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I thought as much...

Thanks pal!

If you were as smart as you claim, you wouldn't need my 180k to make your millions...

You are Mr perfect, that have not made any mistakes in your life before...

I shared this story for people to learn, its immature to be abusive about something like this....

Its not a necessity for you to comment, thanks!

My name is Raymond, and I'm sharing this story, not to attract sympathy, but so that young men can learn from it...

I was in my final year at the university when I met Anita. She on the other hand was a fresher, we met at a campus event, and I immediately took a liking to her, not only because she was beautiful, but also because she came across as intelligent, and we also seemed to have a lot in common, as she was from a broken home just like me, with an unconcerned father...

We developed a fondness of each other, which quickly spiralled into a romantic relationship. It didn't take very long to fall deeply in live with her, even though my friends kicked against it because I was about leaving the school. I ignored their warnings, because Anita was humble, caring, and very well mannered. This was a combination you hardly find with beautiful girls in my school.

To cut long story short, I went for nysc in katsina, and we became miles apart from each other. We managed to keep the relationship alive, and promised each other that distance will not be a barrier, because we felt really committed to each other. I got a job at a microfinance bank in katsina after service, so I had to stay back as I felt it was a good opportunity to begin life and start my journey of independence, but then Anita lost her mom who was her pillar, and only real form of support.

The loss was so devastating for her that she started contemplating leaving school since graduation was still far away. But I wasn't having any of that, I promised I would support her and we'll pull through together.

So as you can imagine, I started squeezing out monthly allowances for her out of my meagre 42 thousand naira salary, but it still wasn't enough because there were times when she would need to buy academic materials and other things. The financial burden became so bad that I had to lie to my mom at one point, that I misplaced bank money and I was facing arrest, and she sent me 180,000 to settle the debt, money of which I used to settle Anita's rent, and part of school fees.

I had really missed her, and finally the chance came for me to see my girl, my mothers family wanted to share a landed property, so she wanted me to appear with her at the meeting. I didn't tell Anita about this cause I wanted to surprise her...

Upon arriving delta state, I made a quick stop at our university, and my first surprise came after I discovered she wasn't living at the location I thought I had sent money for, but this didn't really bother me cause I felt she might have moved for some important reason.

Finally I got her address from one of her neighbours, and I saw my Anita with heavy pregnancy, and it looked like she would be due for delivery at any time soon. For a moment I couldn't breathe, my heart was pounding so fast, and I was worried I might fall down. The worst part is that she was living with another male student. She sounded very normal, and asked me when I got back. I turned around to leave immediately with my bread I carried.

It was on my way home I started to realize why she never posted any pictures on social media, and always felt uncomfortable with video calls that always lasted a few seconds.

I felt sad not because of the support I gave her but the betrayal really hurt me. My mom noticed something was wrong with me, so I told her everything. She smiled and told me its how life can be, surprisingly she laughed hard when I told her what I really used her 180k for.

I'm much better now, but not yet fully recovered, I still have trust issues, and wonder if I can be committed to anyone again. So that my story people. Bye for now!

Hi y'all...

My name is Raymond, and I'm not going to worsen your boredom with a lengthy epistle. I just need some insight, as per my present situation...

I sat for a job interview, in a certain company in pH city, after which I was told to wait on a call from the company.

Unfortunately, just about 4 days later, the lockdown commenced. So I'm looking forward to hearing different opinions on whether, I still stand a chance of being employed, or if the company would just rather cancel the whole thing and organize another interview sometime later, since its already been a while!

I'm trying to be optimistic, but it really bothers me, cause I stood a very good chance of getting the job, cause of what the MD said to me...

Ideas please, thanks!

This is why its always very important to choose a partner that has the same libido as yourself!

Because you need someone that will keeping enduring your bullshit, right?

I hope you are enjoying the one that your alpha males are dominating

Sharrap ur mouth you...

Grade A evidence has been found inside that laptop, and the suspects have been charged, that's why pictures of them have been taken holding the device used to commit the crime...

In the USA, once you are charged, you must take the mugshot before you enter cell sef...

Say what you know!

morning y'all...

I need some advice on an experience I recently had with zenith bank...

two weeks ago I tried to withdraw some amount of money (20,000) from a UBA ATM machine, using my zenith card. unfortunately, I the machine didn't dispense any cash yet I was debited of the amount (20k), so I lodged a complaint at zenith, and I was told to wait 10-15 working days.

to cut long story short, on the 15th day, I got an alert of reversed transaction in the amount of 20k.

but the next day I was credited again, making it 40, instead of 20. so I immediately withdrew the money, because I had once transferred 50k to a wrong account and the bank couldn't help me recover my money.

so I wanna know, will I be debited again as per correcting their mistake, or am I getting away with the extra 20k

some advice pls

indeed, truer wordz have never been spoken... u sound like a realist, and highly experienced individual... Respekt.

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These photo's portray the sad reality of a constantly occurring event which takes place not just in Nigeria, but all over the world...

Some guys have had to go thru this very bitter experience, and have learnt their lessons thru the tearz... but its never too late to retrace your foot steps...

learn from them and become wise.

having 2 jobs ain't something to be proud of... son

baba... abeg share ur digits

Mr man, I will advice you to get your facts right before you speak publicly...

poor girl was no hustler, matter of fact she was a 300 level student with a 4.7 GPA (prospective 1st class graduate) if you even know what that means.

she had the misfortune of being led by one of these devils when she was looking for accommodation.

say what u know

Kwara oooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!! Please, who is traveling from delta to kwara

The lord is ur strength

Gombe

My sister served there, and she said the place is a MESS... And the state itself is a SHIT-HOLE

Was posted to kwara too, traveling from Warri, delta state... Where u traveling from

where my kwara peepz at
let's gather here, and meet at yipkata

Dude can spell, he was only tryna make it look funny...

U should be sensitive enough to understand humor.

Dude can spell, he was only tryna make it look funny...

U should be sensitive enough to understand humor

Not possible, printing of call up letters starts on friday

Nice 1

Nope, Airtel why

As long as u completed ur nysc registration, if u miss stream 1, u'll automatically make stream 2...

So not yo worry eh...

Cheerz...