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Thought war have ended, they are still fighting their endless war.

Lamentation:
What happened to Niger delta republic?

Una dey fear to form country with ijaw people

We keep telling them that Niger delta republic is dead on arrival, reality is hitting them on the face. Ijaw no send them and they now want create a mini empire for their Oba.

Esan people want to be free from Oba of Benin, so they won’t join

Opobo People are Ijaw politically but Igbos by reality of spoken language just like Ikwerres, Ogba, Etche, Ndoni, Egbema, Ndoki are all Igbo dialect speakers but some of them claiming that their dialect is not Igbo.

Vello:
You mean by Igbos in Oyo State?

Other tribes like to use Igbos to cover up their atrocities in Nigeria. You mean that the market in Oyo state is not dominated by the Yorubas, how many Igbos is living in Oyo state.

temitope27:
we talking region here, S/E would still be the smallest even with creation of that state

Population is more important than land mass, north have all the land mass with less output.

Propaganda, nothing is working in Nigeria

wickedclown:
Maybe your mouth dey smell but she nor know how to tell you wen e no go vex you....

Which kind bacteria she dey fear

That's a dumb excuse!!!!
People wen deh kiss for years... Why them never die of bacteria...
U know how many people some of us don kiss for this life??

Make your wife tell u the truth... Your mouth dey smell

Una nodey hear word, my mouth is not smelling. I never have mouth odour. She said is a phobia she developed at teenage age that I can confirm from her ex if she ever agreed to kiss him.

Lovit:
Bro don't let some of these single guys up there deceive you, an average Nigerian woman rarely kiss her husband; it is not like your mouth smells, No, they are just not given to that stuff. same way most of them won't give you BJ no matter how much you beg for it

Don't let that bother you, if she is a good woman and she is good in other areas, just manage am like that

Marriage is all about sacrifices!

She is good in other areas like caring, been economical in managing money, doesn’t cheat as far as I am concerned because she call me at any of her movements. She said she is praying to God to overcome the phobia of not kissing, that she hardly kiss anyone or do sex styles that most her relationships is no sex relationship. Don’t know if she is lying ooo or not.

tonididdy:
She dey wet during intercourse or na you and anointing oil dey do the job?

Does she insist for condoms sometimes? Una don born yet?

Try not to move when inside and see if she go whine waist herself?

Comeback and gimme answers and I'll tell you who your wife is!

Most of the time, she doesn’t wet 💦, I go force prick like that

Jozilinn:
Was she a virgin if not, change your style another style, another style be like that 🤣🤣. Be playfully kissing her all over she go start to laugh tickle her enter slow kisses. Use that scenty coil so that the room would be so arousing. Don't go start to the main issues continue. If she says stop playfully say Why now 🤭😜.

Shift am enter Position, afterall you're married say babe watch me,did you guys not court?

Then do your things she would change with time. Missionary style is very tiring and although it allows closeness. You might loose interest in her faster. If it doesn't work then give her time,if she still refuses and you can't handle it. Let her move,as a woman a wife sex us supposed to be something that connects spouses.


She is hindering you both from having personal attractions because you might loose interest,if you can please her, she should please you as well. You're both one and understanding and communication is everything. My opinion thanks.



If she doesn't allow kisses in the lips,kiss her shoulders, neck, cheeks instead. Everyone has his or her irritations.

She is not a virgin but is been long up to a year that she is not in relationship and have sex. I ask her circle of friends and street boys, they said they have not seen her with any man in the past 1 year and two months she lives in the street. She is tall with big yansh and pretty face. Since I have live with her no suspicious movement or call so far.

Adonko:
op kindly read carefully i have read what you wrote up there...listen your woman dont love you, she is not crazy over you, you dont tilkle her when she thinks about you thats if she does ....to wrap it up she is not physically and sexually attracted to you .

I once dated a babe that was crazily inlove with me but i wasnt for her i actually wanted to hit and go during xmas season and she stayed glued ...BTW that babe can kiss me anywhere (place or location ) and anywhere in my body, she unbelt and pulls of my pants to do bj herself. But i dont like to kiss her just fuvck when am Hot when there is no other woman in-sight.

Listen this thing is auto- you dont force it ..she is not attracted to you at all to the point of fvucking only in the dark ..chaiii..if you continue like this she will dampen you self worth and confidence. Later she will begin to dispise you....that is marriage going down.

ADVISE...if i were you..i will give her space i mean dont ask her for sex or indulge in sex related activities with her for some months. Get busy building yourself..financially, physically (hit the gym if you can ) do light cute body exercises, intellectually -get more degrees or proffessional courses ...i mean be studious like never before..fashion sense...be that dresser that will be talked about in your street..have good fashion sense..make friends with other more quality ladies than her to boost your already dilapidated self worth ...i mean flirt abit...UP your personal hygiene..use quality roll-on, deodorant and perfume..use them after bath morning and night and shave frequently.

Still carry out your other non-sexual duty as a man but talk less this time and observe more..try to respond with silence most times when she is nagging even if she starts to nag about your sudden change sexually keep SILENCE..even if she touches you in bed pretend not to need it..and turn her off this is all in a bid to gain back your self worth and respect. She is your wife and she is supposed to fancy making love to you...a fact that cannot be denied.

Starve her of any sexual attention..you are a KING as a man ...as only a king can make a queen but a Queen can never make a king .ponder on the last statement.

Nice will up the game coming days, is very embarrassing to me though

revived2:
She told you this and you still went ahead to marry her


You are a fuul sir.
Deal with it no apologies

No she didn’t tell me before marriage, we kiss and do other things in dating period only she said that she is a church person that all those things is not good before marriage but she started saying all those things of not kissing after marriage.

A305:
Oga, Do as I said in my earlier message you had just quoted.

Failure to negotiate your way out this. You will remain stuck in a sexless and emotionaless marriage and she will always have the upper hand every time because she has dictated to you how the game is to be played.

Flip the script on her to negotiate from a position of strength.

Yes that is my next line action, if she failed to start kissing me and doing her work as a married woman I laid my conditions, then if the marriage pack up and I will forget the millions I spent on the marriage. She kiss me in dating period only to lock up after marriage. I felt that I am scammed. We are just staying like two man in the house, no intimacy, no love making, nothing only hosting with each and spending on her daily needs.

Jman06:
She might even have other guys he's dying to kiss but denying you. Our girls need reorientation about kissing. I don't know the kind of mgbeke girls we're having nowadays! You can't claim to love someone without desiring to kiss them. Kissing is impulsive when you are with someone you truly love

She said one of her ex ask her if she will be kissing the husband she married since she don’t kiss. But during the dating period she kisses me well after marriage she withdrew from kissing and now told me that she don’t kiss.

Lanmonfishery:
No pre-intimacy??😂😂
If una wun nack, like how e Dey start
I Dey curious gan

No pre intimacy that is why sometimes my prick will not stand and sometimes my prick will just stand I will manage to touch her to make her wet 💦, most of the time she is dry down there, I will shook shook my dick to enter after my dick will be paining me.

Greenlandz:
If she truly Love you she would kiss you even without your permission anyday and anytime without phobiaring of anything 🤒

That is my major concern, if the wife one trusted cannot kiss you then the sex life is dead.

A305:
She's truly not a sex person but on the other hand, you should have figured this out before marriage. You two dating timeframe (3 months) was too short to figure each other's compatibility and mismatch.

Sex greases the friction in marriage and if she can't fulfill that aspect with you, the friction will always be felt even if every other areas of your life is thriving.

You are married to her, that's done, Now be apprehensive towards the issue and press the issue hard with her. Gentle and never raise your voice; Tell her, your marriage may fail if she isn't flexible to change.

Tell her you willing to learn her body with her by fore play to see what set off her mood.

If she declines all these approaches: Go harder with this: She has to find a compromise. Now make her understand you willing to only have sex with her when you two want to pro-create and aside that; she should turn a blind eye when you decide to go satisfy your urge with another willing female outside your marriage.

If she greenlight this idea. Tell her, the marriage should end and file for divorce immediately, you are young and you still have a long way to go in life, you can still get another woman because you can't be paying for what you have freely in the house, Your wife only agreed to get married to you because of her age or because of the financial security you can provide NOT because of affection she has for you.

Failure to take drastic actions now, you will live the rest of your life in regret or broken marriage.

Yes I believe is because of financial security and nothing more, no affection or attraction

A305:
Her job is impacting her sexual life.

If her lab job involves testing patients samples then, she knows what she is talking about when she says exchange of bacteria will occur.

You have to work on her mind now as you can't make her quit her job. If you can't make her change her mind, be ready for dead bed and such a wife won't even care if you go out to cheat.

She is testing samples but she said she developed the phobia before she even graduated a lab scientist. Other non activity in bed she will say she is not a sex freak. But she admitted that she use to have sex with ex’s that their prick will just stand and they shook prick on her and do and release.

TUANKU:
Confide in her, maybe something happened in her past.

I have ask her, she said she is not a sex freak. That one of her ex boyfriend ask her that this one she is married hope she will be kissing the husband.

AllBlack:
she told you for three months but you were just too dull to get the message.

How will I know since she always talk about church issue thought she was doing that because of I am not married to her. But she should have told me clearly that she don’t do kissing, don’t give BJ or allow head,don’t allow change of styles like giving doggy and do sex only in darkness.

TUANKU:
Your own wife o!
Maybe she was sexually abused, confide in her...or maybe she just no like dey fvck you. You sure say you sabi lash well? Try give her better lashing wey go make her legs dey vibrate.

She no Dey gree dey for mood only in the night that I don’t see anything. If I on blue light she lock up

dynicks:
and u didn't notice all these traits during una courtship and before marriage?........

Thought is because we are not yet married which she use to say that sex is for the married.

Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.

Roarke:
She doesn't you find you physically or sexually attractive.

Ab, can you explain more because I am tall and many women find me attractive.

ItisWell22:
Is she a microbiologist?

She is a lab scientist but said is just a phobia, she doesn’t allow kissing, no BJ, sex is only done under the cover darkness. I no understand the whole thing.

My wife doesn’t kiss, she said she fear exchange of bacteria, I don’t have mouth odour, she only said she have fear or phobia about exchange of bacteria since her teenage age, our marriage is 1 month. We dated for 3 months and kiss few times and had sex once but she insisted that marriage is required before sex. In sex she is not interested in changing styles only missionary and no BJ, she said is a taboo. She is 27 and I am 34.

Did she not suppose to tell me all this before marriage or am I scammed.

The problem that South South have is that they are following South West Propaganda in undermining Seaport in the Eastern Nigeria. They will tell them that they are building the port for Igbos, forgetting that they are the host and host will attract economic prosperity first before others. Southwest want only Lagos seaport to be only operating port in Nigeria.

Politics of bitterness