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so he won't be alive for the many elections coming forth ?

jessiecah:
D'eo dewen?

ohale. kewe?

jessiecah:
Mavo

I full ground o

urhobo wadooo !

ziky2010:
I think watching ponography is better than you doing the real thing

when you watch it ,you will do it

Addietunes:
Why should I quit when I'm loving it

someone is following you from the village

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

common! he is kidding. is just a way of saying do I have to have a reason to take my woman home? if he truly wanted to use you for ritual he won't mention it.

she is so uptight ... that part of she doesn't shave made me throw up . I could imagine a thick forest down there. well I guess she is shy and back dated. talk to her list those things you don't want .

ogaprime:
Ehen!! So when you will join him over there, won't de urge be heartless than boko haram. Its better your relationship becomes marriage as soon as possible. If you join him over there, you go throw away "born again" ooo...

the parents will pay the bride price. I no one throw way born again o...is been helping

buygala:
Please Cheat on him....






God will understand


Because I sense you already want to or have already started cheating. ... You just want us to give you emotional support


CARRY ON.... WE ARE STRONGLY BEHIND YOU

never! I will not cheat on him. we have been through a lot . he is my first so I don't know what another man's hand feels like. if I want to cheat I don't need Nairaland permission

krall:
masturbating makes you feel guilty but fornicating doesnt?
i am lost here.

I changed my location . the folks I'm staying with are born again. so I am a born again now. but u know the flesh won't let

kelvin100:
Anyone that tells you you can stay without sex is not honest with you.
There's how long you can stay without sex before the urge overpowers you.

Once you start having sex, then you can't stop.

I can guarantee you that he has a gf abroad .

no ,he doesn't have a gf abroad. I guarantee you that ,and he has been keeping himself too. we have been for six year and there is no case of cheating or lies

StPete:
U have conditioned ur mind to feel masturbation is a sin and so it plays out every time u carry out the act.
For the record, masturbation is healthy, safe and free from any form of infection. If that's all u can do to keep ur self from cheating, then pls do

I usually feel like killing myself after self service. it affects my morning prayers... shy... I told him I self service he didn't take it well.

Enegod:
If sex were gambling money, the bookie
would have sent his goons to ruff me up.
I have no control when I think I see a
sure thing! Op, I don't know how to control that shiit

this got me laughing

Rikidony:
WHEN IS HE COMING BACK FROM ABROAD

I'm joining him this year

Tunagee:
can u get in touch so i can teach u what to do?

put the tips up here. have got a lot of data

my fiancé and I has been dating for 6years now. met him after my high school. when he was around ,we had sex two to three times a week. now he has travelled abroad. and over a year I haven't had sex and I miss it. I sometimes self service but guilt kills me afterwards so I want to stop. any tips on how to over come sexual urge as I don't want to cheat or self service.

she is just been jealous. who is Seyi shay ? what does she do ? I can't waste my mb to Google her. Kim doesn't know she exist neither do Amber . @op do you know the meaning of the word diva? why are u using it to qualify Amber?

dridowu:
According to Bill Gate

this got me laughing real good

Abali1:
God has been Faithful to me and my family. Once again His words has been proven true in 2 Corinthians 12:9 "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for
thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.
Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my
infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."
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For those who may not understand the importance of this thread, I will do a little introduction.
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Abali, is a Warrior, AKA; A man living with the Sickle Cell Gene. A lot of people, have this phobia of entering into a long term committed relationship with a person who has the Sickle cell gene.
The essence of this thread, is to encourage other warriors out there who may be going through pains, trials and sometimes stigmatisation as a result of bearing the Sickle cell gene. Persevere and continue to aspire to be better than you were yesterday.
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Sickle Cell, does not define who we are

you have a son already ? Hmmmm so wifey was pregnant before the wedding . is barely 5 months or less than since your marriage . you said u had a church wedding ? how come? so church now weds pregnant women ? congratulations ! more babies to come !amen

Kingblingz:
I don laff tire my Belle wan burst! Some one who looks more lyk a wretched maid calling a beautiful black damsel smelling money a maid! BTW nice family tho

I Don laugh tire too. so tey. I hope she knows what she looks like. I don't blame her. some boys have been telling her she is hot

tolutweety:
This coming from a lady...excellento!

PS: are you married or single? Just needed to ask

erm erm coughs ...Lil I'm single!

tolutweety:
This coming from a lady...excellento!

PS: are you married or single? Just needed to ask

erm erm coughs ...Lol i'm single!

bukatyne:
You could have made your point without the bolded

From a guy, not concerned... from a lady, it is a no no

Deriding fellow women doesnot make your points 'sweeter'

Nice POV...

@ OP; Land first

I didn't intend to make any woman less . that is a factual truth that most women are more concerned with materials than to wait for long time investment . check the post of all the women above me ,they all went for car. let's call a spade a spade. it is when we women begin to scold ourselves that we will man up.

Spicylate:
A Car. coz it will save time, energy and money and with that will be able to purchase a land. afterall, i will need the car to easily move to different locations to sight-see the land i want to purchase.

. so one needs a car to go around to look for a good land to buy ? no wonder men have little respect for women of this generation . no financial intelligence .

chai! women and flashy things. op buy a land first ,if you can build on it and put it up for rent. use the money gotten from rent and invest it again into something else. when u have a good stream of ever flowing income then your interest on investment will buy u a good car. to be rich you have to put luxurious life aside first. build your assets first . a car is a liability and social show off. even if u can't build on the land yet ,put it up for rent still . maybe church People or for party use. make sure the land is not left bare. to be an assets it has to generate income. u can always rent it or sell it again . a beg join danfo. hustle now and think of investments. it is poor people who think owning a car makes u rich ,but we the rich know that is not true . shalom !

your girlfriend 's attitude is so uncivilized. she must be raz and probably a street girl. lack proper home training . no matter what ,why will she raised her hands to beat up a fellow girl ? the girl might be anybody. OK let's assumed she was also a girlfriend beating her doesn't make sense. look if you partner cheat on u ,u don't have issue with the next person but with your partner. all of u accusing the etisalat girl of bathing are not totally right . she might just have it in mind to bath and leave. agreed she could have asked for permission but maybe she intend doing it quickly. my concern is how loose the op gf is. she is far from a wife material . her type will go out fighting anybody. think about it this way ,will two men in that situation have fought ?women should start being mature. who knows ,she might just be another gold digger fighting for the money and not the love. I can't just bring myself to see reasons why the op gf is right . what happen to decorum ? why not ask questions instead of assuming . rubbish ! street uneducated girl . it is only alatas that behave the way she did

you didn't specifically say if she confessed cheating on you,or if the child belongs to someone else. what exactly does she expect you to come back to? to pretend all is well and father someone else's child? common sense teaches that you can't eat your cake and have it. what type of love covers her cheating to the extent of been pregnant for another dude. when next she comes up with that line,tell that hoe you are not God and that your eyes aren't blind to such atrocity. what ? she expects you to continue with her ? with another man's baby growing in her womb. she is wicked and selfish.

going through the thread,I weep. well I am not where I have always wished to be,but I thank God...my case is different, i made a silly mistake,is like starting all over. I have faith still that I will be that person I want to be. I have my head up high,taking risk and asking Jesus to drive! even when we trust God, we still have to plan and only hope ...God is still in the business of changing lives,and mine definitely will be great. nairalanders,pray for me.

Raiders:
The mall looks small and dirty for a city like Lagos . Shoprite needs to upgrade their facilities and stores

talk true , you have never been to any of the shoprite