₦airaland Forum

meobizy:
Did you not recite vows during your wedding? Na only traditional marriage you do? What God put together, no man can put asunder. Stay and carry your cross. At least if she goes through with her threat, I will come to debate with others in the thread regarding her arrest.

Yea that is why i am looking for opinions because someone is trapped

MiamiLord:
I dey feed you, i dey cloth you, open good bussiness for you with my hard earned money and you get mind dey threaten to damage my stuffs over irrelevant issue.

Omo married men una dey see things o because i can never tolerate such attitude even if it's her first time.

I go humble her

Omo you don see am, for Nigerians settings men try to be a good husband as a provider as far as the cash is coming but surprising a woman that one is shouldering everything for will have the effrontery to physically be pushing his husband around and threatening him just to move to a more modern house at all cost.

chatinent:
She threatened you to leave or she will stab you? She's damaging things?

I don't know how you do it but inasmuch as I don't hit women, if you pick a knife to threaten me in my house, you will be humbled immediately.

Not that one can react but I was dumbfounded first and to calm the situation having seen news of couple stabbing theirselves.

Sirchiboy:
End the marriage now.
Imagine giving her 120k monthly for upkeep for only two of u

That is the most surprising thing for me, she contribute nothing financially in the house

ayoncox:
Stay calm and tell her it's okay as long as she is going to provide the money. Tell her we are going to stay her one or two years more and stop behaving like a kid but stay cautious

I told her that and that was what provoked her and she insisted I must pay it and she goes physical look for kitchen knife and going physical. She had been begging but i still confused.

brain54:
Seems this is the first time she has thrown such tantrums...


Better put your foot 🦶 down if you don't want it to continue.


If you are the one from whose pocket the rent is coming from and the one wearing the pants then this matter shouldn't confuse you as to what to do.

The sooner you recover and stand your ground the better for you. Give in and be ready to always have to bow to her tantrums


There are just some things that a man shouldn't tolerate or accept!

Thanks, I have not experienced this kind of thing in my life, what an effrontery, some will will say the person is weak but when one person goes physically tendency of going for weapons, I have to calm to understand what is happening

I need an opinion, I live in 1 bedroom room flat, room and parlour with dining of 800k per year, the landlord recently increased it to 1m but my wife insisted that we move to another room and parlour that is smaller and far from town only that the house have POP design at 1.6 million. I told her that the place we are staying is better and we can save 600k then unprovoked she said she have finished making arrangements with the other house that I must pay the money that day. To my greatest surprise she started physically pushing me around, bring out our wedding pictures and throw on it the bed and went to kitchen looking for kitchen knife. She was looking for kitchen knife but couldn’t take it finally but went for a lighter and threatened to use fuel and lit 🔥 the house. She bring out all my bag and ask me leave the house or she will smash all my belongings including labtops and phone. Is a shock to me, yet to recover. Note I am a sole provider in the union, she contribute nothing, I gave her monthly upkeep of 120k, I take care of every Damm expenses in the house. I started a lab business for her with 3 m. The marriage is about 10 months, no kid yet. We have not have major issues except minor issues which we resolve.
I haven’t involved families yet, I want see opinions first, mod pls front page.

CallmeTrinity:
Oh shut up ma, no one sees you. Your own citizens are celebrating.

Omo trump is something else. He just showed Putin what he should have done with Ukraine . just enter Ukraine pick up the president simple without entering a four year war.

This Trump is really smart . I am sure Putin is regretting not thinking of this back then. He should have just entered and taken Zelenski and that would have been it. Take Zelenski and install his own president simple.

It is a different ball game, Ukraine is been backed by EU and America, they are stronger than Russia, Germany expected Russia to overrun Ukraine in 3 days but later EU decided with America to fund Ukraine and provide ammunitions, that is the turnaround and Russia forces was challenged with superior ammunition.

Islam need to work on their religion and interpret some version of Koran that is creating conflict and breading terrorism. Moslems should also tolerate other religions and stop killing non Muslims because Prophet Mohammed is not the only one that saw angels, other founders of other religions also saw angels that gave them their own book. Muslims should stop behaving as if their prophet have monopoly of having a religious book like Koran.

Yoruba people try to give other regions port nobi only Una waka come for this Naija

Abokiijebu:
Shame on China and India. after all there billion population, is there christian genocide in there country like Nigeria?

China 🇨🇳 is a majority Atheist country while India is majority Hindu country, other religions like Christianity or Islam are minorities in these countries.

BAILMONEY:
ATHEIST AND POLYTHEIST ARE ALMOST THE SAME THING

AN ATHEIST IS SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT BELIEVE IN THE EXISTENCE OF GOD

POLYTHEIST MEANS ASSOCIATING MULTIPLE PARTNERS WITH GOD

CHRISTIANS ARE POLYTHEIST AS LONG AS THEY BELIEVE IN THE DOCTRINE OF THE TRINITY

ATHEIST= POLYTHEIST= CHRISTIANITY

Christians have told you they worship one God, and you are using your own narrative to force it on them that they are polytheistic thereby causing conflict in Africa. Why not practice your religion in peace and allow others to be. Is Muslims not kissing black stone and circling Kabba 7 times naked, have anybody accused you Muslim of worship a stone or Kaaba 🕋. You people always throw stones at others first while you ignore your own polytheistic idol worship that you practice in Kaaba including following the moon 🌙 . Stop pointing fingers at others because your own idol worship plenty.

Then turn it off from your own end and keep your own discussion. Na because of it I jilted one girl I was dating that time, her phone is always on disappearing messages. Na ashowo vibes.

He want EU to go so that Europe will be weakened and rich Americans will have a field day in Europe as they are having in Africa, South America and so on.

If esure for Una fake propaganda against the SE, release Nnamdi Kanu, then let Biafrans go so that you can enjoy your VAT.

onatisi:
Is is possible to get a Serbia work visa from an agent without getting any employment letter or contract .

Don’t use agent, do it yourself, na scam

The northern powers and Tinubu will release him and recruit him in the military.

Godfullsam:
One more state in the SE mean one more state in all the 6 geo political zones.

Nigeria cannot afford 42 states right now with our resources and debt burdens.

Besides, the SE should tell us in one voice where they truly belong.

Either Biafra or Nigeria...

They should be serious for once

Why not sue for peaceful Nigeria, add one more state to SE to reduce agitation. Landmass only is not the yardstick but also population density. SE population is more than North central and nearly equal to SW with your 6 state and landmass.

Ddeliverer007:
The man is positioning. Goodluck 2027- 2031.

A wise man

Nobody will vote for him, he have his chance for 6 years and couldn’t do anything, what is he coming back to do, disgrace awaits him if he can’t respect himself.

stuffs2002:
Aguyi-Ironsi took over power and ran the country aground. Everyone who came after him tried to correct the extensive damage that the disaster called Aguyi-Ironsi caused.

Imagine an armed robber took over your house and burnt it to the ground but passers by came and tried to put out the fire so that you can salvage your house. Will you blame the passers-by or the armed robber that burnt down the house from the beginning.


Iguyi-Ironsi remains the worst disaster that Nigeria had ever seen

Untop Aguyi that was head of state for just 6 months, haba fear God, he didn’t even settle down to rule before they killed him. Stop the hatred, Gowon, IBB, Buhari, Muritala ruined Nigeria.

alfarouq:
This was the same stupid stereotype that made Waec officials Lagos Ibadan to challenge results of Sarki Abba from Kano years back for scoring all As in Waec with one B in English. As at when he established that record, such result had never been seen in Nigeria so Lagos Ibadan sent a car to pick him up in Kano to Lagos so he can write it again under strict supervision by them while having less time. He rewrite each paper without the normal spacing of days Waec normally have. Guess what happened, the only B he had in English also became an A after rewriting it. He is from Kano.


You can read more about him here I am sure you will find it difficult to understand.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.theabusites.com/prof-sarki-abba-abdulkadir-medical-doctors/%3famp

There is an individual intelligent which is possible than saying that a state without good number special science school and so many good discipline missions schools will score better than the southern states, it is not possible except through rigging of exam results.

amaridigital:
It's either this is emilokan results meaning kanolokan or its quota system. On a serious note, things are improving in the North. I'm sure their leaders also are tired of the status quo and just like China, when the sleeping giant, Northern Nigeria arise, no other Nigeria can come close. The North will rise very soon and we southerner will be shocked

Is a clear political result of corruption, you mean secondary school in Kano will score better that a student from various boarding school special science in the east or west, make Una continue supporting open corruption until international community ban Nigeria certificate from attending international schools due to corruption.

OMBIIGA:
My brother, a silent educational revolution is ongoing in the cosmopolitan Northern States, which most often are microcosm of the Nigerian state.

Keep on supporting nonsense until Nigeria educational certificate will no longer be recognised internationally due corruption in educational sector, a northerner is heading the exam body all a sudden northern state became the best in Neco, make Una continue.

How secondary school do they have in Kano and how many special science school do they have in Kano

Everything in Nigeria now is corruption, mago mago and politics in children examination body, jamb they will introduce glitches to fail those they want fail, WAEC and NECO, they will use different marking scheme to upgrade some regions and downgrade some regions.

adamumar522:
Hatred from every corner just because it is not a Southern state, may God deliver y'all from this disease

This is not hatred, there is no way a northern state will score so high against southern states in secondary school examination unless through politics and corruption in marking the papers.

Very soon international universities will stop accepting Nigeria students because of corruption in its exam body , how can you use politics to start marking secondary school exam papers, you mark some state down just to prove a point. This NECO should be reported, everything is corruption in Nigeria. Nonsense.

Congrats to those who have received their visa, Pls how much do someone need to deposit as proof of funds, does it include the maintenance fee of 10k pounds and balance of tuition fee maybe remaining 10k meaning that the person need to present about 45 million naira as POF. Plus health surcharge and visa fee.

Pls can someone clarify. Can those who have their successful visa application pls drop a breakdown of proof of fund and total cost.

donpata:
Wow that's great. Pls which scholarship is that? What field of study?

It is not a scholarship but a funding at Oxford university, you will apply for PhD position for research then get the admission and apply for funding in different sources. My research is in medical sciences under Medical research council.

donpata:
Do you have a scholarship? If yes, congrats. But shouldn't scholarship cover ihs surcharge?

Have only funding for tuition waiver and monthly stipend about £1700, I pay for my visa, flight and accommodation. Na to borrow money since after 1 month one will be ok.

damostbeloved:
Thank you so much. Please do they all allow dependents?

Yes if you are going for MRes or PhD programs, you can bring dependents on UK visa, but if it is MSc taught programs, you cannot bring dependents. It is only people going for masters research programs or PhD that can bring dependents along.

Check these universities for MRes
University of Manchester
University of Edinburgh
University of Royal Holloway (London)
Brunel University London
Sussex
University of Derby – MPhil / PhD
University of Falmouth – MPhil/PhD
University of Southampton – some MPhil/PhD / MPhil/PhD
Nottingham programmes – MPhil / MRes - mainly above 20k
Plymouth university

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