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Toks2008:
I have seen many marriages break up and it seems there is a common ground for disintegration.Today I will be as real as usual and it will be in the best interest of any married lady or intending wife to take this piece seriously.

If you are a married lady reading this I want you to understand that these 3 facts are essential for you to experience a happy union.

1. Expect your hubby to cheat on you: I have heard many times that not all men cheat and I sincerely believe but nevertheless, to be on the safer side, expect that man to cheat on you.

By having this expectation, you will not be caught unaware and you would have developed a psychological shock absorber in the advent that he does but if he remains faithful to you then good for you. It is totally foolish for a lady to hinge her marital happiness on her husband's fidelity.

And the moment you start seeing those cheating signs in him,rather that start threatening fire and brimstone which may worsen the situation, i will advice that you simply warn him to do it as far can from you because what you don't know can't hurt you and warn him to use a protection to avoid bringing home STDs.

Once you tell him this, just switch to indifferent mode as regards his sexual faithfulness to you and choose to be happy regardless. Hard I know but this is just how the cookie crumbles and this is one secret to having marital bliss even with a hopeless philanderer.

[b]This is one big secret i want every married lady reading this to know; Yes cheating must be discouraged and guys involved must understand that it is a sure way to hell but no matter how long you preach against it,men who want to cheat will still cheat on their wives but here is the secret...98% of men who cheat on their wives still love their wives so dearly but only want to take advantage of ladies who have willingly offered their-selves as side dishes...NEVER EVER GIVE UP YOUR MARRIAGE FOR A SIDE DISH TO TAKE OVER because that is what she wants you to do and even if you leave your marriage, there is no guaranty that your next man won't do worse. Believe it or not, most men always come back to their wives no matter how many side dishes they take advantage of and many men suffer from mid-life delusion crises where they believe it is their right to be with as any ladies as possible but relax, that euphoria and delusion will soon wear off and you will have your man 100% to yourself...This is one big secret i just revealed to you.[/b]

2. Make your own money: Do you know that if you are really busy with your life and very financially independent, you will care less about who your husband sees, where he goes and what he does outside the home or even what he has in his will? Do you know that men respect financially independent ladies?

What I want many married ladies to know is that once they are married and start having children, the most important thing in their life at that point is self development and that of the child(ren). When you spend time developing yourself, even your hubby will give you great respect. Please don't ever settle to be a full housewife..at worst get a shop around where you stay and do something.

3.Perform your marital duties: Men do not joke with bedroom and kitchen matters. Do you know how to cook your husband's favourite meals? do you know how to make him go crazy in the room?

Most men who cheat are lured by either good food or bed-magics of another lady. While you refuse to go down on him and give him those crazy moves, one lady out there is ready to do stuffs that will make him have an attention at work just by thinking about her.

Many married ladies keep nagging about their husband's infidelity while neglecting those virtues that will endear their husbands more to them..most times when a man is drawn away by another lady, there is usually something that lady is doing that you are lacking so focus first on becoming a great wife before you complain of your husband's infidelity.

And for the man, be communicative and let your wife knows what you want so that she can do her best to make the union a better one.
And if you are so hell bent on cheating on your wife please do it as far away as you can because one of the biggest ridicule and disrespect you can bring on your marriage is to cheat on her to her face.

I believe that if married ladies understand these three points, they will always remain happy in their marriages and infact grow old with their partners till death do them apart. You just understand that no one holds the key to your marital happiness except you.


I hope this makes sense

Women don suffer for this generation.. If their man catch them cheating na wahala for them..... If they catch their man cheating another wahala for them too

dollyjoy:
Good evening people

Just thought we could have some nice time despite all the shít going down this section.

As the topic says, what do you admire about the opposite sex? What's that thing that when you see you can't get your eyes off him/her?

Even though i Wouldn't want to be a male if given the chance, there are things i really admire in them. Let me just let you guys on one attribute that I admire in guys

i admire their bears and also when a guy has deep voice.

Let's hear yours

Beauty

kennymotors:
I have not seen Nigeria's rice in market but online

Guy say that again

President Muhammadu Buhari will leave Nigeria tomorrow to participate in the 71st session of the United Nations General Assembly (UNGA) holding from September 19-23, in New York, United States.The President, according a statement by the Special Adviser on Media and Publicity, Mr. Femi Adesina, will also hold bilateral meetings with some world leaders ina bid to ameliorate the plight of the Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) in the country.The statement also said that President Buhari will present Nigeria’s statement at the opening of the General Debate of the Assembly, on the theme, “The Sustainable Development Goals: a Universal Push to Transform our World.”The President will also attend a high-level summit, hosted by the UN,on “Large Movements of Refugees and Migrants’’.The summit, which is the first of its kind, organised by the General Assembly at the Heads of State and Government level, is expected to come up with a blueprint for a better international response to enhance the protection of migrants and refugees.According to Adesina, the President will also attend series of meetings as well as side events, which are of significant interest to Nigeria.The presidential spokesman also said, “ President Buhari will deliver a keynote address on “Taking Climate Action Towards Sustainable Development in Nigeria and the LakeChad Basin.“Leaders of member countries of theLake Chad Basin will attend this important side event organised by the Nigerian government to highlightthe urgent need to mobilise international response to the distressing situation in the Lake Chad Basin, where over nine million people need humanitarian assistance.”Buhari will equally participate in an event hosted by the UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-Moon on “Ending Need in the Lake Chad.”“On the margins of the 71st UNGA, President Buhari will sign the Paris Agreement on Climate Change, and participate in activities commemorating the 30th anniversary of the Declaration of the Right to Development.“The Nigerian leader will attend the Clinton Global Initiative as well as the United Nations Private Sector Forum on Business and Global Goals organised by the Secretary General.“He will lead discussions at the United States-Africa Business Forum devoted to investing in Nigeria.“Before returning to Nigeria, President Buhari will hold bilateral meetings with some world leaders infurtherance of the administration’s commitment in ameliorating the plight of Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) in the country.“The discussions will also focus on the President’s longstanding commitment to returning peace and security in the North-Eastern part of Nigeria, restoring calm to the Niger Delta and attracting more investments to develop critical infrastructure and revamp the Nigerian economy”, Adesina added.

A lot of people in the Nigerian labor market tend to ask questions about the meaning of the various salary structures in Nigeria. I hear people ask,what is the meaning of CONTISS, CONUASS, CONRAISS, CONTOPSAL, CONPSS, CONMESS, CONHESS, CONJUSS, CONPASS etc.Consequently, I have compiled a list of some of them here from the National Salaries, Incomes and Wages Commission (NSIWC).The National Salaries, Incomes & Wages Commission (NSIWC) was established by Act 99 of 1993, to deal with issues relating to salaries and wages of Nigerian workers.1.) Consolidated Top Federal Public Office Holders' Salary Structure (CONTOPSAL)DescriptionSalary Structure for top government officials. 2.) Consolidated Research and Allied Institutions Salary Structure (CONRAISS)DescriptionA salary structure for Research, Training and Allied Institutions in the Federal Public Service.3.) Consolidated Tertiary Institutions Salary Structure II (CONTISS II)DescriptionSalary structure for Non-Academic Staff of Federal Universities4.) Consolidated University Academic Salary Structure (CONUASS)DescriptionSalary structure for the academic staff of federal universities.5.) Consolidated Medical Salary Structure (CONMESS)DescriptionSalary structure for Medical and DentalOfficers in the Federal Public Service.6.) Consolidated Health Salary Structure(CONHESS)DescriptionSalary Structure for pharmacists, medical laboratory, nurses and other health workers in the health sector of the Federal Public Service.7.) Consolidated Judicial Salary Structure (CONJUSS)DescriptionSalary Structure for Judiciary workers in the Federal Public Service.

They should sit up

donmayorgroup:
Nwaozo Obiajulu aka MC Loph died in a tragic car accident along the often neglected Benin-Ore Expressway in the year 2011.

Mr. Obiajulu was travelling to Enugu State for his traditional wedding ceremony along with his fiancée and sister. The sister died with him.

MC Loph popularized the song Osondi-Owendi, as a tribute song to the late highlife Musician Osadebe.

He is remembered by friends, lovers and well wishers. We pray he is resting in peace where ever he is.

Check out what Phyno says about him

http://www.michaeldoosblog.info/2016/09/remembering-mc-loph-after-five-years.html

Okwa chukwu wetalu na chukwu ewelugo owelugoooo laa nudo

Okwa chukwu wetalu na chukwu ewelugo owelugoooo laa nudo

Madam.... You are indeed an ICON

Why was she taken there in the first place

lalasticlala:
https://www.landolia.com/photo/2012/photo-onitsha-bridge-river-niger-bridge-36215-xl.jpg



http://thenationonlineng.net/river-niger-drying-warns-federal-govt/


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Double wahala for dead body and the owner of dead body

emmalezy:
A mother of a set of triplet simply identified as Mrs Amadi was murdered at her home in Rumuekini a community in Obio-Akpor of Rivers state on Saturday September 10th. According to Facebook user, Theophilus Utchaychukwu who shared the story, the woman was murdered while her husband, Mboy Amadi, was out to watch a football match at a viewing center.


A yet to be identified person entered his house and stabbed the woman while she was in bed asleep with her daughter. The little girl woke up to notice a warm sticky fluid dripping and discovered it was her poor mother's blood. She ran out to call her dad who rushed home and carried his wife to a nearby clinic where the doctors on duty certified her dead.

source
http://www.reportnaija.com/2016/09/graphic-photos-mother-of-set-of-triplet.html

What a wicked world

Peace and absolute peace we need in Nigeria

Sounds funny

We need something more than divine intervention in the country now... Pls Lord

Hbd to the super actress move ahead ahead

Reverend father ejike mbaka in a recent bombshell dropped that there are members of buhari's cabinet who do not want him in office

http://dailyglobewatch.com/index.php?url=2016%2F09%2Fbreaking-mbaka-speaks-again-drops-bombshell-on-buhari-s-government.html#.V9dM35Gfgus.facebook

DAURA— President Muhammadu Buhari said, yesterday, he inherited no legacy from the previous governments of Presidents Olusegun Obasanjo, Umaru Musa Yar’Adua and Goodluck Jonathan. The President, who spoke against the backdrop of current economic recession facing the country, said the administrations left nothing to build on.He said patriotic Nigerians had nothing to fear as far as the war against corruption was concerned, stressing that his government would be fair to all. Buhari, who spoke in Daura, Katsina State, shortly after attending Eid prayers to celebrate Eid-el-Kabir, warned that whose who abused public trust would face justice, in addition to returning their stolen assets to the nation’s coffers. The President expressed gratitude to Nigerians for supporting Federal Government’s policies, programmes and actions aimed at improving security, revamping the economy and combating corruption. He said: “We should thank God, the reports I’m getting, which is very pleasing, is that we will have a bumper harvest this year. I want Nigerians to realise that what this government inherited after 16 years of PDP government was no savings, no infrastructure, no power, no rail, no road and no security. “Nigerians can see what we have done on Boko Haram and what we are doing to resolve the problem in the Niger Delta. “Before the elections, we identified three major problems confronting our country. The first is security; we need to sufficiently secure our country to manage it well. “The second is the economy, especially jobs for the youths and fighting corruption, which is continuous. “For the youths, graduates and non-graduates, who are interested in agriculture, the Federal Ministry of Agriculture, in collaboration with the CBN, is doing something to provide employment for them.”

source
www.vanguardngr.com/2016/09/govt-inherited-nothing-obasanjo-yaradua-jonathan

FORMER Finance Minister, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala yesterday said it was better to allow those managing Nigeria’s economy to do the best they could, noting that there could be solutions to the present economic decline in the country. She also noted that she would not be available to serve the present administration if overtures were made to her by President Muhammadu Buhari, noting that Nigeria boasts of competent people, who would offer their services when called upon. Okonjo-Iweala, who said this while participating in an Aljazeera programme: The Stream, regretted that the economic gains recorded in Africa started eroding a few years ago, noting that solving macroeconomic question was key to fixing the continent’s economic challenges. She specifically said that having a firm control over the rate of inflation in addition to ensuring a stable exchange rate should be prioritised by African governments. She said: ‘’ One of the things you learn as you get wiser is to talk less as you grow older. I have spent my time contributing to the country. It will be better to live those managing the economy to do what they know how to do. There can be solutions. Minister of Finance and Coordinating Minister of the Economy, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala Ex Minister of Finance and Coordinating Minister of the Economy, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala “I am not a typical politician. I went in as a technocrat. I think on the continent we have seen a period when the economy was doing well, in the last two years we have been experiencing challenges. We need to focus on the basics which are macro-economics. You must get the fundamentals like having a stable exchange rate and having inflation under control. “I served my country for seven years and it was a great honour. The second time was very tough but it is still an honour. I am not the only person who is a repository of knowledge. There are other people who can equally try their hands in running the economy. “I will advise young people not to wait for employment. They should create jobs to employ six people or more. During my time in government, we had a programme called You Win designed to support young entrepreneurs. The whole idea was to have a business plan competition. “The idea was that they should create jobs. And each, created 9-10 jobs. The World Bank did an evaluation of it and found it good. I do believe that the government should come in. We started a peer to peer mentoring. Now, one of the things I want to say is that creating employment is not only about struggles, it is about managing success.” Also, counseling people on accounting, bookkeeping and not falling apart is very important.” Responding to a question on how the anti-corruption war was fought during her time in government, she said: “It was a very tough fight, I must thank my team, you don’t do it alone, I had the support of an economic team in the Ministry of Finance. It was tough because at the end of the day you need to have some principles.” On her roles as a Finance Minister, Okonjo-Iweala said: ‘’The average life span of a Finance Minister is two year in a country. No one likes a Finance Minister because it is the business of saying no. It is very difficult and challenging. It was interesting for me. I wish I had seen myself as wielding power. All I saw was the job because I was seeing myself working for the country.”

source
www.vanguardngr.com/2016/09/will-not-serve-buharis-govt-okonjo-iweala/

SammyT95:
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We should thank God this year, the reports I’m getting, which is very pleasing, is that we will have a bumper harvest this year.
‘‘I want Nigerians to realise that what this government inherited after 16 years of the PDP government was no savings, no infrastructure, no power, no rail, no road and no security.
‘‘Nigerians can see what we have done on Boko Haram and what we are doing to resolve the problem in the Niger Delta.
‘‘Before the elections, we identified three major problems confronting our country. The first is security; we need to sufficiently secure our country to manage it well.
‘‘The second is economy, especially job for the youths and fighting corruption which is continuous. ‘‘For the youths, graduates and non-graduates who are interested in agriculture, the Federal Ministry of Agriculture in collaboration with the CBN are doing something to provide employment for them.’’


source
https://www.facebook.com/naijcombreakingnews

The geographical status of Enugu State as the gateway to and from the northern part of the country in the south-east,south-south geopolitical zones has been identified as the reason why Fulani herdsmen’s attacks have taken an upward trajectory, the leader, Hausa community in Enugu, Alhaji Abubakar Sambo revealed yesterday. Vanguard gathered that 90 percent of herdsmen migrating from the north to the south-east and south-south regions pass through the ever busy 9th Mile Corner, Ngwo, Enugu corridor to access their various destinations. Governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi of Enugu State visits Ndiagu, Attakwu, Akegbe-Ugwu in Nkanu-West Local Government Area of Enugu State, invaded on Thursday morning by over 50 Fulani Herdsmen armed with machetes. Slaughtered in the attack was a Catholic Seminarian, Lazarus Nwafor. Governor Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi of Enugu State visits Ndiagu, Attakwu, Akegbe-Ugwu in Nkanu-West Local Government Area of Enugu State, invaded on Thursday morning by over 50 Fulani Herdsmen armed with machetes. Slaughtered in the attack was a Catholic Seminarian, Lazarus Nwafor. This scenario, it was learned, has made the state prone to uncontrolled hibernation of the herdsmen. Sambo spoke against the backdrop, weekend, where Attaukwu youths protested the continued stay of herdsmen in their community after slaughtering a Catholic seminarian, Lazarus Nwafor and Ifeoma Agbo. Alhaji Abubakar Sambo, leader of Hausa community and member, Enugu Constituted Security Committee, said:”Enugu State is witnessing the spate of herdsmen attack because it is a major gateway to and from the northern part of the country to the south-east and south-south regions where these herdsmen come from.” “Before you access any part of the south-east or south-south, you must pass through Enugu. There are many routes which the herdsmen use to connect the state. Some of them come in through Kogi State-Uzo Uwani local government area of Enugu State. That was the route the herdsmen that attacked Nimbo used. “Other routes are Obollor-afor in Nsukka,Orakamu through Benue to Enugu,Aghamelumu-Nsukka route among other routes. The herdsmen ply these routes to any part of the south-east and south-south. Most of them that are migrant herdsmen decided to settle in some rural communities in Enugu State while on transit. This scenario is what i think,make Enugu prone to incessant herdsmen clashes”.


source
enugu state news

Handsomecole:
I would advice you try and talk to your mum to accept them back, and like someone commented, even if you can accept them back but be very careful with them, don't hangout or spend much time with them. In summary stand with your mother, she took pains to bring you up to this level and you have to respect that. What if something bad had happened to you along the line of brining you up, what would they have said or done.

You may have prayed for God to change your life for better.... Brother here comes the answer. Just go and posses your possession

todaynewsreview:
http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/210285-second-tremor-hits-kaduna-24-hours.html

May God help this nation

Politics is missing in the list hence the current Nigeria trend is concerned

Men are being politically recycled

True talk though

So resembled

Try and talk it out with him

Cute man

our yoruba brother why naa