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an adage! whatever" you dnt want to eat do not try to smell it, for given you her number when she fully knows that you want to toast her, she has given you at least 20% consent!


Someone posted on Facebook...... ladies whenever you are Hot what do you do?

A lady answered..........I scrow to the next available guy that be has been disturbing me on my phone.

I asked..........If the next available not available?

She answered...... the next that next to the available �

after 5 yrs , i biliv in 2023 u still be asking for more patient! As for me anyone from north east and north west has no business to a president of Nigeria at least for now. their reigns and days are completely waste of time, infact disaster!

Islie:
THE NATION

if buhari recontests today, he would win overwhelmingly.

am still waiting to see if Trump will win in America to know that electorates are same or differ all over the world.

i think its time people should stop mentality where president comes from? though such president may enrich his people but the region cannot develop as a result of a president being coming out from one region.

placeofallure:
From your response, it means even if the man did build his own house, the mum would still have followed them there. Some men are like that, that's how he's wired and that's also his palaver. The problem here is your sister, is she just knowing that her man is still tied to his mum's apron string? Didn't they do some kind of dating? If she's the type that feels so strongly about this kinda arrangement, she's wrong to have waited till now before putting her feet down.

If you ask me, it's not a death sentence to live with one's mother-in-law. What if she's sick and my husband is the only child she has?

Tolerance is key here. I'm always proud of my mum, she raised me well. The day will never be, that I will raise my voice against my MIL or any of his relatives. My MIL is late though, but instead, I will just be civil with her, after the basics, I retire into my shell. Our paths will hardly cross to avoid or minimise any wahala. Ask your sister to reconsider. She shouldn't lose a good man just because.....

In life there are always boundaries ma, and there is and and limit that one patient can be tested in which emotions will not set in. Thank God for your late mother in law,

You talked about fiance that's good, a good man should be the person who at all time considers the well being and emotions of his wife and kids and not necessarily a rich man.

As wife need to be submissive and respectful, she shouldn't be subjected to slavery.

If the wife to be moves to his mother in law house! Do you consider her privacy? Thank God you are a woman! Nothing woman likes most than she and her husband have 100% chance to talk and do freely like husband and and wife without any 3rd party.

The mother has/had enjoyed her youthful age and marriage, she must give way for her son to enjoy his.

If the mother can still remarry, let her do that and if she can't, let her son gets house maid for her, since they will be leaving in same town, he would make it a duty to visit his mum regularly.

""A man that is not ready to leave his family and cleave to his wife, he is still not ready and mature for marriage and (a mother that cannot let go of her son to cleave to his wife, is a wicked mother ), in fact a witch)"

Those people OP mentioned also killed political careers of some people

Achievements in life had to do with, " natural selection as it was conversed by a scientist........ Survival of fittest and elimination of unfitted............

Even op came to this world at the expense of others.

I still not understand the "ideology" of having sex and one will feel superhuman and start bragging about sex escapades! Two of you see ur unclothedness , two of you Bleep urself to stupor, so why gragra by one gender and claiming superiority?

I think this mentality that is behind women claiming *victims of sex' and makes women to subject men to financial compensations and lately more ladies are seeing their bodies as commodity that can fetch them monetary rewards!

Ishilove:
How can you even get it up with someone else in the room?

How very awkward. There's nothing you can do until she leaves, but there is a way you can make her leave faster.

Make love to your wife very noisily. It will make her uncomfortable, which will make her device plans to leave sharp sharp. Do it during the daytime too when she is around. Infact, do it at every given opportunity and soon you will notice she will start frowning anytime she sees any funny moves between you two. From frown she will moonwalk out with her load and return no more.

Childish and abnormal, this guys are married couples and not olosho now,

He is the one who rented his apartment, he shouldn't be too timid to ask visitors that refused to go " when are you going? Let her go and say whatever she wants to say, its a free world

Staying in one room, yet bringing third party, even toddler that not ur kid, you should not imaging of bringing her to stay with you let alone fully mature woman!


Apart from sex, you people will not be able to discuss as couples freely.

You are not financially matured enof to bring person/s at this level of ur financial status, you must tell ur wife to tell her sister to leave ur house, if she refuses tell her urself.

Since ur sister in law cannot see, you should open her eyes to see.

Its getting clearer.

Engaged at ds age? Which day you will marry o. Then thinking the whole world in ur hand to explore. Age will surely tell wen time comes,

Women are just like flowers! Glitter wen going in the Morin, wen coming in the afternoon, even with ur eyes wide open you will only see same flower as a wrinkled flower.

If you don't have wherewithal, do not fight kingmaker!

Abdufatai of kwara served his 8 years jejely" cos he fully understood " Nigeria political terrain.

Lipscomb:
Shame on Ambode. Whether he did second time or not he can't beg for food or wears .continue ranting on nairaland with empty stomach. I'm really tired of today Youths there is a lot of things you can channel your energy on.

Stop wasting ur energy on lunatics, so many of such in Nigeria, the situations in Nigeria rendered their brains malfunctioning. If you don't desist and stop engaging in public brawls with them on internet, people with well function sanity, will see you guys as same.


Some people make muric and aunty kemi, legends in our society.

A man quote! Since they are not playing Ludo on his head, but a woman that heard quickly cut in, Ludo!! Is it not ogogoro they drink on his skull.





Let ur imaginary boyfriend show face for internet, I go no if its ludo or ogogoro dey play or drink for his skull.

Palema007:
Lol.. like I said on that other thread, she and her fans are Mad. Wait self, lemme analyze this.

She auditioned for a show, in the documents she filled her names and details with no attachment of any Eric she might meet, it was solely her trying to compete against others for Money and Fame, if she got distracted how is it another competitor's fault? How is it Eric's fault that she couldn't focus on her purpose? Is she a baby? Abegiii jare. . It's shameful enough that she got distracted, pinning it on another person is plainly irresponsibility and foolishness.


Thanks for sharing the video.

This show exactly her failure in life and she not ready yet to take responsibilities for wrong doing.

This type of being will find it to make it in life.

This how 80% of Nigeria "s girl think whenever they are into a guy, they will be totally beclouded by lust which they think its love, even if such guy is dreaded criminal or complete lazy type



But after 1 kid for him or having wasted most of her productive year and time ticking already! You hear men are bad, not particular guy who made her drown in ocean of love again o, but all men will now carry sin of jilted lover.

madone:
man of God if u need a serious girl to marry i can help u ooo.

Send me their numbers!

madone:
man of God

the same Bible says a time will come that 7 women will be chasing 1 man just for them to be tagged as married women!

world is not static but dynamic in nature,

popsy2:
If you read my comment, you would have seen that your point is no different from my submission. Your grief is probably the ad and the FTC I guess. Peace!

am not ur business rival, neither am i the owner of nairaland, so why ur advertisment making me grief? But ur comment clearly shows you read headline and you jumped to comment section.

I answered you just because of type business you are into.

i biliv you expect ur clients to read ur advert thourogly and scrutinized it bf they do business with you.

pretydiva:
What's the truth in what you just said now? Not all girls depend on guys for money for your info.

Yes! But wen guys slept with girls without compensate her with money, women always fill cheated.

pretydiva:
Na people like you they Make guys insult us. So you don't have hand to work for your money abi. Be there and be depending on guys. Mcteww

But that's bitter truth now!!! You accept it, that's reality.stop leaving in denial.

gunners160:
Those of you trying to judge her should pls take a pill and let her be; she is human so she has every right to seek clarification and make mistakes.

I really wonder wat is wrong with our guys this days, seeking for advice has now become a crime and the next thing is SIMP vs Alpha male debate. if you dnt have anything reasonable to write, why not read and move on
OP, please dnt go back to ur ex, he will get worst with time. continue ur current rlshp and things will get beta

And you think the current guy will continue keep vigil on her when the love got fade in future, he will continue washing plates and do house chore?

She talked about her ex being a little bit violent! Did you ask what OP did before such aggressive behavior?

Has OP sees other side of new lover boy too? Did you think new lover boy will love OP's child like OP herself??
Can new lover boy takes care/gives OP's kid proper upbringing like his father?


These are the questions you are supposed to take note b4 telling her to abandon her ex!

Divorce! Most especially if kid has involved supposes to be the last resort in marriage having explored all other options.

They separated already, I think the ex has come back to his senses, the two now need to reach a defined compromise for their marriage to work again.

Without hear from ur in-law, the father of the kids, I knw that you guys had crossed your boundary, leave this man to take care of his kids, he is fully mature man.

If this man is staying abroad, will you fly and meet him there? Africans should learn how to face their business.


NB: you can only intervene when you notice any form of child abuse.

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