I'm going to be careful as I don't know who might see this. took up teaching job just to pass time . here is what happened recently.

I was in my class somewhere last week when a colleague, another teacher, was walking pass my class with a female student who is not her pupil. they both look disturbed. I asked what happened and she beckoned to me. she said the proprietor asked her to check the girl,that she complained that blood was coming out of her private part. immediately I grew interested . note this girl is 5years.
we moved towards the toilet ,I removed her panties,behold it was blood soiled. I asked her to urinate,she did and said it was painful. I asked her what happened, she said she fell down. I told my colleague that falling couldn't have resulted into her bleeding and feeling pains. I sat her down and spread her legs to look into her virginal,the place was so open that I could see inside. my small niece who is 7, her virginal hole is so close and you will never see inside. this I got to see whenever she spreads her legs on the bed-playful things (correct me if I was wrong). At first she didn't want to talk,so I hugged her and told her she could trust me. then she told me uncle T touched her bumbum. uncle T is her teacher I asked her since when has this been happening,she told me since she started the school. (this means as far as she could remember). we reported this to the proprietor who was surprise and kinda annoyed . uncle T is the proprietor's cousin. in a way the issue kinda die out. nobody talked about it. the girl's parents were not informed. I don't know what to do next . but want to use this medium to tell parents to be watchful on their girl child. you could ask them questions about what happen in school each day. tired of typing. but at the long run,the matter was dismissed on the ground that the girl lied. something tells me she was not lying.

ezeonline2:
I have been dating my lady for 3 yrs now so I decided to take the relationship to the nest level,I proposed marriage to her and she said yes. I took her home officially, introduce her to my parent,they were happy,welcomed her and made her feel at home,she even slept in my mum's room that night. We decided to go see her people the following weekend,when we got there things were not as I was expecting.her siblings welcomed me to there house,before her mum could even come out of her room to greet me it took her about an hour and when she finally came out she just greeted me shabbily and they started speaking their language which I did nt understand,I notice they were speaking and laughing out loud with my wife so I decided to record all their conversation. After about 2 hours of staying there I called my lady n told her I will b going,she told her people in language and they just reacted as if I am a friend of the lady,I quietly walk out to my car and drove off. When I got home I called a good friend of my that understands the language to come and interpret all they have said,I play the recorded voices to my friend and he just kept laughing,he asked me who owns the voices n I had to lie to him that its for a colleague of mine at work that want to the meaning of what thay said. He told me everything word to word,the way thay abused me and my family but the most annoying thing is that my lady joined them to abuse me instead of her to defend me,she said its because am a guy of potentials and the fact that am finacially stable that's why she want to settle for me. I have been unable to eat n slept since yesterday because of what I heard. I love the lady so much pls I need a matured advise on what step to take nest because am so confused now. Thanks in anticipation.

I feel your pains as I almost cried. my dear take heart confront her with the voice record so she could know why you are leaving. she doesn't deserve you. if tomorrow comes and you have financial issues she won't stay. don't feel bad,the woman who loves you for real will come. my friends used to laugh at my bf that he had nothing and that he wears just short nickers. but I stood for him and tell them that was why I love him most. I been a fool confided in them concerning a thing that I was never to say. they started laughing at us. I defended him still. when someone truly love you, they will protect and stand for you. thank God my boyfriend now wears designers and this same girls have shut their mouths. if you want to love,love for real not for material gain. money comes and go but love remains. op let her go. good woman will come

clevvermind:
vredo! pls sorry if u are older than me.

can i pm u?

I gave this feeling that you are older. Lil yes you can pm me

clevvermind:
partly. i'm from the other one.

migwo!

clevvermind:
yea. which one pls. urhobo or isoko? i strongly suspect isoko.

isoko
are you a brother?

clevvermind:
u are from urhobo or isoko i guess.

you guess right! the name right?

EroticAngelina:
sure!!!!! I will upload one tomorrow

eroticangelina why you have to derail my topic? why didn't create your own topic where you can discuss your day and hobby? you are lucky I don't insult people. how I hate you

do not knee always o.it might make it loose it essence. do it when the gravity of your offence is high. but kneeling won't work if you cheat ooooo

stinggy:



bronze u nor go kee me wit laff

I can knee down if I wrong him. I just learnt a new technique. I'm so trying it if chance presents itself I'm sure he will so like it and laugh. ladies kneeling down does not make you a fool. is call know how to calm your man down when you wrong him. thank u bronze

what did he do?

swagwu:
Anna banner is a designer nd modeler

while I do not know her. she is not worth knowing anyways because if she is busy with her designs and collection she wouldn't take to internet to act like a kid. the guy go dey him room dey laugh at this cheap girls . knowing he already have a baby mama they still wanna kill themselves over him. that song is not even about either of them.

oscarforreal:
Please don't buy shares ooo... rather get something tangible with that amount shares in Nigeria is an avenue via which the rich steals from the poor and the poor never gets to see any interest or capital in question. I have been a victim in the past. A word is enough for the wise.

what should I do with the money? I don't want to spend it. what can I invest it into?

which companies are the best that I can buy from with much guarantee. please I'm a newbie can someone enlighten me?

lovelyronke20:


Am not but are they celebrities also

who told you all celebrities are rich? what are these ladies doing that made them celebs? nothing

Getting married could be so exciting and exhaustive: the shopping, cleaning arranging making sure your 'D day' went unperturbed, but remain memorable.
And,you look forward to the honeymoon, not so soon,there are some baggage that shouldn't go into your matrimonial home.




Privacy-Yes, there will be little or no privacy when you are married. As a single, you probably love those weekends where you have the door closed, switched off your phones, lay naked on the couch seeing a movie with with popcorn or brandy being your closest friend. Not anymore,your spouse will always be around the house,and with the kids everywhere you can't stay naked to watch a movie unless you don't mind the kids seeing you that way. *winks *
Your spouse's family will prey into your private life and discuss you with friends,your Kid's teacher will know more about you than you are willing to share. No more passwords to your phone and computer,you will share the password to your credit cards.
Bathing time will no longer be private, your spouse might come in to pick the toiletries or drop a tower while also ignoring your presence-no excuse- then you wonder "ahaan,cant i get a little privacy?" Sorry that is what been married does, you will have to share the bed,too.



Intolerance- Getting married means you are ready to tolerate excess or adapt to it. Your spouse often leave the toilet seat open, or forgets to flush (maybe intentionally Lol) you go in and have this staunch smell hit you, and your eyes staring at the big ball What will you do?flush it!i know its hurt but that could be romantic.


Men-you have to deal with the mood swing that comes with menstral cramps, or oh you sometimes run into your wife soiled menstral pad. You hate the site,you went out for air you will have to go come home to the same woman whose menstral pad gave you a bite in the stomach.
Your pregnant wife will be saucy and nag you like a boy,the doctor Will tell you to 'blame it on the hormone',she's lazy and unattractive. Blame it on the hormones!
After child birth, she won't be the same woman you fell in love with. She will loose those curves you loved, you will become a second choice and a 'father figure'because she will focus More on the children. You don't want to compete with your own children!



Women-His soiled socks smells, wears one boxer for more than a day, his 'region' is unshaven then you begin to wonder if he is clean down there.
Independence-marriage literary means dependency.

Women:your hubby will depend on you to do his laundry,make the home,will want you to take care of the crying baby while he sleeps,you will baby sit him while he is sick,but will call your mum to come help while you are sick,you will struggle your way alone to the market,Cook while he eats and says no thank you. Eating your meal is now a routine and his right.


Men:she is now your wife,thus expects you to foot 98% of the bill while she saves her and says your money is hers ,too but you dare not call her money yours,when you do,she will say no, you are the head ,and the head do not claim what the neck hasn't given.
Her family expects you to take care them financially because you marry their daughter or sister. This is Africa my man, where marriage is a privilege.


Sex- you will have it when you feel like and when you don't, as the marriage goes old, the sex will become stale, is no longer special, both now found cuddling after sex as being too formal. He doesn't want sex as he used to, he is not cheating, he just thought watching football is more sexy.


Men: she won't fake her orgasm any more,and will think is silly for you to raise her legs toward the sky she wants them down she is too old for that now, the legs are weak. Sex,same as cleaning the house is a thing of duty.


Unforgiving-your spouse will offend you as many times as the opportunity presents itself, and you just have to forgive as often as it occurs. Sometimes they won't say sorry,forgive,most times they do not deserve to be forgiven,forgive still. And it get so annoying when they do not feel remorse and still claim they are right when obviously they are wrong,forgive still, not for their own sake but for yours. It hurts to forgive them,being hurtful is because you love them,where then is the love if you do not forgive? Let go and dance to the rhythm of that song you love most.

omicron:
Fibroids can be found in any woman of reproductive age. But not all fibroids give symptoms.

What u should do?

Go and re do the scan, use an experienced radiologist.

If comfirmed, ask your gynaecologist what u should do.

But generally, it is not recommended to remove fibroids that are not causing symptoms. In that case, u live your normal life and watch the fibroids if they are growing and how fast.

But u may wish to get married and bear children early, eg before ur 30s, to reduce the risks of fibroid-related infertility much later

thank you so much I will do as you have advised. the children part s what bothers me most.thanks all the same.

is there anyone here who has tried using herbals to cure fibroid? does it work? heard bad stuff about using herbals. I think medicals are still the best

omicron:
Sorry about that. Fibroid is not common in your age group, but it is not impossible. Have you seen another gynaecologist to get a second opinion/confirmation?

Not all fibrods merit surgery especually in young ladies. Are your fibroids causin u probs such as heavy period or difficulty conceiving? If not, no need to panic

no I haven't gone for a second opinion. my period
is as usual. I haven't try conceiving, as I am not
marries yet. I'm just curious to know what step
to take. I never knew a twenty plus lady could get
fibroid. if you say I shouldn't panic,should o just
fold my arms? my tummy might start growing big
and I'm a slim person. the result says it is
anteriorly and posteriorly located. the largest is
43mm*41mm. I'm worried. are there any
treatment I could start? what will happen if I do
not get married soon?

h

Sophyrocks:


O.k fine. but he constantly using other people as references aint a good sign. Im sure ure not fat and someday u wont remain slim. Just ensure that he loves you for you and not becos of physical attraction. thats all im saying.

Hmmmm is more than physical attraction.his love is for real.I know I can always remain slim if I want. I don't like fat too that is why I get friendly with sport. we can't deny it,physical attraction is important in marriage,so even after giving birth I will still maintain my weight . for health reason too.

Sophyrocks:


And what are you still doing with him? He loves slim ladies and will continue to. Why didnt he go for a slim lady in the firrst place? Dear, its only a matter of time before he steps out to cheat with a slim lady. He could even be doing it right now. and you are here deceiving yourself. Women, architects of their own misfortune. No go swallow pills becos of am o. men wey like full figured ladies dey.

I was slim when we met. I am a sport person and then gave it up and started eating my way up. I wasn't really fat I just added a little weight and get so lazy to train. he did that just so I could go back to training.

doctors in the house please advise what should I do? I'm not marries yet and I will like to have kids when I do. any possible treatment ? is urgent pls . I'm in Lagos

you are very wrong to have said that. she will be so annoyed,and feel bad especially if the ex is better than her. my bf likes slim girls, so he travelled and came back 2 years later and told me I was fat. as though that was not enough. we were walking and he saw a slim girl he said I love this shape. I felt like dying. mad at him . but he was right. I go buy jogging kits quickly. but I made him suffer for it, I refer to it for over a month,he so apologized. I couldn't even bring myself to kiss him,I will say go and meet that slim girl. so women are sensitive, he told me he didn't mean it the way I took it

voltron:


an std test is well in order, my wife's friend in PH had a similar issue; suspected but never knew her husband had been taken anti-retroviral drugs claiming them to be supplements until she went for a HIV test herself. sad but these things happen and you need to think first about yourself in this case.

Yes there is always the pain and hurt but that is what makes us human and it is a good sign showing that you are psychologically and emotionally receptive. otherwise it would become a case manic depression with tendencies to dislocate from reality and occasionally resort to violence.

Here is what I can suggest.

Take time out to refocus your energies with you kids at least once a week, deliberately get involved in their daily activities... they will become your courage when you lack it and your joy when you start feeling hurt. You want to as much as possible reduce the emotional effect it is having on you. Do not give chance to depression because that leads to a sense of hopelessness and ultimately amplifies the pain you are feeling. Do not discuss it with friends. don't get me wrong, you are not dodging the issue; you are gathering your strength. This will let you come home with a feeling of empowerment not regret. What you do not want is people reflecting your emotions on themselves and taking action for you by making rash suggestions. remember, it is your problem not theirs.

Also do not become cold to him as well, especially when having conversations. try to be as lively as possible without being patronizing. ask about work and friends. The male psyche is easily broken down when they are confused about reactions they expect and do not get.

The most important thing is Family above every contrary thought otherwise detrimental to Family - however there is a line between reaching out to him for the sake of family and ignoring when it is too late to try. always have a plan B without him.. review it regularly. Relationships with our kind becomes a burden when the woman does most of the emotional work. I wish you the very best in managing the situation. you won't be the last to succeed where others have failed.

You may want to avail yourself of this article in the mean time http://www.webmd.com/men/features/why-men-cheat

this your story gave me a bite in my tummy. so the husband knew he had HIV,was taking drugs and yet did not tell his wife so she could at least start her treatment too. men this one shake me. I think it takes only a discipline married man not to cheat. talking from experience

gbosaa:



Whoever disv..gined you must have a knob as big as my little finger. If I disv..gin you, you can hide a baseball bat there and no one wld suspect it..you bled cod a proper job was not done the first time

did you read the write up at all? I never said it happened to me. base ball size? sorry to disappoint you,I don't like big d I ck. I rather go for the small size

iconize:


What did you score the last time you tested your IQ?

the same thing you scored...

nice resemblance. get us Nigerian version. abi we no dey resemble for Nigeria ni?

sexyseun:
oh havin babies or getting married doesn't make you a better woman? Are u for real? Did you know that even single men can't become president in most countries in the world?
That shows you how the world sees singlehood and it's not just an african mentality alone.

not everyone wants to be a president. we cant all yearn to be one,else who will follow?marriage is a thing of choice,not everyone makes that choice. society has force many to marry,only for them to come out a worst person. so you wanna marry so you could be a president? and so the society will perceive you as a success

not beautiful, she might make up with good character. her type are good in bed. don't ask me how I know. just check her mouth

sexyseun:
Omotola Ekeinde = Married with 3 beautiful grown children.Late 30s


Genevive Nnaji = Single Mother of one beautiful female child. Mid 30s

Rita Dominic =========== An Actress, A Female, A Model, daz all.. Late 30s

so having children is what make a woman? or getting married makes her a better woman? the world most talk about are known for what they do,not marriage or number of kids.