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Kobojunkie:
Adult relationships are about finding the right person, not about going around trying to change people to fit you. The moment you resort to trying to change your partner, you — not your partner — have failed in the relationship.

Once I begin to observe red flags in a potential date, I take it immediately to mean the person is not a right fit for me. That doesn't make that person bad for everyone else — only for me. I could end up just friends/acquaintances with such a person but nothing intimate ever because I have a problem managing what I can't tolerate. Those red flags do not necessarily mean a person is evil, only that the person is not a right fit for the intimate union that I seek.

Kobojunkie:
1. Here's the down low... your exes are no the problem. You are! You keep picking and dating people who don't meld with you, yet you have the audacity to try to fix them when the one you ought to fix instead is yourself.

2. When you learn to respect yourself a lot more, you will learn then that it is not your place to tell people how to live but instead, inform your own self on how best to pick people to date. All those things we you list for up there, there are people out there who don't have sticks up their arses about them. So why should any human being change to suit you?

izonborn098:
That number5, if she can't show appreciation of a recharge card, na olosho she be or she don't love you..
Don't argue

GboyegaD:
While one would expect people to be reasonable, poverty has eaten so deep into our culture and people have been brainwashed with religion; thus, reasoning has been discarded by a majority of people. For this reason, it will be nice for the government to bring up a restriction policy. However, for a country that has no statistics, where do we start from?

Adekunle1665:
What's the faith of beneficiary with empty payroll that are yet to be paid

fohlarp:
Pls @ lolu 2019, help us talk to Beta Edus' friend that she should pls pay stream 2 d 8mth owed payment cos its been long,that she shouldnt mind anyone in d ministry trying to tell her dey are yet to be done with backlogs,

dt it shd av been a thing of d past but dey decided not to call them in since last year,until afta election dey started calling dem n releasg d money dy hoard bf.that she should pls pay d stream 2 dr outstandg payment of jan- aug now.

Love800:
Sim dey expire?

Never4getU:
Better worry about the headache now before it affect ur entire body system. Wagner will become a thorn in d flash of west africa with making ammunition available in the hand of non state actors like Biafra or ESN thereby subjecting innocents lived to danger plus Wagner will cause more havoc because Russia id trying to set Africa against the europe making himself a good bride overnight which afford it enough time to destroy us within. I told someone this, that Russia is trying to destroy democracy in Africa by encouraging military take over just to upset American for them to gain access which is working already. Putin is fronting Wagner.

Endeared:
Immediately it happened i checked my call history there was no visible number currently dialed at then.

Guess what,it happened again some mins ago..i was just woken up by the Mtn voice "dear customer..u need to recharge your line to be able to make this call". Which call abeg?😡

Isn't it obvious some may have hacker into my Sim?

DECENTBWOY:
Good morning nairalanders, I know its too early to post this but this issue has been troubling me for a while now.
I can't sleep, even if i eventually do, i can't stay asleep, for example if i sleep by 2am, i will wake up by 4am and thats it for that night.
It has been going on for months now, and i hardly sleep in the afternoon too..
If you observe when i made this post, I slept around 3am because today is my birthday, i was answering calls and chats from well wishers, now i am up again around 5, thats why i made this post, i am fed up...

Please can you guys suggest a very strong sleeping tablet for me? I really need to sleep and stay asleep, i mean lock everywhere up, eat, take the tablet and sleep a very deep sleep, a kind of sleep that i will not know what is happening around...

Please help a brother, i don even begin de slim like who them de squeeze blood commut for body....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY HUMBLE SELF BTW...

vincentcena22:
No. I didn't touch anything there, even my profile files are empty

vincentcena22:
You're absolutely correct, got my November alert yesterday evening and December alert woke me up. Bravo!!. Weldone. Keep up the good work. To see unexpected money sweet, in 1 week interval, I have received 90k. God is good.

Kindly give us the status of the January and above months payments. What's the probability?. Thank you.. Gracias!!

vincentcena22:
No. I was surprised when I got the alert. Some of my details are still missing there.

vincentcena22:
Okay thanks. I received October payment this afternoon.