad in this country. Northern Nigeria must have sense.

SportsHD:
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How much be crosstour wey you dey shout clitocurrency? How much be 5-6m wey she no go fit afford?

4.2 million actually

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023-Dont-contest-age-not-on-your-side-Ohanaeze-chieftain-tells-Tinubu-Atiku-Osinbajo

No oo... so u want me to miss the indomi abi? And 3k abi? God forbid. He must contest oo. Must!

CondemnBattery:
So I saw a thread earlier, and decided to educate husbands in the house how to play the home politics, just as adviced by my pastor's wife.

My pastor's wife thought me a valuable lesson. She legitly told us to be smart as husbands, when the kids did something wrong in your absence and your wife did not discipline the child, but waits for you to come back and discipline them, don't. Make sure she disciplines them herself, otherwise your kids will think you are the wicked one and the evil one.

Don't always give your wife all the money to buy things for the kids, take the children out to the market, buy them clothes, take them to the grocery store, buy the provision in their present. Let them know you are the one buying them. If you buy them shoes or anything, make sure they are aware that you are the one buying them. If you do all these, the kids will love you more. This is 2022, don't allow your wife rob you of your years of labor when it's time to reap.

You can add your own way of playing the family politics.

Please if this is front page worthy, kindly move to fp, so men can learn 1 or 2 this new year.

May our wives not take all our glory all in the name of I'm too busy in Jesus name. Amen

It's simple. Play your normal role as a father, but most especially, make sure your wife is not trying so hard to make them like u any less. Most women are often like that: always trying to weaponize the kids.

Landmack:
A lady with the Twitter handle as papayaex got so many tongues wagging and filled with rage on the social platform for releasing a controversial shoot of the crucifix and the image of Mary on a waist belt for clout.
The question is...can a Christian try this with the other religion without a wildfire of violence spreading round the country?

People shouldn’t wake up and think of crossing the red line with nonsense clout.

Biko we do Africa this thing? A religion u know absolutely nothing about, you come dey defend. Spits

HacheNoire:
Same Ekerewemandu than IPOB wanted to lynch?

Man has a heart of gold.

If someone try that with me, I would have offered a prison warden 50 million Naira to help poison him.

And u think the cabals can't afford 50 million to do that?

PenSniper:
The thing is that it's usually difficult for most moms to leave their children behind for fear of maltreatment.
Secondly, it may be very difficult for the father to adequately take care of the children. Raising children alone by one parent comes at a price which may be costly with the man especially if he hasn't a good relative like his mother to handle them.

Let the man in question decide. We can be making decisions for him. They should talk

fergie0o1:
ONYEMA NWACHUKWU
Brigadier General
Director Army Public Relations
8 January 2022

Waiting for Gumi's version of the story

Kriss216:
Won't be surprised sha. Oloshos no dey wear pant

Another one!! Seun where are you ooo?!

Violence plenty for here

Guy u be legend aswear!!

Kriss216:
Says a broke and wretched Nigerian girl with just 2 Bras and 3 pants.

Lol...chisos!! Guy what is this nah?! Why this violence. Chai...you deserve a life ban aswear.

But I kinda like ur bad mouth oo. Na u fit all those low budget Beyonce wey full thos forum. kudos jaree.

Iyaebe:
It is common knowledge on nairaland that I hate guys that works from home,bitcoin, and any other online money making rubbish. So I don't have eyes for him and his likes.You know what I like and don't pretend about it

Oya swear truto god say u no like em

State001:
https://www.instagram.com/peterpsquare/p/CYbTHDTL1N-/?utm_medium=copy_link

E no go pass Skye Bank (or whatever they have changed their name to).

FERNANDEZISBACK:
This is quite bad tho even tho the wonderful woman was so calm he was bent on embarrassing himself..
Women are really wonderful..look how she gently stepped out..but the man kept displaying himself there..there is what we call public decency and should be applied in your daily life..
He needs to be cautioned..

My friend if u don't know what to comment u just shot up. Which one is "she stepped out.." was she the only person trying to calm him down? All these feminist shaa...una sabi how to mumu una sef

afrika:
My dear, divorce is never the best option. I have read a lot of comments here. Reasonable and unreasonable.

But truly, u would be the next vulnerable specie on ground. Friends would confuse you and temptations wud arise. Financial instability and loneliness creeps in.

In life, marriage is never a bed of roses but ability to subdue things in as much as there are no physical confrontations. Allow the man and his ego rule. Get into the blanket and tinkle that that would make him smile and give u the powers to control him.

In as much as u are not cheating on him. EMBRACE GOD ALMIGHTY. Prayers binds marriage and good attitude helps. Be that company.

I pray u guys get over it and come together. The kids are the endangered. We are not the oyibo people that do anyhow. We have a cultural background and live with it. Let's not allow wayward single or broken relationship olosho girls or women shatter our marriages.

(if u like the message, hit the Like to 1.5m)

Chai...see maturity. Biko iyam single, are you?

Optimistic4life:
Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months.
The case is still in court though.

We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.

Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.

How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?

I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.

What is life like out there for me?

The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc

Madam... I will be sincere with you, it will be hard, I'm fact na ur immidiate family go dey gossip you, especially your younger sisters (no offence oo) but it's true. Again, try send the male kids to your husband. It will lessen your boarden.

Again, male children don't always do well growing with single mothers. Send them to their father often or better still, send the boys to your husband permanently. You can always visit anytime.

PenSniper:
I only hope their father will take financial responsibility for the educarion
and upkeep of the children especially as he initiated the divorce move.
However, take your time to find an adequate choice and remarry if possible rather than staying single.
You could be lucky to have a better second chance. It happens, don't despire.
Good luck.

Why can't she just send two kids to the husband. So...she deprives a man the love of his children and still expect him to be sending money your up keep. Send the male kids to him and relieve the boarden.

ednut1:
Nothing fun there in nigeria. To find love again will be hard, when konji hold you na small boys around you go dey nack in secret . Men and woman abeg let your marriage work

Funny, but very true

HacheNoire:
You will be fine!

Trust me!

But your kids growing up without a fatherly figure, will forever have a psychological impact on them.

The brunt of divorce is bared by the kids. You and their father will be fine.

Then let the father have the kids,or better still, divide them. It is that simple.