₦airaland Forum

People will never learn lesson, we tend to learn in hard way. God forbid
if it went wrong what would she say before God or man? That was how Stella Obasanjo lost her live on worldly things.

On the other hand I won't blame Buhari for not given Aishat opportunity to operate as she likes. Her own would have worst than Turai & Patience combine.

The way Kyari spoke then and the way Ajimobi set up committee on Edo primary.

QuotaSystem:
My friend, do not be mistaken. I am not in anyway defending El-Rufai or the violence in Kaduna in any way, shape or form. God forbid. I totally condemn the Kaduna killings and I pray consistently for the sponsors to be exposed whoever they are, as I pray for the safety of loved ones in the area.

However what must be clear is that we should never allow sentiments to becloud fair judgement it will definitely stir rancour and breed disharmony as we are already seeing.

Fear hearing! Every man will defend his action to matter how brutal its!!

Actions and inactions of El rufai caused 75% of crises in southern Kaduna, no leader will be behaving like El rufai in environment that divided along ethnic and religious line like Kaduna, that such environment will not be engulfed by crises, not even a man that has ambition to lead Nigeria. We need this type of protest to keep our leaders in check.

QuotaSystem:
Blame it on the heavy bigotry laced narratives on this issue from the south.

It is a mockery of the values of the NBA to take such a decision based on mere allegations without fair hearing or conviction. That can be permitted from sentimental individuals but certainly not from such a hitherto distinguished national body. The NBA's profuse apology to El Rufai illuminates this gross indiscretion but I fear it might be a little too late to save their credibility.

Which fear hearing you want hear again sir, are u not in this country? Don't you listen to uncouth words coming out from El rufai , a sitting governor? Statement that shows he has underhand in acrimony going on in southern Kaduna.

Let me tell you sir, if ICC comes to Kaduna killings! There is no way El rufai will not be jailed or sentenced to death.

Meanwhile all these northern NBAs are being sponsored by Elrufai, mainly because of his presidential ambition that's going bleak day by day.

The way you dress is the way you shall be address. You guys" will learn in hard way.

Prevention so they say, better than cure.

The way you dress is the way you shall be addressed you guys will learn in hard way?

Prevention so they say, better than cure.

And this is a man who want to become president

Some people deliberately cause problems for themselves for interest that doesn't what it.

For El rufai to nominate another northern Kaduna Muslim as deputy is enough to bring more division to the people and bring chaos. Nigeria people will always see sense of belonging whenever they have representatives in government. In fact its such representative that will be sent to such aggrieved people.


We could see this during time of Yaradua when he sent Jonathan to Niger Delta people, and that brought calmness to that region then.

Openbusiness:
"withdrawal" can save u from many problems.... if u no, u no

And can also cause big blow to your ambition. If you don't know before its time you woke up from ur slumber.

dario078:
Who ever picks El-rufai as a running mate come 2023, will lose big time.

The short thing is controversial and unpopular, and it has nothing to do with his religion. Mohammed Makarfi is the most beloved politician in southern Kaduna and the man is a devote Muslim. Muslims gave him the name "John" because they said he likes Christians more than them, which is patently untrue. He just wouldn't turn a blind eye to the chaos they unleashed in Kaduna in 2000 because of Sharia law.

While every Muslim in Kaduna has something nice to say about El-rufai, Christians don't, and it's not just indigenous Christians. Most Christians from other states resident in Kaduna do not like El-rufai. No Muslim Politician from the north has ever been hated this much.

Let me let you guys in a a secret. Any politician northern Muslims love, it's because he is anti-christian. That's why Buhari and El-rufai are so popular in the North. There is nothing special about this men. They underperformed, but the hatred they have for Christians and southerners is what makes them beloved in some quarters of the North.

At least its eye opener for southern politicians, if they opportune again and refuse to do the needful so be it!

At least he will reconsider his plan to become president.


If he finds it difficult to govern and foster unity in one state, I imaging what will happen if given a nation to govern.

Buhari regime would have been a tip of iceberg.

Ladycewhy:
exactly,my role as a woman ,lol, I hope you do know what the role of a man is then,to provide and protect. So we are indirectly saying the same thing, let everyone play their roles,if not be ready to deviate from the normal.


For a man to say I shouldn't rise more than him,my dear,that marriage go scatter . Insecure men should go find their cave to live in.

Relate ur last paragraph to what you mentioned earlier about a preacher who preached about be submissive to husband even if she rises above husband financially or otherwise! If you opportune to rise above ur husband, you will usurp authority from ur husband going by ur narrative.


Anyway, u just confirmed ur type of woman, who ready to scatter marriage with slight provocation! Bye

Ladycewhy:
lol,why not also go to married women group and see rants . Or you think just because a woman is bound by possession contract called marriage makes her life any happier or earn her front seat in heaven? .


Look,I am not your Bible that called a man infidel if he cannot take care of his family, go and ask Jesus

If some guys come up that they don't woman to rise up more than they do, you will start wailing that this is 20th century, that wife should nt subject to slavery!

God has made you a woman , thr absolute noting you can do to reverse it, you can only make urself happy by taking up ur role as woman, failure to accept reality ,you will leave embitter and perhaps die of heart attack.

dhardline:
You have directly told me that the whole scriptures is not the word of God(to you) and hence not your standard in deciding what is right or wrong so you cherry pick the ones that are good for you and ignore the rest. I hereby end this discussion with you.

I doubt if you can read well and understand content there in. Give it someone to read and explain what I wrote for u, because it's not ambiguous.

Nigeria politician will never found wanting of surprises , Obong attah that had ruled for eight years in oil rich akwa ibom! In senate for another four years!! Became minister and stop NDDC to management to function claiming he was doing forensic audit, for such a man to involve again in fraud is worrisome.


Indeed poverty of the mind is the biggest challenges we have in this naija

Ladycewhy:
What caught my attention is "stop repeating the mistake your mother made" now is pastor trying to tell us women of old made mistakes? .And here I was thinking the bar for marriage was set by the tolerant ,non-voicing, obedient,do whatever I say ,women of old


You see I stopped taking these preachers serious the day a female preacher said " if you are the bread winner ,go out win the bread and bring it for daddy to share" lol Daddy that doesn't have hand to win bread but has hand to share. I was nearly tempted to ask her if she forgot that a man who cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel, but make e nor be like say I dey rude


These are the same women who will think just because you choose to stand up for yourself and not be used as a bought commodity ,you are not virtuous enough and will go to hell fire .


Notice how the woman gets to give something invaluable,that cannot be quantified, "respect and honour" while all the man needs to do is take his wife and children out .

Be a breadwinner doesn't mean others are not working, but God gives such person privilege to get more money above others.

But when a man is a bread winner, as its common in society, the woman will claim entitlement mentality, "I own my husband mentality" she will even chase away husband family.

NB. Woman like you usually end up as a single mother.

Go to single mother group on Facebook to see rants!

angelfallz:
Wrong question. You should have asked, "Has feminism improved the family culture in countries where it is thriving?"

More and more western menare running from marriage.

Why marriages have decreased in the U.S.
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My friend ended up married a girl thinking she exposed just like this attacking she-dog on nairaland , the marriage didn't last up to 1 year


My friend moved on and re married , now with 2 kids,but for the feminist! She remains single as ever, 5 years counting and now 34 yrs.



All those claiming they can't respect man usually end up single mothers and shoulder the responsibilities of kids. Go to single mother group on fb and see Wailings. I hardly pity them.

dhardline:
No matter the amount of do's and don't you preach a heart that has not been renewed can not work out this things that is why what you are 'preaching' is not the gospel but a cosmetic man centered teaching. Please ma, step down from the pulpit you are not supposed to be there and not just you but also all women who call themselves pastors and all preachers of 'prosperity gospel' . The Bible you teach from does not permit it but you ignore its teaching for the sake of your pride and introduce psychology and motivation. Giving men hope in their sins and proclaiming men to be safe when they are close to eternal damnation. This is part of the reason men make gest of the gospel of Christ.

Where in the bible that doesn't permit women to preach? You guys should go back to bible, read whole and not a part that a disciple told people of corinthians"

The author and finisher of Christian faith said ......go ye to the world (inside the world so many churches inclusive.) and .....preach the gospel to all nations, who is Paul to command every woman to remain silent in the church?


Are women remain silent in ur church?

A female chorister stands up in the church and sings song that sends message to the congregation! Is that not preaching?

Stop teaching what you urself have little understanding about.

Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

No vision! No aim, no focus, yet you open ur pusssy for him to Bleep front and back? You are a disgrace to woman

[quote author=Asour post=92916637]It would be clumsy. That's the responsibility of the Nigerian Financial intelligence unit. Banks can't police themselves. Some Nigerian banks aren't event saintly themselves(the few I have dealt with).

Even with the NFIU guidelines a lot still pulls through due to international payments systems. Western Union, Transfer wise etc, PayPal etc.

No pattern for tracking illicit transactions is failsafe. and truthfully more guidelines means more encumbrance for us legal transactions because every security measure adds a cost/inconvenience.


Western union can easily traced unlike bitcoin, if for instance a young guy present a code number for Western Union pay, bearing foreign names, Bank's officials can call on Efcc or other agencies to interrogate such beneficiaries, if banks can adopt this tactics alone, many Yahoo guys will be dissuaded & eventually frustrated.


Even for the bitcoin, I think if technology can do in to do transactions cryptocurrencly" they are supposed to find solution on how to locate the senders and receivers easily.

By not find solution for internet frauds, it had let to negative multiple effect on youth and by extension to Nigeria economy.

If Efcc can be arresting bankers in connection with yahoo guys, am 100% sure yahoo stuffs will be substantially degraded .

Those working in banks know & aid majority of the fraudsters to swindle people hard earned money.


Yahoo had already having negative multiplied effect on youth in Nigeria.

oyeb15:
Can u think right in an unenabling environment? Even if u think ,how about bringing it into reality.
Don't say what u don't Know or experience.

If the the pap man could think right, who is me that won't be able to think properly.

oyeb15:
When will he meet the hundreds of thousands of unemployed graduates in Ekiti state.

Whenever the hundreds of thousands of unemployed think outside box and do unique things that will make them different among others.




Do not work! Sit down be expecting manner! Till eternity you will rotten in same spot.

Yahoo boys and runs girls will not learn from him, they want to leave larger than life even thou they don't want to have single sweat on their body.

At teenage years that they are supposed to sweat for sweet Tomorrow they prefer leaving life of CEO.

Less than 3 weeks in a live camp, all of turn to husbands and wives! Fighting for jobless guys! Don't you guys are in relationship b4, even if you were not, is that how woman cheap? Or men cost?

Am looking forward for USA to leaving UN the way she exited from WHO.

Trump will finish USA if voted for second time.

You want stop financial aids from countries, stop military assistance, medical assistance, yet you think you can still dictate for them, on what ground will they be ur puppets if the assistance is not forthcoming as usual? Trump most stupid person I ever known!

5 mins gragra for life behind the bar.



The same people will be saying women are surplus than requirements, yet they keep forcing themselves on women, not even minors.

Brothels are in everywhere where you can release pressure with sikini money if you can't foot girlfriend bills. That would have been saved u.

Under normal circumstances, FG is supposed to make enof findings and if its accurate, she should make the findings known to the state assembly of that gov for legislators to impeach, at least to give room for the gov to face the music.

If that big bold step can be taken and achieved! Boko Haram crises will be solved by 2/3.

......but can Nigeria/Buhari try that?

NGO won't come out to protest

Yeyebrities will not surf the internet and make it loud


Women group will not join voices to condemn the act, .......but if reverse is the case, they will send accusers to Golgotha even if its after 100 years and no evidence that he committed the offence

Still looking forward for egalitarian society, when justice will serve the way it should be.

economics had solved it centuries ago..........*humans wants are unlimited but resources to satisfy them are limited*............

People join work of God without understand what entails.

I expect southeast PDP vs southwest APC candidates in 2023 only if "south can effectively negotiate themselves in Nigeria politics.


El rufai and co want to infiltrate South West through Fayemi, Fayemi that cannot win election outside his home state Ekiti. If El rufai can succeed in breaking down Tinubu, he would now project north for the plum job, having known that Fayemi can easily be broken, Fayemi ready to trade south west for his personal ego of becoming VP, even though he is a living testimony of how Osibanjo has been degraded by Northerner oligarchy.

Meanwhile I expected south east to be in front runner to clinch the ticket of PDP but what I see is lackadaisical attitude. Instead of championing! They resulted to "shout marginalisation", shouting cannot position them to the plum job but real politicking.