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Then, they would tell us not to eat other religion meat, that's sacrifice. I av overgrown that now

Religions leaders divides people for selfish agenda

If ur tale is true, its duty of mother-inlaw and not you sir.


Do not let anybody labels you as the man who destroys his beautiful marriage in future, nowadays I hardly give advice for people. When your advise goes right people will not remember to give you kudos, but if advise goes south, they would hold you responsible for their woes.

[quote author=99miles post=92318823]I wonder how people like u think..........what do u mean by "was the government tie them down with rope?"
Do think is easy to get a job in this country? If a job that requires 10 persons is advertised, 100000 people will apply..
Or u think it is easy to save from 30k stipends to start a business with the current inflation rate, considering the fact that most of those young men a married with children.

Pls be cognitive in your reasoning! This phrase "was the government tie them down with rope?" Goes a long way to informl me of the kind of person u are though.


What was the term of agreement before they were engaged pls, it was two years b4 it was extended by two year years so what is the fault of government for disengaging them now. I knw the kind of person you are too, your type are difficult to help because no matter what they do for you , you will still go and back bite or bite the finger that fed you at the end of the day.

You guys did not force govt to do it in first instance, meanwhile its temporary appointments, let other enjoy it too.

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Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

Do not have male as bestie you guys say NO! There is no way u will be opened to two or more options that you won't see flaws in the one you choose initially, let me tell u fact, you have seen both sides of ur boyfriend but only one side of ur spare tyre + bestie+.

Yoruba says if woman doesn't try two husbands she won't knw the better one.

You are still single, you still have options. Go with who ever you like and desire, but not all that glitter that is Gold sha o

Until we ready to accept reality on how to use knowledge we acquired in sch to get income, Nigeria will not come out from wood.

A graduate of medical lab,nursing science, vet medicine ,food science, agricultural and livestock, art even business adminstration , that want to work at *all cost in govt establishment$

So many works that graduates of nursing are supposed to be doing, are being taken over by auxiliary nurses, go to new sites and see buildings erected from proceeds of auxiliary nursing.


White and blue collar jobs no more available as it were.

You use someone daughter/destiny to defraud someone hard earned money, at the end you lavish such money in clubs, women at parties, birthdays etc, which type of mentality is that?

After wasting it, go back to square zero

neyoflexzyl:
But remember when the 2years lapsed and the beneficiaries hoped to be exited, this government refused to release them because of 2019 election that was near and promised to permanent them if they cast their votes for them, today the story had changed as the government can not do anything for them even in the face of covid 19,global challenges. So get you facts first!

.was govt tied them down with rope? You guys too economical with truth! When will Nigeria come out from hypocrisy!!

More reason rich people find it difficult to assist poor people in Nigeria, try it you will see that he or she would come back to you!

In Nigeria when rich helps he makes sure its slavery so that it won't come back to bite finger that fed him

Swingate:
At least they can improve on their structure, they depend too much on that door, they should design their buildings in a way it will not be easy to reach the staff even when that door is down, that will discourage the criminals in a way. Their are other things they can do which I cant mention say here ...

They won't be able to reach staff? How is that possible?? Won't staff interact with customers again? If they will! Who knows criminal among customers even staff?..


Blame who you are supposed to blame, we should stop blame A for B negligence/inefficiency.

Swingate:
Nigerian banks never learn anything from past events, this same thing will happen again if the security system of these banks is not reviewed and upgraded.
The lives of customers and staff of these banks are too exposed and these criminals see the lapses and use it.
It is time for all banks to come together and draw a plan to secure their branches and also map out life insurance for policemen attached to banks. May the souls of the innocent rest in peace and the criminals rot in hell

What did u want banks to do ooo? Perhaps they should start recruiting their own soldiers! Its the duty of govt to provide adequate security.

Thejustw14:
Sincerely, the killers are worse, compared to the thieves.:!!:.
I'm human, I get mad but jungle justice is over the top. Doesn't mean I support stealing either.
It just had to be said.:!!:.

If truly they did it and captured, they deserved for than this! If you or ur relatives had been victims of these criminals, you will pray they get more than this. They can kill the whole town for them to have successful operation, at the end, the money stolen will end up in bars, night clubs , gambling and women.

Its time we should stop accord unnecessary honor to front seat, last month I boarded a Toyota Camry when when traveling, a journey of 2 hrs, I was only passenger in that car others are close friend, the owner of the car is around 30 yrs was driving while the his close friend sat in front, when we had trace up to 1:30 mins, we branched to carry the owner of the car girlr of around 23 years, can u imaging the close friend who has sat in front for over 1:30 mins left the front seat for the girl, I was infuriated! But am less concerned.

In my car in am going with any of my friend or siblings that older than my wife, wife must seat at the back.

I imaging DJ cuppy body counts by now!

Orisirisi

Very sure after this violent confrontation, the next thing is violent sex.

neighbours that are taking side, the couples will tell each others what each of the neighbour says for the period the animosity lasted.

Katier00:
I do think about it too. Growing up in the north, I have learnt that a woman don't openly drink alcohol not to talk of getting drunk. I can never do that. Self respect over everything. How can one be that drunk that she doesn't know if she was laid or not. The very act of recklessness

To me under no conditions should a woman go to a party to drink, if she wants to drink, let her drink in her house and sleep if any unforseen happens, and in a party, she must drink in a party in which her boyfriend whom she has 101% trust in him, is in attendance.

My bestie, my bestie......want to lead to sex again, whenever we argue that opposite sex shouldn't be best of friends ,some simps argue otherwise,

1. Bestie is leading to sex as usual

2. Girl that is supposed to confide in her boyfriend or blood brothers but instead chooses to confide in opposite best friend, now opposite friend want to use her past against her.

3. Women are delicate beings that shouldn't leave a life that man may leave, going to a party drinks to stupor in a party can completely destroy girl life, but feminists and simps will claim gender equality.

Men are in sorry state, till thy kingdom come, men will not come out of women domineering........ foolish guy would pay heavily to have sex with lady, within the twinkle of eyes, his eyes cleared, yet he would come online to brag about sex escapades.


Wasted money! Wasted energy !! Wasted time!!!

jumper524:
meaning?
bro I ain't kidding.
I'm frustrated with myself already, I'm even thinking of creating a tread on it.
mediately I made the last comment, my girlfriend arrived and we were at it till now, aswear I no release.
she just left cos she's running out of time.
we were at it for over an hour.

K oooo, more power to ur elbow o

jumper524:
I go 30min without anything.
2hrs plus if I take something.
I no know watin dey do me oo

First round 30 mins for at least without taking anything?
.
You blow ur trumpet too loud.

MiztaSpark:
I have a girlfriend I am in love with and I believe she is also in love with me. She has all the qualities I need in a woman and I plan to marry her very soon. I am a very simple guy and she is also a very simple girl that hardly likes flexing and keeping friends. I don't have a lock on my phone because am clean and she can pick up my phone anytime to use it and go through it if she likes and vice versa but I don't even check her phone for anything because I am building trust in her.
I noticed there is a number that usually call her put she never picks the call. I just decided not to ask her or say anything about it but as a human being with a heart, I was beginning to suspect maybe she has a guy somewhere and whenever she is with me she refuses to pick up his call. So one day I decided to go through her phone messages and I saw that same number sent many text messages about how he misses her and how he is angry she doesn't take his call. I didn't see any message sent by her so I was suspecting she might be sending messages too but deletes them. I felt really hurt and had to bring the issue up with her. She told me she met the guy sometime ago when she went for her sisters wedding and the guy was asking her out but she didn't really like the guy so when she met me and we started dating she told the guy she now has a man but the guy has refused to give up and she can't just change her number because of just the guy. She said she didn't know how to tell me about it because she felt I might misunderstand it or react wrongly which if she had done I would have honestly understood her.
So in my presence she picked her phone and called the guy to tell the guy that her man is very unhappy about the way he calls and send her messages and warned him to please respect her relationship by not calling her again.
To my surprise the guy did not heed to that warning and still calls and sends messages even when she never picks the call or reply the messages. Now she is pleading with me to pick up the call anytime he calls to talk to him man to man.
I am not someone who believe in talking to another guy or confronting another guy because of a woman's issue. So I just want to get some advise about this to see if its advisable for me to speak with the guy.
Thanks

Can't she block him ni?
Can't she waste his credit??

Let me tell u my experience about my ex 5 years back, my ex came from ijebu ode to visit me, we just knw ourselves less than a month then o, in the night a call was disturbing her, she told me that a guy was disturbing her and that she doesn't have interest in dating the guy, in my present she received his call and blasted the guy, she now used my phone to text bad message for him.

Second day, around 8 am wen my ex was heading back to ijebu ode. The number called me , I pick the call he wanted to be bashing me, but I calmed him down that we are mature guys and that we can handle it. Because of mature way I handled it, he narrated how he had been sleeping with my ex in different location in ijebu ode for years, he told me how her room looked like and It was accurate, he narrated other guys that bleeped the girl, he sent me his name and 2 other names of guys that bleeped her with secret he knew about my ex.

I don't perturbed at all because the relationship was too young to develop any feeling for her.

I forwarded the message for her and her sister to knw I wouldn't be the cause if anything happens between us.

When she read it, she couldn't deny it, she asked 3 different people to beg me including her pastor, I told the pastor if she opened up for me that the guy in question was her ex, I won't even tell her about the guy messages not to talk of taking any action but the way she acted , was too cunning, she wanted to dribble me but God exposed her. That was how the relationship ended.

If girls" don't want to receive attention" from guys genuinely! They knw what to do.

Your gf & that guy maybe dating before or she still have ulterior intention to date him in future if tin turns sour BTW u guys*

I knw an herbal concoction that can make guy go for at least 30 mins first round. A cup is enough make sure they pussy is 100% guaranty available before you drink it o.

[quote author=empire02 post=92061241]Never dated any, but I wish to date ...I want to have the experience[/quote

Ur age

Tit for tat.......nobody has monopoly of arrogance.

Wat brought her to this world took convened her out of this world.