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Think about one of the questions below for a moment.

If you are married, in what way is the girl you dated different from the woman you married? If you are single or dating, in what way do you want the woman you marry to be different from the girl you are dating? What thoughts come to your mind? I bet you have a few thoughts, I also do.

After being married for over 3 years to my awesome wife, l can testify that the girl l dated is different from the woman l proudly call my wife. She has definitely improved in ways I never imagined, and for the better.

If you go through dating and your marriage journey, you will inevitable look back to realize the girl you dated is different from the woman are married to. To clarify, l do not mean she would become a brand new person. What l mean is that her priorities and perspective about life and marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully, for the better.

Either way, the woman you marry will not be the same as the girl you dated.

1. The girl you date does not want to meet your family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your family and friends. She knows without them, you would not be where you are, and who you are today.

2. The girl you date is overly worried about her nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking in a certain style, and being beautiful for her peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried about being beautiful for her man, even if that means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her internal beauty and character building, because she knows real beauty comes from within.

3. The girl you date only cares about her career and her vision for life. She comes before the relationship, and does not make her future plans with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career and your vision of life as well as her own. She knows you also have a plan, and works together with you to achieve the goals you both have. The marriage is her priority.

4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion you can provide. She also expects something back whenever she gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial cushion with you. She believes that two heads will always be better than one. When she gives, she does not expect anything back.

5. The girl you date believes she knows everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning something new, and knows there is always room for improvement.

6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She trusts you, and shares everything with you. She knows honesty is always the best policy.

7. The girl you date does not get excited about marriage and children (even if she wants to have some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you.

8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the time.
The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.

9. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach after all, right?

10. The girl you date is overly concerned about how long you will be around, and how she can keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about keeping you because she knows you want to have a future with her. She is mature enough to know you can never force someone to stay and that you each have to choose each other every day, again and again.

11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise, and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy marriage

12. The girl you date thrives on constant attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and thrives on providing you with the love, support, and respect you need.

13. The girl you date tries to change who you are and compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you are and will not compare you to her ex. She knows you are the best and that you cannot change another person no matter how hard you try.

14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing together and still enjoy each other’s company.

What are your thoughts on these differences between the girl you date and the woman you marry?

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Accountant at Accrossgates Nigeria Limited:

Accrossgates Nigeria Limited is a major distributor of computer systems and offers ICT support to both public/private companies and the general public. Acrossgates is an accredited reseller of HP products. A professional service company which engages in Information & Communication Technology Services and supplies.

Acrossgates is poised to take advantage of opportunities to become highly distinguished and a recognized leader in the communications industry.

Our critical success factors will be to identify emerging trends and integrate them into our existing company operations and distribution network, respond quickly to technological changes, provide high-quality services, invest time and money in marketing and advertising, expand into specialty markets and stay ahead of the "technology curve."

Accrossgates Nigeria Limited seeks to fill the position below:

Job Title: Accountant

Location: Lagos

Requirements
OND/HND qualification.
Minimum of 3 years experience.
Remuneration
Highly attractive.
Application Closing Date
29th August, 2014.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their applications to: careers@acrossgates.com

Audit Officers at Intercontinental Distillers Limited:

Intercontinental Distillers Limited - We are a foremost indigenous company operating in the Food, Beverage and Tobacco Sector of the Nigerian Economy. As a result of expansion and growth we invite self motivated and result oriented professionals to join our team.

We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Audit Officer

Ref: AO/IAC/HRA/002
Job Type: Full Time
Location: Lagos

Key Responsibilities
The appointees will amongst other things be responsible for;
Carry out internal control audits when the need arises.
Prepare and report on internal controls views in a timely and accurate manner.
Carry out authentication and verification spot check when the need arises.
Requirements
The Suitable candidates must possess:B.Sc, HND in Accounting, Economics, Statistics or Business Managerial Studies.
A minimum of 2 years previous Audit experience will be an added advantage.
Must not be more than 30 years.
Must be a team player with the ability to work with little or no supervision.
Must be computer literate with a strong work ethics and personal drive to succeed.
Must be hardworking, willing to learn and with a high level of integrity and attention to details.
Application Closing Date
26th August, 2014.

Method of Application
If you meet the specifications stated above and are desirous of working as part of a team of highly motivated and target driven people, please send your hand written applications, photocopies of your credentials and detailed curriculum vitae, providing full details of contact address (not P.O Box) and quoting the reference number of the position applied for, to:

The Human Resources Manager,
P.M.B. 21410,
Ikeja - Lagos.

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Mercy Corps works almost exclusively in fragile and conflict-affected environments. While we recognize that these are difficult places to operate, we believe that transitional environments – countries affected by civil wars, economic and political crisis, or natural disasters – offer tremendous opportunities for positive change. We currently implement over 30 integrated peacebuilding and economic development programs in some of the world’s toughest places, including Ethiopia, Liberia, Somalia, Sudan, and Uganda.

Mercy Corps implements a UKAID-funded integrated peacebuilding and economic development program in the Middle Belt states of Nigeria. This three-year program, which began in December 2012, incorporates strong economic development and natural resource management elements in order to address underlying drivers of conflict and build cooperation between conflicting communities and build links between communities, private sector and governmental processes. The CONCUR Project Officer will provide technical assistance in implementation of this program, including travel to the target states of Kaduna, Plateau, Nasarawa, and Benue.

Mercy Corps is recruiting to fill the position of:

Position Title: Finance Officer

Duty Station: Gombe, Nigeria
Position Category: Full-time
Salary Level: 3
Reports Directly To: Senior Finance Officer
Works Directly With: Finance, Program and Operation Teams.

Program/Department Summary:
The Mercy Corps Finance Department is responsible for all financial functions including accounting, payments and banking, payroll, budgeting, financial reporting, and grant financial management and compliance. The Mercy Corps Finance Department ensures compliance with donor regulations as well as Mercy Corps’ internal policies and procedures. In its role as a support to the Program Department, the Finance Department provides timely reports and assistance to the Country Director and the Program team to ensure that financial resources are used efficiently and effectively.

General Position Summary:
Working in the Finance Department under the direction of the Senior Finance Officer and Finance Manager at the Mercy Corps Nigeria office in Abuja, the Finance Assistant will assist in the processing and recording of payment transactions in timely and accurate manner.

Essential Job Functions:
Maintain custody of the office cash fund and make daily payments of approved transactions
Review expense reports (travel expense reports and operational expense reports) for accuracy and completeness and ensure that expense reports have been fully approved before payment
Perform daily Safe management with the Senior Finance Officer
Maintain the uncleared cash advance file and prepare past due advance report for the Finance Manager
Prepare checks or wire transfer requests based on fully approved documents and present to approved check-signers for review and signature.
Prepare bank payment vouchers and ensure that all bank transactions are properly and fully documented
Record payment vouchers daily in the bank sub journal
Prepare photocopies of vouchers and other supporting documents as required for the monthly reporting package to HQ Finance
Liaise with statutory bodies and make statutory remittance to relevant bodies
Knowledge of an efficient filing system such that files are updated, complete and safeguarded
Conduct himself/herself both professionally and personally in such a manner as to bring credit to Mercy Corps and to not jeopardize its humanitarian mission.
Other duties as assigned.
Supervisory Responsibility: None

Knowledge and Experience:
Three or more years of bookkeeping, accounting and finance. Experience in development sector is desirable.
A degree in accounting or a relevant business field is desirable.
Strong computer skills in MS Office programs, particularly Excel is a must.⦁ Accuracy in the processing of cash transactions, mathematical aptitude and attention to detail
Excellent oral and written English skills
Success Factors:
A clear understanding of finance and procurement ethics as well as the willingness and ability to enforce compliance with Mercy Corps and donor policies and procedures is essential. A high level of personal integrity, honesty and transparency in all cash handling is absolutely essential. The ability to interact effectively with international and national staff members is required. A demonstrated ability to work quickly and accurately, meet deadlines and process information in support of changing program activities is necessary.

Application Closing Date
15th August, 2014

Method of Application
Please submit CV and cover letter addressing the key criteria above, to: recruitment.nigeria@ng.mercycorps.org with the subject FINANCE OFFICER GOMBE by 15th August, 2014

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